No, until I'm 100.

mastermaestro:


Wait until she is 52? Dey play.

IntelligentGoat:

Being married gives one a leaverage and opportunity in so many ways

Name some please..... School me I'm your disciple

patorial:


If the result of education is as you displayed here, then I regret having any.

You can't regret having what you never had in the first place

ednut1:
At 29 you will graduate by 35. Which entry level job will you get with that. Its better you go learn hairdressing or nails painting

That's if she will even gain the admission to her desired school immediately o.

Kobojunkie:
Abeg go school, O'jare!

School wey I finish since 2018 till date I never get job. If I invested all the years I spent in school in business I would be a billionaire by now. School bawo

Justkatty:
Yes oh
Most times when depression wants to come in, my daughter gives me thousands of reason not to let anything make me give up in life.
I am strong today because of her and she's just a baby.
I accepted my mistake, picked up my pieces and I'm fine now by his grace.

it's no mistake.. it's a blessing.. God blessed you.

each time I look at a couple beside my house who has been married for over 17 years no issues and how the human use to lament I felt sorry and come to d conclusion that children must be seen as a rare blessing.

abeg any woman that got this babies need to be grateful to God.

JennyJossie:
Your advice pls at 29 to 30 some one is ready to marry you and also promise to train you in school, but you are not sure. And one of your relative said he will train you in school, and you are sure about it but on the conditions that you must let go of marriage issues. Which one will you go for

Personally, what do you want

highness25:
School wey I finish since 2018 till date I never get job. If I invested all the years I spent in school in business I would be a billionaire by now. School bawo

You have a business degree and you haven't used it to establish and grow your own business, why?,

Marriage please,
Don't ask my why!
By the time u graduating u are going to be 33+ and I hope after graduation u get a Job, so who ever coming to marry u, will know u are bringing something to the table..
Life after graduation in naija is a different story..

Loadedtheory:



Name some please..... School me I'm your disciple

When someone can calls you on phone, you can pick the call and tell them, "I'm having sex with my wife, please call me back" ....I can't wait to say this shit to my mum!!!

tanimusaeedu:
Let agreement be between you and your intended husband before then your relatives who want to sponsor you will be present their and it will be sign by you and your intended husband before marriage take place okay

As per say , Marriageable and willing younger ladies don finish for the State , na only the lady remain abi..

De play

but personally I feel the relative is like those Chiwetalu Agu kind of relations , standing in every way of progress , especially when their own daughters are yet to be married .

If not why will he wait for more than 10 years before dangling education as bait to destroy a Marriage plan ?

No be JuJu be that ?

Wch one be go sch...mke una consider d lady age na Biko, am nt against schooling ooo, bt she is not getting younger na...I'll advise she looks fr a way nd do both biko

ottersberger:

School. Come into a marriage as an asset, not a liability.

You nailed it That's the better way

ThatCEO:


high risk pregnancy will have set-in by d time she finishes at 34/35. Menopause sef could have set in.

Find out about the guy very well. Guy wey fit open mouth say him go take responsibility try o.

If una drag una feet n stress d guy too much, e fit be one 23 year old wey no get family problem him go Kuku go carry.

See now o, girl wey don 30, no education, no job, guy still say e go marry am. But if she was the one that was doing well, any guy that is not doing twice better than her won't even stand any chance.

That's another angle but she should go to school before marriage.
She can marry in her 300level if the man can't wait after graduation.

Samantha124:
What do you have to say about those couples who wait for about 10 years until they're both ready to get married?

And we live in a technologically advanced era whereby even 50 year olds get to have new born babies.

You're the one who doesn't need love to get married... I need love to get married, in that way, whenever challenges come, I'll remember how much I love my husband and then fight the challenges for the sake of the love I have for him.

In Seyi shay's voice " Baby, give me love ooo
Give me love make I calm down...."

tegey:
After he is finish training you will now leave him for another man, shey

That's the way it goes most often. . I think, in all cases.

JennyJossie:
Your advice pls at 29 to 30 some one is ready to marry you and also promise to train you in school, but you are not sure. And one of your relative said he will train you in school, and you are sure about it but on the conditions that you must let go of marriage issues. Which one will you go for

Go for the training first!

JennyJossie:
No an igala man. E shock you

If you let this man go I fear you may regret it and even resent that your relative later when you graduate and start looking for job and suitors at the same time when your mates are dropping their kids in school..This your relative where was he since then... why now?...

As a girl one has to be smart oh, just make sure elders who can hold him accountable are aware of his arrangement...Even if it's part time u can run it...just make sure u don't drop many kids until he fulfils his promise at most one is okay..

Eileene:

If you let this man go I fear you may regret it and even resent that your relative later when you graduate and start looking for job and suitors at the same time when your mates are dropping their kids in school..This your relative where was he since then... why now?...
As a girl one has to be smart oh, just make sure elders who can hold him accountable are aware of his arrangement...Even if it's part time u can run it...just make sure u don't drop many kids until he fulfils his promise at most one is okay..

● What about her mates and those older who chose not to have children at all and are all living OK even though society pretends they are not?
● What of her mates and older who decided to forego the married life altogether and are living all clear and find without marriage drama even though society likes to stone them for choosing to forego all the insanity? Why compare only with those married and packing even a battalion around with them?

Blhezin:
● Wch one be go sch...mke una consider d lady age na Biko, am nt against schooling ooo, bt she is not getting younger na...I'll advise she looks fr a way nd do both biko

So because she is not getting younger her options are limited even in the world we live in today?

madridguy:
Jenny, since you have the 99% assurance from your relative, please forget marriage for now and go to school.

As for your potential husband, let him look for someone else so you can concentrate on your studies.

Your advice is senseless, if she is a lady at age 29,or 30 she should forget about marriage? If you have seen a man that wants to marry you pls married oo and there after still forward your schooling if whoever wants to train you in school still have your interest at heart he or she will still support you.
while your husband will still be there to support you till you finish your school oo

5years additional to this year current aga and not married yet it would be hard for a man to consider you by then oo
once you see man at a useful age that love you single ladies pls married ooo
most ladies who are single till now not married would never tell you the opportunity they wasted and some are still regretting till date

doneback04:
■ Your advice is senseless, if she is a lady at age 29,or 30 she should forget about marriage? If you have seen a man that wants to marry you pls married oo and there after still forward your schooling if whoever wants to train you in school still have your interest at heart he or she will still support you. while your husband will still be there to support you till you finish your school oo
5years additional to this year current aga and not married yet it would be hard for a man to consider you by then oo once you see man at a useful age that love you single ladies pls married ooo most ladies who are single till now not married would never tell you the opportunity they wasted and some are still regretting till date

What about the many other women, and men, who are single and are happier for it that are out there in the same world?

What about the many women, and men, who were formally married, but are now single and wishing they had never married in the first place?

What about the women or men burdened with children today who, if they could turn back the hands of time, would have made very different choices?

Why compare only with those married as if only folks in marriages have some semblance of meaning to their lives?

Dear, LOOK LISTEN to me and thank me in 5years. First reduce your age officially to 22years. Then get a school you can study at even if sponsor stopped.

Don't do marriage, I know as a lady its risky to ignore marriage from this apex age but you need a risk anyway!
The end point of marriage is child bearing but we are over populated already so let's do late marriage.

Go to school and join a non stingy church or Christian fellowship / islamic association if you are a muslim and also pursue scholarship in case your sponsor stops, these will support you!

Please all these people saying age, I attended a man who is 43 and got marry to a pretty girl of 20 this year February.

Many men at lates 30s who are not married but they have many pretty girls as pending wife....

I swear with my life. So what is the age all about. She has time so far she make sure she work harder and swiftly.

Kobojunkie:
You have a business degree and you haven't used it to establish and grow your own business, why?,

I'm doing well.

highness25:
I'm doing well.

Thank goodness! If I has a business degree, I would be doing a lot with it myself.

fastseo:

it's no mistake.. it's a blessing.. God blessed you.

each time I look at a couple beside my house who has been married for over 17 years no issues and how the human use to lament I felt sorry and come to d conclusion that children must be seen as a rare blessing.

abeg any woman that got this babies need to be grateful to God.

Thanks so much
I'm really grateful.

drimzsmoke:


When someone can calls you on phone, you can pick the call and tell them, "I'm having sex with my wife, please call me back" ....I can't wait to say this shit to my mum!!!

Misplaced priorities

kkins25:


I like the thinking of your relative. Anyway, how is that "relative" related to you? Let's confirm he isn't the competition.

Relative that will do maybe 30% and leave you to carry the rest or would be reminding you every eke market days that he/she sponsored you 😂😂

Nemesis0147:
relatives never show you Shege before my man…
Watch them frustrate when she get admission….they will first tell her the school she must be admitted to first and might still force a course on you…..she should not put her eggs in one basket oh
People dy disappoint

Relatives and shege showing >>>>

Kobojunkie:
● What about her mates and those older who chose not to have children at all and are all living OK even though society pretends they are not?
● What of her mates and older who decided to forego the married life altogether and are living all clear and find without marriage drama even though society likes to stone them for choosing to forego all the insanity? Why compare only with those married and packing even a battalion around with them?

Aunty calm down woke or no woke...
I've given my advice do yours peacefully...Did she tell you she does not want to get married?If she doesn't want to Fine it's a personal choice ..But if she has mind to do so..This is her time I've said my 2cents...