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Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by Nobody: 4:03pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
If you really love someone, you'll agree to continue with the relationship until the person graduates. But if all the guy wants is marriage, then he'll end the relationship and rush into marriage with someone he doesn't love, next thing he'll start saying women are wicked. And what's wrong with getting married at 35 and 36? TheOnlyUyai: 1 Like |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by Maga123: 4:07pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Ask God for divine direction 2 Likes |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by TheOnlyUyai(f): 4:08pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Samantha124: Better tell yourself the truth. Switch the table and tell me truthfully that you'd wait for a woman for 5, 6, or 7 years to finish her education while you keep hoping, waiting and her clock keeps ticking? And oh, there's nothing wrong with getting married at 35-36. To each their own. Just know that it's better to make hay while the sun still shines. Or do you not know that a woman's ovarian reserve depletes as she ages? Besides, leave all these love and feelings talk. You don't need love to get married. |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by tanimusaeedu: 4:16pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Let agreement be between you and your intended husband before then your relatives who want to sponsor you will be present their and it will be sign by you and your intended husband before marriage take place okay |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by bepositive11: 4:18pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
JennyJossie: Do both. Time is not on your side. 1 Like |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by DrDunamis(m): 4:19pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
JennyJossie: Seek counsel from your Pastor and leaders over you in your church. |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by Suspect33(m): 4:19pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
IntelligentGoat:lol, what leverage Sir, what opportunities?? |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by Dshocker(m): 4:22pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
JennyJossie: Simple answer, go for marriage... That relation promising you school is evil, he or she wants you to lose the marriage and he or she will now disappoint you. They just want to frustrate your life, you are 30yrs of age and ought to have settled down as a woman. Besides even if you are through with school, what next?.... Because you can't find a job with your age bracket, use your head. |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by agbolahan1991(m): 4:24pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Both can work |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by JohnnA1: 4:28pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
luckyz4rea:Well said. |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by tellwisdom: 4:35pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Nigerian gurls and free things..Foolish gurl, which one are you doing for yourself? |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by fijihems: 4:38pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
At that age, if you knew what you were doing, you should have achieved both education and marriage. |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by JohnnA1: 4:41pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
ottersberger:Exactly! |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by Nobody: 4:56pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
What do you have to say about those couples who wait for about 10 years until they're both ready to get married? And we live in a technologically advanced era whereby even 50 year olds get to have new born babies. You're the one who doesn't need love to get married... I need love to get married, in that way, whenever challenges come, I'll remember how much I love my husband and then fight the challenges for the sake of the love I have for him. TheOnlyUyai: |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by TheOnlyUyai(f): 4:57pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Samantha124: Yinmu. South-African queen, do whatever suits you o. |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by TheOnlyUyai(f): 4:58pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
fijihems: Easier said than done. |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by luckyz4rea(m): 5:02pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Adewale1603: You are very correct, but were you educated by going to school or by not going? Mention two people you know that stand out academically better that people that didn’t go to school? |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by Godwinfav(m): 5:04pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Get married then you can option for part-time studies. |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by eepeepook: 5:34pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Female greed is one in a million. So, if someone doesn’t advice you, you’ll gladly take both choices? It’s very obvious that is what you have in mind. Omidan, pick the latter option. No come back with stories of he-trained-me-but-I-no-longer-find-him-attractive. A word is enough for the wise. |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by JennyJossie: 6:25pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Emaprince:No an igala man. E shock you |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by efficiencie(m): 6:52pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
JennyJossie: Don't trust either of them. They are humans and can fail you. I have a couple of questions for you. Answer them and you will be on your way towards fixing your predicament. One, why do you want to get married. If you are getting married hoping that man will be your cash cow na sorry be your name oh. Two, what is your current level of education and why are you acquiring your next level of education? Many just go to school seeking certificate not knowing what they will eventually do with the certificate when they graduate. I can imaging someone going for a PhD in Philosophy and I wonder what the person wants to do with that. Three. At 29-30 your chances at marriage are slim. Is getting a degree more valuable than settling down? 1 Like |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by Ate247(m): 6:58pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
JennyJossie:at 29 or 30. I don't think that relative means well for you. Except he's not okay with your partner so he's trying to find a way to distract you from getting married to that person but can't come straight. |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by Sweetvie: 7:01pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
ednut1:pls don't make me laugh |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by patorial(m): 7:09pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Youngsage: If the result of education is as you displayed here, then I regret having any. |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by Justkatty(f): 7:13pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
fastseo:Yes oh Most times when depression wants to come in, my daughter gives me thousands of reason not to let anything make me give up in life. I am strong today because of her and she's just a baby. I accepted my mistake, picked up my pieces and I'm fine now by his grace. 1 Like |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by Justkatty(f): 7:14pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
zedegit:Why the question Sir/Ma? |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by Sweetvie: 7:15pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
JennyJossie:Both. You can get marry and school if you're ok with ur partner, get marry. You're almost 30, by the time you're done with school you will be 35 and don't forget ASUU. Don't forget menopause begins mid-40s. Best of luck |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by okoroemeka(m): 7:56pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
JennyJossie:if the guy that wants to marry you promised to continue your education,WHY NOT?that relation that wishes you not to marry but uses education as an inducement is wicked,how can he or she stand in the way of progress,don't be surprised they may dump you along the line when they are sure the suitor has gone,marry the guy but let the two families have a joint summit discussion about the education issue,it should not be an agreement between you and the guy on top of bed,it should be approved by elders 1 Like |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by mastermaestro(m): 8:03pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Samantha124: Wait until she is 52? Dey play. |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by mastermaestro(m): 8:05pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Education at 29? You should be going to school in your husband's house at this age. Your relative(s) may want to stall your marital fulfillment. Be wise, my sister. |
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