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Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by Atamo: 12:20pm On Jul 09, 2023
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Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by tojahh(m): 12:21pm On Jul 09, 2023
When you're done chopping.

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Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by IamAtAnger: 12:23pm On Jul 09, 2023
That's if they are not well to do
Drayco007:
Make money
Give her money
Send her family money
Make more money
Give her more money
Send her family more money..

They will propose to you..



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Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by phemmyfour: 12:25pm On Jul 09, 2023
ibinaboonline:
Quick question for married people: take the woman to see your parents before proposing to her, or propose to her before taking her to see your parents? In what order is this culturally appropriate?
Proposing to the person you intend to marry isn't cultural bind. It was imported into our system.

Culturally, we don't do proposal, dating, white/court wedding. These stuff are foreign to our culture .

Tell your woman your intentions and if she agrees with you, introduce her to your family and vise versa. Fixed a date for traditional wedding and after that both of you can start living as husband n wife .

All these "kneeling on one leg to propose" , "giving her engagement ring " etc are mere paparazzi

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Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by IamAtAnger: 12:28pm On Jul 09, 2023
You're so pathetic with ur entitlement mentality... wretched, what then are u bringing to the table?.. the 40k job that you're begging on nairaland?
saphiere:
The appropriate time is when you can foot her bills.
When you are earning at least half a million Naira.
Get a good paying job with stable income before you think of proposing.

Dear young ladies, please don't accept a proposal from any man who is not financially buoyant.
You can't suffer as a single lady and still suffer as a married woman. Be wise. Don't let them sweet talk you into suffering.
Refuse to suffer.
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by Dshocker(m): 12:28pm On Jul 09, 2023
saphiere:
The appropriate time is when you can foot her bills.
When you are earning at least half a million Naira.
Get a good paying job with stable income before you think of proposing.

Dear young ladies, please don't accept a proposal from any man who is not financially buoyant.
You can't suffer as a single lady and still suffer as a married woman. Be wise. Don't let them sweet talk you into suffering.
Refuse to suffer.

From your write up, i can guess your age.

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Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by protocol(m): 12:29pm On Jul 09, 2023
when she is pregnant

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Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by Toktee(m): 12:29pm On Jul 09, 2023
pinknipple:
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Men should stop talking to wemen,
If they must earn their place in the society
I can't just imagine kneeling before one oversized borehole to proposed after enough naking from different men.


Never kneel before any retired olosho that's ready to trapped you.

Let her do the kneeling cos you are doing her a favor.

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Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by Dshocker(m): 12:29pm On Jul 09, 2023
Savedday2:
The bottom line is all 9ja girls are ashawo both the ones forming GF or church girl. They are all the same.

The fact that you have never caught your babe doing ashawo, doesn't mean she is not an ashawo

Be calming down with this mentality
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by Toktee(m): 12:31pm On Jul 09, 2023
saphiere:
The appropriate time is when you can foot her bills.
When you are earning at least half a million Naira.
Get a good paying job with stable income before you think of proposing.

Dear young ladies, please don't accept a proposal from any man who is not financially buoyant.
You can't suffer as a single lady and still suffer as a married woman. Be wise. Don't let them sweet talk you into suffering.
Refuse to suffer.
I hope your fada had the above before ur mama accept him?
When olosho speaks you don't need Amadioha to tell u she's one.

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Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by ednut1(m): 12:31pm On Jul 09, 2023
Your parents are not aware you are dating the babe or what
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by Nobody: 12:36pm On Jul 09, 2023
Savedday2:
The bottom line is all 9ja girls are ashawo both the ones forming GF or church girl. They are all the same.

The fact that you have never caught your babe doing ashawo, doesn't mean she is not an ashawo

Sharp Guy!!!
grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by Exmilitant(m): 12:37pm On Jul 09, 2023
You can propose marriage when she allows you fu,ck her like five rounds.
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by Purvan(m): 12:37pm On Jul 09, 2023
Take her to your parents first before proposing


Ka ha jee jụo ese gbasara asa gị ma neenee ihe nwata buogazie

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Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by idonhammer: 12:41pm On Jul 09, 2023
When Peter obi reclaimes his mandate

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Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by NaijaCover(m): 12:46pm On Jul 09, 2023
When You Don Finally Hammer Money

Then Go Ahead And Tell Her your mind

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Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by lawani: 12:57pm On Jul 09, 2023
When you seriously like a woman and you are sure she likes you. Even if both of you have no money, you would save rent by living together. Propose immediately, don't waste a woman's time because they are not like men that can marry anytime. They have a rush hour.

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Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by Emma1Oj(m): 1:01pm On Jul 09, 2023
saphiere:
The appropriate time is when you can foot her bills.
When you are earning at least half a million Naira.
Get a good paying job with stable income before you think of proposing.

Dear young ladies, please don't accept a proposal from any man who is not financially buoyant.
You can't suffer as a single lady and still suffer as a married woman. Be wise. Don't let them sweet talk you into suffering.
Refuse to suffer.
it's not hard to know those who see relationship or marriage as poverty alleviation program. Na dis type person dey wear torn pant and bra.

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Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by lawani: 1:07pm On Jul 09, 2023
Emma1Oj:
it's not hard to know those who see relationship or marriage as poverty alleviation program. Na dis type person dey wear torn pant and bra.

She was referring to poverty ladies. If a lady is poor, one of the things she needs in a man is money ditto for a man.

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Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by IamAtAnger: 1:12pm On Jul 09, 2023
Shebi the children will jump on you na?.. abi the ones wey after dna most men aren't the father nursing someone's else children.. the heart of you women are the most dangerous weapon of mass destruction. If it's for children alone then it's better for men to juz have baby mamas. Juz imagine ur excuse of bringing brokenness into marriage?.. Tuehh!
saphiere:
The appropriate time is when you can foot her bills.
When you are earning at least half a million Naira.
Get a good paying job with stable income before you think of proposing.

Dear young ladies, please don't accept a proposal from any man who is not financially buoyant.
You can't suffer as a single lady and still suffer as a married woman. Be wise. Don't let them sweet talk you into suffering.
Refuse to suffer.
Mr guesser I need a job. I base in PH.
Can men just stop with the nonsense "what can you bring to the table?"
What women bring to the table outweighs what men bring.
Some of the things women bring to marriage are things money can't buy. Example; children.

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Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by valuehub(f): 1:15pm On Jul 09, 2023
saphiere:
The appropriate time is when you can foot her bills.
When you are earning at least half a million Naira.
Get a good paying job with stable income before you think of proposing.

Dear young ladies, please don't accept a proposal from any man who is not financially buoyant.
You can't suffer as a single lady and still suffer as a married woman. Be wise. Don't let them sweet talk you into suffering.
Refuse to suffer.
Mr guesser I need a job. I base in PH.
Can men just stop with the nonsense "what can you bring to the table?"
What women bring to the table outweighs what men bring.
Some of the things women bring to marriage are things money can't buy. Example; children.

It's a shame something like this is coming from someone of my gender at this time and age.

Which kind wahala be this!

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Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by lawani: 1:22pm On Jul 09, 2023
valuehub:


It's a shame something like this is coming from someone of my gender at this time and age.

Which kind wahala be this!

If you don't have money, you will marry someone without money only if you can get him a job if you extremely like him but if you have your own money, you can marry someone you like for other reasons. The lady is correct in the case of poor ladies. On the overall, peace of mind and happiness, filfilment is more important than billions
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by nkemjacob2(m): 1:25pm On Jul 09, 2023
Before proposing, pls take her to your parent

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Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by Fatbam005: 1:27pm On Jul 09, 2023
Drayco007:
Make money
Give her money
Send her family money
Make more money
Give her more money
Send her family more money..

They will propose to you..



And the bottom line after money money money the wrong woman fit kill you with your money money mentality

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Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by ibechris(m): 1:30pm On Jul 09, 2023
After u must have checked if u are financially balance to take care of a woman...then,u can go ahead and propose.

E get why.

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Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by IamAtAnger: 1:30pm On Jul 09, 2023
What u juz typed now, read it again and see if it make any sense to u
lawani:


If you don't have money, you will marry someone without money only if you can get him a job if you extremely like him but if you have your own money, you can marry someone you like for other reasons. The lady is correct in the case of poor ladies. On the overall, peace of mind and happiness, filfilment is more important than billions

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Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by Drayco007(m): 1:41pm On Jul 09, 2023
Fatbam005:
And the bottom line after money money money the wrong woman fit kill you with your money money mentality

Na me dem go kill, no be you ...
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by frozen70(f): 1:46pm On Jul 09, 2023
ibinaboonline:
Quick question for married people: take the woman to see your parents before proposing to her, or propose to her before taking her to see your parents? In what order is this culturally appropriate?

Because of some circumstances and family values,
I will suggest you take her along to visit your family and spend some times with her and your family

If she is comfortable with your family and relate well with your mum and sisters, then they are the one that will tell you their observations in her be it good or bad

But if she dodges your mum and sisters at home, they are still the ones that will observe her too

After the trip, if there are any positive comments about her, that's when you will get the green light

But if there are negative comments about her, then you draw her attention and advice her to make adjustment or corrections in the case maybe

At the end if you are ok, you can make your proposal to her

I believe that if you make your proposal and take her along and they reject her base on whatever reasons, you will find it difficult to go on with her and if you tell her what and who makes observations on her, she will feel bad

If eventually she succeeded in penetrating into the family

She will start enmity with those who opposed her coming and that's another cold war that will linger long and affect every one including you

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Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by Wkaay(m): 2:27pm On Jul 09, 2023
When you have fully understand each other and have stable income to take care of expenses. Put God first in all things

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Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by naturefellow(m): 2:54pm On Jul 09, 2023
Starz825:
my own be say...I dey always attend to people billings but me ma sef no know how to bill people...na that shit I wan learn now..

so the billings can go round and we all be fine..cos na human being me sef be...i can't come and die. grin

...anyway carry her go see your mama/papa... very important before proposal... although I know you go still do wetin you like
cheesy
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Propose? by doneback04: 3:06pm On Jul 09, 2023
I am here to learn because I don't have idea which of them to do first
but on the little Education I attended I think the right thing to do was to make the lady familiar with your family, let your family know the lady then after that you can now propose so it will not be a new things to your family

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