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Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Kobojunkie: 7:59pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Konjiboii:Nigerians and blackmail ehn!!! She is a "good" woman who can't offer him what he needs the most. How is she "good" for him? If she is good for you, take her. She is not "good" for OP so let him set her free. 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by RALPHOW(m): 8:00pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Don't divorce nor leave your children please, their future is very important. Please take second wife! Even if you are a Christian God is not against second wife (some pastors are only deceiving us), but He hate divorce. Helikanah His servant has two wives. God himself gave wives to David Bro Paul advised Pastors and Bishop to marry one wife, it means members are allowed to marry more than one if needs be. My advice to some sisters is that if you wish to be Rev. sister please don't marry (go to seminary) and stop putting brothers into unnecessary troubles, Ashewo are women like you, they service 10 men daily without complains. This case is becoming too much in the Church nowadays, especially among 40+ to 50+ wives. many brothers are dying in silence. Some Pastors /brothers have not been having sex for more than a year, just because of wicked wives, who knows they cannot sleep with another women. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Caaz: 8:00pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Divorce is not the option here babe. He has the option of getting a side chick outside. This man never said anything bad about his wife. Since his high libido is the la cuna here,let him opt for side chick of high maintenance and he's good to go,it's a win win for all. |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Caaz: 8:01pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:I get your sarcasm kobo |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Kobojunkie: 8:01pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
desgiezd:Wrong! Kids benefit nothing from watching Daddy and mummy live like complete strangers in the house. Studies show that the damage that kind of setting does is about the same as that a terrible divorce wrecks on them. So please, let's not use kids to blackmail people into staying in uncomfortable marriages. How Staying in an Unhappy Marriage Can Affect Your Children |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by franchasofficia: 8:01pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Acidosis:Preach it! I reject these type of stringy criminals for my daughter in Jesus name, AMEN! My daughter will marry a cheerful, philanthropist like her father. She will marry a man that is ready to spend to make life sweet and easy for her at all time. I wonder the useless project our Nairaland Mr Project is doing that he earns 700k and spend only 100k on his family, God forbid bad omens like this |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by YUSTECH3(m): 8:01pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
The problem is probably in you, you are just using yr wife to make a guard Sex issue can be solved if proper step are taken....you are an adult I don't need to explain that much or you visit marriage counselor to train u on that On the part of you staying alone forever and something is actually going wrong in yr humanity....Cox normal hman being cannot stay alone forever... |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by eepeepook: 8:02pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:As usual, quick to jump to a conclusion without research. You are obviously paid to be here. “Life is Short. Make Sure You Spend As Much Time As Possible on the Internet Arguing with Strangers.” |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Kobojunkie: 8:02pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Caaz:I am being serious abeg! This woman has "wasted" 13 years of her life catering to a man whose only guiding light comes from his dick and he is still not able to have deeper affection beyond that for her. She needs to free herself so she can love herself with all that energy, and her kids of course. |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Caaz: 8:05pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:I rest my case |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by YUSTECH3(m): 8:05pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
The problem is probably in you, you are just using yr wife to make a guard Sex issue can be solved if proper step are taken....you are an adult I don't need to explain that much or you visit marriage counselor to train u on that On the part of you staying alone forever I think something is actually going wrong in yr humanity....Cox normal hman being cannot stay alone forever... |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by franchasofficia: 8:05pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
RALPHOW:Having a second wife is as good as divorcing your first wife lol cos the children of your first wife will still be stigmatized by your new wife who will be your favorite lol The best way to handle this is to have temporary side chicks who must not be with you for more than 2 years max. In fact you must never date any girl beyond 1 year if you are still married (does sign of the cross) |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Caaz: 8:06pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
He's Mr bond007 franchasofficia: 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Kobojunkie: 8:06pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Caaz:Divorce is not but adultery is? Come on... when did we fall so low as a people? 2. He has said enough bad about his wife which is that she is not the best fit for him. She may be "good" wife material for you but obviously not for him and what he wants. What you are doing amounts to forcing marriage on him which is to blame for the damaged state of marriage across Nigeria. 3. Wrong! Kids benefit nothing from watching Daddy and mummy live like complete strangers in the house. Studies show that the damage that kind of setting does is about the same as that a terrible divorce wrecks on them. So please, let's not use kids to blackmail people into staying in uncomfortable marriages. How Staying in an Unhappy Marriage Can Affect Your Children |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Caaz: 8:08pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
He has bn secretly looking for ways to divorce the woman and had all these planned out. YUSTECH3:A woman is instigating him to do all these.imagine a man with high effing libido staying alone...naa not possible |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by okewumi: 8:08pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Sincerely l felt ur pain. Most single does not know what u are saying. It is painful when u do everything and when u ask her for just once a week for sex and she says No. IT IS TIME WE START PREACHING ABOUT SEPERATION not DIVORCE. Get an apartment and stay there. Dont divoce. Marrying most nigerian lady is like taking someone from motherless home. Immediately she born the number of children she want, she lock up. I know what l am saying. I rest my case 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Konjiboii: 8:14pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: To fvck na small thing, na when you don enter street you go realize say to find a woman who can manage the home,take care of kids and still cook hard die. Fvck when dey everywhere like pure water satchet..You know nothing |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Caaz: 8:14pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
If you were the op will you do same to your husband Kobo? Kobojunkie:His complains are trivial. Funny enough this woman may be in church right now praying for her foolish husband without knowing that oga have secretly prepared to divorced her. Chai uwa. |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by benzion72(m): 8:14pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
When trouble sleep Yanga go wake am Waking him dey find Palaver, he dey find Palaver, he go get-e o) Palaver, he go get Palaver When cat sleep Rat go bite him tail Waking him dey find Palaver, he dey find Palaver, he go get-e o Palaver, he go get Palaver Don't go look for wahala |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Kobojunkie: 8:15pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Konjiboii:All that no matter as OP don taste marriage come decide say him wan go "free willy". Marriage no be prison. Let's stop pretending it is meant to be that. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Caaz: 8:15pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Konjiboii:Nothing dey for street,nada kaka. |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by radautoworks: 8:18pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
I usually don't get into topics like this and I don't know how it showed up on my feed but I have an experiment I would like to try. I just want to see something Op, making what you make you probably have about a week of vacation time available, correct? If that's the case, take a week off. During that week, let your wife just focus on that "small" job that she has and go about her day like you typically do. She will just work and come home and make family decisions or whatever else it is you do. You in turn, go about her daily routine for the week. Kids, clothes, laundry, food, side hustle etc. You do this on the same budget. At the end of the week let's hear your thoughts on this topic again. I'm dead serious. Second, I'm just going to say that if she was a virgin when you married, her views and feelings about sex were almost ENTIRELY shaped by you... 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Kobojunkie: 8:19pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Caaz:Do what exactly? Forget the idea of marriage given you by your parents. Marriage is meant to be a relationship between two individuals who see eye-to-eye on things. When that ceases, it is no longer a marriage but a cage, a prison. Why would I want to enslave another human being all so I can hold on to a Married title? God forbid! 2. That one na foolishness on her part though since God does not answer any such prayers in your churches to begin with. This glorified image people have of marriage is all of fantasy, created by your cultures and religions. It does not mirror the reality of human existence and behavior and ought to be abandoned in the trash where it belongs. I mean look at the fact that you are suggesting adultery in marriage to this man here as evidence of this. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Coolcat001: 8:21pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ADURA123: My wife does the same thing. I simply cheat and we both are good 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by solreb: 8:23pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ADURA123:I will advise against divorce and I want to commend you for your faithfulness. Your marriage can still be salvaged going by my experience in a similar situation and I have been married for more than 24 years. The twp of you should go for counselling and see a sex therapist. You can contact this woman Olawunmi Esan ( Olawunmiesan@gmail.com) whi is a certified counsellor ànd sex therapist. |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by kennie2015(m): 8:28pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Where is the place of effective communication, do a personal and sincere introspection on what went amiss, be accommodating and tolerating, renew your commitment and be conscious of what spice up the romance. Pls don't divorce ADURA123: |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Mombebe: 8:28pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Acidosis: Get out, how much do you make in a month? Did the wife complain about the upkeep money oga? Na the op brought this up on himself to sort for advice from NL that's full of somany knuckle heads that can not even manage a home like this moniker, instead of giving advice (if you have any) you're complaining of the upkeep money on the wife's behalf. The born of contention is lack of intimacy which the man has tried so much to endure for a long while now,which I feel it isn't enough to just let go off the marriage,but an unemployed and ogogoro person like you is busy calculating how much he should have been giving the wife,I don't think you should put mouth in this Matter,go to politics forum and comment, that's where we find something that looks like a human being venting out there frustration on each other. 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by RALPHOW(m): 8:29pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
franchasofficia: Side chick is fornication Marry second wife and pay her dowry |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by nzechu(m): 8:30pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
In all u do, avoid divorce for the sole reason of sex. Sounds ridiculous |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Kobojunkie: 8:30pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Coolcat001:I hope if you find out the reason your wife hasn't been giving you sex is that she has also been cheating on you, you wouldn't mind too. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by kunle75(m): 8:31pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ADURA123: Oga good woman no dey outside oooo,I warned you now. If she's not cheating on you with those excuses, I will advise you get side chick and act along,it will save you alot. Getting a new wife won't solve the issue I swear. Get yourself one small young girl and make sure you go with your sense to protect yourself at all times. Also make it known from the onset that na only knacking period,thanks me later |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by PaulH07: 8:35pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ADURA123: In other words you want to start doing Sina upadan. Ibere weyrey ree ooo |
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