Lol... Mr Silentgroper, are you flirting with me?

Silentgroper:
I knw right.

I need saving..

come be my saviour

Samantha124:
Lol... Mr Silentgroper, are you flirting with me?

Guilty as accused..

Mi nena

Something tells me that you're a Yoruba demon..😂😂😂

Silentgroper:


Guilty as accused..

Mi nena

[quote author=Samantha124 post=126112096]Something tells me that you're a Yoruba demon..

Samantha124:
Yet you'll be doing push-ups on top of one tonight...

Bedmatics 101

First impression lasts longer. She should try to help, sure most MILs in yorubaland would respect the courtesy and hospitable enough to let her go being the first time. You have only done that to show that you are properly brought up.

englishmart:
Mature mind only

As a lady your boyfriend took u to his family house for the first time and u met her mother cooking, are you suppose to join her in the kitchen or u seat as a visitor and allow her to finish the cooking and serve u ?
Remember it's the first time meeting the family

Samantha124:
Lol... Mr Silentgroper, are you flirting with me?

So now that u've found me guilty.. What's my prosecution gonna be like ..

A lifetime in ur personal bar

Nigerian guys and their sweet mouths like honey...😂😂😂

What's gotten into you today?🤣🤣🤣

Silentgroper:
So now that u've found me guilty.. What's my prosecution gonna be like ..

A lifetime in ur personal bar

I will sitdown as the visitor that I am. But I can help serve and clean up though.

pansophist:
As a boyfriend, you visited your girlfriend's parent for the first time, and met them arguing with the carpenter that they still owe him 20k for his workmanship.

Should the boyfriend pay the 20k, or not?

🤣🤣🤣 Good one.

MrsTwrite:
There's no need to do busy body for the first time. Perhaps you can take the plates to the kitchen after meal.

You think it is busy body for a girl to join her mother inlaw in the kitchen, on top food wey she go follow chop

Puss360:
In as much as I am the girlfriend of her son, to her, I am a visitor, coming to her house for the first time... she should cook and serve me....
Then we talk Nd familiarise ourselves...
On my next coming, I can then see if I can assist her in doing anything I can do

"She should cook and serve me" Can you imagine!

Samantha124:
I will sit and wait to be served because I don't know what she's cooking and how she's cooking it.

It'll only seem disrespectful of me being a new guest, but already being too forward and all over the place... But I can help her with washing the dishes afterwards.

No one expect you to "COOK" in your inlaw house on the 1 day, the question is can you or will you "Assist" her being the 1st day

Sitting down and waiting for an old woman to come serve you food is not Disrespectful

if you don't mind washing plate after meal on the 1st day, then what difference does it make if you assist her from the onset .. smh

Nehyooh:
"She should cook and serve me" Can you imagine!

Yes... As visitor... You all want your girlfriend to be slaves in your house...
First time coming to the guy's place she should be treated as a visitor!!

Puss360:

Yes... As visitor... You all want your girlfriend to be slaves in your house...
First time coming to the guy's place she should be treated as a visitor!!

I agreed that the lady was a visitor. But you make it seems kinda serious

Nehyooh:
I agreed that the lady was a visitor. But why will his mother be the one that'll serve her? The guy can bring the meal to the dining after his mother might have dished it.

Listen, if the lady was his boss at work, will she serve herself??
As long as she is coming to his house for the first time, the mother (who is the manager of the house), should serve and take care of their visitor...
That also shows how homely she is welcome to the guy's home...
Then on her second coming, then she can feel at home and settle well...
As a guy, try and allocate some modicum of respect to your intended...

illicit:
As the guy I won't let her do anything

And if my mum raised it, I will tell her she wanted to but I didn't allow it.

She's meant to meet my family not to cook for them, my mother has always been doing the cooking.

If I should follow her to their own house,I met her father doing some stuff, am I obliged to join him?

I am not

Note the bolded: Especially if the father is doing mechanic job under his car. Shey the guy go go dey shook head under the car in the name of boyfriend.

pussyeater:

Note the bolded: Especially if the father is doing mechanic job under his car. Shey the guy go go dey shook head under the car in the name of boyfriend.

Oh my

U are funny
😂

Puss360:

Listen, if the lady was his boss at work, will she serve herself??
As long as she is coming to his house for the first time, the mother (who is the manager of the house), should serve and take care of their visitor...
That also shows how homely she is welcome to the guy's home...
Then on her second coming, then she can feel at home and settle well...
As a guy, try and allocate some modicum of respect to your intended...

I never reprimand your point lady, I only quoted that "She should serve me" you said which I actually decided to cruise with .
Believe me, you're right with your analysis, but nothing is bad to make an attempt or even go greet her in the kitchen. It's called courtesy!
Be a good lady with positive characters and homely to your husband's family just as you claimed the guy's mother should be homely too

Kitchens have other functions beyond “a place for cooking.”

englishmart:
Mature mind only

As a lady your boyfriend took u to his family house for the first time and u met her mother cooking, are you suppose to join her in the kitchen or u seat as a visitor and allow her to finish the cooking and serve u ?
Remember it's the first time meeting the family

Nehyooh:
I never reprimand your point lady, I only quoted that "She should serve me" you said which I actually decided to cruise with .
Believe me, you're right with your analysis, but nothing is bad to make an attempt or even go greet her in the kitchen. It's called courtesy!
Be a good lady with positive characters and homely to your husband's family just as you claimed the guy's mother should be homely too

lol.. okay dear

englishmart:
Mature mind only

As a lady your boyfriend took u to his family house for the first time and u met her mother cooking, are you suppose to join her in the kitchen or u seat as a visitor and allow her to finish the cooking and serve u ?
Remember it's the first time meeting the family

No, she is not suppose to join. She is a fucking visitors. Damn it!!

englishmart:
Mature mind only

As a lady your boyfriend took u to his family house for the first time and u met her mother cooking, are you suppose to join her in the kitchen or u seat as a visitor and allow her to finish the cooking and serve u ?
Remember it's the first time meeting the family

it is not a necessity to join in the kitchen but tactically, diplomatically and as a boundary breaker it is advicable for a potential wife to be to join her mother in law to be in the kitchen,that is were the first ice is broken ,questions asked and trust earned,if I am in such situation and my wife to be do not automatically volunteer to help in the kitchen then I will be disappointed because she is not that smart enough

I will not help.
Meanwhile, nlfpmod this should be on fp

englishmart:
I will personally insist she doesn't do anything sha.

why would you do that?

Dangrace01:
Join her in the kitchen. African mothers always use this to test their son's girlfriend.

say your mother. Not African mothers.

MrsTwrite:
There's no need to do busy body for the first time. Perhaps you can take the plates to the kitchen after meal.

are you saying it's busybody to take the plate to the kitchen after meal?

Puss360:
In as much as I am the girlfriend of her son, to her, I am a visitor, coming to her house for the first time... she should cook and serve me....
Then we talk Nd familiarise ourselves...
On my next coming, I can then see if I can assist her in doing anything I can do

You're a very lazy woman

Samantha124:
I will sit and wait to be served because I don't know what she's cooking and how she's cooking it.

It'll only seem disrespectful of me being a new guest, but already being too forward and all over the place... But I can help her with washing the dishes afterwards.

You're badly raised

pansophist:
As a boyfriend, you visited your girlfriend's parent for the first time, and met them arguing with the carpenter that they still owe him 20k for his workmanship.

Should the boyfriend pay the 20k, or not?

Does it have to be equated with money? This is different from money madam

Nonexisting1:
Make she go wash put inside the food and have the whole family simp for her. Kings, never give them access to your family's foods. Don't say you are not warned.

another angle

And you're entitled to your own opinion.

bantilosha:
You're badly raised