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Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by duduade: 6:40pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Rapture2021: And give us feedback 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by Hedonisco: 6:40pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Most Nigerian men sabi marry nonsense. And e dey pain me if such a stupid man na up and doing G wey get small coins for pocket. Some of us can't have this problem because we learned early on how to put a woman in her place and nurture her according to our unique preferences. No room for deviation. Small indiscretions are allowed as fallible humans but nothing major because any acts of disrespect would be met with immediate, highly dreaded consequences. It is not even about violence. Beating women is a weak man's game. But real Gees know how far. As cliché as it sounds, lots of upcoming guys need to have the redpill forced into them intravenously. The older, victimised ones like the OP who are already in it can't be rescued. They are already lost. 4 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by JuanDeDios: 6:42pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Rapture2021:A woman does not go from loving you to being indifferent to you. She goes from loving you to hating you. What you do is up to you. 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by kamtamark(m): 6:42pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
We are in thesame pot just that my own is worst because I am not working at the moment. I beat my her once and she collapse I spend a lot in the hospital, from that day I vow never to touch her again. Is close to 4months now that I am not working I have searched for jobs until I'm tired, sometime I even suspect her of doing something to me so that I can stay in the house and look after the children . When she wasn't working she was calm, respectful but now she talk to me any how even Infront of the children I warned her several times to mind her words when she is Infront of the children, but she do it time and again up to the extend that she is texting men when we are lying on the bed at night I clone her WhatsApp I can see everything from my phone. One thing I am thanking God is to let me go through this to really understand who I am dealing with. I have promise myself to let her feel free , when I got a job .....we will separate. 4 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by Dopeluiz(m): 6:43pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Rapture2021:e no reach to divorce wife insulting husband is not a new tin. Leave the house for a month. If that does not break her, send her back. But her threat about cheating is no joke she fi don dey duam. 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by Popeonah(m): 6:45pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Karleb:Respect no dey the marriage, settle it with her in the best way you can |
Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by Thecorporatesho(m): 6:48pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Your marriage is at stake here and all that concerns her is her business? OP divorce is not an option for now..separation for a while is necessary.. but not divorce. keep your distance and think it through |
Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by polycarp65: 6:50pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Rapture2021: Go marry another she go get sense 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by Swiftgrp: 6:53pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Rapture2021:Let her leave so you can have the near-absolute peace of mind which most men crave for. She has to get gone ASAP before you both harm each other. Period. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by Nonexisting1: 6:53pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
kamtamark:We warned but you people called us misogynists. Enjoy your marriage sir. 1 Like
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Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by LEGALSER: 6:54pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Rapture2021: This one don go marry who pass am 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by Nonexisting1: 6:57pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Snow2six:Tears of married men dey sweet me die. We warned but they called us kids, saying things like grow up, receive sense and so on. The most understanding men in our loving country are simps and married men. Oga, please keep quiet and enjoy your marriage. Cheers. 1 Like
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Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by Whatisurproblem(m): 6:58pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Coleman7:it's not everyone who is reserve to do as you advice. Some like a partner that the will gist and talk together at all times. Like me, I like it when I speak with my woman always, if my woman is a reserve type, I will quietly divorce her. I'm a lively person. I don't like sadistic fellow |
Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by nairalanda1(m): 7:00pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Rapture2021: I suggest you find out why your wife is angry with you and work from there. And don't bring your issues to this site. 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by Nonexisting1: 7:02pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
MuMuOnBail:I approve this advice. Mumuonbail, take am. Na man you be.
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Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by sync(f): 7:03pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
You brought out the beast in her |
Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by Truetalk3139: 7:03pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Namaster: You be pro. Ones in a while, my woman will just start acting strange like someone who needs factory reset, my slap is an auto resetting button, she go just calm after she collect, and the make up sex is always crazy because she becomes extra submissive, the next few months will be so sweet until she needs another factory reset. I pity men who don’t know how to handle their women when they get violent, no be everything dem dey keep shut to. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by SIRKAY98(m): 7:05pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
One trick you can use is this, if she abuse you and she is not stopping,give her a deadly abuse, like she will die tonight, she will not wake up the following day, iku ma pae ni ale yi, Iya ma ku sibi ti koni ri Eni sinku e, my brother she go go low key straight.... 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by CJStarz: 7:06pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Here you are sounding so innocent.... Nwokem, there's no smoke without fire. Check yourself. Next thread abeg Rapture2021: |
Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by johnlegend01: 7:09pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
How did you lose your respect? You bought it initially with money, you have shown weakness in being decisive, you have failed in leadership. What do you do? You must first understand she has a higher mental energy than you. She never should have been your wife. Stop funding anything other than home expenses. Those you can do yourself, make sure to do them. Stand your ground whenever you make a decision. Report her to her father or Uncle or Elder brother, whichever is available and can speak to her senses. Do not report her to any female. *Never fall for her trick to make you beat her. She wants an excuse to paint you as a demon. The day you lay a finger on her, you lose* I hope she has not done something terrible she should not be forgiven for that you forgave her. It makes a man appear weak. Na wetin my small sense fit think I don write so. |
Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by rickleye: 7:10pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Rapture2021: Your write up shows the following - she is being influenced by outside interests ( be it a friend, relationship or TV shows ) - usually couples get closer and communicate better not press each others buttons. - I would suggest you find a marriage counselor and talk this through before she provokes you to physically beat her and then feel guilty. 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by FirstCounsel(m): 7:13pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
[quote author=advanceDNA post=126718450] Must u do every thing ur wife demands? Una no understand how women be ooo...Na una dey let this women ride una...... By responding to all her demands like a waiter.... Lol @ " .. like a waiter..." 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by PastorFire: 7:13pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Rapture2021: This is a pathetic situation. My wife has never for once in her life remotely say anything close to insulting me.. She is too mannered to think about that even if she gets angry which she hardly does. This is what you will do.. Use the "Stick & Carrot" approach. Do your best to go to the root of her sudden change in behavior and discussing deep with her and ask what you have done wrong in the family to warrant insults at the slightest provocation (Women often do that if they have an irritable issue about you). Be genuine about seeking for a solution and helping her or you both to finding a solution. If that works, good for you. But if her madness na natural one, Bros use all manner of tactics to show her shege (forget church matter, marriage can kill you).. Don't sleep at home, don't provide, scatter beer bottles everywhere even if you don't drink.. Just get on her nerves and be proud of it without apologies. All this is in a bid to re-assert your dominance in the house. Trust me, she will come begging. 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by Maxcollins042(m): 7:13pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Map1: Lots of men are yet to realize that bending the knee to propose to a woman is a fempowerment strategy that betatizes men. The OP must have been feminized/betatized by succumbing to her wife's betatization concessions many times. And women don't like betatized men. Now he's reaping the fruit of his doings. 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by issylarry(m): 7:14pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Rapture2021: If you abide with what I said you will come out of it ..I hope you understands this You are at fault in everything ..Don’t you know it takes a disciplined woman to know what she needs and not want ? You have spoiled her that at any demands she gets it ..Why not try the other way round ? Have you form brokenness before? Or you feel you are too caring and feel pity for her even when you have and u can’t do without given to her when she ask you for anything ! As a man you don’t answer all women’s wants they are insatiable means u can’t satisfy woman unless she is in need! Sometimes the solution is good slap to reset their brain but I won’t asked you to go that lane Let’s take this steps 1.Get enough foods stuff in the house and make sure there are more than enough food in the house and all the basic utilities are handled 2.Form brokenness and feel down at times this is to know her real identity .. For evening go out chill for beer parlour or just refresh your mind ..Don’t cheat but be free..Dont over drink just make your self happy ! 3.Dont eat too much in the house ,sometimes tell her u are filled ..that you don’t have appetite 4. Hit the Gym and pour your annoyance on that 5. Dress well and smell nice 6.All the business you want to open for her ..Tell her you will but she need to take her time and ask her sensitive questions about her feasibility study on the new business ..tell her to give you time like some months .. 7.Surprise her needs not gratify her immediate want 8.Be careful too and pray more ,if she wasn’t like that before work on your self so u can be the book she reads 9.Dont insult her back just give her silent treatment ,do all you need to do to the house and for sometimes avoid over familiarities and mind your business. 10.Read more or research more !keep working on your self in all leave it to God I come in peace I hope it meets you in peace .. God be with your marriage 4 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by Stanleynf: 7:14pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
There's no smoke without fire your wife cannot just start acting negatively towards you without a reason. The best way to get her back to her right sense is to prove to her that you're not guilty of what she's accusing of but if you're guilty you better change because from your write up a woman cannot threatening to cheat on you boldly in your face without suspecting you of cheating. All the disrespect from her is as a result of what she's suspecting you of....... |
Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by imustsaymymindo: 7:15pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
APOPTOSIS: Yeah. Travelling is an eye-opener. If you even watch old American films in the 60s such as The Graduate etc., you'd realise that what many of these Nigerian males in this current generation of marriages are facing is exactly what the Americans were facing then in their then conservative culture such as ours. Though theirs have now degenerated with several legal backings to the extent that Men hardly toast talkless of nearing marriage. Nigeria would surely degenerate to that level.The only thing making it slower is the kind of leaders we have here. Though "sociopatic" but still very masculine. So, the laws and influences are only coming gradually. Many of which are even still practicing polygamy. If the likes of the Peter Obi with more structure and western influence come in, of course the degeneration would have been faster. And the OP would suffer more. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by truthhurtsnaira: 7:16pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
rickleye: Truth is you are too soft…. No more mysterious, predictable, and allowed her to get away with a lot of shyt without immediate comeback… So You are on your way to lotus of misery….. Unless you start acting mysterious, not giving her her way.. and being nonchalant about things… (plus dont ask her for any intimacy…..) 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by londonzona: 7:17pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
See Men, let me tell you one thing you must know. I have been in marriage for 8 years , I married when I was 28 years. Please don't ever allow your wife to share the same room with you no matter what, dont allow her access to your phone because you feel you are doing equal right and lovey dovey.Or take her abroad expecially UK or US were woman is seen as a king.Once there is see finish you are gone.,once you want to empower her as your wife ,you are gone. Is in their nature to abuse people thats why women dont love themselves. They is no love anywhere ,even if there is love, it always vanished in the process when she starts listening to her friends and close relatives.For you to remain in control keep her permanently down.I have been in all this problem. An always avoid a girl that talks too much. I love all the fathers. We give more yet the universe its always against us. 4 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by Caleycash(m): 7:18pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Marry rubbish as wife!, can never be me... I go condemn that mouth she dey use insult me, carry her go hospital myself!, can't even marry someone like that in the first place cus I test people to the extreme!, you be real weak man and you're pathetic, Nonsense! 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by bentenny(m): 7:19pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
The reality is that this attitude didn't start today! The narrative that she was calm and reserved then is because you allowed yourself to see what you wanted to see and hence tolerated whatever attitude she put up in the past! You allowed her to do what she wanted even to the point of disrespecting you but you waived it aside as nothing that you should worry about! You allowed her beauty and body shape( instead of a good character) to cloud your sense of judgement and you refused to see the warning signs aka red flags even when it was more than obvious! Now she is exhibiting in a larger proportion what you had previously ignored! You are now a see-finish to her and any attempt to hit her will be a wrong move as she will ensure that she gains an advantage of your outburst as a glorious pass and a splendid opportunity to quit or exit the marriage! Once a gf or wifey starts disrespecting you,just know you have lost your honour in that relationship or marriage,and the best option is to quit the union! Staying put will only lead to two scenarios....You will either 'kick the bucket' due depression from her persistent insults or you get angry and hit her which might land you in a cell for wife battery or jail time if it turns out fatal! Either way,you lose! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Your Wife Constantly Insults You by rainlover(m): 7:19pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Rapture2021:She's already cheating. 2 Likes |
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