Now let me put it like this. So many times man seem to control everything. They even seem to control everyone's health. People we are living in dangerous times where there is HAI / AIDS and we all know that men are and will always be dogs ( anyone who thinks my statement is wrong WAKE UP). Now my question is, knowing what we know now about sicknesses and us wanting to show faith in our loved ones. you know how a guy can get if you show him that you do not trust him. Is it wrong for your wife or stable girl friend / fiance to suggest condom use? would you think she is cheating, crazy bla bla or would you think she is actually caring, wise etc. How would a lady suggest this to her boo without offending him. Please do not get me wrong. fellows we do love you but WE do not trust you. Any lady who trusts a man with her health has a suicide mission in her head bcoz a man will always and i mean always be a dog. Sisters are you scared of suggesting condom use in your marriage or stable relationship? I know marriage is supposed to be full of trust but lets face it, men are getting dirtier by the day and most married ladies die of aids? where are they getting it? from their loved one. who they trust with their hearts.Now peopel tell me, is wrong? is it too much to ask me a lady to ask him to protect both of them?

one two, buckle my shoe

three four, knock at the door

:PFive six, ...

Nothing wrong with doing that...

Did u start off unprotected?

I like your post in a way but if you say the ladies get it from their men, then from whom do the men get it? May be from the trousers they wear, who knows!

Alert!! Mad woman escapes from mental hospital and comes to nairaland to type nonsense.

Monicasque: we all know that men are and will always be dogs

another demented,misguided,confused goat just sign-up on nairaland

Monicasque: Now let me put it like this. So many times man seem to control everything. They even seem to control everyone's health. People we are living in dangerous times where there is HAI / AIDS and we all know that men are and will always be dogs ( anyone who thinks my statement is wrong WAKE UP). Now my question is, knowing what we know now about sicknesses and us wanting to show faith in our loved ones. you know how a guy can get if you show him that you do not trust him. Is it wrong for your wife or stable girl friend / fiance to suggest condom use? would you think she is cheating, crazy bla bla or would you think she is actually caring, wise etc. How would a lady suggest this to her boo without offending him. Please do not get me wrong. fellows we do love you but WE do not trust you. Any lady who trusts a man with her health has a suicide mission in her head bcoz a man will always and i mean always be a dog. Sisters are you scared of suggesting condom use in your marriage or stable relationship? I know marriage is supposed to be full of trust but lets face it, men are getting dirtier by the day and most married ladies die of aids? where are they getting it? from their loved one. who they trust with their hearts.Now peopel tell me, is wrong? is it too much to ask me a lady to ask him to protect both of them?

You know Monica in the rest of the sane world people actually do plan pregnancies and use condoms on a daily basis even though they're in relationships ..... just sayin

This should be normal practice anyway

@op All men are not cheats. Please you are the one that needs to wake up. Who told you that all men are the same ? We have five fingers which make up one hand yet the fingers are never equal, how much more humans. You need to stop this attitude of generalisation. Your ideology is a misconception. It doesn't matter how you paint it. It can never be a fact talk more of being true.

DigitalSignal: I like your post in a way but if you say the ladies get it from their men, then from whom do the men get it? May be from the trousers they wear, who knows!

Hahahahahaha
Lwkm..
This is so funny..

Idowuogbo: Did u start off unprotected?

that is the exact issue! Yes, she did!
Which type of id!ots dnt use condoms these days?

dont be in a relationship with someone u dont trust

@its22078 i guess i have known why i liked you. Your are morally principled and wise. Your words always speak for you. I like your advise although the situation will be a messy one if the partners in question are married. As for ordinary relationship, your advise is the best. Kudos!

OP needs to be flogged

GraceBestowed: The girl wants advice, instead what people do is downplay her question and throw insults whilst at it! I tire oh!

It is not uncommon for someone who's married to suggest using a condom whilst being intimate. It tells that she believes he's been unfaithful, and unless he proves otherwise (by taking tests) she cannot trust him with her life.

I have seen a woman who was infected with HIV, by her 'loving' husband. All you judges, please what would you say to that woman??

bless you sugar. its clear the people who are busy insulting do not know the pain

Please @ op if your husband is unfaithful, use condoms. And make sure you use good ones to avoid complications. Yes protect yourself for life has no duplicate.

GraceBestowed: The girl wants advice, instead what people do is downplay her question and throw insults whilst at it! I tire oh!

It is not uncommon for someone who's married to suggest using a condom whilst being intimate. It tells that she believes he's been unfaithful, and unless he proves otherwise (by taking tests) she cannot trust him with her life.

I have seen a woman who was infected with HIV, by her 'loving' husband. All you judges, please what would you say to that woman??

You are defending insanity, so you missed the place she said "men are and would always be dogs" ?

50calibre:


You are defending insanity, so you missed the place she said "men are and would always be dogs" ?

and i still stand by my words

^ do you hate your father?

tpia@:
^ do you hate your father?

tooooo much. the dude decided to die when i was 5years old and lv my mother to struggle so i hate him very much for all that i went through in life. if he would have stuck around and see me grow, i would not have soo much anger in me. i even got to an extend where i looked for the father figure in romantic relationships bcoz the bastard who gave birth to me was not around and not there for me growing up so sue me for feeling the way i do. i hate men period and its even worse coz all these bastard seem to just know how to make kids and lv the baby mommas to raise them alone. men will always be dogs to me and nothing can change that

Monicasque:

tooooo much. the dude decided to die when i was 5years old and lv my mother to struggle so i hate him very much for all that i went through in life. if he would have stuck around and see me grow, i would not have soo much anger in me. i even got to an extend where i looked for the father figure in romantic relationships bcoz the bastard who gave birth to me was not around and not there for me growing up so sue me for feeling the way i do. i hate men period and its even worse coz all these bastard seem to just know how to make kids and lv the baby mommas to raise them alone. men will always be dogs to me and nothing can change that

rflmao

Monicasque:

tooooo much. the dude decided to die when i was 5years old and lv my mother to struggle so i hate him very much for all that i went through in life. if he would have stuck around and see me grow, i would not have soo much anger in me. i even got to an extend where i looked for the father figure in romantic relationships bcoz the bastard who gave birth to me was not around and not there for me growing up so sue me for feeling the way i do. i hate men period and its even worse coz all these bastard seem to just know how to make kids and lv the baby mommas to raise them alone. men will always be dogs to me and nothing can change that

Ok! Now can you see your insane post stem from your own underlying psychological issues?

You are emotionally damaged, I recommend you seek therapy ASAP because with a mindset like this, you are heading for self-destruction.

Monicasque:

tooooo much. the dude decided to die when i was 5years old and lv my mother to struggle so i hate him very much for all that i went through in life. if he would have stuck around and see me grow, i would not have soo much anger in me. i even got to an extend where i looked for the father figure in romantic relationships bcoz the bastard who gave birth to me was not around and not there for me growing up so sue me for feeling the way i do. i hate men period and its even worse coz all these bastard seem to just know how to make kids and lv the baby mommas to raise them alone. men will always be dogs to me and nothing can change that

you need help, serious one!

Monicasque:

tooooo much. the dude decided to die when i was 5years old and lv my mother to struggle so i hate him very much for all that i went through in life. if he would have stuck around and see me grow, i would not have soo much anger in me. i even got to an extend where i looked for the father figure in romantic relationships bcoz the bastard who gave birth to me was not around and not there for me growing up so sue me for feeling the way i do. i hate men period and its even worse coz all these bastard seem to just know how to make kids and lv the baby mommas to raise them alone. men will always be dogs to me and nothing can change that

Women who do not hate their fathers, generally do not hate men.


Women who PREFER to hate males, generally have issues with their present or absentee fathers.

Wait a minute. She hates men cos her father died when she was 5? Wait if he abandoned them, I understand but you blame him cos he died?

NL needs a resident shrink

wow i am soooo shocked at my self. i can't blv i am the one who just wrote all this. i actually never understood how i felt until a moment ago. wow and i am suddendly so calm. thanks nairaland for helping me see that i have a problem. i am really going to seek help. wooooow. now i hope you guys can see how important this forum is as for some of us its eye opening and life changing. thank you guys . from the bottom of my heart

i just want to say thanks @topia you are a star. guys i apologies for all the hurtful things i have said on this forum. all the threads where i have made negative comments. i am really sorry guys.

I am shocked.

Mynd_44: I am shocked.

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