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Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by youngice(m): 5:19am On Jul 06, 2014
NO
Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by Project400: 5:19am On Jul 06, 2014
Interesting
Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by greatgod2012(f): 5:20am On Jul 06, 2014
Truckpusher: Like you rightly said in your last paragraph.....'' each to his own o''......I know women that'll skin their husband alive if they give attention to another woman no matter how innocent it is.At least Obama's wife demonstrated to the whole world how insecure women can be ,but you and your NL warriors will always paint almost any reaction from every man as being insecure but lemme also remind you that some people are plainly jealous and not insecure at all.

Finally, while you're thanking God for your kind of hubby, His fellow men and the neighborhood will always know that you're the man and him the woman. grin


you're entitled to your opinion just as i'm entitled to mine.


And as for your last statement, if what people think and says about you is what you live and act on, then in PEG's voice....contunue.
And also, if you think people can say such, it means you too can say such, so, i will advise you to stop running your mouth into other people's lives and relationships, mind your own business, right?

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Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by Truckpusher(m): 5:22am On Jul 06, 2014
Law prince:

Don't derail. The thread here is more about the morality of the act, and stop quoting some feminist theories.
From my moral perspective, Only a moral bankrupt person hugs an opposite sex who isn't a relation, Coz hugging is a form of intimacy. What happens to a respectful handshake? The world has really gone skoin skoin... Abnormalities now norms.
Don't mind them ,after turning their husbands to unripe plantain, they come here to share dangerous ideologies to the wannabes that do not know the pitfalls that exists in our society for those that wants to copy everything from the West, even when they were born in Ajegunle. tongue

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Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by youngice(m): 5:22am On Jul 06, 2014
Khalessi: No its not.
I THOUGHT THEY HACKED AND DELETED YOUR ACCOUNT
Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by Truckpusher(m): 5:26am On Jul 06, 2014
greatgod2012:


you're entitled to your opinion just as i'm entitled to mine.


And as for your last statement, if what people think and says about you is what you live and act on, then in PEG's voice....contunue.
And also, if you think people can say such, it means you too can say such, so, i will advise you to stop running your mouth into other people's lives and relationships, mind your own business, right?
.....''Mind your own business'' is usually the word they use to scare prying eyes that'll pick the holes from what they do behind close doors,unfortunately I don't mind my own business.I ask hard questions and of course I speak up and only once they keep calling for my head ,why? because I speak the truth.

Truth is bitter ,huh! tongue

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Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by hensben(m): 5:29am On Jul 06, 2014
engrtee: Can married men hug
why use question to answer question ehn! open thread for that instead. cool
Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by abdulkeks: 5:33am On Jul 06, 2014
Islamically, u can't touch a woman that s not ur wife or relation not to talk of a married woman hugging a guy, haram

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Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by hensben(m): 5:35am On Jul 06, 2014
imas: you can try this one, your husband or wife no go vex.
this one na work o, instead i go just shake her hand, abeg i nor fit break waist say because i wan hug.
Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by vicchi12(f): 5:37am On Jul 06, 2014
Very dumb question, I must say. Hugs are for everyone; married or unmarried. It's silly how people ignore pressing issues, but make irrelevant things like this a big problem. A married woman is just like every other person, she should be able to hug whoever she wants to. Africans and some religious bigots be taking everything personally ...smh. Very hypocritical! Must everything be sexualized?

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Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by greatgod2012(f): 5:37am On Jul 06, 2014
Truckpusher: .....''Mind your own business'' is usually the word they use to scare prying eyes that'll pick the holes from what they do behind close doors,unfortunately I don't mind my own business.I ask hard questions and of course I speak up and only once they keep calling for my head ,why? because I speak the truth.

Truth is bitter ,huh! tongue



which truth, if i may ask?
Is it the truth you don't know anything about that you're saying?
unfortunately, you don't know me too well, i know what you're up to, a hot argument with you No way! I'm above that, i don't get involved in online and even offline arguement or face-off, if that is how you think or believe it is.......goodluck with your opinion.
Thank you.

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Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by minimoha: 5:40am On Jul 06, 2014
abdulkeks: Islamically, u can't touch a woman that s not ur wife or relation not to talk of a married woman hugging a guy, haram

GBAM....a form of greetin they say.... *rubbish*

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Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by captcochrane(m): 5:43am On Jul 06, 2014
Truckpusher: Don't mind them ,after turning their husbands to unripe plantain, they come here to share dangerous ideologies to the wannabes that do not know the pitfalls that exists in our society for those that wants to copy everything from the West, even when they are born in Ajegunle. tongue

i like u jare {no homo}

no mind those women, na their husband give them too much space; why'll in this whole wide world my gf {not to talk of my wife} just hug a guy, in my presence, because they're friends, mi ni take e lightly

i'm sure those guys'll be comparing and imagining how soft and succulent each of them will be, awon omo oro

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Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by Crixie(m): 5:49am On Jul 06, 2014
vicchi12: Very dumb question, I must say. Hugs are for everyone; married or unmarried. It's silly how people ignore pressing issues, but make irrelevant things like this a big problem. A married woman is just like every other person, she should be able to hug whoever she wants to. Africans and some religious bigots be taking everything personally ...smh. Very hypocritical! Must everything be sexualized?
Take it easy... its not fight

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Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by abdulkayus(m): 5:54am On Jul 06, 2014
vicchi12: Very dumb question, I must say. Hugs are for everyone; married or unmarried. It's silly how people ignore pressing issues, but make irrelevant things like this a big problem. A married woman is just like every other person, she should be able to hug whoever she wants to. Africans and some religious bigots be taking everything personally ...smh. Very hypocritical! Must everything be sexualized?

woman, a man married woman is nt like every other women oooooo. Be warned. There shld difference between a married woman and a non married woman. Dont bring ur polluted disgusting western ideology here. Mbok

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Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by akanbi2k: 5:54am On Jul 06, 2014
It depends on whether the hug is the
1.Local Govt Hug i.e Nigga kinda hug, Right shoulder to the left shoulder with Handshake. This is cool and used for old buddies.
2. State Govt Hug. I.e side to side hug with hand spread across the backs . Used for colleagues and some cool buddies. Nothing out of place too.
3. Federal Govt Hug i.e this reserved for intimacy usually face to face, chest to chest ,thigh to thigh kinda thing...hmnn Nwane ..this may require some explanation if the person is not family o. Like an Handshake dt has. Gone beyond the elbow ...if you suspect that somebody wants to eat your hand, pls count ur fingers first.
In conclusion, moderation is key . Aseju is not good ! QED !

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Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by Nobody: 5:55am On Jul 06, 2014
vicchi12: Very dumb question, I must say. Hugs are for everyone; married or unmarried. It's silly how people ignore pressing issues, but make irrelevant things like this a big problem. A married woman is just like every other person, she should be able to hug whoever she wants to. Africans and some religious bigots be taking everything personally ...smh. Very hypocritical! Must everything be sexualized?

POM= Prevailing Obscure Mentality.
Any legitimate human being with no sense of hypocrisy knows that hugging is a form of intimacy.

A time is still coming that even the act of intercourse won't be branded as such any more. Afterall its only d organs dat are active... s*x isn't intended.

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Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by Atmmachine(m): 5:57am On Jul 06, 2014
Nigerian mentality..

In america girls do kiss thier fathers, so what's wrong with married men hugging the Poo.s out of girls??

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Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by hensben(m): 5:59am On Jul 06, 2014
Law prince:

POM= Prevailing Obscure Mentality.
Any legitimate human being with no sense of hypocrisy knows that hugging is a form of intimacy.

A time is still coming that even the act of intercourse won't be branded as such any more. Afterall its only d organs dat are active... s*x isn't intended.

bro dont mind her, even irun-obo, her fellow female has prove it that its a form of intimacy, there was this girl i held her hand she was uncomfortable and try to withdrew herself from me then i asked her whats the problem, i was about to get angry and she told me she easily feel h.rny and get wet when opposite s.x try to hold or hug her, even most part in western world doesnt allow it.

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Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by faksy(m): 6:07am On Jul 06, 2014
engrtee: Can married men hug

try it,and u r out of my home.
As a married woman its totally wrng 4u 2 hug any man,either in the present of ur husband or nt if u truly respect her

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Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by vicchi12(f): 6:18am On Jul 06, 2014
abdulkayus:

woman, a man married woman is nt like every other women oooooo. Be warned. There shld difference between a married woman and a non married woman. Dont bring ur polluted disgusting western ideology here. Mbok
REFRAIN from insulting me, or my person! That's a warning. Take a look at your lives, with all your culture and religion, where is your continent? What is there to write home about Africa? Mchew hypocitres angry

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Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by azimibraun: 6:22am On Jul 06, 2014
I feel cheap and opportunistic Men are the ones that hug ppls wives. Hugging person wife na medicine for death? Must u even do it? Just greet and go ur thing. Can u hug anoda Man's wife and claim nt to feel d softness or hardness of her breast or body? Or will u claim nt not feel the strap of her Bra on her body as ur hands go around her? Like I said b4 na cheap irresponsible guys go hug married woman. Shameless guys o!

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Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by superior1: 6:28am On Jul 06, 2014
Maybe in the West but under what is considered norms and values of the Nigerian people, it is considered a sign of indiscretion and adultery

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Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by azimibraun: 6:28am On Jul 06, 2014
Let's break it down. Hw wld u feel wen ur married mother or married sister in front of their husbands or in-laws hug other Me; or even ur own wife hug a guy in front of u? U will jst clap for them abi? If that is wat civilisation is all about; I wish to remain a primitive cultured african individual. Who bows is head or streatch his hand to greet and go. Hug person wife ke? Dt na eternal beef na. The Man will always hate u for that a may punish u. Nothing u do will ever please him again even wen he smiles with u.

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Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by xage(m): 6:39am On Jul 06, 2014
It is not just wrong, it is a sin
Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by Ahuitzotl: 6:42am On Jul 06, 2014
Every one needs a hug, i can't be bothered about what or who hugs my wife 'cept if that entity is a total stranger that hasn't been introduced to me...i'b like " what the fucck man?! Who the fucck was that?.......Vice versa.
Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by Godson201333(m): 6:45am On Jul 06, 2014
But hugging and pecking is the mode of greeting right here where im living! Naija self with wahala

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Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by vicchi12(f): 6:45am On Jul 06, 2014
Law prince:

POM= Prevailing Obscure Mentality.
Any legitimate human being with no sense of hypocrisy knows that hugging is a form of intimacy.

A time is still coming that even the act of intercourse won't be branded as such any more. Afterall its only d organs dat are active... s*x isn't intended.


I bet you feel smarter after making that statement, how dumb! Now let me put it to you, believe me when I say that your people need more hugs.. Desperately! Do you know how many madness it will cure? Instead of adopting the ills of other cultures, why not adopt the good ones? Hugging is intimate! It has the power to heal; it produces oxytocin, which is very good for the body. A great deal of Nigerians need some oxytocin running through their body to cure their madness; caused by the daily struggle, politics, and so on. Hugs are NOT just meant to be something between man n wife. No just something to be sexualized by people who are greedy with everything! It's a way of showing SYMPATHy( I bet a lot of y'all don't know the meaning). A hug demonstrates emotional warmth. What's the evil in a married woman sharing this affection? Go look at the lives of people with the culture of Hugging, and compare it to the lives of your people..very huge difference. People who hug others are happy people. Life is not about sexualizing everything. Life is not just about taking, it's also about giving! So don't serve your bullshiit. Every person I. Their right mind, know the difference between sex and a hug, again spare me that non sense...stop trying to score cheap points with such a stupid and heinous argument. With all due respect, go back to your cave or shape up! angry

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Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by Nobody: 6:47am On Jul 06, 2014
I wouldn't do it.



Her choice is hers.
Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by kobonaire(m): 6:47am On Jul 06, 2014
Yes oh ..... especially the ones with big bosoms. There is one that is always giving me hugs when i visit them in their town. It is my friend's wife and i knew both of them from school together. Her bosoms are ginormous (which explains why her kids are fat and bouncy from all that milk). Anyway I am a little bit "charged" anytime i receive hugs from her ... wetin man pikin go do .... body no be firewood oh

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Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by vicchi12(f): 6:48am On Jul 06, 2014
Ahuitzotl: Every one needs a hug, i can't be bothered about what or who hugs my wife 'cept if that entity is a total stranger that hasn't been introduced to me...i'b like " what the fucck man?! Who the fucck was that?.......Vice versa.
bless you
Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by cbrass(m): 6:56am On Jul 06, 2014
bosunjohns: I can't laugh o. grin Cossy Of all people? Many modern days women don't see anything wrong with it. How about you, can you hug another woman? Is it right?

As for me I can never hug any other woman except my wife....what will even motivate me to do that sef

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