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Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Fredchisom(m): 8:09pm On Oct 31, 2014
i don,t usually comment but i gotta say this;to d ladies in d huz,how u give him d sex is not complete 2 make him convert d fianceeship into walkin yu down d aisle but the wifyy qualities u possess in yu which d bible calls virtious lady.helpin him out whn u are around counts for we guys,advicing us right wins u more luv...etc.wiffy qualities last forever in guys memories and it speeds up our pace 2 finaly be with u cz its rare while gud n crazzy sex fades just with time cz almost all d gals i know can giv it 2 me d way i'd wnt it....

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Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by UniqueGem(m): 8:09pm On Oct 31, 2014
Gloria3389:

is eating part of visit ...
apart from my place....most times we eat outside...
Auntie!! Pick that chair there, sit down and listen attentively.
First And Foremost, i'll like to notify/inform you that you and that guy ain't in anything serious, he's probably just toiling with you while you think you're having fun. So i think i understand all your input on this discussion.
SECONDLY, A good woman who wants the progress and success of his husband to be (fiance) will NEVER subject to him buying junks for them to feed whenever she's around. She'll always want to impress him with everything she knows INCLUDING COOKING SKILLS. I personally will NEVER marry a woman who always flies with me to eat at KFC or sweet sensation, any sane man wouldn't.
LASTLY; I think the problem of most ladies on this thread is Ego problem. There is no biggy in cooking for a fiance/boyfriend. Afterall the OP who opened this thread said she cooks once in a while. Also, those of you saying there is no boss in a relationship, that explains your egocentric nature. Because there is no associAtion on earth that doesn't have a head. Your fiance is your OGA as far as you're still together.

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Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Drdonzeez(m): 8:09pm On Oct 31, 2014
Lazy babes!!!...and you'll eat the food if he does the cooking
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by LORETA: 8:09pm On Oct 31, 2014
tell me the truth..one more last question.TAHARIX...then i will believe everything you say here......Are you in the university yet and what level are you..i didnt ask of your age ohhhh
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Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by UjSizzle(f): 8:12pm On Oct 31, 2014
Men wanting their women to be everything. Your list's growing longer by the day undecided

You think it's ok for your gf to cook for you and yet it's bad to give her money. Your argument is that you aren't her father, hence you owe her no responsibility. Is she then your mother? Why should she have to come to your house and cook just because you think it'll make her more marriageable?

Hmmm I'm just observing you people and your twisted standards.

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Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by solochris(m): 8:13pm On Oct 31, 2014
As for me as a guy, I don't like it. u can come, stay as long as u want, forget d kitchen, I will do d cooking myself. don't like it wen u assume responsibilities on ur own. wen d time comes u go Cook tire. no pester round my house joor all in d name of bf gf shit

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Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by LORETA: 8:14pm On Oct 31, 2014
AM SORRY.TAHARIX..you just too young to know anything about relationship..i expect you to read views and try and learn from different people view also..you havent even started school yet.
this was your october 2rd post seeking for admission..WHY ARE YOU lying you too pretty for that.am sorry

Requirements To Study Accounting. by TahariX(f): 1:41am On Oct 02
Hi guys!! I don't have access to a jamb brochure at the moment so I need some help. What WAEC credits do I need to study accounting and what UTME subjects do I need to take?

(WAEC results: English, Mathematics, Physics, Chemistry, Biology, Economics, Geography, and Agricultural Science.)

Thank you. smiley

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Re: Requirements To Study Accounting. by donroxy(m): 5:03am On Oct 02
By your WAEC result you are a physical/pure science student .... Requirements differ across university for waec and jamb respectively :

But I know for sure to gain admission into any department in social/management science, Accounting is a discipline under this faculty of knowledge :

you need credit in :

Mathematics, English, Economics, Government/Geography , Biology/Agriculture and probably Commerce .... (WAEC) !!

The best subject combination for Jamb in studying Accounting or related course are : Mathematics , English, Economics and Government !! .... Oh yes, I omitted Accounting cuz emphasis aint placed on it as a requirement to studying Accountancy !!

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Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Nobody: 8:15pm On Oct 31, 2014
nomabeeee:
I find this very interesting to discuss here..and I will go straight to the point..I don't think its advicible for a lady to always cook for the man she's dating anytime she's visits him.if you visit him 5 times,u can cook two times or once for him..its important that we ladies should know our place in our man's life..if you are his friend,you act like his friend..if you a re his girlfriend ,you act like one and if you a re his wife..you also act like one..A woman is meant to be explored..if am dating/courting you and during the course of that I cook all my delicasies for you,..what threat wil I give you when we get married?hmmm I can't find myself loitering around a man's kitchen when am not his wife..whats ur opinion ladies?men are also free to air their opinions too...reasonable comments please..thanks
You're spot on! The only time I may allow a lady cook for me is after I've paid the bride price/and have been engaged. It's not strange for a girlfriend not to cook for her boyfriend, except if she so desires.

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Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by LORETA: 8:15pm On Oct 31, 2014
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Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Dcmg(m): 8:16pm On Oct 31, 2014
Misogynist2014:
Is there anything wrong if I spend my on money a lady that I haven't paid her bride price ¿
I was waiting for the ladies to answer this question,but all of them seems to have gone blind.
Arguing with a woman is never worth it!Rubbish Thread.Just giving me more reason to despise women.
Like seriously,is it just Nigerian girls that are bringing up this characters?
Unfollows!
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by TahariX(f): 8:17pm On Oct 31, 2014
LORETA:
AM SORRY.TAHARIX..you just too young to know anything about relationship..i expect you to read views and try and learn from different people view also..you havent even started school yet.
this was your october 2rd post seeking for admission..WHY ARE YOU lying you too pretty for that.am sorry

Requirements To Study Accounting. by TahariX(f): 1:41am On Oct 02
Hi guys!! I don't have access to a jamb brochure at the moment so I need some help. What WAEC credits do I need to study accounting and what UTME subjects do I need to take?

(WAEC results: English, Mathematics, Physics, Chemistry, Biology, Economics, Geography, and Agricultural Science.)

Thank you. smiley

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Re: Requirements To Study Accounting. by donroxy(m): 5:03am On Oct 02
By your WAEC result you are a physical/pure science student .... Requirements differ across university for waec and jamb respectively :

But I know for sure to gain admission into any department in social/management science, Accounting is a discipline under this faculty of knowledge :

you need credit in :

Mathematics, English, Economics, Government/Geography , Biology/Agriculture and probably Commerce .... (WAEC) !!

The best subject combination for Jamb in studying Accounting or related course are : Mathematics , English, Economics and Government !! .... Oh yes, I omitted Accounting cuz emphasis aint placed on it as a requirement to studying Accountancy !!

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Are you dumb? Didn't you see the post where I asked for the requirements to TRANSFER to a Nigerian uni?
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by LORETA: 8:18pm On Oct 31, 2014
guys we shouldnt waste our time listening to most girls views here.most of them are just 16-19 years.....

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Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Nobody: 8:18pm On Oct 31, 2014
Gentiejag:


Choi...you remind me of a guy i once dated, dah guy was sweeeeeet, he would stay with me in d kitchen and taste every ridiculous thing i concoted. He would crack silly jokes and scare me whenever I asked him to taste anything , wipe my sweat and the sweetest part to me was whenever he said

"Baby, can I have more?"


I like good food and i don't know how to cook but I always sit on the freezer while my girlfriend cooks, i chat and play with her, hug her from behind and also stuff my mouth with pieces of meat while she's not looking. grin The essence is to make the cooking experience interesting for us both. Of all the girls I've dated, she's been the only girl i have given my extra keys for her outstanding character. Imagine coming home to a clean house and a home made dish. That's tier 1 wife material and i'll be a looser if i don't put a ring on that finger.

Who wants to get married to a girl he's not sure if she'll be capable of doing basic domestic chores? Maybe i should visit my girlfriend parent's house if i want to do my laundry too. Girls be talking as if they live in their own place meanwhile they still live in their parents.

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Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by opesweet(f): 8:18pm On Oct 31, 2014
Gentiejag:


I totally understand you aswear.....you go sweat finish and not even get any "sweet words" in return or even a water running in the bath ready for you when you are done or even a "chubby envelope"....

I get your drift sis but I console myself with the appetite and scraping of the food.....nothing like cooking, not getting any of the above and then he touches the food like ant wey dey perch....

Pple lyk dem dnt perch on food, na dem dey chop like person wey just comot frm desert pass. God help us wt ds dudes.
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by CyberEBOLA(m): 8:18pm On Oct 31, 2014
Sapphire86:


Yes! She is still a guest after all.
If i just slap you ehn, Ebola go sorry for you.
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by jemecks(m): 8:18pm On Oct 31, 2014
[quote author=TahariX post=27534353]I personally will not cook for anyone I'm not married to. I can cook for you if you're coming over to visit but going to someone's house and cooking for them is just a no-no. I'm not your wife bruh.[/quot. my dear if u dnt cook for Ur guy how's he gonna knw d taste of Ur food?as for me no testing no deal , I will taste every every to avoid someone duping me in d name of wife
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by UniqueGem(m): 8:18pm On Oct 31, 2014
TahariX:


Lmao!! The bible is full of trash. That same bible says that girls who are sexually abused/ assaulted should be sold to their abusers. Good luck with all that. grin
THE BIBLE IS FULL OF TRASH? Did you just type that? I pity the man who takes you in. Okay guys, thread closed because if trumpet sound now, nobody viewing this thread will be safe.

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Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by henryogb(m): 8:19pm On Oct 31, 2014
I don't usually comment on here, but this Is very funny. Most of y all gehs be forming I can't cook 4 my bf on here meanwhile u even go as far as pounding yam and fufu for your bfs.come on u act as if the guyz av nt see it all. 99percent of u even go as far as using ur own money to buy food stuff from d market.spare me!
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by LORETA: 8:20pm On Oct 31, 2014
we are saying the same thing..you are too young to know anything about serious relationship..so keep mute....about certain views you haven't been into and don't mislead some girls who are in marriageable age.i beg you
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by CyberEBOLA(m): 8:20pm On Oct 31, 2014
Deefuray:
I concur. I don't subscribe to playing the role of a wife when you're just a mere girlfriend
That slap wey u want, u no go see am in Devil name.
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by LORETA: 8:21pm On Oct 31, 2014
dont mind her she dosent have any life in her..may god save your soul.taharix
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by TahariX(f): 8:22pm On Oct 31, 2014
LORETA:
AM SORRY.TAHARIX..you just too young to know anything about relationship..i expect you to read views and try and learn from different people view also..you havent even started school yet.
this was your october 2rd post seeking for admission..WHY ARE YOU lying you too pretty for that.am sorry

Requirements To Study Accounting. by TahariX(f): 1:41am On Oct 02
Hi guys!! I don't have access to a jamb brochure at the moment so I need some help. What WAEC credits do I need to study accounting and what UTME subjects do I need to take?

(WAEC results: English, Mathematics, Physics, Chemistry, Biology, Economics, Geography, and Agricultural Science.)

Thank you. smiley

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Re: Requirements To Study Accounting. by donroxy(m): 5:03am On Oct 02
By your WAEC result you are a physical/pure science student .... Requirements differ across university for waec and jamb respectively :

But I know for sure to gain admission into any department in social/management science, Accounting is a discipline under this faculty of knowledge :

you need credit in :

Mathematics, English, Economics, Government/Geography , Biology/Agriculture and probably Commerce .... (WAEC) !!

The best subject combination for Jamb in studying Accounting or related course are : Mathematics , English, Economics and Government !! .... Oh yes, I omitted Accounting cuz emphasis aint placed on it as a requirement to studying Accountancy !!

Detective this is the reason I was asking those questions. This is how you idiots make yourselves look stupid because you don't bother to know the whole story before you talk. LMAOOO

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Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Topeedo: 8:23pm On Oct 31, 2014
Sincerely as a guy i enjoy cooking my meals...my girl friend is a good cook and she know i am a good cook too..wheneva she visits, i ask her to sit down while i do my cookin and dere is no big deal about that...dat does not not make me love her less and doesnt make me want someone else more...so its a competition when i go to her house, she does her best to cook me somethin special cos she doesnt wanna leave me disappoint and their is a birth of a healthy competition for who cooks beta. and what makes it more interestin is that she knows she cannot use food as some form of punishment for me afta marriage cos she knws i can cook good too...i love doing my cookin
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Jamie1360(m): 8:24pm On Oct 31, 2014
islamically it's bad
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Revolva(m): 8:24pm On Oct 31, 2014
See any cerious date that can't cook for me is just wastin her time....the surest way to get to a man's heart is to get to his stomach
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by drnoel: 8:26pm On Oct 31, 2014
nomabeeee:
I find this very interesting to discuss here..and I will go straight to the point..I don't think its advicible for a lady to always cook for the man she's dating anytime she's visits him.if you visit him 5 times,u can cook two times or once for him..its important that we ladies should know our place in our man's life..if you are his friend,you act like his friend..if you a re his girlfriend ,you act like one and if you a re his wife..you also act like one..A woman is meant to be explored..if am dating/courting you and during the course of that I cook all my delicasies for you,..what threat wil I give you when we get married?hmmm I can't find myself loitering around a man's kitchen when am not his wife..whats ur opinion ladies?men are also free to air their opinions too...reasonable comments please..thanks

What of a scenario were the man doesn't care whether u enter kitchen or not. U think most men care about that shit? I gave a lot of ladies heart ache in that direction. Anyway, now am happily married and by the way. I cook very well. I love experimenting with food which is one of the reasons my wife fell 4 me.

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Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by TahariX(f): 8:27pm On Oct 31, 2014
[quote author=jemecks post=27618684][/quote]

Did you miss the part where I said I can cook if he's coming over to visit?
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by UniqueGem(m): 8:27pm On Oct 31, 2014
Revolva:
See any cerious date that can't cook for me is just wastin her time....the surest way to get to a man's heart is to get to his stomach
We wey no dey chop nko?

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Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Nobody: 8:27pm On Oct 31, 2014
ok.... So u gals dont wanna act as wives by cooking but u want the boys to act as husbands by providing all your needs?? Classic....

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Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Fourwinds: 8:27pm On Oct 31, 2014
TahariX:


I hate that word. I hate that being with someone means I have to lose myself. Regardless of whether I'm dating or married, I'm still an individual with opinions and principles that may be different from my SO's. The idea of submissiveness means -to me- that I no longer get to be a person. I'm just supposed to be okay with whatever my SO says or does.

And I cannot picture myself living like that.
u dis girl watch what u say and ur attitude. being submissive does not mean u are a slave. I don't know if u are a christian. what did God say about husband and wife.? look I'm not dis church-church type of person but practicing God's word is a big priority for me. y will i be encourage to go to church den end up beating a wife., cheat. and what have u. u can not tell me u go to vigil., attend bible dicussions. go to service on Sunday and u don't know dat God himself. said a wife should submit to her husband and her husband should also treat her with respect
so. what is christianity all about.
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by CyberWolf: 8:28pm On Oct 31, 2014
All I see here is ego..what's so special in cooking for your BF ..As for me, if you like cook, if you like no cook, life goes on. If you no wan cook, I will pass you go cook am shekina..na you go tire angry angry

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