emiraty:


Chairman ,who be my aunty? How you just dey insult people up and down as ugly? I have seen more than one person that you have referred to as ugly.that's too harsh. We are all just exchanging opinons and having fun as well as easing off stress.
Mind you is not how. Young you marry but how well.the divorce rate now in nigeria is unbelievable.its not the matter of whether she cooked when they were dating , or is good in bed, or presently a good cook as a wife. There's more to it
So even if a lady is aingle at the age of 40 doesn't matter as long as she carries her self well and ends up marrying the right man. Marriage is from God and all of us are beautiful.God did not create a single ugly thing or person as he is beautiful himself.
Think positively

God bless you. Dnt mind my nastiness. I'm really sorry

I swear with my life i don't know how to prepare indomie
All my life i do only enter the kitchen for just one reason and that is when my mum says "bobo go and take your food"
Now my girlfriend will now tell me shez not gonna cook whenever she comes visiting.... she go Chop snacks die

TahariX:


Looooooool

don't mind him

bomkizle:
I swear with my life i don't know how to prepare indomie
All my life i do only enter the kitchen for just one reason and that is when my mum says "bobo go and take your food"
Now my girlfriend will now tell me shez not gonna cook whenever she comes visiting.... she go Chop snacks die

LMAO!! Ajebutter!!

Donpuffy:


God bless you. Dnt mind my nastiness. I'm really sorry

God bless you too,bro.you exhibited a high sense of maturity and strenght.

Donpuffy:


Choi

This girl don really suffer 4 her stupidity. I dey feel 4 her Sha. I think say na only me see her ugly chestbone

Very Ugly! I go circumcise my prick for the second time if e ever attempt to stand for this kain girl unclothedness. .

nomabeeee:
I find this very interesting to discuss here..and I will go straight to the point..I don't think its advicible for a lady to always cook for the man she's dating anytime she's visits him.if you visit him 5 times,u can cook two times or once for him..its important that we ladies should know our place in our man's life..if you are his friend,you act like his friend..if you a re his girlfriend ,you act like one and if you a re his wife..you also act like one..A woman is meant to be explored..if am dating/courting you and during the course of that I cook all my delicasies for you,..what threat wil I give you when we get married?hmmm I can't find myself loitering around a man's kitchen when am not his wife..whats ur opinion ladies?men are also free to air their opinions too...reasonable comments please..thanks

I hope u mean treat not threat. Cos nowadays boys no dey smile o! If u ladies wanna threaten us with hunger then Devil is a liar! Thank God say Indomie don dey 10mins highest food don set. For d extremely lazy bread and sardines especially Titus still dey

miztola:

don't mind him

This entire thread is too hilarious

TahariX:


My parents/ family are the only ones who spend money on me.



they are spending money on you but cannot push you through university and you are here ranting your American teenage brain (if you are even saying the truth,i suspect a new yahoo format)..when you suppose to seek for advice on how to go through life been on your own.

patwilly:

Very Ugly! I go circumcise my prick for the second time if e ever attempt to stand for this kain girl unclothedness. .

Lmao

E don do na... U want make she commit suicide??

whatever.... and besides who cares! I do not need the services of a lady in my kitchen.

patwilly:

Very Ugly! I go circumcise my prick for the second time if e ever attempt to stand for this kain girl unclothedness. .

Funny how you're both faceless tho. Mr Universe and his runner up.

TahariX:
I personally will not cook for anyone I'm not married to. I can cook for you if you're coming over to visit but going to someone's house and cooking for them is just a no-no. I'm not your wife bruh.

Eeya, & God knws we ain't compatible. Cos u must cook anytime u visit me. Aw amma gon knw u can cook if u don't??

TahariX:


Wtf? ROTFL

If ever I were born a girl and I was as fugly as you, I'll hang myself on my 18th birthday.

Sirnuel:


Lmao

E don do na... U want make she commit suicide??

Suicide?! Because two faceless he goats called me ugly?! Haba!!!!!!!

DailyNews:
Thanks for this great comment! One thing that’s making nairaland look unserious is how people lie and deceive others here just to gain some minute of e-popularity and likes. All the girls I know that are in relationships; including those from first class family backgrounds who even schooled abroad do cook for their boyfriends, of which I typing this have ate a lot of such great meals

But its so so disappointing how people, especially ladies would come on nairaland always to form Queen of Sheba, gosh! Nairaland is really becoming something else.

The other time, every nairaland female was claiming she dumped her boyfriend. I have never come across a nairaland female who is honest enough to tell the truth of how her boyfriend left her for a better chick …instead, they always claim that they dumped their bfs when we all know that in Nigeria, guys always do 95% of the dumping and break up . The only time ladies have absolute control of a relationship is during ACCEPTANCE of a guy they want to date, after wooing and acceptance, men control the relationship, except for very few cases. If una like, make una attack me or lie as usual, but we all know the real life truth, capish


Like you said my brother, I pity the gullible-minded young girls that would take this broad-day lie from some wannabe-feminists

Lmao @ wannabe-feminists. Some of these girls are really pathetic. All of a sudden, cooking for ur boyfriend has become an abominable act.
Let's see how long they'd continue deceiving themselves.

patwilly:

If ever I were born a girl and I was as fugly as you, I'll hang myself on my 18th birthday.

Please do the world a favor and hang yourself right now.

Sirnuel:


Lmao

E don do na... U want make she commit suicide??

make she commit am. d girl mumu ehn!!

IPADEOLAOLADELE:
Eeya, & God knws we ain't compatible. Cos u must cook anytime u visit me. Aw amma gon knw u can cook if u don't??

How did all of you manage to miss the part where I said I'd cook only if he's coming over to my place? Selective reading?

what kind of sily question is this? I Mean if she doesnt, who should she cook for? Tell me.

Interesting topic. Methinks it depends on d lady. I never cooked for my bfs, I never saw d need to visit him n start cooking....for what naa...that isn't in d T&Cs of our relationship. When we are hungry we go out to eat or just nibble on snacks around his house. When he visits me, same thing. It used to amuse me when I see my friends cooking, cleaning n doing laundry for a bf! And then after some months, d affair is all over, so what was d essence of all that labour of "love"? It's more rewarding cooking for my husband n kids.....taking good care of my family, not slaving for a "waka come waka go"

smh for what we called wives of tomorrow.

Pamcrest:
Interesting topic. Methinks it depends on d lady. I never cooked for my bfs, I never saw d need to visit him n start cooking....for what naa...that isn't in d T&Cs of our relationship. When we are hungry we go out to eat or just nibble on snacks around his house. When he visits me, same thing. It used to amuse me when I see my friends cooking, cleaning n doing laundry for a bf! And then after some months, d affair is all over, so what was d essence of all that labour of "love"? It's more rewarding cooking for my husband n kids.....taking good care of my family, not slaving for a "waka come waka go"

As it should be.

Olaone1:

No, lady.
But, at times, I just don't understand our hypocrisy. I really don't! Is it because we are Nigerians and that we are naturally wired like that? You can't cook for him because he's not your husband yet but you can fu/ck him? The height of hypocrisy, don't you reckon?

Uncle,I didn't say so,what I said that drew me into this talk was,in quote,"ladies for the love of God,stop giving bfs husband privileges"
Husband privileges in this context may include cooking,washing,sexx,having babies and what have you(there are some unmarried young men and women who do this)
I don't see cooking for my man a big deal,I can cook at intervals for him but he shouldn't take it as a right cos after all,we are neither married and I'm still a guest with him.
I never said "don't cook but have sexx.

TahariX:


Lol. Re-read my original post. I said I'm open to cooking when he comes over to my place but I won't cook at his place.

when He comes over to your place? there is nothing wow about that, i mean i do that for even my enemies. my mum made it compulsory that i cook for my fwends(thats if there is no food) when they come over as far back as my ss1 and i just grew up with the habbit. i dont even get it, what is so hard in cooking for someone you are courting (mind you this is like quarter to marriage), like seriously what would then be the gains of your visit ? ... well wether you cook for him or not, i can assure you that someone else will be more than eager to .

what you need to realise is that ego and pride leads no one nowhere in a relationship, first and foremost your husbby to be most likely wouldnt be your mate by age or even status yet he would still need to customarily knee and ask you to marry him.

TahariX:


Please do the world a favor and hang yourself right now.

I would have, only I'm not as fugly as you. I sense u ask yourself questions about how you were born this uggly and as such you're unhappy with your parents. Too bad you want to transfer that hate/aggression to we innocent gentlemen and as such corrupt the minds of a few sensible ones who should make us good wives in future. I'll see to it you dont succeed in this direction as it affects my future directly. I'm onto you on this thread! bite me!

patwilly:

I would have, only I'm not as fugly as you. I sense u ask yourself questions about how you were born this uggly and as such you're unhappy with your parents. Too bad you want to transfer that hate/aggression to we innocent gentlemen and as such corrupt the minds of a few sensible ones who should make us good wives in future. I'll see to it you dont succeed in this direction as it affects my future directly. I'm onto you on this thread! bite me!

LMAOO Goodnight

You can cook for anyone and that includes the person you are dating.
thats part of love
and it is very normal

zoe123:
my experience: met this guy in my 1st year in sch.loved him like mad.wen am in his house which was like always, I will cook, clean do laundry n of course fvck am, 3yrs down d line I discovered his screwing my Bestie n she's pregnant. everyone told me to leave it to God everything has a reason.1.5yrs later bros died in a car crash, my friend is now a young widow.but I learnt a lesson a man won't marry u cos ur doing all those stuff for him.if he no love u he no love u.my policy now, if u dey my house I go give u food if I dey ur house u can either cook or we eat out.

This is ur own side of the story! Quite saddening!

Waiting to hear from the deceased...!

TahariX:


This entire thread is too hilarious

As in!! Its killing me

ok i get this, you are right though so long as you also realise he shouldn't be responsible for your bills, afterall he is not your father

miztola:

Uncle,I didn't say so,what I said that drew me into this talk was,in quote,"ladies for the love of God,stop giving bfs husband privileges"
Husband privileges in this context may include cooking,washing,sexx,having babies and what have you(there are some unmarried young men and women who do this)
I don't see cooking for my man a big deal,I can cook at intervals for him but he shouldn't take it as a right cos after all,we are neither married and I'm still a guest with him.
I never said "don't cook but have sexx.