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Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by tranxo(m): 7:11pm On Nov 15, 2014
Guys, first of all have it embossed in your brains that not all chases end with kills. So, keep the chase alive for about 3 weeks, MAKING SURE she knows you are on her case, then slam her with the silent treatment. If she is interested, she will find a way to revive conversation btw you two. Be patient, it may take her 2 months to turn around (yes some girls can be that confused and stubborn).

Use the gap to initiate another chase elsewhere.
Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by oloworulz(m): 7:13pm On Nov 15, 2014
Seriously, are guys still running and begging ladies to date them? In dis 21st century? Mtchewwww..... Toast her , but if she is trying to play hard to get, just discard her, just look ur left u will see another babe passing

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Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by Joel3(m): 7:14pm On Nov 15, 2014
chase? Um... Well i dont chase. I only ask for number or a date. I am too economical with time. I don't have that time after the first speech with a reply no. Ends it..

By the way. Have the money and women chase you. Period

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Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by Nobody: 7:15pm On Nov 15, 2014
Rapsodee:
Buh u kinda wicked o!
why u no gree for dem nah,they ugly?
Wicked? how??
Not really, i think they r up to every girls dream; tall, dark &well to do. I have my reasons tho
Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by Ruvon(f): 7:18pm On Nov 15, 2014
Chasing a girl wt tym dpnds on guys choice.his taste and preference is wat wil determine ow far or ow long he wld like to chase dt girl.
And as for girls who feels stressing a guy for a longer period of tym wil make dm xpnsive and worth d pursue,dey probably av to av a re-think.drs no harm reciprocating same feelings a guy has for her instantaniously if she ikes him too.only girls with a priitive level of xposure does dt.
Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by poiZon: 7:19pm On Nov 15, 2014
Rapsodee:
Want to know your opinions concerning it,some girls like playing hard to get,some also do pretend as if they don't like a guy which the reason for these I don't understand but for how long should a reasonable guy keep chasing her before finally letting her go







r u chasing her just to have fun wif her thereafter she adds to ur X-list or u chasing her so u can marry her at the end? if the later u dont have time frame but if nanthe former after 2weeks if u no fit enter the place then na to abort mission.
Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by a9nyc2020(m): 7:19pm On Nov 15, 2014
Seriously I don't know y girls form a lot ...even when a lady is crushn' on a guy she still keeps pretendn' as if shez felln' ntin undecided...well tnk God here in #CHINA girls don form 2 much cool
Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by obomobo: 7:21pm On Nov 15, 2014
wetin she thief wey u dey chase her grin
Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by elected(m): 7:22pm On Nov 15, 2014
Good thread, I have learnt alot.
Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by oloworulz(m): 7:23pm On Nov 15, 2014
tranxo:
Guys, first of all have it embossed in your brains that not all chases end with kills. So, keep the chase alive for about 3 weeks, MAKING SURE she knows you are on her case, then slam her with the silent treatment. If she is interested, she will find a way to revive conversation btw you two. Be patient, it may take her 2 months to turn around (yes some girls can be that confused and stubborn).

Use the gap to initiate another chase elsewhere.
Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by cooltobex(m): 7:31pm On Nov 15, 2014
kika23:

The guy is just sick... Plain silly...
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If you keep responding to him, he'll keep feeling important. So totally ignore him.
Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by Nobody: 7:33pm On Nov 15, 2014
Teespice:


till the girl agrees.

could be a month, a year or ten years as the case may be.
cheesy

grin grin

You nah comedian o.
Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by jericco1(m): 7:34pm On Nov 15, 2014
Rhozabeth:
If u like a girl, just keep going u will see the signs if she will say yes! I once chased a girl for three years b4 she eventually said yes: the girl evetually became my wife!


hmm she's lucky and probably unique.
Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by nairaman66(m): 7:34pm On Nov 15, 2014
andromida:


Patience is a virtue. kiss

So you want me to wait for 2 years for that 20 mins thing? undecided

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Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by Wisegeek01(m): 7:35pm On Nov 15, 2014
Ohh!! Thank you to whoever opened this thread*

So I'm gona make dis pretty fast and get on with d rest of the evening. ..

"From research It takes a lady 60secs to decide if she likes a guy or not
and it takes a guy forever(if he ignores signs or assumes) to decode if a girl likes him. .. that's why the chase continues,

A guy should always look out for signs and not go on chasing a girl blindly just becos somewhere in his subconcious he has succeded in convincing himself that he's in love,
While the lady might not see u as bf material "now that's pathetic".

But basically before u start chasing any girl u got to keep ur game tight,
It's not a one way thing, it's two way,
At least the girl you chasing ought to know u "exist" or at least find something equally attractive about u, like qualities.

If not just stop right there bro, find someone else and move on with ur life*

If u play ur cards right I bet u should figure out if ur getting positive result or not "witihn a week"

Dudes!!
don't let a ladies toy with your mind, some of them have pretty much mastered the art of manipulation.

And don't end up in d friendzone*

Like I said look out for signs, so if eventually the lady agrees to date u, it's not out of pity. .. *sips Alomo*

Now for those who think 5 to 10yrs is cool to keep chasing a girl, keep it up, the Lord is your strenght . .. Lol

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Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by kika23(f): 7:40pm On Nov 15, 2014
cooltobex:

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If you keep responding to him, he'll keep feeling important. So totally ignore him.

Done!!! smiley...
Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by Nobody: 7:42pm On Nov 15, 2014
i once chased a girl for two years thinking she would say yes. Now,i would neva chase a lady for more than a month or max two (depending). Guys take it from someone with a lot of experience. No matter how fine or pleasing the girl is,it's just not worth it.

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Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by Nobody: 7:42pm On Nov 15, 2014
chamboy:
If a girls likes u, it doesn't take long abeg.... if not just free d foool any girl u get for long period doesn't like u, she's just using u as a last option... if she see what's she likes she would leave ur asss
Thank you. Only broke niggaz and guys of low self esteem chase girls for years. If she eventually agrees then you're either her last resort or plan B. Real niggaz chase money while broke niggaz chase ladies. If I ask a lady out and she says NO, I'll give her a break and prolly try again may be days or weeks after (perhaps she just experienced a heart-break). If the result remains the same, I'll just thank her for her time, then I walk away without saying anything nasty.

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Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by Nobody: 7:43pm On Nov 15, 2014
Only jobless , irresponsble , broke guys chase after babes ... you like her , talk to her , hang out , hold a convo/ chat .... if she is your type , I mean my type is if she got brains you will know from the chats ... after you can give her some trips.... I mean shpping , seeing movies and all of that . if the chemistry is there she will be yours in no time if it isnt let her go . you dont have to lick her ass because you want her as ur babe .... thats a begger mentality.

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Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by toprealman: 7:49pm On Nov 15, 2014
MrCork:

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....8 years ...maximum....if she light skin wink
....2 minute if she dak skin! (noo offense)
angry
YOUR TYPE CAN'T WOO A GIRL.
Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by Dcmg(m): 7:50pm On Nov 15, 2014
Una just dey give girls unnecessary confidence.Why should you chase a girl?
Get a life and girls will chase you.
Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by fighalo(m): 7:53pm On Nov 15, 2014
keep waiting till u get sense.. dat girl dat is givin u hard time to get dae beg anoda guy 4 date.. Naija girls ehnn

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Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by danashlaw(m): 7:54pm On Nov 15, 2014
One is that guys chase girls just to have fun with them which is wrong and bad,why not go to a sharp bend n meet the ashewo to fun with instead of you deceiving them and lure to bed n then send them away that you don't really love. This guys are the one it difficult for girls to accept a guy n what they do say is that why I blif you guys are all dsame. In the case of how long shuld a guy chase girl in my own opinion I will say it shuld be 2month to 3month n if she still play hard leave her n she loves you but maybe she want to see how u really love her, she will be d one that will call you n she will also feel that maybe attitude towards make u get tired of in other not to lose you she will call

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Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by ojsmscom(m): 7:56pm On Nov 15, 2014
impatience will kill person nii
Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by misshoree(f): 7:56pm On Nov 15, 2014
If its true love, yu can chase her till eternity tongue
Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by Davivah: 8:00pm On Nov 15, 2014
virginboy1:
Broke guys desperately chase ladies,
when you chase and catch up with money, the said ladies will start chasing you.cheesy

*wow* the moment and feelings of frontage, see different bobo and sisi staring at my moniker.
Op thank you for creating this topic,mod thank you for pushing it to frontpage.
My fellow nairalanders, thank you all for finding this post sensible.
Keep the likes coming.
I love you all.cheesy


Pls what's with guys n money; I see reasons y some rich dudes usually file for divorce after marriage cos they marry women who see riches n not wives who would have considered some traits to accept proposal n not money.
Y can't u endure n give her sometimes; what u work hard for is what u value and that's what stays with u for long
Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by felix281(m): 8:00pm On Nov 15, 2014
andromida:
You know what they say if you want something badly enough..............
and what will happen? Chase her for life i presume?...make unna go sit down abeg..
Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by lacreamieboie(m): 8:03pm On Nov 15, 2014
dhrey:
it all depends on what interest you find in her.mine took me 5years.
I dey craze
Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by Teespice(f): 8:05pm On Nov 15, 2014
blizard44:

cheesy

grin grin

You nah comedian o.

you saw the humour in my post.

how nice.
Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by Davivah: 8:06pm On Nov 15, 2014
femmy2010:
It all boils down to how unique the Lady is.

Yeah
Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by fighalo(m): 8:08pm On Nov 15, 2014
Davivah:



Pls what's with guys n money; I see reasons y some rich dudes usually file for divorce after marriage cos they marry women who see riches n not wives who would have considered some traits to accept proposal n not money.
Y can't u endure n give her sometimes; what u work hard for is what u value and that's what stays with u for long
tell me u dnt want ur guy to be rich. tell me if a guy in a range rover and another guy walking with school bag on his back calls you, who will u give your time. be frank pls

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Re: For How Long Should A Guy Chase A Girl by olasman0(m): 8:12pm On Nov 15, 2014
Probably 5mins...am i right?
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Shouldn't be more than that range

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