That will enable him to have much trust in you. Shikena

GlorifiedTunde:


That's usually the reason. Nothing more to talk about

wow... You have moments when there's nothing to talk about with your girl?

Every sensible guy knows his girl will have admirers. You need not tell him the obvious, he knows already. Me, I ask my girl "how many people toasted you this week". It is almost a normal thing for me but doesn't mean I want her to tell me ABC. Just a normal occurence that I can't help.

@topic, it depends... Some are inconsequential, some are not. Some are persistent, some are not. I doubt many girls would, unless the guy is a big no, since they usually try to keep their options open.

At times, silence can be as counterproductive as speaking, but different strokes for different folks sha. Not everyone can handle info right.

He already knows guys hit on me so why do I need to tell him again? I can only think of telling him if it's someone he knows.

Rival:
Every relationship that has the prospect of blossoming into something tangible strives to have its foundation built on trust, love and understanding!

In this regard, would you, as a guy, want your lady to tell you about the guys hitting on her on daily bases so as to gain your trust?
Would you trust her more if she does this?

As a girl/lady do you tell your boyfriend about the guys that hit on you?

It depends, if this girl is cool, i would trust her more but if she's not then it's gonna be a total different game.

So OP, when you put your attention on the object of your intention, it'll orchestrate an infinite number of events to materialize your desires

Oahray:
wow... You have moments when there's nothing to talk about with your girl?

Trust me. Especially on the phone. It happens o.

Sometimes I'm maxed out, u can never win them o.

naijaboiy:
I think it's important a lady let's her guy know about other guys hitting on her.

Although it may spring up a little jealousy,,but it's important.

It's important to be free with each other in a relationship.

It's also very important for her to tell u what size of cucumber they got....(¬_¬) perhaps u wud hear there own is by far big n taller than urs (^～^) Ichoo ka ighotasia ukpaka ife omiri, isi na enu ya dawaa ukwu...get Google translate if u don't gerit （⌒▽⌒）

Oahray:
wow... You have moments when there's nothing to talk about with your girl?

It happens. Especially with long distance couples who already talk a lot, all the time.

GlorifiedTunde:


Trust me. Especially on the phone. It happens o.

Sometimes I'm maxed out, u can never win them o.

hmmm... And here I usually have backlog of gist, and we talk all the time. Maybe it's me that's just talkative sha.

Rival:


Interesting, but don't you think that by telling him you could strengthen his feelings of love for you and make him believe that you love him and chose him above everyone else, especially if you show that in actions also? Don't you think it would strengthen the bond of trust! Or perhaps telling him has nothing to add to building trust?

Hehehehe...
Wait up! By "hitting" you mean "banging" ?

Seriously! What's love and trust got to do with a girl to telling her guy how many guys she's been banging ...
For instance..

Girl: sweethrt, I have been hitting tony..femi...buega...uche...

Guy: ok dear, thanks for telling me, I believe you love me and for this, I'll trust you with all my life.

Girl: thanks for your understanding!

Guy: you're welcome #smiling foolishly!


Hehehehehe... More like Nollywood shit!

That's one probs i have with my ex. That a guy or guys are hitting on you what do you want me to do? Should i go and confront them? Or i should give you what reply you'll give them?... Who doesn't like to date a good and beautiful girl? Mehn, telling me every now and then about other guys hitting on you piss me off, reply them and make them know you're taking and do that without me suspecting or even knowing. I see it as bullshit

MissMeiya:


It happens. Especially with long distance couples who already talk a lot, all the time.

well true. No much shared moments/experiences so not much to talk about. I still find it odd though, cos I believe before dating, we must have reached the stage where we can talk about anything at all.

Classicalmusic:
It depends, if this girl is cool, i would trust her more but if she's not then it's gonna be a total different game.

So OP, when you put your attention on the object of your intention, it'll orchestrate an infinite number of events to materialize your desires

Exactly, I have no objection to listening to such from the lady I love and who loves me in return! It'd strengthen the bond...in my opinion!

Oahray:
well true. No much shared moments/experiences so not much to talk about. I still find it odd though, cos I believe before dating, we must have reached the stage where we can talk about anything at all.

That's not the reason. We've talked about everything there is to talk about. We know virtually everything about each other. We used to talk twice a day, every single day for an entire year, for at least 2 hours each call. At least.

foxxynik:



Hehehehe...
Wait up! By "hitting" you mean "banging" ?

Seriously! What's love and trust got to do with a girl to telling her guy how many guys she's been banging ...
For instance..

Girl: sweethrt, I have been hitting tony..femi...buega...uche...

Guy: ok dear, thanks for telling me, I really believe you love me and for this, I'll trust you will all my life.

Girl: thanks for your understanding!

Guy: you're welcome #smiling foolishly!


Hehehehehe... More like Nollywood shit!

Lol. Guy don't get it twisted, love is a beautiful thing with the right lady in it with you!

"Hitting" is used in the sense of trying to get someone laid, not the act itself!

Hell NO.
Long ago I told an ex about how some guys in my office jostle for my attention, buy me lunch, etc....silly me even showed him d gift one guy gave me. OMW!....my ex expressions turned red, blue, black, green....d kind of tongue lashing I received that day..hmmmm. From thence forth, he began watching me, stalking me, that is no more trust. When I could no longer stomach his jealousy, I ran for dear life. My girlfriends blamed me for my stupidity n naivety oh. So never again abeg
My humble submission

Medunah:
NO!!!! Are guys even worth it??

jus because ur bf or ur Ex do nt worth it dosent make other guys not worth it. TALK FOR YOUR SELF

I don't see anything wrong in it.

It all boils down to how often she tells him as 'Too much of everything is bad'.

Some guys who care, jokingly ask and that's usually the best time to let it all out.

I did it and I am regretting it.The guy tot I was cheating on him

MissMeiya:


That's not the reason. We've talked about everything there is to talk about. We know virtually everything about each other. We used to talk twice a day, every single day for an entire year, for at least 2 hours each call. At least.

my point exactly... If you find new ways to spend time together (not just long distance calls), there would always be new things to talk about. You cannot know virtually everything about anyone anyway, not even couples married for several years.

I think it's just a gradual loss of spark. It usually comes with getting used to an unchanging pattern. Spice up your moments together and see the difference.

Evina:


Awwww *in Kim Kardashian's voice* theeenk you. Lol

Kim Kardshain Ke?.:/ dnt tel me u are a NAKEDITE

Pamcrest:
Hell NO.
Long ago I told an ex about how some guys in my office jostle for my attention, buy me lunch, etc....silly me even showed him d gift one guy gave me. OMW!....my ex expressions turned red, blue, black, green....d kind of tongue lashing I received that day..hmmmm. From thence forth, he began watching me, stalking me, that is no more trust. When I could no longer stomach his jealousy, I ran for dear life. My girlfriends blamed me for my stupidity n naivety oh. So never again abeg
My humble submission

Why won't your guy be angry when you were trying to make him jealous!

Rival:


Why won't your guy be angry when you were trying to make him jealous!

Honestly my intention was not to make him jealous. I just thought our relationship had gotten to that stage where we could be open with each other abt everything happening in our individual lives. Boy, was I wrong!
My humble submission

Oahray:
my point exactly... If you find new ways to spend time together (not just long distance calls), there would always be new things to talk about. You cannot know virtually everything about anyone anyway, not even couples married for several years.

I think it's just a gradual loss of spark. It usually comes with getting used to an unchanging pattern. Spice up your moments together and see the difference.

What do you suggest? In terms of finding new ways to spend time together

I told my date wen it happened twice n promised it will never happen

I dont.
I feel it aint neccessary,he shud know any way any how some guys wud be hitting on her bae,right?

MissMeiya:


It happens. Especially with long distance couples who already talk a lot, all the time.

Am a Victim of Long Distance relationship.


buh We hardly go out of Talk sha.

Pamcrest:


Honestly my intention was not to make him jealous. I just thought our relationship had gotten to that stage where we could be open with each other abt everything happening in our individual lives. Boy, was I wrong!
My humble submission

lol. This girl funny sha. A guy is hitting on you, he gives you a gift, you accept, you SHOW your bf the gift YOU ACCEPTED, and expect a kiss?

Chai!

Unrelated:

Once I was at a gas station with my father and he witnessed a guy hitting on me as I was filling the tank. Chai, his face was like thunder. The last time I was that unfortunate, he was picking me up from somewhere and a guy catcalled at me as I crossed the street. My dad warned me never to wear that shirt again lol. (Come to think of it, my bf once scolded me because he thought my dress was too short hehe)

Anyway, I told my mom about it, and she went "ENH! A man was HITTING you??"
Me: "No, mom, 'hitting on', not hitting."
Mom: "On, at--he was hitting you?"
Me: "Mooooom, it means flirting!"

My mom never knows slang, and it makes for funny and adorable situations.

^^ lol

MissMeiya:


What do you suggest? In terms of finding new ways to spend time together

long distance?

My point z all guys r nt d a same,,one man's food z anoda's poison I can decide to tell my bf n he wud laff ova it n trust me while my frnd might tell hers n d guy will press control P...to gals knw d type of guy ur bf is b4 telln him tinz lyk dat coz it wud definatly go a long way in keepn ur relationship