Virginity is overrated pls, keep your virginity till eternity doesn't make you a good wife or good husband and it can never guarantee you a good spouse, life is a choice we choose to live which ever it pleases each and every one of us but nigerians need to stop this keeping virginity till eternity mentality or keeping it for who ever its right in their eyes , many regret doing so! I knew a gurl who always say I'm not the right person for her back then cus I'm dough broke and too skinny, mean while she end up giving it to one yahoo boy with flashing cash and 130k toyota back then , she taught all that can make their future so bright ? So tell me where is she today ? Today she's homeless with kid and the guy never serious from here to there ...


*pls don't let virginity make you over rate urself!

Nop its a choice

justmag:
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virginity for girl is more likely to be a choice, for a guy it's more likely to be lack of opportunity. However! I do have a guy friend who is about 32 and has never been with a woman. This is a choice! He is not ugly at all and many girls have tried and failed!

I do not totally agree with you. It depends on the calibre of girls. I was still a male virgin at 25 till I met a girl who got me so crazy in love.

It's relative.
But for the majority like 98%, it's not lack opportunity. Irrespective of d gender.

its all about choices

maylisa:
Capital NO. Regretted ever loosing mine

nd you are still fucking the guy. regretted indeed

YES IT IS !!!

99% yes

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prodiG:
and become secondary virgin abi?

yea. Or do u want to continue having sex?

Its a choice cos when the opportunity comes, you will have to choose.

yaskarahyelhope:
Neveeeeeeer! Its not true. Its an act of abstinence, keeping ya dignity, obeying d Bible and morality. Above all it is a sign of SANITY coz take it or leave it, d moment U engage yaself in sex outside marriage, U will forever keep needing it, having d urge dat needs satisfaction and may end up in sexual insanity.

Virginity is never a lack of opportunity coz if U know wat they went thru to still remain virgins, U will shake ya head. If U are still a virgin, either male of female, pls keep it. And if Uve been disvirgined, one way or d other, U can stop now and wait till wen U are married. Premarital sex (fornication), extramarital affairs (adultery) and any other kind of sexual practice out marriage are all sin.

Repent ye before its toooooooooo late. God's blessings to Y'all!!!

my sister I'm convinced enough to deduce that you are not a virgin

fortunejum:

Please make una pray for me. My own is too much. I no even get strength again. I can't stay for a single week without sex.

ur case is very serious o. U nid to see a pastor or get married.

in a guy yes but in a girl maybe

To every coin, there are two sides... I know, and I'm very sure of the fact that the virginity of many is by CHOICE. To maintain this, they have employed every strategy of resistance to ward off feminine enticements, no matter how alluring these may be.
However, for some, it's been the other way: While strolling on campus, one night some years back (100 Level days), I and my friend spotted this lady. We knew her very well, since we took some courses together. She was this sorta prudish, SU(ish) girl, who seemed not fully developed before gaining admission. She was so over this guy, chasing him all around, cuddling him at every turn and laughing weirdly at every statement he made. It was quite unpalatable to the objective eye...
On further inquiries, we discovered that she was one of those who, until admission, were required indoors after school hours, rarely went out alone, and rarely went out at all, aside to the church and market. The sudden freedom was thus kinda over-awing and she was probably misusing it.

folabayo1:
Well I don't think being a virgin is lack of opportunity its all about choice..Am still a virgin my self and I appreciate and value so much.

wow! Its very difficult to believe dat a pretty girl like u z still a virgin..if dats d case thumbs up 4 u

folabayo1:
Well I don't think being a virgin is lack of opportunity its all about choice..Am still a virgin my self and I appreciate and value so much.

wow! Its very difficult to believe dat a pretty girl like u z still a virgin..if dats d case thumbs up 4 u

SeverusSnape:

Yes, I am.

that is good. Just continue.

lack of blood

justmag:
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virginity for girl is more likely to be a choice, for a guy it's more likely to be lack of opportunity. However! I do have a guy friend who is about 32 and has never been with a woman. This is a choice! He is not ugly at all and many girls have tried and failed!

Bros 4get dat ur guy... Dat Im own no b ordinary eyes.... Sum1 sumwhere dey use Im pinshure blow body

Reading comments...

patrotic9gerian:


Ever since I came to full consciousness of myself I never had sex till today (about 15 years now)... I didn't have sex not because of lack of opportunity but I refused having sex because I don't know how God would feel about me afterwards. This is the reason while until date I have not had sex and even ladies having crush on me think I am weak...

ok. That's nice.

chimerase2:
yes is very true, u will see a virgin gal immediately she enters university she looses it, i hv seen and witness many gals like dis. So is a pure truth

its not for all girls bro.

boujaye:



@OP, go do other research that will improve our economy

how many have done so far?

justmag:
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virginity for girl is more likely to be a choice, for a guy it's more likely to be lack of opportunity. However! I do have a guy friend who is about 32 and has never been with a woman. This is a choice! He is not ugly at all and many girls have tried and failed!

Maybe he's gay. No offence.

venivedivici:


Maybe he's gay. No offence.

No offense taken! I also thought the same thing too. But if you knew he..you wont think so! It's just his upbringing and beliefs

To me it's not. it's clearly a matter of one's decision and conviction.

justmag:
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virginity for girl is more likely to be a choice, for a guy it's more likely to be lack of opportunity. However! I do have a guy friend who is about 32 and has never been with a woman. This is a choice! He is not ugly at all and many girls have tried and failed!

when there are brothels to get cheap prostit.utes.

Virginity is never lack of opportunities... it is by choice.

Classicalmusic:
I do not totally agree with you. It means on the calibre of girls. I was still a male at 25 till I met a girl who got me so crazy in love.

Are you a female now?

justmag:


No offense taken! I also thought the same thing too. But if you knew he..you wont think so! It's just his upbringing and beliefs

Hmmm. Seems like he doesn't wanna get married or something.

To me, and to many other people too, virginity is a choice and not a lack of opportunity. I had many opportunities for s.ex, but I chose to wait till marriage. Looking back now, that's one of the best decisions of my life.

Biblical principles show that se'x supposed to be in marriage alone. But people have been doing it before marriage. It doesn't make it right anyway, but it makes it a sin against God.
#up team no se'x b4 marriage.