Dear Nairalanders, whats the worst thing youve ever done in a relationship?

Ive done sooo many things I dont know were to start. but let me get the ball rolling.
i remember posting this in the public letter to your ex page. I once cheated on my bf with his close friend who was in the same hostel. in fact their rooms wereright beside each other!

Another story i know. one time me and my friend were at a party she met this guy who she wanted to take home. She called her boyfriend and found out he was at her house. she told him i will be coming to spend the night and if the house was tidy. she later told me when she got home he had laid the bed and washed the plates before he left. hahahahaha!
so what is the worst thing you have ever done in a relationship to your spouse, their family member or someone you maybe just went out a couple of times with.

Kills abeg rest e. he was a bastard who deserved worse. but that's for another thread. ok maybe the haha was a bit harsh lol but that girl was just a frnd frm wrk whos so called bf i never met so i was able to appreciate the humor in the story. and before you start bashing this thread, it has great potential to give great laughs im sure even u will have some funny stories too so relax!

@op,cant think of any!!

me and my ex quarried back in uni and i told her to compensate me by askin her fine friend to yansh me! And she did!

Lol. I can vividly remember mine. It was some years back i had this girlfrnd and we loved each other very much but her's was far much greater than mine. But it got to the extent i lost interest. Not that i've found another gurl but because i didn't feel lyk risking my life, time & psychological activities on a woman. So i started keeping her at arms length but she wouldn't give up. So one night (lol) i decided to tell her that another gurl was pregnant for me and was bearing my baby and after telling her, i dropped d call. Later in the day, i got a call and was told that my gf was rushed to a hospital and she've been unconscious for about 5 hours. On hearing that, i was totally afraid and thought she was dead. So i left school & travelled back home. Lol

Fought with my girlfriend and I punched slapped her, she kicked me first

Boyloaf:

me and my ex quarried back in uni and i told her to compensate me by askin her fine friend to yansh me! And she did!

thats terrible!!

Ch@nges:

Lol. I can vividly remember mine. It was some years back i had this girlfrnd and we loved each other very much but her's was far much greater than mine. But it got to the extent i lost interest. Not that i've found another gurl but because i didn't feel lyk risking my life, time & psychological activities on a woman. So i started keeping her at arms length but she wouldn't give up. So one night (lol) i decided to tell her that another gurl was pregnant for me and was bearing my baby and after telling her, i dropped d call. Later in the day, i got a call and was told that my gf was rushed to a hospital and she've been unconscious for about 5 hours. On hearing that, i was totally afraid and thought she was dead. So i left school & travelled back home. Lol

You were just close to killing someone.

ucheike:

Fought with my girlfriend and I punched slapped her, she kicked me first

Thank your stars that it didn't occur to her to sue you for assault! The numerous over-zealous human right and women liberation NGOs would have enjoyed making mince-meat of you.
@Topic. . . I'm a nice fella, i don't hurt my women *winks*

James-dman:

Thank your stars that it didn't occur to her to sue you for assault! The numerous over-zealous human right and women liberation NGOs would have enjoyed making mince-meat of you.
@Topic. . . I'm a nice fella, i don't hurt my women *winks*

Human rights is not womans rights I could've lost my knee or suffered damage, she kicked my while I was watching TV, plus I only punched her on the rib, the NGOs can go to hell obviously she didn't sue me because we were both at fault for the argument and what transpired after

Ever going into a relationship

Scolding her publicly, + i have a very loud voice, Twas more like a scream, Trying to stop d hot-temper attitude sha,

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Girls are born cheat,my ex-girlfriend was making me drop her off in the studio where she was busy fucking her producer. this same producer sees me and crack jokes whenever we hangout together covering the shameless act,fortunately i found out and she's still busy fucking around after been dumped by the dude. I'm happily married and she's still jumping from bed to bed.

Shit

Mine happen last 2 weeks and I regretted it, There is this gal I was dating some months back I later met the younger sister  I must confess she was so beautiful since then I never have interest for the senior and we end everything amicably, she understand no more sex. 2 weeks back the younger one send me a text we should go to club, I accepted, we took some alc. we left to my house around 3 am and it happen. I felt so bad.

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Well, where should is start? I'm still and will alwys be a jealous lover, i'm so caring it becomes so difficult for my girlfriends to leave. But i'm a very good cheat. I've never been faithful. But no matter how many girls i have as assistant girlfriends, i never degraded my main girl for once. Not to d extent of doing it to her face. Infact, i don't keep her assistants messages on phone. They knw i cheat though, cos i used to tell them. And in counting scores, i think i'm on d verge of disvirgining d 6th girl in my life. I aint proud abt it but won't stop.

Hmmm!

i'll be back to drop mine soon

mek una confess we dey watch o. . .

trailing ma track in this? u'd head straight to abyss,

buh just to feed ur eyes , here is one: bleeped 4 girls in a day, well planned @ different intervals, two sisters were involved!

dnt quote moi, i'd deny it

I once had a gf, we both loved each other, my gf's best friend also loved me too and i noticed that, it came to and extent they began to hv beef within themselves at the end of the day lossed two beautiful girls that loved me so much, without even atleast stamping one of them, anyway dat was 3yrs back.

Though it was an experience and made me better and more matured; it was ever going into a relationship in the university. Now it's clear only abt 3% of campus relationship ends up in marriage. long debates over trivial things, leaving issues unresolved, nags, and the usual end (if amicable is), "let's be friends". how do u think you can run a relationship with ur pocket money that you dint work for. mtcheew yeye posing. twas in school i saw a guy cry over a girl who said no to him (the guy na big boy now), Gurls who left their campus guys and now married to some correct Bros dat's more well to do, or is it that the then big boys can barely buy airtime for themselves and expect the girls to stay,
Wondered why parents usually ask girls (when they get to tell their parents abt their relationships) what is he doing? Not primarily because of the money, but anyone who's matured to handle some sort of paid employment has a better attitude/prospects towards the relationship. Now things a better and clearer. I'm working and can/do spend way above my pocket money in a semester on her comfortably and joyfully. When there's a project, she gives me no single pressure. Sometimes i beg her to collect money.

In all things, i'm grateful to God because He somehow makes beautiful things out of wrecked or wretched lives.

Dumping her I guess. But I have been dumped several times.

Video taped my girls nude while she was asleep ( i hide am sha) am gonna bust it out on the internet any day she cheat again

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well, mine is My ex was cheating and I decided to pay him back in his own coin but with his senior brother who has been eying me ever-since. We did it once and menh! he was so sweet that I went for the 2nd time, 3rd,4th till I can no longer count. It was so sweet! that even till now, I stil feel like having him one more time.

~Killz~:

Smh! You are proud of your cheating escapades, and it's something to "ha ha ha" about? You believe you fooled your boyfriend but you only fooled yourself! Dumb reasoning! Dumb thread! Dumb! Dumber!! Dumbest!!!

Foolish girls!

one and only sensible post.

The Moderator is one sick, deluded, morally deficient, depraved, deliquated bomblastocated, bokoharmated, pharambalatic idiota to bring this sinful, unholy, derogatory, trashistic trash to "MY" front page 

To All who have posted their idiotic escapade, oya clap for yourselves! Odes!! 

Ogaaaaaaaoooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!

I fear our ladies o    but its a nice thread. Thumbs up to the OP.

I haven't officially cheated on my present girlfriend of 3years + not because my church mind hasn't seen potential friends with benefits but i guess it gets to a point when a man meets his match, he kinda gets tamed or just loses that touch. To think i couldn't do without getting laid here n there before.  Now instead of nurturing those thoughts and following up on potential clients, i just share it with her and she makes sure she keeps me away from those peeps.  But with the adventure i hear of now n then from friends n colleagues @ work, it now feels like i skipped growing up entirely. In fact as crazy as the things i did n risks i took were, compared to whats happening now, I NO TRY AT ALL    ,

Will think of which one ranks amongst the worst and share in a bit, Right now, I'm enjoying everyone's post.

Lets not drag it, women r smarter than us

With this escapades n other things, i think them Sodom and Gomorrah can ask for some sort of appeal compared to whats happening now,