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That's it o!

They expect you to notice subtle signs as if you don't have better things to do.

And when you don't notice they call it "your loss"

LoL...who is the actual loser? The girl that wanted your attention or you who didn't bother to notice something like that simply because your instincts didn't follow up?

UjSizzle:

Lol. Friendly banter hun. Don't take anything me and Mynd say to heart

jaybee3:

Is it about battery?
Make i begin beat chest sharpish....nwanne, i will build you your own personal battery factory for nnewi

JoeCutie:
Lol. OK I get, but that's how most girls reason sha.

UjSizzle:
Okay! So the green light in this age and anyone at all then, is simply a mental construct. Something a guy needs to assure himself that the woman he is interested in, also shares same interest.

End of discussion.

naijaboiy:

That's it o!

They expect you to notice subtle signs as if you don't have better things to do.

And when you don't notice they call it "your loss"

LoL...who is the actual loser? The girl that wanted your attention or you who didn't bother to notice something like that simply because your instincts didn't follow up?

UjSizzle:

Since when did men have something better to do?

You didn't see the 'subtle signals' because you weren't looking for any. That's basically saying you aren't interested in her.......yet. If you were interested, you'd look for signs to show she is too, so you don't look like a fool for going after her.

Na this sign our brothers dey call green light

UjSizzle:

Since when did men have something better to do?

You didn't see the 'subtle signals' because you weren't looking for any. That's basically saying you aren't interested in her.......yet. If you were interested, you'd look for signs to show she is too, so you don't look like a fool for going after her.

Na this sign our brothers dey call green light

UjSizzle:
You should stop quoting me since I obviously don't want to have a conversation with you

naijaboiy:

LoL,,i'm not putting off the existence of the green light.

All i'm saying is I simply go for it whether I see a sign from the lady or not. This is because I have come to accept the fact there must be rejection in this game. So i'm ready to accept
What ever comes my way.

UjSizzle:

Most?
How many girls have you met biko?

UjSizzle:

Awwww how sweet and noble of you
People have problems dealing with rejection, and maybe that blurs the lines for them. Good thing you know that there will either be a yes or no answer to your proposition.


Never got to congratulate you on your Mr. NL victory.
Hope the crown ain't too heavy

JoeCutie:
Me? Plenty!!! Dem yapa!

UjSizzle:

Awwww how sweet and noble of you
People have problems dealing with rejection, and maybe that blurs the lines for them. Good thing you know that there will either be a yes or no answer to your proposition.


Never got to congratulate you on your Mr. NL victory.
Hope the crown ain't too heavy

Yea,,its because of this possible rejection that make most guys(and few girls too) to watch out for the 'green light' before making a move. As this will make things a lot easier in the wooing process.

Thanks for your Felicity

The crown fits perfectly

naijaboiy:

Yea,,its because of this possible rejection that make most guys(and few girls too) to watch out for the 'green light' before making a move. As this will make things a lot easier in the wooing process.

Thanks for your Felicity

The crown fits perfectly

ihedinobi2:

Easy? I'd say possible.

yea,,or that

naijaboiy:

yea,,or that

ihedinobi2:
Nnaa, I read more of the op. Mynd, not good.

"Would you date me?" Isn't that, like, the wussiest thing ever? Lol. Not saying it is o. It's generally thought that men should be more, er, "charge-taking", isn't it? And that women should be more "bashful"? So who would ask that? And what's wrong with being more confident (for men) or more bashful (for women)?

Mynd, people should simply stop being irresponsible. We communicate with more than words. We communicate with body language and with writing too. If we were as careless with speech as you seem to advocate our being with body language can you imagine how many more brutal wars we would have to endure?

We agree now that there really is such a thing as green lights. The thing is to figure out what it is and what it is not and warn people so that people can become clearer with their communication.

Just like I did in my last response to you.

AgapeCharis:
U had a point though.

Buh lemme gv u one gist.
Av seen several green lights.
Recently, I was talking with a friend (lady) who has been showing neon greenlight which I chose to see as normal acts of friendship n she said "I have been waiting for u na but it's like u'r nt interested....."

This rules out ur school of thought that there is no greenlight. There's no clear sign that someone wants u.

There is such a thing as
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UjSizzle:
You should stop quoting me since I obviously don't want to have a conversation with you

ihedinobi2:


Mental construct? Hm. I don't know what suggests that it is. It is a real thing, wired into our dna. We give off those signals reflexively until we learn what they are and how to switch them on/off.

It is also something a girl gives to attract the attention of a man she wants.

naijaboiy:

Sigh

Mynd44:

Lmao. Look here, the same signs she has showed you will be showed by other girls and they will say it is normalcy. There is no clear sign that tells you what is what

AgapeCharis:
I disagree.
U have no idea of the signs dx lady gave.
There r clear signs. If u'll notice, I said I "chose" to see it differently

MzNelly:
Of course, coming from the ever-serious Mynd himself, this doesn't surprise me.