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How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by Nobody: 10:02am On Dec 16, 2014
I have a girlfriend whom I unexpectedly fell inlove with her. Unlike my previous relationship I was 100% faithful to her and I mean it. I supported her with all her financial demands and I felt she was really in love with me because of the way she acted. I work on the rig and she is a student of Uniport in her final year, Whenever I was leaving for the rig for 3weeks, I left my car with her. several stories from people who claimed to be her friend told me how she kept gallivanting with my car and sleeping around, but I was not deterred. I even told my parents that I have found someone I was gonna get married to.
To be honest, she started acting funny towards me, not giving me time during the short period when I am around, and always coming up with excuses. Following from a tip off from an anonymous caller, she was in a hotel with her friend and a man she claimed to be her uncle. I got to the hotel (Le' Meridian) in GRA ph, went to the pool side and after having some drinks, I called her to find out her whereabouts, she lied that she was in school, but in less than 30 minutes she was downstairs with her friend (I supposed they just had a party). I confronted her and she lied. I got hold of her bag, and saw K-Y gel and condoms.
I have since walked out of the relationship, but it still hurts me. My phone still has her nude pics she sent to me. I am being tempted to do something nasty cos I am heartbroken.
Please advise

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by Thinkr(m): 10:09am On Dec 16, 2014
Pls op post her nude pix on LIB, FB, NL and even twitter so she'll commit suicide. Never Delay Revenge smiley ***modified*** Praaaaaaaaaaaaa Praaaaaaaaaise praise praise praise tha Loooooooooooord. *Halleluyaaaaaaaaaa. First to coment. I thank God my heavenly father for this great opportunity. Even though my advice is devilish ko kan aye. Merry Christmas and a Happy new year to all the legitimate hustlers out there. May you succeed. Amen. Thank you

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by Maamin(m): 10:14am On Dec 16, 2014
Whatever happens to [size=14pt]Otapyapya[/size] in her 5ive Alive. lipsrsealed

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by sirfarouk(m): 10:21am On Dec 16, 2014
I was going to say dump her, but you've already done that. Great! The temptation to post her unclad pics, that I understand but don't do it. You'll just be belittling yourself. Delete them from your phone - that would help with the temptation. That fact that she knows you have the pictures is enough revenge already. That infomation is powerful. One more thing. Have you collected your car?

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by merit12(f): 10:22am On Dec 16, 2014
I can give you some advice only if she is black





















Op do not take matter into your hands.
You should be greatful you aare yet to get married to her.she is just showing her character so?she might not be a wife material.




What willl you gain after post her nude pictures on social media?will you be rewarded?no. The best thing since you loved her before let her go(free her)als .please don't conclude do some finding out

Are. You giving her your time,she doesn't just need money,car etc alone she needs your present money can't happiness love.

Try finding out if you can give her second chance.





Please all black peeps don't quote me

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by ssheryl(f): 10:23am On Dec 16, 2014
Dearie... First thank God you got out of that relationship when you did...
Without any deseases... Yes it hurts so so soooo bad I know...

The best way you can pay her back is by forgetting about her... Focus all your energy on you and you Alone... I know it's easier said than done... But try hard...

Forget about doing something bad to her coz in the end you'll just be as bad...

Move on with your life and take this as a lesson and be a MUCH BETTER person.

Goodluck...

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by Nobody: 10:23am On Dec 16, 2014
Forgive her and forget her. But if must you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves. Good luck.

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by NnamdiN: 10:24am On Dec 16, 2014
Sorry for your heartbreak sir, try to move on but please do not release those pictures you have, it doesn't worth it. She let you take those pictures because she had some level of trust in you(that they were in good hands, please think thoroughly before you act). Remember she's someone's future wife/mother(put yourself in their shoes). I believe you're a good man, that she has lost you and all the goodies is enough revenge(she may never meet anyone as good as you). Be a man, dust yourself and move on.

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by ssheryl(f): 10:25am On Dec 16, 2014
Thinkr:
Pls op post her nude pix on LIB, FB, NL and even twitter so she'll commit suicide. Never Delay Revenge smiley

Haha... Riiiiight..

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by Thinkr(m): 10:26am On Dec 16, 2014
merit12:
I can give you some advice only if she is black





















Op do not take matter into your hands.
You should be greatful you aare yet to get married to her.she is just showing her character so?she might not be a wife material.




What willl you gain after post her nude pictures on social media?will you be rewarded?no. The best thing since you loved her before let her go(free her)also try to find out what really happen,have you caught her cheating .please don't conclude do some finding out


Are. You giving her your time,she doesn't just need money,car etc alone she needs your present money can't happiness love.

Try finding out if you can give her second chance.





Please all black peeps don't quote me
its like you didn't read what the op wrote abi? He saw her in a hotel with someone else after lying she's somewhere else. Nawa

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by Thinkr(m): 10:29am On Dec 16, 2014
ssheryl:


Haha... Riiiiight..
shey you dey feel me abi? Hehehe
Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by Nobody: 10:29am On Dec 16, 2014
Post her pics online jor evil for evil


Karma

But hope she doesn't have your unclad pics

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by Nobody: 10:33am On Dec 16, 2014
Jxt ignore the temptation to expose her nudes..cos if u do,u would feel bad abt it in d long run..
As a big boy dat u're..it wont be easy,try to make her issues get outta ya head..av been in ur shoes b4..it took yrs to fully recover from the whole drama..just move on,find a better chic but heal 1st from this wound..

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by Truth24(m): 10:35am On Dec 16, 2014
Noooo no do ooo.... Posting her nudes will only make u feel good and satisfied now, but u will live in guilt and regret all ur life thereafter......
Be a man brother and move on...

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by Infomizer(m): 10:37am On Dec 16, 2014
Walk away! There's no need to revenge that way. Rather, revenge by being happier than you were when you met her. Be glad you found out sooner than later...you will always find another.

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by Longstride: 10:38am On Dec 16, 2014
if you post the pictures, you will regret it in due time.

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by ssheryl(f): 10:42am On Dec 16, 2014
Ok.... Look at it from this point of view... Now you are dealing with a heartbreak... If you are a good person like you seem to be... Posting those photos online will only make you feel guilty afterwords... And now you'll have to deal with the guilt too...
A heartbreak is enough to weigh you down... Don't add guilt on the list of the negative emotions you have...

Jus foget bout her... And use that time and energy to deal with your heart... Ok

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by Mprex(f): 10:43am On Dec 16, 2014
]forgive her and move on

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by maaft(m): 10:46am On Dec 16, 2014
coded336:
I have a girlfriend whom I unexpectedly fell inlove with her. Unlike my previous relationship I was 100% faithful to her and I mean it. I supported her with all her financial demands and I felt she was really in love with me because of the way she acted. I work on the rig and she is a student of Uniport in her final year, Whenever I was leaving for the rig for 3weeks, I left my car with her. several stories from people who claimed to be her friend told me how she kept gallivanting with my car and sleeping around, but I was not deterred. I even told my parents that I have found someone I was gonna get married to.
To be honest, she started acting funny towards me, not giving me time during the short period when I am around, and always coming up with excuses. Following from a tip off from an anonymous caller, she was in a hotel with her friend and a man she claimed to be her uncle. I got to the hotel (Le' Meridian) in GRA ph, went to the pool side and after having some drinks, I called her to find out her whereabouts, she lied that she was in school, but in less than 30 minutes she was downstairs with her friend (I supposed they just had a party). I confronted her and she lied. I got hold of her bag, and saw K-Y gel and condoms.
I have since walked out of the relationship, but it still hurts me. My phone still has her nude pics she sent to me. I am being tempted to do something nasty cos I am heartbroken.
Please advise
payback is a bitch. you can't have your cake and eat it. take it as retribution for your past unfaithfulness with other girls. then be a man. delete the pictures. a better girl will surely come your way.

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by ssheryl(f): 10:49am On Dec 16, 2014
Thinkr:
shey you dey feel me abi? Hehehe

No waaaaay.... Haha...
Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by agriboom: 10:53am On Dec 16, 2014
Forgive ke!? My guy start doing her friends and family! Bleep as many of them as you can and then after you are done, tell her about it and then use the pics to continue getting free naps from the bit.., na so me think sha

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by Thinkr(m): 10:58am On Dec 16, 2014
ssheryl:


No waaaaay.... Haha...
uhm ok.
Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by Nobody: 11:39am On Dec 16, 2014
agriboom:
Forgive ke!? My guy start doing her friends and family! Bleep as many of them as you can and then after you are done, tell her about it and then use the pics to continue getting free naps from the bit.., na so me think sha
Then you need to rethink. What does he stand to gain if he posts those pictures? At the end, guilt and regret will set in.
Op, I believe you are a mature person, and responsible too. The best way to payback is to get better and move on, make her regret she ever lost you. Prove to her you can do better without her. And since she knows you have her naked pictures, prove to her you aint as irresponsible as she is. Her guilt and conscience will be enough punishment.

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by Karleb(m): 11:46am On Dec 16, 2014
Just walk away and never look back, trust me when I say that it's the best medicine to your wounded heart.

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by umohmfonobong: 12:38pm On Dec 16, 2014
let look at it this way, i want to ask do you know the wife God kept for you? what if she is the one fate can always bring you guy together, but what happen when you have already post her unclad pics on facebook, your own wife unclad pics that you never know it will be. so forget that idea of posting the unclad pics, and move on, if she is yours she will certainly come back to you, but the question is will you forgive and take her back?

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by ogaofficer(m): 12:40pm On Dec 16, 2014
Pls forget her and move on, the only revenge you have to plan for her is you becoming a better man in every facet of your life than she met you. My 2k.

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by prewtyjulie(f): 12:53pm On Dec 16, 2014
What goes around comes around, hw mny of d oda girls u cheated on had d tym 2 revenge?
D best u can do is 4giv n 4get den b lucky God didnt punish u by allowin u 2marry her.

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by agriboom: 1:17pm On Dec 16, 2014
MzPreshie:
Then you need to rethink. What does he stand to gain if he posts those pictures? At the end, guilt and regret will set in.
Op, I believe you are a mature person, and responsible too. The best way to payback is to get better and move on, make her regret she ever lost you. Prove to her you can do better without her. And since she knows you have her naked pictures, prove to her you aint as irresponsible as she is. Her guilt and conscience will be enough punishment.

Abeg read my post again and see if I said anything about posting dem pictures
Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by Nobody: 1:19pm On Dec 16, 2014

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by Nobody: 1:42pm On Dec 16, 2014
The best revenge is to be happy and move on. Nothing hurt an ex like been happy without them.

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by ToyozzieTohBad(f): 2:36pm On Dec 16, 2014
Ok
Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by owolawitola(f): 2:37pm On Dec 16, 2014
Dont do anything. An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind. Hopefully, she will get Aids. Thats enough punishment.
coded336:
I have a girlfriend whom I unexpectedly fell inlove with her. Unlike my previous relationship I was 100% faithful to her and I mean it. I supported her with all her financial demands and I felt she was really in love with me because of the way she acted. I work on the rig and she is a student of Uniport in her final year, Whenever I was leaving for the rig for 3weeks, I left my car with her. several stories from people who claimed to be her friend told me how she kept gallivanting with my car and sleeping around, but I was not deterred. I even told my parents that I have found someone I was gonna get married to.
To be honest, she started acting funny towards me, not giving me time during the short period when I am around, and always coming up with excuses. Following from a tip off from an anonymous caller, she was in a hotel with her friend and a man she claimed to be her uncle. I got to the hotel (Le' Meridian) in GRA ph, went to the pool side and after having some drinks, I called her to find out her whereabouts, she lied that she was in school, but in less than 30 minutes she was downstairs with her friend (I supposed they just had a party). I confronted her and she lied. I got hold of her bag, and saw K-Y gel and condoms.
I have since walked out of the relationship, but it still hurts me. My phone still has her nude pics she sent to me. I am being tempted to do something nasty cos I am heartbroken.
Please advise

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