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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by NaijaOptimist: 2:37pm On Dec 16, 2014
Mature beings do not revenge...
No matter what...forgive and move on.

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by vizkiz: 2:38pm On Dec 16, 2014
first to do no day pain tongue
Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by pentag0nal: 2:39pm On Dec 16, 2014
Do not post the pictures, do not do such to her. Just leave her alone and move on...

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by merits(m): 2:39pm On Dec 16, 2014
abeg revenge oo.anybody that stop you must be a fool.so to say.
Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by paleo(m): 2:40pm On Dec 16, 2014
Just leave her and be at peace with yourself bro.

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by ababanwoke(m): 2:40pm On Dec 16, 2014
It pains a lot to see someone you love cheat on u but you a man,you just hv to move on with you life and channel that energy of vengance to other profitable sectors of ur life,revenging over a lady makes it childish,abeg go out there and find another person. There is power in replacement,because you tend tto find a better fit to any position in life and at that course you learn a lot. Stay cool

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by bosun11(m): 2:42pm On Dec 16, 2014
feel your pain man..i dunno what to say, some other peeps on here would be able to advice better...some ladies ehn..mtchewwww

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by Nobody: 2:43pm On Dec 16, 2014
coded336:
I have a girlfriend whom I unexpectedly fell inlove with her. Unlike my previous relationship I was 100% faithful to her and I mean it. I supported her with all her financial demands and I felt she was really in love with me because of the way she acted. I work on the rig and she is a student of Uniport in her final year, Whenever I was leaving for the rig for 3weeks, I left my car with her. several stories from people who claimed to be her friend told me how she kept gallivanting with my car and sleeping around, but I was not deterred. I even told my parents that I have found someone I was gonna get married to.
To be honest, she started acting funny towards me, not giving me time during the short period when I am around, and always coming up with excuses. Following from a tip off from an anonymous caller, she was in a hotel with her friend and a man she claimed to be her uncle. I got to the hotel (Le' Meridian) in GRA ph, went to the pool side and after having some drinks, I called her to find out her whereabouts, she lied that she was in school, but in less than 30 minutes she was downstairs with her friend (I supposed they just had a party). I confronted her and she lied. I got hold of her bag, and saw K-Y gel and condoms.
I have since walked out of the relationship, but it still hurts me. My phone still has her nude pics she sent to me. I am being tempted to do something nasty cos I am heartbroken.
Please advise

Oya. You don finish? Make we talk, amno - amano.

Shey u used to cheat on your past gfs? Yes or no?
Na karam catch up with you. Life is a circle and you got what you did to others.this is a blessing in disguise for you to change your ways. You are even lucky say she no be ur wife , u for don go mad be that.

Now to present,delete her pictures.move on with ur life nad be true to urself and ur loved one who ever she will be

It hurts but u must move on. Be very careful as there are far worse chicks than ur ex.don't show her any thing even if she calls, which she eventually will just tell her its all in the past but never you ever ever ever. Take her back

If she insists on seeing u, pick a public place and if you are with ur chick then, go with ur chick. Gbam! Do these and you are the man!

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by IamDanto7(m): 2:43pm On Dec 16, 2014
These bitches aint loyal.... Do the needful bro... You were just her financial. Is she from Okrika in Rivers state?
Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by dre11(m): 2:44pm On Dec 16, 2014
rokiatu:
The best revenge is to be happy and move on. Nothing hurt an ex like been happy without them.

Tenk u for that post
You have just sum up everything in two sentences

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by AreaFada2: 2:44pm On Dec 16, 2014
merit12:
I can give you some advice only if she is black.






















Op do not take matter into your hands.
You should be greatful you aare yet to get married to her.she is just showing her character so?she might not be a wife material.




What willl you gain after post her nude pictures on social media?will you be rewarded?no. The best thing since you loved her before let her go(free her)als .please don't conclude do some finding out

Are. You giving her your time,she doesn't just need money,car etc alone she needs your present money can't happiness love.

Try finding out if you can give her second chance.





Please all black peeps don't quote me

I go quote.

A lady protecting one of their own.

Someone like you will also advice him to accept a bastard as his child when the woman gives him pregnancy from another person.

Na so ladies dey do am these days?

If she's not happy with him being away at the rig was she forced into the relationship?

Why not look for a man she can have 24/7?

But she's quite happy using his car and taking his money.

Any smart guy should now be doing DNA/paternity test on their kids as a matter of course.


@OP, as painful as it might be, just 4get her. She's not worth the stress. Keep the pix BUT NEVER POST THEM ANYWHERE.

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by holatin(m): 2:44pm On Dec 16, 2014
if I advice you now some people go yab me.

but let me give you another and easy revenge.
Set her with another guy, if she go meet d guy, make d guy nak am then you too should Ve your way with her.
Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by DICKtator: 2:45pm On Dec 16, 2014
coded336:
I have a girlfriend whom I unexpectedly fell inlove with her. Unlike my previous relationship I was 100% faithful to her and I mean it. I supported her with all her financial demands and I felt she was really in love with me because of the way she acted. I work on the rig and she is a student of Uniport in her final year, Whenever I was leaving for the rig for 3weeks, I left my car with her. several stories from people who claimed to be her friend told me how she kept gallivanting with my car and sleeping around, but I was not deterred. I even told my parents that I have found someone I was gonna get married to.
To be honest, she started acting funny towards me, not giving me time during the short period when I am around, and always coming up with excuses. Following from a tip off from an anonymous caller, she was in a hotel with her friend and a man she claimed to be her uncle. I got to the hotel (Le' Meridian) in GRA ph, went to the pool side and after having some drinks, I called her to find out her whereabouts, she lied that she was in school, but in less than 30 minutes she was downstairs with her friend (I supposed they just had a party). I confronted her and she lied. I got hold of her bag, and saw K-Y gel and condoms.
I have since walked out of the relationship, but it still hurts me. My phone still has her nude pics she sent to me. I am being tempted to do something nasty cos I am heartbroken.
Please advise

Don't delete the unclad pix ooo. Save it for posterity sake.
Invite her to your crib
Fix cameras all round

Have sex with her n subtly ensure you cover your face(if you must wear a mask,do just that!)
Tell her it is the parting sex and let her go
Keep it for payback day

Phucccck these holes
They ain't loyal!!!

grin grin grin grin

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by searay(m): 2:46pm On Dec 16, 2014
Forgive and forget. For God will give you a better replacement. I'm posting this from experience.

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by Nobody: 2:48pm On Dec 16, 2014
merits:
abeg revenge oo.anybody that stop you must be a fool.so to say.

Okay. Am a fool be that shey?
Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by Chimeremeze1(m): 2:49pm On Dec 16, 2014
Any relationship that is not working,let it go .................don't delay because delay may be dangerous.

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by Misogynist2014(m): 2:50pm On Dec 16, 2014
Do as you wish, you are a man. Men don't make mistakes, unless you are the other gender.
Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by xtervaganza(m): 2:50pm On Dec 16, 2014
Best revenge? Dump her. Dont ever post her pictures

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by Nobody: 2:52pm On Dec 16, 2014
OP , try to forget about this and move on , dont post any pic , delete it .... been thru same shiit and was tempted to do same , I found it shows immaturity which you ll gain nothing from . her conscience will keep pricking her , of course she may be having a swell time now but yea a time will come this attitude will judge her. you are a big boy na .... final note : make sure your next date is not a uniport chic ,majority of those babes are something else, telling from experience. still wondering why you had to settle for a ampus chic when cool single big babes full town in ph.

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by Nobody: 2:52pm On Dec 16, 2014
Uniport girls and cheating.... lipsrsealed embarassed I graduated from there in 2012 so i know what I'm saying....Now when i say Uniport girls i don't mean 100% but believe me 70% are cheats...sighs...leaves the room... kiss yeye dey smell

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by collitexnaira(m): 2:52pm On Dec 16, 2014
My friend, revenge is for God, tell your friend not to do God's work if don't want it to backfire on him
Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by PerfumeRepublik: 2:53pm On Dec 16, 2014
Op no worry , you'll get hardened soon...
It happens to every man once in this lifetime..
Its a Natural phenomenom..
By the way how much u get for you account sef?
Bros go and get Focused
Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by baybiemee: 2:53pm On Dec 16, 2014
You were not faithful in your previous relationships, so this is just a taste of your own medicine. Hope it's sweet tongue

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by AriDsexy(f): 2:55pm On Dec 16, 2014
samflexxy:
Post her pics online jor evil for evil


Karma

But hope she doesn't have your unclad pics

Smh...the kind of mind u have!
Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by veraiyke(m): 2:58pm On Dec 16, 2014
Jst delete d pics,forget abt her n move on

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by buoye1(m): 2:59pm On Dec 16, 2014
I see that as been childish,grow up dude and move on with life......."let he who is without sin be the first to cast the stone"If all those uv done hurt to should revenge,ll u b alive!!!
Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by eleko1: 2:59pm On Dec 16, 2014
Dnt bother to pay evil for evil,I mean by doing the unthinkable(posting her nudity online)let her go,she's already a okrika material.U'll meet ur Wife soon not a dog type,exercise patient biko
coded336:
I have a girlfriend whom I unexpectedly fell inlove with her. Unlike my previous relationship I was 100% faithful to her and I mean it. I supported her with all her financial demands and I felt she was really in love with me because of the way she acted. I work on the rig and she is a student of Uniport in her final year, Whenever I was leaving for the rig for 3weeks, I left my car with her. several stories from people who claimed to be her friend told me how she kept gallivanting with my car and sleeping around, but I was not deterred. I even told my parents that I have found someone I was gonna get married to.
To be honest, she started acting funny towards me, not giving me time during the short period when I am around, and always coming up with excuses. Following from a tip off from an anonymous caller, she was in a hotel with her friend and a man she claimed to be her uncle. I got to the hotel (Le' Meridian) in GRA ph, went to the pool side and after having some drinks, I called her to find out her whereabouts, she lied that she was in school, but in less than 30 minutes she was downstairs with her friend (I supposed they just had a party). I confronted her and she lied. I got hold of her bag, and saw K-Y gel and condoms.
I have since walked out of the relationship, but it still hurts me. My phone still has her nude pics she sent to me. I am being tempted to do something nasty cos I am heartbroken.
Please advise

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by hensben(m): 3:00pm On Dec 16, 2014
bro you made a mistake by giving her your car key, thats what made her to feel big-girl n of course, they always have their kind as friend that lure them into RUNZ BABE..

wait o! uniport babe for that matter..

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by Michelle55: 3:01pm On Dec 16, 2014
thé Best revenge is to move on and be happy... thé right woman will come

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Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by ekpurikpu77: 3:01pm On Dec 16, 2014
Sorry bros, encourage yourself by forgiving her.
The more you keep it in your mind, the more you hurt yourself.
Do yourself the favour by forgiving and you'll feel better
Re: How Do I Payback A Cheating GF by jameslucy: 3:02pm On Dec 16, 2014
Forgive & forget! God will SURELY revenge 4u

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