rman:
A man caught his wife cheating and walked away.

Nairaland ladies still found a way to call him evil.

Chai!

lol. E dey surprise you?

Nitefury:


hehehehehe.. satanic gentleness indeed bro. Reminds me of a case sometime in 2010 in Lagos, only this time the husband was the victim/culprit. The wife caught him in bed with a lady and walked out not saying a word.

he tried to bring it up, but she'll have none of that. Then one night while he was sleeping, she quietly entered the kitchen, put vegetable oil in a frying pan, after bleaching the oil, went into the room and emptied the contents on his Instruments... Twas such a gory sight bro when neighbours broke in hearing the dude's screams.

Relationship (RLS) 101, stay away from them exes.. It only breeds trouble

If I ever recover from that as the cheating husband, God knows I would kill that woman in the most horrific manner. She would die softly and slowly. .

Okaka27:
I swear to God you are sensless
No offence

No problem, dear... I exercised my freedom of speech; you just did.

5minsmadness:
Op, she should let the matter rest.
The man may have just come to terms with it and has decided to do ABSOLUTELY NOTHING as repercussion.

She should just be extra nice to him for a long while.
Do they have kids?

they have a child.

A similar thing happened to me some time back. I went to visit my girlfriend without notice. I was shocked to see a framed picture of another guy in her room, placed conspicously. Her own little pix was neatly tucked at the edge of the frame. I swallowed every trace of panic and anger. We were planning to get married the following year for Christ sake! I spent three hours there and did not even mention the strange picture before me. I noticed she was uneasy, but I ignored her and gisted normally.
Four months latter, she asked 4 a break-up. Her reason: If I trully loved her, I would have shown signs of jealousy (fighting, crying, beefing, etc).

-Why I kept quiet:
(a) I honestly did nt know what to say
(b) I gave her the benefit of d
oubt, bt she never explained anything
(c) I considered a break-up, and did nt want to make the 1st move, but since she pulled the plug first, I let her go
(d) I was weighing my options and consulting widely - with men and God

Her life is safe but her future with the man is not certain. She is the one to bring up the issue. The fact that she hasn't done that in a week could even suggest that she is not exactly somber. The man will definitely hit back.

Mister composure if you are reading this, I would like to commend you.

It is time to start Phase 2 - just wake up in the night and start staring at her. If she doesn't feel ur stare and wake up, startle her and then return to staring position.

Whenever she's busy, just start staring but with nothing in mind except to spook the creeps out of her.

As humans, we learn very well by association. Whenever she thinks of cheating, the palpitations you engineered into her will return and she will think twice.

rman:
A man caught his wife cheating and walked away.

Nairaland ladies still found a way to call him evil.

Chai!

They understand better what it feels like to be in her situation.
An ex once told me that she is uncomfortable with me for being too cool-headed. I shld learn how to vent my anger on her when she offends me. That way she'll be sure I av gotten over it.
Bt the truth is I'm incapable of trusting any lady, for my sake and for their sake. But how cld I tell her this

cococandy:
Let her bring it up abeg. Better to know what is on his mind than sleep one day and not wake up because he's strangled her in her sleep.

She strong gan. One week and she's been living with him under the same house sleeping peacefully?

I prefer people who vent and get it over with.
What normal person won't be hurt if they catch their wife or husband red-handed with another person?

Anybody that pretends to swallow such without even seeking an apology or explanation is mean and may be planning Armageddon.

the woman cheated but it is the man that is mean ? cheiiiii lets hope and pray we dont have people like you as lawyers and judges and jurors

This is exactly what happens when u marry someone who is not ur wife!

That is the best way to treat cheating feminist pigs!

aliyuabbaashiru:
please RLS 101 is it a core course or elective??

Bro me, Na core course o. If you pick am as elective Na at ur own peril o

That's a man! His silence and indifference will nearly kill her. But she will be the one to report herself

The husband just displayed unrivaled maturity and again fulfilled the number three law in the book called 48 LAWS OF POWER.

the third law of power says CONCEAL YOUR INTENTIONS. The breakdown is USE SMOKE SCREEN ( A POKER FACE) TO DISGUISE

YOUR ACTIONS I hope both couple will resolve the issue amicably. My experience in marriage spanning over 20 years has taught

THE GOOD, THE BAD AND THE UGLY OF FACTS OF LIFE. I advise the husband in question to forgive and forget. Life is too short. [color=#000099][/color]

The man is waiting for next Birth day to come before he will kill her with acid

Ishilove:
Royver, this is what I call Satanic gentleness. If I were the lady I'd be very very afraid, because if I act like that when I catch my husband in a 'compromising position', then it means I'm up to no good. I'm planning evil.

She should better broach the subject and clear the air before he goes all Jack the Ripper on her cheating heinie.

she better tell her familyt so that they can come and assist her to beg! she is already screwed! But I tell you! The thing that is in the mans mind will make idumagbo bomb blast child's play. I have come across people like this! Their annoyance is very very cold! You can't just get what the guy is thinking.. Like he has suspected her sef..

But it is the same thing I would do. The exact same thing.

I do not see anything strange in his reaction.

As a matter of fact I used to say I would make them tea. If I were to be the man I would go out and buy them something from an eatery (food and drinks) since they must be famished and hungry. Then I would go home.

What is there to discuss? He should bring up what he saw her doing?

Why did she do it? It was the devil? It was a mistake? An apology? Satan's handwork? Your enemies used African Remote Control? Oh you did not know what came over you right? It was just that, he seduced you? Oh ok, it was the mans fault. if he loves and trusts her she would not bla bla bla...?

Better you do not do it than to do it and expect a useless apology to suddenly right the wrong? Sorry I am too much of a realist. a few sobs and cheap ''I am Sorry''s do not fly with me.

The problem is that if she moves out she might NEVER move back in! And if she does not move out she might get hurt.

Since the man is acting like I would, usually I would expect you to move out of your own accord. I do not even expect that you will be bold enough to still remain at home. As a matter of fact for every minute I see you, the anger triples.

So maybe he is patiently waiting for her to move out. But this is human behavior, there are hardly 100% general rules without exceptions.

BEST OPTION IS TRY TO BRING IT UP. IF HE DOESN'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT THEN HE HAS SOMETHING PLANNED.

I always say it. You cannot make a LovePeddler a house wife.

You won't enter heaven.the day you know someone else is sleeping with your wife is the day your life expectancy start reducing like ground but oil inside sun.

One chance.

Royver:

I suggested she write him an apology letter.

Or application letter sef

Women!
Since the time of Adam they are yet to change.

The man doesn't want to say anything on the matter. Even if she brings it up he would not say a word. Wise man....torture by silence...slow march to the grave/madness. People would be asking her what's wrong/why you losing weight etc....more torture because she can't explain. She can't even face her own family. Wise man!

CSTR:
The Man has probably made up his mind to get a new wife outside.
The lady is now a side bitchh.
He is just bidding his time for the right moment to kick her out.
Btw, if they both have kids, such a man will begin to doubt their paternity and for good reason.
She just destroyed her home and the future of her kids.

I agree with this. The man may have concluded plans on getting himself a real lady for a second wife and keeping the old maid as a side LovePeddler that she is.
One thing is certain in this case: the man no longer loves that lady.

neoapocalypse:


But he's not giving her the silent treatment , everything is still going on as normal , he has only decided not to bring up the issue

i mean his silence regarding this particular issue.

Royver:
A woman came to the hospital today very anxious, sleep deprived, poor appetite, headache, generally a nervous wreck. When questioned she says her husband caught her cheating on him by walking in on them in a compromising position at her shop.

He responded by turning and walking away. She returned home later that evening after thinking of how best to confront the situation but the man has not brought up the matter since then.

She said it has been over a week now and Oga is carrying on as if nothing happened and she is going crazy with anxiety because she doesn't know what is running through his mind.

I asked if she had done something like this before and she swore she hadn't, that it was bad judgement on her part with a former ex. I suggested she be the one to breach the subject to her husband but some of my colleagues believe she should let sleeping dogs lie and take a sedative.

What do you guys think?

when a man keeps quite when he suppose to react heeeem! go and confess to your pastor or imam so that they will handle this issue
if not so woman he may .........

DollyParton1:


Revenge is sweetest when served cold.
I doff my hat for the husband and shame on the wife. Useless woman. Na ur type dey make men misyarn about us.

so you never cheat before abi ? this one wey you dey show ya yansh to the world for pishure. na ya kind deadly pass. chop 10 men in one weekend clean mouth come dey post comment like say im be mother teresa

barcanista:
Walahi if na me o, bringing it up will not change anything. I will just act as if nothing happen and do my thing. She must be haunted for at least 6 months to 1 year before I do what is on my mind. Reporting to my relatives will only cause her more misery...

gbam...

It very sad and so unfortunate,the fact remains that, the man might not forgive her,even if he manages too,he will never forget,cheating in marriage should never be tolerated,the lady is very dumb,look at the way she has succeeded in destroying her marriage just becouse of few minutes flings,that marriage will never remain the same, ever again,this institution called marriage is seriously messed up.

Originalsly:
The man doesn't want to say anything on the matter. Even if she brings it up he would not say a word. Wise man....torture by silence...slow march to the grave/madness. People would be asking her what's wrong/why you losing weight etc....more torture because she can't explain. She can't even face her own family. Wise man!

true torture

Nope she's not. Be scared, be very scared.

This is the worst kind of torture: Not knowing. Your mind is basically doing a triathlon and there's no end in sight.

The conscience is a very mean judge

That man has already anticipated his wife promiscuouness, he is not going to do anything he just want to keep his pride intact.
When u chase her away what's d guarantee that the next one coming will not sleep with your brother not even her ex.

She should go on her knees and beg him...

(2) Four months latter, she asked 4 a break-up. Her reason: If I trully loved her, I would have shown signs of jealousy (fighting, crying, beefing, etc).

-Why I kept quiet:
(a) I honestly did nt know what to say
(b) I gave her the benefit of d
oubt, bt she never explained anything
(c) I considered a break-up, and did nt want to make the 1st move, but since she pulled the plug first, I let her go
(d) I was weighing my options and consulting widely - with men and God