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Re: Your Views On This Pls. by Oahray: 1:10pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
rman:lol. E dey surprise you? 4 Likes |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by LyfeJennings(m): 1:10pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Nitefury: If I ever recover from that as the cheating husband, God knows I would kill that woman in the most horrific manner. She would die softly and slowly. . 3 Likes |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by tempem: 1:11pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Okaka27:No problem, dear... I exercised my freedom of speech; you just did. 11 Likes |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by Royver(m): 1:12pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
5minsmadness:they have a child. |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by Abee79(m): 1:12pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
A similar thing happened to me some time back. I went to visit my girlfriend without notice. I was shocked to see a framed picture of another guy in her room, placed conspicously. Her own little pix was neatly tucked at the edge of the frame. I swallowed every trace of panic and anger. We were planning to get married the following year for Christ sake! I spent three hours there and did not even mention the strange picture before me. I noticed she was uneasy, but I ignored her and gisted normally. Four months latter, she asked 4 a break-up. Her reason: If I trully loved her, I would have shown signs of jealousy (fighting, crying, beefing, etc). -Why I kept quiet: (a) I honestly did nt know what to say (b) I gave her the benefit of d oubt, bt she never explained anything (c) I considered a break-up, and did nt want to make the 1st move, but since she pulled the plug first, I let her go (d) I was weighing my options and consulting widely - with men and God 5 Likes |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by janvier27(m): 1:12pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Her life is safe but her future with the man is not certain. She is the one to bring up the issue. The fact that she hasn't done that in a week could even suggest that she is not exactly somber. The man will definitely hit back. 3 Likes |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by vascey(m): 1:12pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Mister composure if you are reading this, I would like to commend you. It is time to start Phase 2 - just wake up in the night and start staring at her. If she doesn't feel ur stare and wake up, startle her and then return to staring position. Whenever she's busy, just start staring but with nothing in mind except to spook the creeps out of her. As humans, we learn very well by association. Whenever she thinks of cheating, the palpitations you engineered into her will return and she will think twice. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by Nobody: 1:13pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
rman:They understand better what it feels like to be in her situation. An ex once told me that she is uncomfortable with me for being too cool-headed. I shld learn how to vent my anger on her when she offends me. That way she'll be sure I av gotten over it. Bt the truth is I'm incapable of trusting any lady, for my sake and for their sake. But how cld I tell her this 2 Likes |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by sukkot: 1:13pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
cococandy:the woman cheated but it is the man that is mean ? cheiiiii lets hope and pray we dont have people like you as lawyers and judges and jurors 17 Likes |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by Nobody: 1:14pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
This is exactly what happens when u marry someone who is not ur wife! |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by dinachi(m): 1:15pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
That is the best way to treat cheating feminist pigs! |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by Nitefury: 1:15pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
aliyuabbaashiru: Bro me, Na core course o. If you pick am as elective Na at ur own peril o |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by iamord(m): 1:16pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
That's a man! His silence and indifference will nearly kill her. But she will be the one to report herself |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by Bakersfield: 1:17pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
The husband just displayed unrivaled maturity and again fulfilled the number three law in the book called 48 LAWS OF POWER. the third law of power says CONCEAL YOUR INTENTIONS. The breakdown is USE SMOKE SCREEN ( A POKER FACE) TO DISGUISE YOUR ACTIONS I hope both couple will resolve the issue amicably. My experience in marriage spanning over 20 years has taught THE GOOD, THE BAD AND THE UGLY OF FACTS OF LIFE. I advise the husband in question to forgive and forget. Life is too short. [color=#000099][/color] 3 Likes |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by ibkgab001: 1:20pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
The man is waiting for next Birth day to come before he will kill her with acid 1 Like |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by iamord(m): 1:21pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Ishilove:she better tell her familyt so that they can come and assist her to beg! she is already screwed! But I tell you! The thing that is in the mans mind will make idumagbo bomb blast child's play. I have come across people like this! Their annoyance is very very cold! You can't just get what the guy is thinking.. Like he has suspected her sef.. 1 Like |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by Nobody: 1:23pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
But it is the same thing I would do. The exact same thing. I do not see anything strange in his reaction. As a matter of fact I used to say I would make them tea. If I were to be the man I would go out and buy them something from an eatery (food and drinks) since they must be famished and hungry. Then I would go home. What is there to discuss? He should bring up what he saw her doing? Why did she do it? It was the devil? It was a mistake? An apology? Satan's handwork? Your enemies used African Remote Control? Oh you did not know what came over you right? It was just that, he seduced you? Oh ok, it was the mans fault. if he loves and trusts her she would not bla bla bla...? Better you do not do it than to do it and expect a useless apology to suddenly right the wrong? Sorry I am too much of a realist. a few sobs and cheap ''I am Sorry''s do not fly with me. The problem is that if she moves out she might NEVER move back in! And if she does not move out she might get hurt. Since the man is acting like I would, usually I would expect you to move out of your own accord. I do not even expect that you will be bold enough to still remain at home. As a matter of fact for every minute I see you, the anger triples. So maybe he is patiently waiting for her to move out. But this is human behavior, there are hardly 100% general rules without exceptions. BEST OPTION IS TRY TO BRING IT UP. IF HE DOESN'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT THEN HE HAS SOMETHING PLANNED. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by seangy4konji: 1:23pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
I always say it. You cannot make a LovePeddler a house wife. You won't enter heaven.the day you know someone else is sleeping with your wife is the day your life expectancy start reducing like ground but oil inside sun. One chance. 3 Likes |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by Emdee590(m): 1:24pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Royver:Or application letter sef 3 Likes |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by johncreek: 1:25pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Women! Since the time of Adam they are yet to change. 1 Like |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by Originalsly: 1:26pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
The man doesn't want to say anything on the matter. Even if she brings it up he would not say a word. Wise man....torture by silence...slow march to the grave/madness. People would be asking her what's wrong/why you losing weight etc....more torture because she can't explain. She can't even face her own family. Wise man! 5 Likes |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by Nobody: 1:27pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
CSTR:I agree with this. The man may have concluded plans on getting himself a real lady for a second wife and keeping the old maid as a side LovePeddler that she is. One thing is certain in this case: the man no longer loves that lady. 5 Likes |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by MizEmpress(f): 1:28pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
neoapocalypse:i mean his silence regarding this particular issue. 1 Like |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by kagel: 1:28pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Royver: when a man keeps quite when he suppose to react heeeem! go and confess to your pastor or imam so that they will handle this issue if not so woman he may ......... |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by sukkot: 1:30pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
DollyParton1:so you never cheat before abi ? this one wey you dey show ya yansh to the world for pishure. na ya kind deadly pass. chop 10 men in one weekend clean mouth come dey post comment like say im be mother teresa 6 Likes |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by Odunharry(m): 1:32pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
barcanista:gbam... |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by Cutesexy1(f): 1:32pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
It very sad and so unfortunate,the fact remains that, the man might not forgive her,even if he manages too,he will never forget,cheating in marriage should never be tolerated,the lady is very dumb,look at the way she has succeeded in destroying her marriage just becouse of few minutes flings,that marriage will never remain the same, ever again,this institution called marriage is seriously messed up. 3 Likes |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by MizEmpress(f): 1:33pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Originalsly:true torture 1 Like |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by UjSizzle(f): 1:35pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Nope she's not. Be scared, be very scared. This is the worst kind of torture: Not knowing. Your mind is basically doing a triathlon and there's no end in sight. The conscience is a very mean judge 2 Likes |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by Nobody: 1:37pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
That man has already anticipated his wife promiscuouness, he is not going to do anything he just want to keep his pride intact. When u chase her away what's d guarantee that the next one coming will not sleep with your brother not even her ex. |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by Johnnoo(m): 1:37pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
She should go on her knees and beg him... |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by Abee79(m): 1:38pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
(2) Four months latter, she asked 4 a break-up. Her reason: If I trully loved her, I would have shown signs of jealousy (fighting, crying, beefing, etc). -Why I kept quiet: (a) I honestly did nt know what to say (b) I gave her the benefit of d oubt, bt she never explained anything (c) I considered a break-up, and did nt want to make the 1st move, but since she pulled the plug first, I let her go (d) I was weighing my options and consulting widely - with men and God 6 Likes |
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