Oahray:
lol. E dey surprise you?

No be only surprise...I dey fear

Hmmm.... deliver us from evil.

GAZZUZZ:
She should report her self to the relevant authorities , the boss is actually planing a termination

hahaha lol I swear u need rehabilitation. But true tlk sha

Fake story. An improvement on the thread below

https://www.nairaland.com/1969440/husband-concerned-wife-silent-even#27500742

here's my solution. when he's about to sleep. make sure he sees u naked(on 2nd tot ur teats myt b sagging so cover that place up). if he doesn't make any move wait until he's asleep n then give him some mouth action...if he responds positively then problem solved. if not pls move out of the house and start begging him from afar where it's safer.

Prixus:
here's my solution. when he's about to sleep. make sure he sees u naked(on 2nd tot ur teats myt b sagging so cover that place up). if he doesn't make any move wait until he's asleep n then give him some mouth action...if he responds positively then problem solved. if not pls move out of the house and start begging him from afar where it's safer.

Laughing like Riley Freeman

Open letter to the man the man's family and her family, simple.

punta:
If I was that lady, I would be very very afraid.

That man certainly has a plan but no one can tell what that plan is until it unfolds. Unless he is a practicing and devout christian, her days in that man's house are numbered. If indeed it was her first time of slipping up and she got caught, he has probably been suspecting something and walking in on her while with her ex in a compromising position is all the proof he needs for the next line of action.

She had better pack and leave because she could wake up dead one of these days or the man could bring in another woman to her home. Whatever the case, this is just the beginning of her emotional trauma unless like I said earlier the man is "A CHRISTIAN" in the real sense of the word.

"She could "wake up dead" ". How does somebody that is already dead wake up ?biko?

Royver:
A woman came to the hospital today very anxious, sleep deprived, poor appetite, headache, generally a nervous wreck. When questioned she says her husband caught her cheating on him by walking in on them in a compromising position at her shop.

He responded by turning and walking away. She returned home later that evening after thinking of how best to confront the situation but the man has not brought up the matter since then.

She said it has been over a week now and Oga is carrying on as if nothing happened and she is going crazy with anxiety because she doesn't know what is running through his mind.

I asked if she had done something like this before and she swore she hadn't, that it was bad judgement on her part with a former ex. I suggested she be the one to breach the subject to her husband but some of my colleagues believe she should let sleeping dogs lie and take a sedative.

What do you guys think?

Well, most women always cheating and too, would end up saying it was their first time when caught in the act. Same thing with most men.

May God continually bless that your husband for restraining himself in the face and presence of Zap.ing stuff.it takes great strength to do just what your spouse did.you can't escape a 2nd wife.

This kinda thing is fairly common particularly with men who work on oil rigs. they normally work in shifts; 3weeks onshore and 3weeks offshore. a friend of mine came home before his offshore shift ended and met another man on top of his wife. according to him, he was too saddened and heart-broken, he couldn't even react properly. he just closed the door behind him and walked out and slept in a hotel that day. that was how a marriage with 2kids ended. he now stays in a house he bought in another part of town and he no longer has mercy on women

cococandy:
Let her bring it up abeg. Better to know what is on his mind than sleep one day and not wake up because he's strangled her in her sleep.

She strong gan. One week and she's been living with him under the same house sleeping peacefully?

I prefer people who vent and get it over with.
What normal person won't be hurt if they catch their wife or husband red-handed with another person?

Anybody that pretends to swallow such without even seeking an apology or explanation is mean and may be planning Armageddon.

Believe you me, the man is planning maybe to throw her out come one day and too, can plan to poison her secretly as his silence has a very big concealed evil behind it.

The man will not hurt her.She just left her to die in silence.He won't say a word to no one but rather tell them to ask the wife if he offended her

MY DEAR LADY....HERE IS MY ADVICE FOR YOU, PACK YOUR THINGS AND RUN....HE IS TIME BOMB.

When I said Nigerian girls are hopeless, some of you where raining fire and brimstone on me. Saying it's a lie and that I'm being unfair. This woman has no respect for her self and her marriage. Nigerian girls are only good for sex and not marriage. I would rather marry a Mozambiquean than a Nigerian. They re all the same. Ex prostitutes that's what they all are. Once a ho is always a ho. If I was that man I will give her cement to drink as tea.

UjSizzle:

The conscience is a very mean judge

GBAM

That's more than enough really because there really isn't any point in engaging in a shouting match

The man is probably devastated and continuously asking himself how he has failed as a man.

Silence is a very lethal weapon. It kills the other person not knowing what's on your mind.

But seriously, becos the man refused to talked about it for a week now, the woman has also refused to apologise She deserves no form of mercy!!

She deserves whatever comes her way .

I just pity d guy. rat poison is eminent, if d guy continue to live with d woman he will jst wake up one day at d oda side of life and his madam will huk up with her ex.

in the husbands mind;equation balanced.

Lmao
But seriously! If I were her, I would confront him about d issue again, if he dismisses it, then we've got a huge dilemma on our hands..
Then I'll jejely enta d room, pack a few belongings and exit d haus.. Because paddy mi, she's not safe
I knw d badt guy is planning murder, who exactly is his target btw his wife and d ex is what I don't knw..
I guess he's still trying to wrap his head around who to attack

tempem:

No problem, dear... I exercised my freedom of speech; you just did.

I love this your response, Very matured of you.

dabriggs:



Laughing like Riley Freeman

Naaaaa..be a peace maker like heuy instead

feedthenation:


Exactly...she needs to let someone know (preferable a well-respected elder, not necessarily family members) about what happened and look for a solution to keeping her marriage.

you are right.. Anyone the man can listen to .. The man cant be predicted now.. He might have forgotten or on a homocide mission...which ever way.. Someone needs to appeal to the man's spirit and mind.

Abee79:
(1) A similar thing happened to me some time back. I went to visit my girlfriend without notice. I was shocked to see a framed picture of another guy in her room, placed conspicously. Her own little pix was neatly tucked at the edge of the frame. I swallowed every trace of panic and anger. We were planning to get married the following year for Christ sake! I spent three hours there and did not even mention the strange picture before me. I noticed she was uneasy, but I ignored her and gisted normally.

So what happened after

Did u move on

Did she marry d guy

This is the selfish nature of women that baffles me,you were caught pants down in the act ,do you still need a soothsayer to leave that house? as your services are no longer necessary.

Wait there until your news ends up in crime fighter with all that stories that touches.

The man try sha! if na me, na so I go take become popular for dem head from the shop.

TRICK QUESTION

If the Lady commits suicide, who will take the blame.

I'm betting my money it will NEVER be the guy.

The Silence Treatment is one of the hardest stuff to carry out.


Lemme tell you my story.

My swedish Girlfriend, our friends and I were arguing over the tax structure here in Germany. So when she couldn't have more of my valid Points, she blurted "Schwarzer wie du haben kein Sage im Deutschlandpolitik"


Trust me you don't wanna know what that means but that was mean racist. I just ignored her for the rest of the discussion.

She didn't bother to come to my apartment that night. Next day , I started getting Smileys on my whatsapp (Oyibo girl problems).

Later that day, she came over with one small cake she baked. I just hugged her and faced the cake squarely ( don't judge me jor)

But after the cake, I just went back to my Laptop.. live streaming Manutd vs Bayern Muenchen...no time o..

She wan come siddon on top my lap follow watch ( with my darling MUFC already losing after a beautiful Evra goal)... I just pulled out another seat for her. No be person tell her to just go siddon quietly.

She come ask me "Sag mir ehrlich, was sind wir momentan" (be honest. what are we now?)... No answer .

She carry vex waka comot, and I kindly told her to please wash the plates she used.. HAHAHAHA.

2 days no text nothing.... Me sha dey miss my oyibo oh but my plan must come to fruition...

Well lemme cut the long story short. I was treated to a mealy meal of Roasted Pork Ribs with Fries and Curry ketchup.. It was accompanied with ehhhh ehhhmmmmm and a very verrryyy emotional apology (trust Oyibo and their feelings)..

We're history now though.

Silence treatment brings you good food and a weird sense of satisfaction.. It's worth the try.

If u wan mah connect you to the babe tho.... ...... raise ya hands.

Let her confront her husband and beg for forgiveness.

1stCitizen:
Fake story. An improvement on the thread below

https://www.nairaland.com/1969440/husband-concerned-wife-silent-even#27500742

Not a fake story. I attended to the person myself and I have not seen this your thread before.

Some people are not confrontational and they get healed keeping quiet just that they will never forget the incident for life.

I think since he did not catch them sleeping together, she can explain and apologize.


Where are all these nairaland cheats when you need them most so they teach this woman how to press MUMU Button while begging their boyfriend after being caught numerous times.