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Re: Your Views On This Pls. by SeverusSnape(m): 3:10pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Junipero:One guy like that, I've forgotten his moniker |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by Feraz(m): 3:11pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Be afraid woman! Be very afraid!!! This one someone is saying the man is mean, na wa oh!!!! |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by andyanders: 3:12pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Personally, I am the kind of person that would not sleep over any issue without sorting it out with the woman. I do not know how to hide issues at all. I say out my mind.If my mum cooks bad food, I tell her straight ' Mum, that food is bad" so that she can make a change. For any relationship, communication is the best open option for two people to stay as husband and wife and the truth be said. Let the woman tell him straight that she did wrong and seek for forgiveness because maybe they were not doing anything wrong or maybe was hugging the man when the husband walked in and at that point, there is nothing for her to deny her action. For me, let the lady open up to the man and hear his opinion and if he decides not to talk, she should just take a walk because the man's silence portends danger. 1 Like |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by Baddestguyp(m): 3:12pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
nigerians sha...if he had beaten the wife blue black u will say he is wicked...he decided to remain silent without doing anything and u say he is evil... 2 Likes |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by pickabeau1: 3:16pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Abee79: OK..cool |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by menix(m): 3:17pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
folu4real: I know it might b harsh buh a cheating wife deserves d firing squad instead of doz innocent soldiers. |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by 1miccza: 3:18pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
On thinking it over,the man might not really have any sinister motives he might just be calm about it and decide to forgive but one thing is sure she has lost the trust he had in her...... 1 Like |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by odudueffiom(m): 3:18pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Woman go start fasting/prayer cuz d heart of man is deeply wicked |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by Wilson125(m): 3:19pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
as a house wife, will you allow a girl like this to be your house maid? 1 Like
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Re: Your Views On This Pls. by maasoap(m): 3:19pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Baddestguyp:His approach was not the best. The fact that he refused to discuss has already put the woman in danger. Not even sending her packing even if people will come in to settle the matter. |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by HumbledbYGrace(f): 3:22pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Nitefury:erm, its a 'she' Is the husband physically intimate with her? Sorry just have to ask @ Royver |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by amb962(m): 3:22pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Let her report herself to relevant authorities e.g her family,police,church, mosque before anything happens to her. Heard about a woman in same position few years back.The husband did not do anything to her after catching her Live and direct in the act,but kept quiet.They lived their lives as usual without no incidence or quarrel. The children were unaware of any issue between their parents. After few months of the man keeping quite, the woman could not bear it again and had to report herself to the family and church. So let this woman do same before her head goes missing. |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by Nobody: 3:22pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Wilson125: Just when you thought you have seen the highest display of stupidity......someone surprises you on Nairaland 2 Likes |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by allcomage: 3:24pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
okunboy:His silence portends bad omen. He might have been told about her wife's affairs and was tipped off when they were romancing. Most people don't take infidelity lightly talk less of a married woman in this part of the world. You know this is one of the basis for divorce. If she is the pious type every body knows,you can imagine how she will face her family and admit to having an extra marital affair,in fact she is in big mess. If she had caught her husband in the act before,I would say can argue it out but I doubt if she had caught because the way he handles the show he is a wise man. My advice,find his BEST friend and narrates the issue to for his intervention at least you will get the glimpse of his mind . This is is not a funny one. 1 Like |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by sigmundfreud(m): 3:31pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Royver:Some issues are not "walk away and cool off o"... The woman sef get mind to stay and sleep in that house. She should just report herself to her family or to a friend that can get through to him...or come with him to your clinic. That level of calmness can be pathologic! |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by feedthenation(m): 3:34pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Junipero: Wow...her statement is very, very racist |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by smudge2079(m): 3:39pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Silence is d best warfare in dis situation. I so much luv d man...killing her softly with silence ..since 1878 |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by Nobody: 3:43pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
The p is the man is in shock, people av diff ways to handle shock, and if the woman brings it up, he myt withdraw the more. All she can do is go stay with her parents for a while till her husband get's over the shock. Because he myt av some not so good plans for her in mind if he should see her around. 1 Like |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by ALISMILE(m): 3:45pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
I can bet anything that that woman is from one particular tribe. They so commonly indulge in adultery! I didn't mention any particular tribe. but they know themselves! However, am currently living in d Southwest! |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by cococandy(f): 3:49pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Royver:forgotten what? Nobody forgets that kind of thing much less in a week. He might be in denial trying to suppress reality by convincing himself that ignoring it will make it go away or he may be bidding his time to do something worse. Either way he has to talk about it. If she can't bear the silence anymore, she can send him a long asssss text or email baring her mind about everything that happened with the hope that it could break the ice and get him to react or at least talk about it That silence ain't healthy. Odi dangerous |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by ALISMILE(m): 3:51pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
prettyboi1989:Ur suggestion could be disastrous for her. What if by the time she is comin back anoda woman is already in d house! What I think is dat any woman who cheats on her husband shud be ready to live permanently wit the man she cheated wit if she is caught! |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by andyanders: 3:53pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
In this situation, I must sit down and get my kettle on fire in order to get tea and watch further discussion on this issue. Most ladies cherish this kind of tea keg.
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Re: Your Views On This Pls. by Junipero: 3:55pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
feedthenation: But I liked her ooo... |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by lockupman(m): 3:55pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Amen o and me too. I really need this kind of silence that her hubby has. But I fear I will become deadly in my plans against this kind of woman. LyfeJennings: |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by LarrySun(m): 3:55pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
It's so bad that the lady had to cheat on her husband in the first place; like, what was she thinking about? Anyway, the husband's inaction is something that should be watch, but then, he may not have any hutful ulterior motive against his wife. The silence may well serve as his own punishment. I've got no suggestion to give the cheating better-half now as the thread is filled with enough suggestions and chastisement to befuddle her thick fluid of pap she calls a brain. However, she may just write out on a piece of paper the numerous suggestions and people's comments about her husband, give them to the husband to read and hope for the best. But of course, she deserves the worst. Smh! 3 Likes |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by bosun11(m): 3:56pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
cococandy: very dangerous |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by Nobody: 3:56pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
ALISMILE:Lol payback is a biitch, she can't eat her cake and have it. Any one who cheats should be ready to face the consequence and not looking for an easy way out. |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by LarrySun(m): 3:58pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
andyanders:If your wife cheats on you with the tea kettle, please don't come crying to Nairalanders. 1 Like |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by DollyParton1(f): 3:59pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
sukkot:Lol. Look at this one. You asked question and answer am yourself. Wetin remain for me to talk. |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by Nobody: 4:02pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
W what ell, can I say? Same thing I would do... who got time to start arguing about what happened? if her conscience can't contain her anymore Maybe she'll just start crying and begging while all I do is stare at her and ask what's wrong? if she tries to bringing what happened, I'll just tell her to forget about it. That's ma own reaction tho. everyone reacts differently to different situations. |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by cococandy(f): 4:06pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
True linearity: |
Re: Your Views On This Pls. by AHOY147: 4:08pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
The man might mean no harm because from my experience, I once caught my girlfriend that stays in same house with me cheating on me, I did similar thing to her. I just handled it with maturity and for some weeks she couldn't withstand my silent anymore even when she tried bringing it up, I refused to utter word. I just choosed to punish her emotionally by keeping her in dark. But one night she broke the silence she started crying, begging that I should forgive her and I asked for what offence? Though after much talk that I did forgive her but to be honest with you, that was the day she lost her place in my heart, I now regarded her as my fucking mate, no more love and trust attached to the relationship. When I left school, she was never in my list of girls to choose as wife,we ended it there in school. 1 Like |
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