chaircover:


In that case if you are that fearful, dont let anyone in your home . .anyone at all
Let everyone clear up after their own mess; do their own cleaning and cooking
Home school your kids yourself so they dont mix up with witches and demons in the school playground
Dont travel to the village at Xmas
Before you sit on your chair in the office, call a pastor
Dont eat at parties or outside
Witches and demons are everywhere

Personally I refuse to be scared by what may never be
My going to church every week and my relationship with God will be a waste.
Live your life in truth and in goodness
God Himself will fight your battles.

watch and pray....

not ignore and pray!!!....

be vigilant....

u guys sound ridiculous...

did say any of such u typed updere??...

i owe u no apology for my post!!!!

Sophyrocks:
Ask that girl questions on what she was doing in the dark.

And please, find an older maid. An 11 year old girl used as a maid is child abuse. If you are to render help to an 11 year old girl, its not a must she must be used as a maid.

Nice to hear from you once again.

My dear, I objected but the mum prevailed on me.
I do not pay her a dime. I simply pay her fees, send her to school, and planned for her to grow up with us. That's all.

patrickdarlins:


re view the co.incidence...

things dont just happen!!!!

What's there to review?
Do you know anything about sleep-walking?

She heard the scream, woke up, sleep walked, a sleep-walker doesn't even know what's happening till he/she comes out of it.

An 11 year old is supposed to be growing up playing and not having a care in the world not in your house taking care of you.
Why won't she stand in the dark when you have made her own life dark by denying her a childhood. Wicked people scared of their own shadow.

Get a grown up abeg, if your wife is scared of you cheating thats her problem you dont victimise a child because you feel the need to protect an adult.

Very irritating

Sophyrocks:


Why are you taking it personal? Calm down. Has such happened to you?

aint taking it personal...

we are different folks from different places...dont let my opinion influence u....if u dont like it...

lets move ahead ok.

dein77:


Nice to hear from you once again.

My dear, I objected but the mum prevailed on me.
I do not pay her a dime. I simply pay her fees, send her to school, and planned for her to grow up with us. That's all.

O.k. Thats commendable and heartwarming. I know you mean well. but please be more assertive in your objection. It would appear you want her as a maid in exchange for all you are doing for her. which is what her mother wants. you know whats right and wrong. Keep being a source of immense help to her.

freecocoa:
What's there to review?
Do you know anything about sleep-walking?

She heard the scream, woke up, sleep walked, a sleep-walker doesn't even know what's happening till he/she comes out of it.

see as she de talk like say she de dere....

funny pipo scattered all over this thread!!!

aisha2:
An 11 year old is supposed to be growing up playing and not having a care in the world not in your house taking care of you.
Why won't she stand in the dark when you have made her own life dark by denying her a childhood. Wicked people scared of their own shadow.

Get a grown up abeg, if your wife is scared of you cheating thats her problem you dont victimise a child because you feel the need to protect an adult.

Very irritating

U have no idea. Typing nonsense is cheap. Emotionalism!

patrickdarlins:
see as she de talk like say she de dere....

funny pipo scattered all over this thread!!!

I'm glad I don't reason like you, yet na una dey carry church for head, mschew.

Your wife is a wicked woman!
Look Thank God this is online and not face to face, I would have scolded you badly.
11 years is a child for crying out loud
I have to wake some of my kid`s at that age maybe when they fall asleep in another room and they stand there totally baff with dazed eyes and have no idea where they are.
God this world is a wicked place. She gave that poor girl a fright in her half sleep and instead of consoling the child and sending her back to bed you and your wife now want to band her a witch.
Don`t you know that if you leave a room a small child might wake up!

Oh God this is so unfair! This is child abuse! This is evil! This is disgusting!

You just came on here to solicit support in branding her a witch!

May anyone who gives you such advise recieve the wrath of God! Evil human beings you disgust me!

Sophyrocks:


O.k. Thats commendable and heartwarming. I know you mean well. but please be more assertive in your objection. It would appear you want her as a maid in exchange for all you are doing for her. which is what her mother wants. you know whats right and wrong. Keep being a source of immense help to her.

U see the reason I was happy when I saw you on board!

I couldn't have added call those details in the original writ. It may appear distracting to some people, and drive them away from the thread.

Dear, my daughter's Sophia.

freecocoa:
I'm glad I don't reason like you, yet na una dey carry church for head, mschew.

i use GOD beg u...cocoa abeg nor quote me again..

i nor sabi fight or quarrel with woman...abeg

freecocoa:
I also added that if she's being paid to do the chores she does, she can't be said to be a ward, she's now a worker who gets paid for her job, which btw, is child labor.

In the first post he called her his househelp . SO THAT IS WHAT SHE IS FOR HIM!
Even if she were the quuen of Sheeba. She is being treated as a househelp in the home.

And OP spare us how nice you are to her and what you do for her. That is no justification for abuse.
Hell that kid could get killed with this witch accusation!

dein77:


U see the reason I was happy when I saw you on board!

I couldn't have added call those details in the original writ. It may appear distracting to some people, and drive them away from the thread.

Dear, my daughter's Sophia.

You could have added those details still because the post has portrayed you to be non chalant about her age and people are already screaming murder in the thread. They are not distracting. rather they are what it is.

How nice. My name ends with an 'e' though.

mutter:


In the first post he called her his househelp . SO THAT IS WHAT SHE IS FOR HIM!
Even if she were the quuen of Sheeba. She is being treated as a househelp in the home.

And OP spare us how nice you are to her and what you do for her. That is no justification for abuse.
Hell that kid could get killed with this witch accusation!

My dear, you have no idea who I am. Yes, I shouldn't have used that word, but she's a daughter to us all.

I can't say more. Your contribution is still welcomed and appreciated.

mutter:
Your wife is a wicked woman!
Look Thank God this is online and not face to face, I would have scolded you badly.
11 years is a child for crying out loud
I have to wake some of my kid`s at that age maybe when they fall asleep in another room and they stand there totally baff with dazed eyes and have no idea where they are.
God this world is a wicked place. She gave that poor girl a fright in her half sleep and instead of consoling the child and sending her back to bed you and your wife now want to band her a witch.
Don`t you know that if you leave a room a small child might wake up!

Oh God this is so unfair! This is child abuse! This is evil! This is disgusting!

You just came on here to solicit support in branding her a witch!

May anyone who gives you such advise recieve the wrath of God! Evil human beings you disgust me!

Chai chai chai! So you sabi vex like this? calm down.

dein77:


My dear, you have no idea who I am. Yes, I shouldn't have used that word, but she's a daughter to us all.

I can't say more. Your contribution is still welcomed and appreciated.

I dont like rubbing things in especially as you seem to have seen your fault. . . .
However what I tend to see is people "upgrading" the people in your life when you are introducing them to others
It is strange that you downgraded her and called her househelp instead of calling her your ward and you her guardian.
Anyway, treat her well.
I beg you, for your own good too, treat her as you would your your own daughter
God sees all and he is a Just God
Whatever you do good or bad, you will reap
Always remember that!
If your wife had found your own daughter in the dark alone in the living room at 11.57, what would she have done?

chaircover:


I dont like rubbing things in especially as you seem to have seen your fault. . . .
However what I tend to see is people "upgrading" the people in your life when you are introducing them to others
It is strange that you downgraded her and called her househelp instead of calling her your ward and you her guardian.
Anyway, treat her well.
I beg you, for your own good too, treat her as you would your your own daughter
God sees all and he is a Just God
Whatever you do good or bad, you will reap
Always remember that!
If your wife had found your own daughter in the dark alone in the living room at 11.57, what would she have done?

Sensible. She's our daughter.

patrickdarlins:
i use GOD beg u...cocoa abeg nor quote me again..

i nor sabi fight or quarrel with woman...abeg

unfortunately for you, anyone can quote anyone, the only thing you can do is not reply, plus ain't nobody fighting with you, please don't start chanting "die by fire" just yet.

Sophyrocks:


You could have added those details still because the post has portrayed you to be non chalant about her age and people are already screaming murder in the thread. They are not distracting. rather they are what it is.

How nice. My name ends with an 'e' though.

Very correct. My choice of words didn't help. Well, this isolated incident WONT affect our love and care for her.

As per the name, sometimes I address my daughter as Sophie, then other times, Sophia.

dein77:



Very correct. My choice of words didn't help. Well, this isolated incident WONT affect our love and care for her.

As per the name, sometimes I address my daughter as Sophie, then other times, Sophia.

Cool.

Sophyrocks:


Cool.

Yeah. Thanks dear.

dein77:


Yeah. Thanks dear.

You are welcome.

mutter:


In the first post he called her his househelp . SO THAT IS WHAT SHE IS FOR HIM!
Even if she were the quuen of Sheeba. She is being treated as a househelp in the home.

And OP spare us how nice you are to her and what you do for her. That is no justification for abuse.
Hell that kid could get killed with this witch accusation!

mutter is my friend today.

Let's just hope he treats her as nice as he claims, although I'm still not convinced(not that he owes me anything)just like chaircover said, if it were his daughter standing in the dark, would this thread have been in existence? *question for the gods*

Go tell it on the mountains......

A quick U-turn to approach when the wished for results were not realised.

dein77:

U have no idea. Typing nonsense is cheap. Emotionalism!

Emotionalism is better than being a slave driver and user.
I help people EVERYDAY and I don't take their children as slaves to pay me back. You want a maid get an ADULT.
No matter how we sugar coat it a child is a child you dont take a child and expect adult behaviour.

Why is it only poor people's kids who are accused of witchcraft?

Help if you want to help, adopt a poor family help out with fees if you want to but don't deny a child her childhood so your kids can have one and tell yourself you are " helping "

freecocoa:
unfortunately for you, anyone can quote anyone, the only thing you can do is not reply, plus ain't nobody fighting with you, please don't start chanting "die by fire" just yet.

hmmmm....freecocoa.....u de answer your name shall....
nawa ooo...notin we nor go see for NL oo

mutter:
Your wife is a wicked woman!
Look Thank God this is online and not face to face, I would have scolded you badly.
11 years is a child for crying out loud
I have to wake some of my kid`s at that age maybe when they fall asleep in another room and they stand there totally baff with dazed eyes and have no idea where they are.
God this world is a wicked place. She gave that poor girl a fright in her half sleep and instead of consoling the child and sending her back to bed you and your wife now want to band her a witch.
Don`t you know that if you leave a room a small child might wake up!

Oh God this is so unfair! This is child abuse! This is evil! This is disgusting!

You just came on here to solicit support in branding her a witch!

May anyone who gives you such advise recieve the wrath of God! Evil human beings you disgust me!

God bless you, if you ask them they will say they are "helping " do you know how much foreigners send to aid Nigeria and Africans each year from diseases? Do you know how much Bill Gates spent on eradication of polio on ebola on HIV and Malaria to Africa? Why didn't he take our kids to wash his car and clean his poo because he is " helping " yet that man is an atheist. We will go and be claiming we believe in God when our hearts are wicked and exploitative

Whats all these colouration? She is suddenly a ward, we love her like our daughter lie lie lie, will you send your own daughter to be someones househelp? Please spare me. Get an adult and if you want to help help without conditions

aisha2:


Emotionalism is better than being a slave driver and user.
I help people EVERYDAY and I don't take their children as slaves to pay me back. You want a maid get an ADULT.
No matter how we sugar coat it a child is a child you dont take a child and expect adult behaviour.

Why is it only poor people's kids who are accused of witchcraft?

Help if you want to help, adopt a poor family help out with fees if you want to but don't deny a child her childhood so your kids can have one and tell yourself you are " helping "

i never really expected less from all dese ladies comments....

wetin op do una ladies now.....

oh....so u guys thinks the op is using the little girl as slave or using her to do tedious work??

nah...u guys are wrong.....

THREAD CLOSED!!!!!

aisha2:
Whats all these colouration? She is suddenly a ward, we love her like our daughter lie lie lie, will you send your own daughter to be someones househelp? Please spare me. Get an adult and if you want to help help without conditions

There's no point explaining myself any further on this issue. My initial description is working against me. That's life. You have formed an opinion that's difficult to erase. That's life.

I simply wasn'tcomfortable wit an event, and sought to bring it here.

Nice meeting you here. Ur thoughts show how individual we are.

Summary: There's a man seated in the heavens, who shall pay everyone with their own coin in due season.

I appreciate all your points.

dein77:
Good morning, my good people.



But the shocking thing was that, she didn't meet our house help, an 11-year old in their room.

You are a human abuser. I am sure it's people like you that was complaining about Yerima marrying a 14 year old.

I detest people like you. You want a future for your own child and ready to mortgage another human being

So you want 11 year old child to take care of your child. You and your wife should be ashamed of yourselves.