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Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by haryomikun(m): 10:40pm On Sep 15, 2014
3cycle:

Why does mr cock want a lightskinned lady when he is darkskinned?
I don't like his usernaame btw
Its actually Mrcork o!grin Trust me, he'll like Ɣơ̴͡u̶̲̥̅̊ if Ɣơ̴͡u̶̲̥̅̊ are liteskineed
Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by damekings(m): 8:06pm On Sep 16, 2014
khiaa:

I have someone on NL and that would upset him very much.
Wassup khiaa
Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by marieolae(f): 8:37pm On Sep 21, 2014
190theclown:

check your inbox bae wink
mail not working
Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by Mattyj(m): 9:29pm On Sep 21, 2014
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Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by Nobody: 10:18pm On Sep 21, 2014
zube01: Thank goodness!! atleast u gals also try to woo us on social network and we do to u what u do to us!!!...
lmao...what is this one feeling like?
Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by 190theclown: 7:33am On Sep 22, 2014
marieolae: mail not working
drop me a message bae

190innairaland@gmail.com smiley
Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by zube01(m): 11:24am On Sep 22, 2014
missyhorlah: lmao...what is this one feeling like?
the way u feel when we woo u and u turn us down!..feeling like obasanjo!
Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by zube01(m): 11:25am On Sep 22, 2014
missyhorlah: lmao...what is this one feeling like?
Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by Nobody: 1:56pm On Sep 22, 2014
zube01: the way u feel when we woo u and u turn us down!..feeling like obasanjo!
lolz...pele ehn?
Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by zube01(m): 1:57pm On Sep 22, 2014
missyhorlah: lolz...pele ehn?
Pele u too!
Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by Ladycloud(f): 2:44pm On Sep 27, 2014
u guyz sounding lyk wooing a gurl is a biggie!.....;my dear....dnt mind dem.....nd dats how they will be saying girls form too much!!!
Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by DonJupo(m): 4:15am On Oct 08, 2014
3cycle:
As a lady, sometimes I come across great post by a guy and I fall in love immediately. Most times I try to ignore the poster but I do Remember The username so I summon the courage to follow him and see if I can strike an online conversation before I send a pm but I never succeed. sad

Just yesterday a young tall guy on Nairaland from Enugu state gave me an all time blow when it was obvious I was trying to woo him, he started with iyanga and walah he ignored me completelyonly for somebody to call me names for making my intention known. cry
To make matters worst his response was "I don hang boot since last year"
Who says that to a lady bikonu

Do we really have gentlemen on Nairaland?
Can a guy reply pm's of a girl with an open mind?
What are the chances of starting an e romance if a lady were to be the innitiator?
Seun is it possible for us to chat with a nairalander without a third party involved?



You should count yourself lucky that you opened up to a decent guy. Yes, whoever he is, he is one of the decent guys out there. He was sincere enough to tell you that he aint available. Its not about being difficult to get, rather, about his intergrity and respect for the female gender.
A lot of other guys out there will take advantage of your weakness and at the end, make you regret going into it at all.
He is probably in a sincere relationship already or you probably aint his kinda lady but whatsoever his reasons were, take a positive look at it that you were bold enough to make such effort, didn't succeed but wont give up cos there's definitly someone out there meant for you.
This been said, I personally admire your effort and courage/wish you the best when next you try.......and to the guy in question, there are a lot more subtle ways to tell a lady that you aint interested but at the same time, make her take pride in her effort cos i tell you bro, "E no be beanz for a chic to hit on a guy"

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Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by Uchesis: 7:36am On Dec 22, 2014
3cycle:
As a lady, sometimes I come across great post by a guy and I fall in love immediately. Most times I try to ignore the poster but I do Remember The username so I summon the courage to follow him and see if I can strike an online conversation before I send a pm but I never succeed. sad

Just yesterday a young tall guy on Nairaland from Enugu state gave me an all time blow when it was obvious I was trying to woo him, he started with iyanga and walah he ignored me completelyonly for somebody to call me names for making my intention known. cry
To make matters worst his response was "I don hang boot since last year"
Who says that to a lady bikonu

Do we really have gentlemen on Nairaland?
Can a guy reply pm's of a girl with an open mind?
What are the chances of starting an e romance if a lady were to be the innitiator?
Seun is it possible for us to chat with a nairalander without a third party involved?

But na una own worse pass naw. NL babes sabi fall our hand. I lie??
Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by Mmayor(m): 12:21pm On Jan 23, 2015
khiaa:


Why are you getting this mental picture of a woman walking up to you and throwing herself at you?

You have a problem with a pretty woman approaching you and introducing herself to you, holding a nice conversation with you then at the end of the convo asking you can the both of you meet for a dinner date? That is the proper way for a lady to do it.

You sound like it's impossible, I am getting you correctly that is. well, I've had such experience more than once and trust me it wasn't nice.
Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by Mmayor(m): 12:25pm On Jan 23, 2015
missbronze:
U are cheap joor.

u ans shld ve been 'I don hang booth since last yr'.


As the wooer, i expect and demand u do shakara for me. Make the Chase interesting for me.

Nice! grin
missbronze:
U are cheap joor.

u ans shld ve been 'I don hang booth since last yr'.


As the wooer, i expect and demand u do shakara for me. Make the Chase interesting for me.

Nice!
Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by khiaa(f): 12:30pm On Jan 23, 2015
Mmayor:


You sound like it's impossible, I am getting you correctly that is. well, I've had such experience more than once and trust me it wasn't nice.



Explain to me what was the problem because I'm not understanding you.
Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by passionate88: 12:31pm On Jan 23, 2015
3cycle:

You can say that again.
He told me to try someone else, how can I when he killed the energy in me with his response
Let me give you the only advice you girls like giving boys here on NL.... Maybe he's not for you, try another guy.. But on a serious note, don't you like someone that's sincere?, he told you he isn't ready and you are angry/hurt, what if he had strung you along like some guys would have done and dump you in the long run? Wouldn't that be worse than this?
Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by Nobody: 12:34pm On Jan 23, 2015
passionate88:
Let me give you the only advice you girls like giving boys here on NL.... Maybe he's not for you, try another guy.. But on a serious note, don't you like someone that's sincere?, he told you he isn't ready and you are angry/hurt, what if he had strung you along like some guys would have done and dump you in the long run? Wouldn't that be worse than this?
Are you ok?
Did you check the date of this thread?
Who is d Nama that digged the thread up? undecided
Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by Mmayor(m): 12:36pm On Jan 23, 2015
khiaa:




Explain to me what was the problem because I'm not understanding you.
The "mental picture of a woman walking up to you and throwing herself at you" part.
Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by Nobody: 12:37pm On Jan 23, 2015
Mmayor:


Nice! grin

Nice!
You are really sick undecided
Olodo the thread is an old one.
Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by Nobody: 12:45pm On Jan 23, 2015
No Nairaland babe has wooed me... Infact am still waiting. Or may be they don't have or can't offer undecided what I want.
Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by passionate88: 12:46pm On Jan 23, 2015
3cycle:

Are you ok?
Did you check the date of this thread?
Who is d Nama that digged the thread up? undecided
Reason number 12
Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by khiaa(f): 12:49pm On Jan 23, 2015
Mmayor:

The "mental picture of a woman walking up to you and throwing herself at you" part.


If that is your idea of a woman showing interest in you, then you need a reality check.
The woman that you encountered was probably a hooker/runs girl looking to make her daily funds, not a woman who is sincere and wants to get to know you.
Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by khiaa(f): 12:59pm On Jan 23, 2015
MrHardOn:
No Nairaland babe has wooed me... Infact am still waiting. Or may be they don't have or can't offer undecided what I want.


I'm yet to figure out who you are but I promise you I will. grin grin grin
@Topic......would you consider a woman wooing/showing interest in you as desperate?
Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by justmag(m): 1:05pm On Jan 23, 2015
Girls like 3cycle make the world go round. Too bad I have never messaged anyone online before. I don't believe in that e-issssh except we live in the same state and I can see you in person. That's me keeping it 100.
Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by Nobody: 1:13pm On Jan 23, 2015
Khiaa. Haha. Pls figure out on time. Interestingly outside nairaland I have always been wooed by women 99%. And I have always treated them like Gold. How can they be desperate? I love it when they do that....that makes me more interested. Just that my way is not their way. grin
Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by Mmayor(m): 1:18pm On Jan 23, 2015
khiaa:



If that is your idea of a woman showing interest in you, then you need a reality check.
The woman that you encountered was probably a hooker/runs girl looking to make her daily funds, not a woman who is sincere and wants to get to know you.
Is that my idea of a woman showing interest in me? No. I only brought that up because you made it seem like it was impossible.
Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by Mmayor(m): 1:20pm On Jan 23, 2015
3cycle:

You are really sick undecided
Olodo the thread is an old one.
Olodo? Rather harsh dont you think?I didn't bring the thread up you know?
Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by khiaa(f): 1:25pm On Jan 23, 2015
MrHardOn:
Khiaa. Haha. Pls figure out on time. Interestingly outside nairaland I have always been wooed by women 99%. And I have always treated them like Gold. How can they be desperate? I love it when they do that....that makes me more interested. Just that my way is not their way. grin



Don't underestimate me I will find you. grin grin

As far as women wooing you 99% of the time, you must be hella fine or your ability to satisfy women sexually is spreaded throughout the whole country. grin grin
Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by MrCork: 1:26pm On Jan 23, 2015
3cycle:
As a lady, sometimes I come across great post by a guy and I fall in love immediately. Most times I try to ignore the poster but I do Remember The username so I summon the courage to follow him and see if I can strike an online conversation before I send a pm but I never succeed. sad

Just yesterday a young tall guy on Nairaland from Enugu state gave me an all time blow when it was obvious I was trying to woo him, he started with iyanga and walah he ignored me completelyonly for somebody to call me names for making my intention known. cry
To make matters worst his response was "I don hang boot since last year"
Who says that to a lady bikonu

Do we really have gentlemen on Nairaland?
Can a guy reply pm's of a girl with an open mind?
What are the chances of starting an e romance if a lady were to be the innitiator?
Seun is it possible for us to chat with a nairalander without a third party involved?


angry

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Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by MrCork: 1:28pm On Jan 23, 2015
3cycle:
As a lady, sometimes I come across great post by a guy and I fall in love immediately. Most times I try to ignore the poster but I do Remember The username so I summon the courage to follow him and see if I can strike an online conversation before I send a pm but I never succeed. sad

Just yesterday a young tall guy on Nairaland from Enugu state gave me an all time blow when it was obvious I was trying to woo him, he started with iyanga and walah he ignored me completelyonly for somebody to call me names for making my intention known. cry
To make matters worst his response was "I don hang boot since last year"
Who says that to a lady bikonu

Do we really have gentlemen on Nairaland?
Can a guy reply pm's of a girl with an open mind?
What are the chances of starting an e romance if a lady were to be the innitiator?
Seun is it possible for us to chat with a nairalander without a third party involved?



...woo guys wher??.. na joke??..those homebase guys wit tribal mark like they juss wrestle wit lion??...sweeeery fogggggerit!!!.

My professional advise, u want good man , juss look out for Londoners...truss me...we berra husband material and we don't even hav ordinary pimples (no oofeinse)
angry

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Re: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by Nobody: 1:28pm On Jan 23, 2015
Khiaa funny enough am just an average looking guy. I don't underestimate the power of women. You will find out but it will take you some time.
As per satisfaction... yeah that one is guaranteed. Not for lazy one though. They need to work it like Kika23. grin

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