Deejavuu:


Hian see jamb question o...

Oga how does this relate to my post ?

Or lemme me refer u to the op

Cc Emusmith

emusmith:


Can you explain that?

nnamdizen:
ehn! so you use and re use untill they wear out abi let me see you near my sister

malonephills:
Some believe God has to come from heaven and get em right choice #religions wahala

Nneka123:
Are you indirectly insulting me, cos i've a small booty?

RAKITIC:
apart frm having kids pls wat else do i stand to gain in marriage that i cant have wen i am single.

adoubleu:
@emusmith, u are absolutely right. My relationship just ended and he was guilty of all but 6, 8 and 9. I just had to call it off. Am grateful God opened my eyes too see him for what he is before it was too late.

emusmith:


Intelligent question...Are you an undergraduate? Was, is or to be?

RAKITIC:
graduate

emusmith:
DISCLAIMER: Forgive me ahead... I'm speaking as it is in my head . I AM NOT GENERALIZING...


So, I choose to give reasons why you will see a grown up man in his forties still single.

Don't give me the money excuse crap... No matter how broke you are, your size dey market...

They're very poor couples enjoying life here in PH and other big cities in Nigeria...

So your size exist unless your problem is any of these NINE CRUCIAL points Most Nigerian Men Don't Get Married.


Follow me closely . Most Nigerian Men Are...



1. Too Choosy (Highly Selective)


It will amaze you but it's true. He wants a girl with the perfect butt, eyes, nose, teeth etc. Anyone not meeting his expectations, he uses and dumps!


2. Too Promiscuous


Searching for male virgin is like searching for diamonds: they exist though. This is because the average Nigerian man has the "side chick". He feels safer that way


3. Too Proud (Egoistic)

Marriage humbles any body! Most men don't want that so they remain single. It takes normal humility to carry your wife's bag or even help her do some chores. An humble man doesn't reply to all his wife says. He takes them with a pinch of salt.


4. Too Indecisive

Today, he says he wants to marry from East, tomorrow from South South. Today he wants to marry this year, tomorrow he postpones it until the girl leaves his life...time dey go



5. Too Over demanding


He wants everything to be done his way- from her looks to how she eats... That's horrible! Feature of a tyrant.


6. Too Mean


They've been dating only for a year and he has hit her 10 times. He talks to her as if they're in a battle! Haba!


7. Too Insensitive ( Not thoughtful)

You forgot her birthday and other days that means a lot to her. She is in pain and you're still demanding for sex. Some men sha...


8. Too busy making money

Many manchellors are so because of this.

Many guys in their 30's are so money driven that they have forgotten they need a wife. They are still after "hookers" and small girls. Hmm!



9. Too stingy


Some one said: You can give without loving but you can't love without giving.

Those guys asking questions about giving to their girls- Hope this helps. No girl will and forever will marry a stingy guy!
I'm not saying you should give to every girl but the one you claim to like. No naa!



This is a counter thread...

Guys, take it light enh...

InZA:


Lool

This is where I kinda fall into

I don't even want him to come down.

He should just put a shinning 5000 watts
bulb on her head, so that when I step out tommorow
I will just see the glowing bulb and know that this is my wife...

I wonder why it can't just be that simple

emusmith:


Why did you go to school? Don't feel insulted

emusmith:


I'm single...

Deejavuu:
Too scared of commitment...

joseph1832:
I wouldn't want to make my next question personal but lemme ask you, why are you still single?.

passionate88:
They are getting wiser by the day. Why get married just for the so called wifey to still sleep with her "ex" and many others....

joseph1832:
I wouldn't want to make my next question personal but lemme ask you, why are you still single?.

What of you?

emusmith:


I'm happy for you, dearie . Hope you are stronger now...?

adoubleu:



Yes dear, I really am. Can't explain it but I am much happier now without him...

emusmith:


I know the path you're trailing... For me to put down all these... you should know without been told that I experience some of it too...You can't give what you don't have na....

Though I won't categorically tell you which

brito:
kallmemrB
come in

joseph1832:
And your experience is what you're sure others experience as well?.