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Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by mirexxx(f): 11:51pm On Jan 26, 2015
zick19:
Yes, coz i hate girls of my tribe..... My future wife is gonna be from Delta, no doubt about dat.
huh am not a deltan so hws dat possible cry
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Nobody: 12:01am On Jan 27, 2015
khia:


Why do you want to marry a white lady?
one thing I don't like abt being is my hair,I want my children to have better hair...that's all
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by khia: 12:37am On Jan 27, 2015
Ipledge:
one thing I don't like abt being is my hair,I want my children to have better hair...that's all


That's ridiculous, you should be ashamed of yourself, so you think whites have BETTER HAIR than you, and to think it's you men that are always callng Nigerian women self-haters for wearing weaves.
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Nobody: 1:05am On Jan 27, 2015
khia:



That's ridiculous, you should be ashamed of yourself, so you think whites have BETTER HAIR than you, and to think it's you men that are always callng Nigerian women self-haters for wearing weaves.
have never abuse any woman that use weave.guess what d day I got to jfk,the only I was looking was d people's hair,u don't even care about other thing I see...I like caucatian hair
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by tonychristopher: 1:07am On Jan 27, 2015
To be honest ..I don't think I will marry Yoruba for reasons like curses ..their women are so bad mouthed ..next too fetish and I am not ok with that ...I don't like dirts also ..I think they are big no for me

I won't want a woman that parties every time and buys asobi always ...I am sorry if I hurt people that my own preference and infidelity hmmmm

I will love to marry calabar woman nice cook very neat and handles a man well

But the snag is I have a wife and she is pretty
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by tonychristopher: 1:08am On Jan 27, 2015
khia:



That's ridiculous, you should be ashamed of yourself, so you think whites have BETTER HAIR than you, and to think it's you men that are always callng Nigerian women self-haters for wearing weaves.

That's what's called complex ..she got it ..hair

What is hair

So vane or vain
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by khia: 1:14am On Jan 27, 2015
Ipledge:
have never abuse any woman that use weave.guess what d day I got to jfk,the only I was looking was d people's hair,u don't even care about other thing I see...I like caucatian hair





errrrrrrrg!!! Some people just don't know any better.
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Nobody: 1:49am On Jan 27, 2015
khia:






errrrrrrrg!!! Some people just don't any better.
well u can think inferiority complex,dt doesn't bother me.am just saying the only thing I like in white,that i wish I would have got.we have different preference
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by khia: 1:53am On Jan 27, 2015
Ipledge:
well u can think inferiority complex,dt doesn't bother me.am just saying the only thing I like in white,that i wish I would have got.we have different preference


You wish you had straight blond hair?
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by tpiar: 2:00am On Jan 27, 2015
Ipledge:
have never abuse any woman that use weave.guess what d day I got to jfk,the only I was looking was d people's hair,u don't even care about other thing I see...I like caucatian hair

cant be the hair you like, since some black people also have that hair, it depends on the region.

what you like are Caucasians themselves (colour things), but you're pretending its hair.

here are examples of black people with Caucasian hair:





Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Nobody: 2:25am On Jan 27, 2015
khia:



You wish you had straight blond hair?
not necessarily blonde,but I like the strait hair
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Nobody: 2:26am On Jan 27, 2015
tpiar:


cant be the hair you like, since some black people also have that hair, it depends on the region.

what you like are Caucasians themselves (colour things), but you're pretending its hair.

here are examples of black people with Caucasian hair:





bro this is funny,this is not caucatian hair am talking about
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by tpiar: 2:27am On Jan 27, 2015
Ipledge:
bro this is funny,this is not caucatian hair am talking about

ok, would you date them since they have Caucasian hair?

my point is what you are on about is skin colour, not necessarily hair alone.
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Nobody: 2:29am On Jan 27, 2015
tpiar:


ok, would you date them since they have Caucasian hair?

my point is what you are on about is skin colour, not necessarily hair alone.
not skin colour,I like their hair,but mixed colour ain't bad too
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by tpiar: 2:33am On Jan 27, 2015
can you date the above ladies in the picture?


since you say its only about hair.
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by tzoracle: 3:06am On Jan 27, 2015
Absolutely yes IF the family is liberal on the thoughts too
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Nobody: 3:06am On Jan 27, 2015
tpiar:
can you date the above ladies in the picture?


since you say its only about hair.
this not a caucatian hair
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Nobody: 3:32am On Jan 27, 2015
mirexxx:
huh am not a deltan so hws dat possible cry

Lolz, so far itz you.... Eventhough u re a fulani, u re still mine.
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Nobody: 3:45am On Jan 27, 2015
ITbomb:
No way unless she can speak my tongue very fluently.

I belong to the old guard that will not allow my kids to speak 100% English at home after speaking the same in school almost 100%.

So if the mum is not gonna help them learn and speak their original tongue then capital NO!
. you can help teach the kids there mother tongue at home.


Have dated outside my tribe twice, and it was all awesome. am looking forward to marrying outside my tribe too, esp from the Niger delta regions. Reason: I love there culture.
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Nobody: 3:47am On Jan 27, 2015
tpiar:


cant be the hair you like, since some black people also have that hair, it depends on the region.

what you like are Caucasians themselves (colour things), but you're pretending its hair.

here are examples of black people with Caucasian hair:





. the Lady in the second pics is a hidden beauty. all she needs is a little touch and she will transform into a queen.
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Nobody: 3:49am On Jan 27, 2015
tonychristopher:
To be honest ..I don't think I will marry Yoruba for reasons like curses ..their women are so bad mouthed ..next too fetish and I am not ok with that ...I don't like dirts also ..I think they are big no for me

I won't want a woman that parties every time and buys asobi always ...I am sorry if I hurt people that my own preference and infidelity hmmmm

I will love to marry calabar woman nice cook very neat and handles a man well

But the snag is I have a wife and she is pretty
. I hope she doesn't see this. Anyway congrays for getting yourself a pretty wife. is she Yoruba?
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Nobody: 3:56am On Jan 27, 2015
Adaobi12:
. I hope she doesn't see this. Anyway congrays for getting yourself a pretty wife. is she Yoruba?
he said a yoruba woman is a no no for him.
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Nobody: 3:58am On Jan 27, 2015
mirexxx:
huh am not a deltan so hws dat possible cry
danny will see this oo...nothing can stop me from showing
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Nobody: 3:59am On Jan 27, 2015
Ipledge:
he said a yoruba woman is a no no for him.
. OK.
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by tpiar: 5:26am On Jan 27, 2015
Ipledge:
this not a caucatian hair

what type of hair is it?
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by tpiar: 5:27am On Jan 27, 2015
both ladies are beautiful btw.

@ photos.
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Monicasque(f): 5:31am On Jan 27, 2015
ITbomb:
No way unless she can speak my tongue very fluently.

I belong to the old guard that will not allow my kids to speak 100% English at home after speaking the same in school almost 100%.

So if the mum is not gonna help them learn and speak their original tongue then capital NO!

i agree with u 100 percent

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Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by tpiar: 5:33am On Jan 27, 2015
Ipledge:
this not a caucatian hair

more:

[img]http://www.corbisimages.com/images/BD001486.jpg?size=67&uid=%7B74ed8406-1b6b-4559-92ba-afcdbb8325d9%7D[/img]
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by tonychristopher: 7:04am On Jan 27, 2015
Adaobi12:
. I hope she doesn't see this. Anyway congrays for getting yourself a pretty wife. is she Yoruba?

Tufiakwa....

I just don't wanna die yet...she is not


I no fit buy asobi every weekend
I no fit do party for some wife every time she misses her period
In short I don't have money for too much creams
I am a jealousan so I just don't want a floricking woman

So I married from my language group


At least the same culture
The same taboo
The same forbidden things


Dalu
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Nobody: 7:28am On Jan 27, 2015
tonychristopher:


Tufiakwa....

I just don't wanna die yet...she is not


I no fit buy asobi every weekend
I no fit do party for some wife every time she misses her period
In short I don't have money for too much creams
I am a jealousan so I just don't want a floricking woman

So I married from my language group


At least the same culture
The same taboo
The same forbidden things


Dalu
. Not all Yoruba women do all the things you just listed .

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Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by tonychristopher: 7:57am On Jan 27, 2015
Adaobi12:
. Not all Yoruba women do all the things you just listed .

Agreed ...but majority of them do these 90% from what I have observed in Lagos and Ibadan

I love cooking for my wife on Saturdays and I enjoy going to market to surprise her and as a way to assist her but I just can't just go to market

Price a Yoruba woman something and if the prices doesn't go her way she will resort to insults like araroro,agbaya etc

Its just bad ..iI can't stand them

My neighbour will curse the hell out of her kids and will give the kid plates to buy foods in morning and I just can't have such people as my wife


I repeat not all...90% of what I have seen ..I think they don't frawn on divorce also so this just made up my submission

My own personal opinion and I love good food. I can't stand the sight of ewedu it makes me want to throw up

Pls my personal opinion and taste not generalizations
Re: Can You Marry Someone From Another Cultural Back Ground?and Why by Kingsasian(m): 7:59am On Jan 27, 2015
Sure, y not? The funniest aspect of my life is that I have never been close to any lady from my own tribe which is the ibibios. The only tribe that am always attracted to and is as well attracted to me is igbo especially those from Imo state. Two out of every three ladies I come in contact with are from there. Even my present gf too. I believe I will definitely get married outside my culture and I so much luv the igbo culture.

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