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Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by passionate88: 10:24am On Jan 27, 2015
prettythicksme:
hmmmm op you really tried#nice points guys of nowadays too like sex chat.
Some, not all... I so much hate sex chat
Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by kazmanbanjoko(m): 11:28am On Jan 27, 2015
kk

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Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by Nobody: 11:29am On Jan 27, 2015
Romance section, una no dey tire for lists?

Almost all your front page threads are about one list or the other.

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Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by zyzxx(m): 11:30am On Jan 27, 2015
Hmmmm
Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by Nobody: 11:32am On Jan 27, 2015
harrysterol:
[b]In as much as mistakes are inevitable in everyday life, some mistakes can be avoided spontaneously or mistakes can be made perpetually , as it is common said a friend at hand is better than a brother abroad, it is common knowledge that you can't know someone completely but how you begin matters alot especially if you met online, here are some common mistakes made by both sexes in the cause of interaction


1. Acting too cold
Ladies acting too cold and uninterested during first chat kills the zeal and interest of well meaning guys towards them. Dear ladies, learn to be free with a guy & be lively, stop acting as if you just came out from a cold room,or your in a sober period or someone gonna die if you act lively

2. Replying with code words
Replying with one letter words like- k, gud, hw, wen, fyn, etc...this is a crime to human communication; no matter your gender & who u are chatting with, learn to stop it. undecided (later if you fail exams now you go begin blame one spirit wey no the exist)

3. Asking for picture too soon
- guys are fond of this bad habit of asking a lady they met online for her pics you be graphic designer? even on their first day of chat; please guys stop it! Get to know her first & see beyond her. Physical looks. Let me put it to you "THE LOVE OF BEAUTY iS THE ROLL OF DICE " implying when casting a dice you may get a very wrong number when you targeting a bigger number

4. Asking what he does for a living:
this is a big crime our ladies commit! embarassed Yes, its good to know what he does for a living but this usually send wrong signal to a guy with good intentions towards you, so avoid it and gradually get to know him & not just what he does & how much he earns.you need to look beyond his pocket to get the best out of a man.

5. Sex chat:
many guys today are so fond of this nonsense, guys please grow up! Even if u must sex chat with her, pls knw her first & make sure u two are into each other, stop being in a haste! Besides self what the fun in sex chat? You wan stain your boxers abi? Pity your boxers if you no pity yourself abeg

6. Begging for gifts
Begging for recharge card, gift, BIS, other favours- this is bad for anyone to do, please stop it! undecided why beg for an inch when you can have it all, ladies trade with caution, na from Waka person the see Race

7. Late responses:
nothing kills a guy's interest in a lady he met online like late responses & busy-forming attitude, makes the guy feel u don't take him serious or that u have plenty male admirers keeping u busy! If your really that busy why no contest for presidency so it will be obvious undecided stop it undecided

8. Being too rigid!
Never say never! That guy or lady u met online today & feel he's nobody or that she's ugly...or that he has nothing to offer for u may be your true partner in making. Many single ladies & guys have lost their true partners out of being too rigid and principled. Sometimes, play fool & see what nature/life has in store for you!

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Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by Ojochegbe1(m): 11:33am On Jan 27, 2015
i so much hate no: 2 n 8 embarassed
Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by starlingbawa(m): 11:36am On Jan 27, 2015
Almost everyone is guilty of one of these highlighted points at some time.....
Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by ehjiwummy(f): 11:39am On Jan 27, 2015
Nice one@op,asking me of my pix online drive me nut angry
Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by Nobody: 11:44am On Jan 27, 2015
Number 5 is so annoying. Mtchew.

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Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by kilokeys(m): 11:44am On Jan 27, 2015
where is Nneka123 .. if she no comment for this thread i go turn to two cubes of maggi

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Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by JeffreyJamez(m): 11:46am On Jan 27, 2015
striktlymi:
Romance section, una no dey tire for lists?

Almost all your front page threads are about one list or the other.
Them Like list like housewife wey wan go market. angry

If only life was as simple as making and following a list,e for better.

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Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by Nickymezor(f): 11:47am On Jan 27, 2015
Herzumpther:
Number 5 is so annoying. Mtchew.
i tell u.. #5 makes me avoid chatting wit such an individual n i really wonder wat he takes me for.

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Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by farano(f): 11:47am On Jan 27, 2015
kilokeys:
where is Nneka123 .. if she no comment for this thread i go turn to two cubes of maggi
undecided
Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by Nickymezor(f): 11:48am On Jan 27, 2015
Nice writeup OP...u re so on point

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Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by Nobody: 11:51am On Jan 27, 2015
Nice one op
Some girls will just start asking about your occupation as if they wan employ you
Not to even talk about the buy me recharge card talk



And guys will be like,let's sexchat
Leeemmme see your pic



*smh*

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Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by itsik(m): 11:52am On Jan 27, 2015
Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by Nobody: 11:53am On Jan 27, 2015
kaybiel2u:
many of ur points point at me cos i normally do dose tins u mentioned.

Especially sex chatting abi? Your boxer front must always be raining then. Lol.

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Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by Nobody: 11:54am On Jan 27, 2015
Nickymezor:
i tell u.. #5 makes me avoid chatting wit such an individual n i really wonder wat he takes me for.
Don't mind them. If you act cold they will say you are forming but when you loosen up they start saying trash. Mtchew.

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Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by Nobody: 11:56am On Jan 27, 2015
that sex chat thingy is soo fvcking boring and annoying.... Whenever my girlfriend tries to spice up our chats with sexual chat, I just go online and look for already made up sex chats den copy and paste one sentence at a time dependin on how she replies.... Gosh i hate that thing. Used to love it though.

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Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by Nickymezor(f): 11:57am On Jan 27, 2015
Herzumpther:
Don't mind them. If you act cold they will say you are forming but when you loosen up they start saying trash. Mtchew.
Abi ooo, truetalk jare. Norin do u
Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by Nobody: 11:58am On Jan 27, 2015
prettythicksme:
hmmmm op you really tried#nice points guys of nowadays too like sex chat.
As if u sef no dey charged during the brouhaha.
Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by chigomiced: 12:01pm On Jan 27, 2015
harrysterol:
[b]In as much as mistakes are inevitable in everyday life, some mistakes can be avoided spontaneously or mistakes can be made perpetually , as it is common said a friend at hand is better than a brother abroad, it is common knowledge that you can't know someone completely but how you begin matters alot especially if you met online, here are some common mistakes made by both sexes in the cause of interaction


1. Acting too cold
Ladies acting too cold and uninterested during first chat kills the zeal and interest of well meaning guys towards them. Dear ladies, learn to be free with a guy & be lively, stop acting as if you just came out from a cold room,or your in a sober period or someone gonna die if you act lively

2. Replying with code words
Replying with one letter words like- k, gud, hw, wen, fyn, etc...this is a crime to human communication; no matter your gender & who u are chatting with, learn to stop it. undecided (later if you fail exams now you go begin blame one spirit wey no the exist)

3. Asking for picture too soon
- guys are fond of this bad habit of asking a lady they met online for her pics you be graphic designer? even on their first day of chat; please guys stop it! Get to know her first & see beyond her. Physical looks. Let me put it to you "THE LOVE OF BEAUTY iS THE ROLL OF DICE " implying when casting a dice you may get a very wrong number when you targeting a bigger number

4. Asking what he does for a living:
this is a big crime our ladies commit! embarassed Yes, its good to know what he does for a living but this usually send wrong signal to a guy with good intentions towards you, so avoid it and gradually get to know him & not just what he does & how much he earns.you need to look beyond his pocket to get the best out of a man.

5. Sex chat:
many guys today are so fond of this nonsense, guys please grow up! Even if u must sex chat with her, pls knw her first & make sure u two are into each other, stop being in a haste! Besides self what the fun in sex chat? You wan stain your boxers abi? Pity your boxers if you no pity yourself abeg

6. Begging for gifts
Begging for recharge card, gift, BIS, other favours- this is bad for anyone to do, please stop it! undecided why beg for an inch when you can have it all, ladies trade with caution, na from Waka person the see Race

7. Late responses:
nothing kills a guy's interest in a lady he met online like late responses & busy-forming attitude, makes the guy feel u don't take him serious or that u have plenty male admirers keeping u busy! If your really that busy why no contest for presidency so it will be obvious undecided stop it undecided

8. Being too rigid!
Never say never! That guy or lady u met online today & feel he's nobody or that she's ugly...or that he has nothing to offer for u may be your true partner in making. Many single ladies & guys have lost their true partners out of being too rigid and principled. Sometimes, play fool & see what nature/life has in store for you!

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Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by prince2blinks(m): 12:03pm On Jan 27, 2015
bros u try o chop knuckle
Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by toniaangel(f): 12:04pm On Jan 27, 2015
Nice write up op..I hate the sex chat with so much passion I have deleted so many guys white n black cause of it. Even the show me ur pix talk, I hate it too. There will be a time I will hv a pix on my dp some dumb guys will still ask me to share all my pix with them wich is soooo boring to me I tk it as work, sharing my pix.as for the short words like k, fyn I love it a lot save me the stress of long typings...
Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by Nobody: 12:04pm On Jan 27, 2015
Sex chat? Its a no no
Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by percyoats(m): 12:08pm On Jan 27, 2015
This a very good piece... smiley... Right on point

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Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by Nobody: 12:12pm On Jan 27, 2015
There is nothing wrong asking for what one does for a living or asking for pics. Except you are not proud of what you are doing or you are not looking good. Most ladies on.nairaland with user names like...prettyxxxx, sexyxxx, sugarxxxx, candyxxxx, chocoxxxx, midgetxxx...still put picture profile even looking far from what their usernames says. Reason because they have no.low self esteem.
I proudly tell people am janitor....nothing to be ashamed of and I love my job.

Back to topic....I love sex chat. grin
All the nairaland ladies...I have been chasing online...you know who you are...no name calling. Make my chase worthwhile. The lucky lady will thank.me later. grin
Am happy non of the ladies have asked me for recharge card. Instead they take me out and still top up my card. You know who.you are.
Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by Sookul: 12:13pm On Jan 27, 2015
OP You are on point, especially with no 7. If to return my cheerful "hi" will take her up to 10hrs, then its time i stopped saying hi to . Its that simple
Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by Dreambeat: 12:15pm On Jan 27, 2015
Nothing wrong in asking for pic as soon as possible.Men fall in love with their eyes.
Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by kilokeys(m): 12:15pm On Jan 27, 2015
farano:
undecided

hello beautiful.. how u dey?.. why u spoil face for that smiley na?
Re: 8 Mistake Ladies And Guys Make When They Meet Each Other Online. by Nobody: 12:15pm On Jan 27, 2015
shegsky:

As if u sef no dey charged during the brouhaha.
undecided

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