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Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by gracile(f): 3:37pm On Feb 04, 2015
Moz22:
there should not be any bounderies btw u both!....and besides the moment u agreed to be his girlfriend, thats when all bounderies are breached
different strokes for different folks undecided
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by Nobody: 3:39pm On Feb 04, 2015
bobolizim:
hey yeah!sowi dear...don't hate urself,you may not be able to change the past but you can change the future...no matter what,if you dont want some things to happen in d future den dont give room for it,nd also if a guy loves you he ought to respect your decision den if he did he isnt selfish...dt is real love...my own date,i told her myself dt things like hugging,kissing,all those rubbish is a NO...nd i aint giving room for it nd she respect my decision...dey say experience is d best teacher that is if you learn frm it
No hugging??
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by Moz22: 3:45pm On Feb 04, 2015
oh oh oh! i am sorry for u
gracile:

different strokes for different folks undecided
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by bobolizim(m): 3:46pm On Feb 04, 2015
gracile:

I do cheesy
I know it isn't easy adjusting oneself to suit d oda party in a relationship especially on this sensitive kind of issues, but I suggest u guys should sit down and reaffirm ur values and boundaries make sure she is free to open up to you(afterall that's the essence of the whole thing) otherwise she just might end being pushed to the wall as she'll keep bottling it up till she can bear it no more..
ummm nice one
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by bobolizim(m): 3:47pm On Feb 04, 2015
AgapeCharis:
No hugging??
yea...so??u hvnt heard dt before..do u want me to repeat myself?
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by Nobody: 3:48pm On Feb 04, 2015
I regret not extracting money from him.
the fool took me for granted


all thanks to Rodriguez

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Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by bobolizim(m): 3:50pm On Feb 04, 2015
diddydiva:
I regret not extracting money from him.
the fool took me for granted


all thanks to Rodriguez
ummm..not extracting money frm him?and by saying took you for granted,what does dt mean shed more night please dear...we r enjoying you
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by Nobody: 3:51pm On Feb 04, 2015
gracile:

yeah i did, I always tell him i wasn't comfortable talking dirty with him on phone
but somehow he always manages to seduce me. I hated myself!
You see? Instead of you to accept me then you told me you were in love with someone else. See what he did to you now. He made you hate yourself
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by Nobody: 3:52pm On Feb 04, 2015
bobolizim:
yea...so??u hvnt heard dt before..do u want me to repeat myself?
I can agree with no kissing but no hugging? What are your reasons if I may ask?
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by Nobody: 3:55pm On Feb 04, 2015
bobolizim:
ummm..not extracting money frm him?and by saying took you for granted,what does dt mean shed more night please dear...we r enjoying you
I mean I barely ask anything from him.

little did I know he was cheating on me with my friend who usually bring new accessories home every weekend.


it's a shame
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by bobolizim(m): 3:57pm On Feb 04, 2015
AgapeCharis:
I can agree with no kissing but no hugging? What are your reasons if I may ask?
umm..my reasons...they are many but i centred it on,dont room for it if u dont want it...we r just like any oder friends....what would hugging gives meif i hug her that means her breast touching my own chest...and i said i dont wanna lust dt i wanna b in agape love...gradually i might starting thinking going higher like kissing nd might eventually land at the land of no return...my own principle is what i cant anyone to do to my future daughter i cant do it to others...
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by bobolizim(m): 3:59pm On Feb 04, 2015
diddydiva:

I mean I barely ask anything from him.

little did I know he was cheating on me with my friend who usually bring new accessories home every weekend.


it's a shame
really?guys are cruel,dey wouldnt love one who truly loves them...ur friendah!!!that's too bad,he didnt have any respect for your feelings...and that ur friend,did dr relationship last
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by Nobody: 4:12pm On Feb 04, 2015
bobolizim:
really?guys are cruel,dey wouldnt love one who truly loves them...ur friendah!!!that's too bad,he didnt have any respect for your feelings...and that ur friend,did dr relationship last
I moved on. I don't really know much about them
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by bobolizim(m): 4:14pm On Feb 04, 2015
guys,how can ds thread be moved to fpit would be so lively...please the mods nd seun help us here ooo
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by bobolizim(m): 4:16pm On Feb 04, 2015
diddydiva:

I moved on. I don't really know much about them
hey yeah ok ooo..so i pray u will fibd ur best suit,moreover i support ur ideakism of not extorting money frm him...money is not love tho
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by Nobody: 4:21pm On Feb 04, 2015
bobolizim:
hey yeah ok ooo..so i pray u will fibd ur best suit,moreover i support ur ideakism of not extorting money frm him...money is not love tho
hmmmmmm that's true
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by Nobody: 4:23pm On Feb 04, 2015
bobolizim:
umm..my reasons...they are many but i centred it on,dont room for it if u dont want it...we r just like any oder friends....what would hugging gives meif i hug her that means her breast touching my own chest...and i said i dont wanna lust dt i wanna b in agape love...gradually i might starting thinking going higher like kissing nd might eventually land at the land of no return...my own principle is what i cant anyone to do to my future daughter i cant do it to others...
so, invariably you mean you don't hug your female friends
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by bobolizim(m): 4:28pm On Feb 04, 2015
AgapeCharis:
so, invariably you mean you don't hug your female friends
lol..did i say thatyou r presuming...my friend is different frm my date...nd to ur question i do hug dem (friends)but nt frequently...nd dt wen dey first hug me...but to my datekojo!!!
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by bobolizim(m): 4:31pm On Feb 04, 2015
diddydiva:

hmmmmmm that's true
if i may ask dt ur friend did she regret wat she did?and ur spouse tried to beg you?or convince you?
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by Nobody: 4:33pm On Feb 04, 2015
bobolizim:
if i may ask dt ur friend did she regret wat she did?and ur spouse tried to beg you?or convince you?
I moved on.

I don't want to know about them
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by bobolizim(m): 4:36pm On Feb 04, 2015
diddydiva:

I moved on.

I don't want to know about them
ummm...but i think u didnt get me...i asked abt u guys not really dem...did he try to beg you??
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by Nobody: 4:38pm On Feb 04, 2015
bobolizim:
ummm...but i think u didnt get me...i asked abt u guys not really dem...did he try to beg you??
beg? that's if he knows how to get to me.
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by bobolizim(m): 4:40pm On Feb 04, 2015
diddydiva:

beg? that's if he knows how to get to me.
really??hey yeah...i thought he would do what most guys would do...maybe,he did dt cos u respected urself,like not giving him s*x...did you?maybe dt y he did cheat
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by Nobody: 4:48pm On Feb 04, 2015
bobolizim:
umm..my reasons...they are many but i centred it on,dont room for it if u dont want it...we r just like any oder friends....what would hugging gives me if i hug her that means her breast touching my own chest... and i said i dont wanna lust dt i wanna b in agape love...gradually i might starting thinking going higher like kissing nd might eventually land at the land of no return...my own principle is what i cant anyone to do to my future daughter i cant do it to others...
@boldened....you mean that is enough to make those hormones inside you go wild?? Come on, there's no big deal if her bosoms touches your chest when you hug. If you have a problem with that then I think you should work on how to control your emotions. And the second part where you said you want only agape with your girlfriend and not lust....Do you mean you have no eros for her or you don't just want it to grow beyond the way it is?
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by Engrpj(m): 6:49pm On Feb 04, 2015
gracile:

I do cheesy
I know it isn't easy adjusting oneself to suit d oda party in a relationship especially on this sensitive kind of issues, but I suggest u guys should sit down and reaffirm ur values and boundaries make sure she is free to open up to you(afterall that's the essence of the whole thing) otherwise she just might end being pushed to the wall as she'll keep bottling it up till she can bear it no more..

So what do you tink is d consequence of her discomfort over what i enjoy in A relationship
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by bobolizim(m): 8:48pm On Feb 04, 2015
AgapeCharis:
@boldened....you mean that is enough to make those hormones inside you go wild?? Come on, there's no big deal if her bosoms touches your chest when you hug. If you have a problem with that then I think you should work on how to control your emotions. And the second part where you said you want only agape with your girlfriend and not lust....Do you mean you have no eros for her or you don't just want it to grow beyond the way it is?
she's my treasure that i keep....between talking about self controllols...better at that...you know many things if done wen dey shuldnt b done will b useless....
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by bobolizim(m): 6:21am On Feb 05, 2015
guys ...good mowin oooooo
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by gracile(f): 10:06am On Feb 05, 2015
Engrpj:


So what do you tink is d consequence of her discomfort over what i enjoy in A relationship
it could be anything from guilt, values, religious beliefs or background, unexposure, or even a history of molestation if u know wha i mean
she's in the best position to tell you kiss
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by gracile(f): 10:18am On Feb 05, 2015
AgapeCharis:
You see? Instead of you to accept me then you told me you were in love with someone else. See what he did to you now. He made you hate yourself

Eyah is that what i told you embarassed I was blind o
come let me give u consideration












yimu grin
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by gracile(f): 10:21am On Feb 05, 2015
bobolizim:
guys ...good mowin oooooo
morning bobo cheesy
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by Engrpj(m): 10:40am On Feb 05, 2015
gracile:

it could be anything from guilt, values, religious beliefs or background, unexposure, or even a history of molestation if u know wha i mean
she's in the best position to tell you kiss


Tnx alot
Re: Share Your Experience What Did You Regrett Not Doing With Your Ex??? by bobolizim(m): 11:05am On Feb 05, 2015
gracile:

morning bobo cheesy
how's your night dear?

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