humilitypays:
Funny but true. You are talking of rich guys...in fact, be financially comfortable & u will never find that thing they call love.

Though I still doubt the existence of love sha.

Meanwhile, I will advice guys- if u are rich or financially buoyant, pls don't make the mistake of marrying a broke girl or a girl from poor family- except u knew the girl before making it big.

Just find a rich lady or a girl from a rich family and marry to minimize the possibility of gold-digging.

With the way things are going and the way ladies are becoming too desperate for money, I think financially buoyant guys should never marry a poor, jobless girl or one who isn't rich or from a rich family, sadly that's what the world now wants!

Its well...we learning

Let me tell you, there are good girls out there and I know this because I'm a good girl and there are many like me...

But the fact is that, Men will not turn easily and stare at us because we don't put on loads of make-up, flashy hairstyles, exotic clothes and bags, expensive phones and so many others.

You call us Uptight, local and boring because we don't club, we like attending church programmes and We say NO to pre-marital sex...

Life is not a straight path but it's a clear one...Just so you know, The rich girls hustle for more money and they will not act like slaves for your money...

If you want a GOOD Girl, be a GOOD man.

If you want to feel true love, Show true love...

You can never have what you can't offer...

The op is right,and there's nothing one can do about that. Naija for you.

ireneony:
Touching but if u don't like broke ladies, why don't you date rich ladies

am sister I tire ooo. Complain here and there

ELGREF:
God bless ya

bless ya 2 brodà

I like your comment but truth is there to see. Many of your type are sacrificing alot to maintain a good girl statue,not until she grab a rich guy,then you will see what she made of. I've once fall to that trick. Except from family love,no love else where.

keppyy:


Let me tell you, there are good girls out there and I know this because I'm a good girl and there are many like me...

But the fact is that, Men will not turn easily and stare at us because we don't put on loads of make-up, flashy hairstyles, exotic clothes and bags, expensive phones and so many others.

You call us Uptight, local and boring because we don't club, we like attending church programmes and We say NO to pre-marital sex...

Life is not a straight path but it's a clear one...Just so you know, The rich girls hustle for more money and they will not act like slaves for your money...

If you want a GOOD Girl, be a GOOD man.

If you want to feel true love, Show true love...

You can never have what you can't offer...

killjoy:
guys! guys! guys! hw many tyms will I tell u... give ur nerves a break! quit looking for true love! come to terms with reality! if u Dnt hv. money, no naija gal will love u! if or rada, wen u get money, dey will follow u lyk fly follows fresh shit . Dats just d bitter truth. some gals will say Dats gross generalization Bt deep down dey know its tru. as for me, I hv learnt to love myself n my family. any love from a woman who doznt share dsame DNA with me is onlya scheme to manipulate me. fvck love... go n make money...

True word bro!!!! I keep telling younger guys this same thing, make money and every other thing will follow, its like magic, its so so Real

Where is the love?

Champele:
I like your comment but truth is there to see. Many of your type are sacrificing alot to maintain a good girl statue,not until she grab a rich guy,then you will see what she made of. I've once fall to that trick. Except from family love,no love else where.

It's reall not true...Mind you, I'm not poor.

I just have different priorities from other girls.

The rich can't and will never have a Perfect world because they are rich.

If some find it difficult to make money, some will find it difficult to experience true love...

So many rich men found true love, if you're still single it's not because you're rich but it's because you think you have it all.

damseyl:
mtchew

madaaaaaam why u d hiss Too touching abi?

johncarrol:
Maybe you can try to check girls on first datings) Don't tell anything about money etc. Or, for example, my friends adviced me to find a woman online - on the distance girl can't see youre car or expensive suit. On mymagicbrides.com I started to chatting with a few girls and then fall in love with the one) The people around me told I'm stupid. They said she needs only green card or my money. Or both But now we are together for six months and I'm so happy with her...

just 6 months and you are parading the whole town screaming that you are in luv, i give u 6 more months thats 1year, you would b the 1 telling people love is scrap

keppyy:


Let me tell you, there are good girls out there and I know this because I'm a good girl and there are many like me...

But the fact is that, Men will not turn easily and stare at us because we don't put on loads of make-up, flashy hairstyles, exotic clothes and bags, expensive phones and so many others.

You call us Uptight, local and boring because we don't club, we like attending church programmes and We say NO to pre-marital sex...

Life is not a straight path but it's a clear one...Just so you know, The rich girls hustle for more money and they will not act like slaves for your money...

If you want a GOOD Girl, be a GOOD man.

If you want to feel true love, Show true love...

You can never have what you can't offer...

The last line says it all..... You can't have what you can't offer!

Thanks for your wise words

treasuress:
Money can buy women but not love its true

i remember growing up and thinking once i get money i can get any woman i want,

am not the richest man in Nigeria but am ok..

Through my journey of life i have learnt that money cant really buy love, all my reasons are based on statistics and heart breaking experiences

1. As a rich guy you get women who pretend around you a lot: you never get to meet them behind their beautiful shells, they try to compete for your attention, faking smiles and laughter, e.t.c

2. They dont really care for you just lie to her one day that your business is going down, you took a loan from the bank , and you cant pay up, observe the way she will change overnight disregarding all you have done in the past

3. women you get are mostly after what they want to get from you not what they want to impact in your life. it starts with sex manipulation, before sex you will see them making demands, sometimes its like you have to pay for their love and affection. Remember one of my friend, last week he was sick, the girlfriend came to take care of him, and she also took lots of money from hm when she was going

4 . when you are not smart they cheat on you in worst cases, you will be the father christmas, while she goes out flexing with other niggas, you foot the bills. makes me wonder if the stingy person is good , while the person who is caring is the fool

5 . The love lasts as long as the money is there yes thats true even in marriage, just keep the money flowing if not, ..........




i have already told my mum to look for a wife for me, am tired of these gold diggers , maybe thats the best idea.
miss having real love, passion, emotions in my life mehn.


this thread was inspired by the guy who said he was searching for true love.. peace

Bruv, there's absolutely no trace of lies in your post. Very true! It's better for a guy to find that special women when he never gathered much money, but then, which of them is ready to stay with you in the absence of money? Meeting that woman would've been better during school days/hustling time, just when a man didnt have much. As soon as a man gathers alot, women fake everything just to be with you. I'm sure this is one of the reasons that's keeping Seun and other rich/comfortable dudes from getting married.

If you dont have, they dont look your face and when you gather, they fake everything just cos of your money.

keppyy:


Let me tell you, there are good girls out there and I know this because I'm a good girl and there are many like me...

But the fact is that, Men will not turn easily and stare at us because we don't put on loads of make-up, flashy hairstyles, exotic clothes and bags, expensive phones and so MANY others.

You call us Uptight, local and boring because we don't club, we like attending church programmes and We say NO to pre-marital sex...

Life is not a straight path but it's a clear one...Just so you know, The rich girls hustle for more money and they will not act like slaves for your money...

If you want a GOOD Girl, be a GOOD man.

If you want to feel true love, Show true love...

You can never have what you can't offer...

Clap for youRself, we still have few like you out there

Oga o. Naija girls don suffer o.
If she is dating a broke guy, dey wl blv she doesn't love him, she iss datin sm rich guy smwhr else
If she iss datin a rich guy, dey wl blv dia is no true lov, its bcs of his money, she iss enjoyin wt sm oda guys smwhr
Ahba! Wetin una want?

auntymi:
nt requisite to defend or xpanciate wat i wrote, its perspicuously stated and simple to comprehend, "not ALL GIRLS"

Leave grammar abeg. No carry grammar confuse us the more. No be everybody bin go school here.

lefulefu:
rich should marry the rich while poor should marry the poor

The fact is the poor ladies aren't even dreaming of settling with poor dudes. They want rich dudes so they can then fake love and everything.

ohaleoghene:


lol...what name will that be ? money ? seriously truth be told Nigerian girls have bad orientation about money...money is important, but that is not all there is to marriage . the rich folks divorce too.

Its that simple.
Blame it on poverty.
A lady sees a rich dude and wants to be the lucky one who is attached to his money (not him) thereby forgetting love(the essence of the relationship).

falconey:
concord

hotel

johncarrol:
Maybe you can try to check girls on first datings) Don't tell anything about money etc. Or, for example, my friends adviced me to find a woman online - on the distance girl can't see youre car or expensive suit. On mymagicbrides.com I started to chatting with a few girls and then fall in love with the one) The people around me told I'm stupid. They said she needs only green card or my money. Or both But now we are together for six months and I'm so happy with her...

You are wise.

Car, house and whatever material enter their eyes and their silly demands start rolling in..

until I bring my mama and sisters out of the ghetto… I ain't got time for love… gave up a long time ago when I discovered my supposed girlfriend stored my name on her phone as BOSS and saved another guys name as MY JEWEL and when I initially asked her about the guy she told me he is her grandmother last born…..

franzis:
until I bring my mama and sisters out of the ghetto… I ain't got time for love… gave up a long time ago when I discovered my supposed girlfriend stored my name on her phone as BOSS and saved another guys name as MY JEWEL and when I initially asked her about the guy she told me he is her grandmother last born…..

Shoo!
That babe is a killer,she almost finished you.
Lol

I keep wondering why one can point to a particular gender and just jump to conclusion. Are all men bad? Are all women bad. I guess you have both genders in your household so go figure.

patrickdarlins:
viewing from top of IROKO TREE!!

Dont fall down o.

lefulefu:
rich should marry the rich while poor should marry the poor

Stripe goes with Stripes and Spot goes with Spots

Hmmmm my dear true love exists ooo... God will surely order ur steps..n pls I hope u aren't a proud n arrogant person either...

killjoy:


same with me... guys usually love stupidly n foolishly Bt afta heart break, dey come to der senses. God knows, d mistake I made of loving a woman is a mistake I will neva make. nt in dis lyf or d lyf to cum

Loving a woman is not a mistake but loving the wrong woman is the mistake or rather a lesson....

fluffybaby:


Dont fall down o.

no o...i wont....trust me...i be spider man!!!

lols

can this thread please close? guys whey dey h go come here forming rich and all . do you all know what that means or what?
..
Chai.. there is Brain

Guys relax true love exist but atimes we push the true ones away from us...I once dated a guy who had nothing but when he became rich felt I was no longer in his class,because I don't wear expensive cloths and I don't demand money from him,he left me for a more expensive and classy girl,but today he's filled with regrets because his marriage crashed...bottom line is if u can't give love genuinely u can't receive love genuinely either...

The truth is that issues of love can only be understand with lots of maturity...Love is sth so spiritual. The problem is not either a girl or a woman..it's with the individual.Most times what we complain about what we are sure so guilty of.....The way someone is treating u and you don't like it,u are also treating someone else that way cos u love someone else and maybe that person love someone else.My sincere stand is....don't ask for what you can't give or treat people the way you won't want someone to treat....Though it's not easy but very attainable.If you want love,start by giving true love....and if you love someone so sincerely and the person takes u for granted don't feel bad abt it,be proud of yourself for giving ur so sincerely.Forgive them,don't judge or condemn them but see reasons with them and move on. Trust me forgiveness is the best revenge u can ever give to anyone that wrong u. Let love leads!

Forget naija gals na dere open eye d make Dem reach 50years,d worst part of it is dey will never use all d money dey have collected from rich dudes to do something meaningful!dey still remain broke chai....