asadike:
Be careful here. Think carefully, you know your man better, how do u think he will handle it? Is he d type that is easily provoked? D way you approach him is very important. I will prefer you tell him but only when he is in a more lighter mood.

The world will be a better place, if people married someone they don't have to be scared to talk to.

You should have told your husband already . . . what are you scared of?
I would have told my hubby there and there . . I wont even let the guy leave my home
Unless I wasnt sure about his intentions . . .even then I will still tell my hubby so that we can be more careful round this person till he is caught red handed.

What an insult
In my own home for that matter. Is he mad?

@poster you need to wake up
Not everyone round your hubby is supposed to be there
This is not a good friend and should therefore have no biz being round you or your husband
Today its you, next time he could be touching up your daughter or your kid sister living with you . . & they may not have a voice.
Ma gba igbaku gba o!

sweetcocoa:
The world will be a better place, if people married someone they don't have to be scared to talk to.

example pls

Momma2:
My hubby and i were visiting a friend of his yesterday.
We are quite friendly with each other so no awkward hugs and all.
However, something strange happened yesterday.
I went into the kitchen to get something to eat, while i was there, he came in and tried to hug me. I didn't think much of it but he continued to put his arm's around me and rub me. I pulled away gently only for me to turn around and see a huge erection.
I acted as though i didn't notice and ran from the kitchen.
He is quite close to my hubby but i feel as though i should tell my husband.
Your candid opinion please.

If U have a good rapport with your husband, it will be in your best interest to tell him.
And mind you, such a "friend" DEFINITELY DOES NOT wish your husband well. So FLEE from him!!!

asadike:
example pls

Example of what are you asking? The comment is self explanatory.

Still, I'm just saying, I find it weird that you advice her to think carefully before telling her husband, talking about being easily provoked etc.

Anyways, I guess asking if she should tell, already shows that something might be wrong in that marriage.

chaircover:
You should have told your husband already . . . what are you scared of?
I would have told my hubby there and there . . I wont even let the guy leave my home
Unless I wasnt sure about his intentions . . .even then I will still tell my hubby so that we can be more careful round this person till he is caught red handed.

What an insult
In my own home for that matter. Is he mad?

@poster you need to wake up
Not everyone round your hubby is supposed to be there
This is not a good friend and should therefore have no biz being round you or your husband
Today its you, next time he could be touching up your daughter or your kid sister living with you . . & they may not have a voice.
Ma gba igbaku gba o!

They were the ones visiting the guy.

The guy has no respect whatsoever for his friend and wife.

sweetcocoa:
Example of what are you asking? The comment is self explanatory.

Still, I'm just saying, I find it weird that you advice her to think carefully before telling her husband, talking about being easily provoked etc.

Anyways, I guess asking if she should tell, already shows that something might be wrong in that marriage.

good.

sweetcocoa:
What nonsense! this is disgusting to say the least.

Madam disgust I ve noticed u..

menix:


Madam disgust I ve noticed u..

what won't I read on NL, noticed me? Get real please.

sweetcocoa:
what won't I read on NL, noticed me? Get real please.

Ignore the guy, he obviously doesn't have any sensible thing to say..

Momma2:
My hubby and i were visiting a friend of his yesterday.
We are quite friendly with each other so no awkward hugs and all.
However, something strange happened yesterday.
I went into the kitchen to get something to eat, while i was there, he came in and tried to hug me. I didn't think much of it but he continued to put his arm's around me and rub me. I pulled away gently only for me to turn around and see a huge erection.
I acted as though i didn't notice and ran from the kitchen.
He is quite close to my hubby but i feel as though i should tell my husband.
Your candid opinion please.

pls dear keep us informed on ur hubby reaction

Whoever says you shouldn't tell your hubby must be the said yeye and randy friend.

Momma2:
My hubby and i were visiting a friend of his yesterday.
We are quite friendly with each other so no awkward hugs and all.
However, something strange happened yesterday.
I went into the kitchen to get something to eat, while i was there, he came in and tried to hug me. I didn't think much of it but he continued to put his arm's around me and rub me. I pulled away gently only for me to turn around and see a huge erection.
I acted as though i didn't notice and ran from the kitchen.
He is quite close to my hubby but i feel as though i should tell my husband.
Your candid opinion please.

My dear, you have to tell him. He has a bad friend that can try that crap. If you dont tell him and he finds out, how will he trust you again?

menix:
Wonderful!!!!
Is he sex starved to ve had a hard on..
Pls post wat u were puttin on cous am sure u were addressed d way u were dressed.

Y tell ur husband? Its now left to u to avoid him lik plague.
'Tomorrow is pregnant', don't spoil dat relationship btw them cous of somthing u can deal wiv...

Excuse me! Don't spoil that relationship? Seriously? Who spoilt the relationship? Her or the Hot friend? Can you call someone who makes a pass at your wife your friend?

What disrespect! He doesnt respect her or her husband his supposed friend! Spoil the relationship? My God ! You must be one of those people who blame women for every thing.

Tell your husband before its too late. I won't think twice before telling my hubby due to my past experience.

kazrem, are you through??

I have told my husband and he went wtf.
He was and still is so upset that a so called friend would do that. He said he always thought he was a bit weird but never to that extent because the friend makes some sexual comments even in my hubby's presence which we always thought were very inappropriate.
So he has been cut off effective immediately. Won't even let my daughters near him.
Thanks everyone for your insight.

Momma2:
I have told my husband and he went wtf.
He was and still is so upset that a so called friend would do that. He said he always thought he was a bit weird but never to that extent because the friend makes some sexual comments even in my hubby's presence which we always thought were very inappropriate.
So he has been cut off effective immediately. Won't even let my daughters near him.
Thanks everyone for your insight.

*likes*

You still dey respond to comments. You never still tell am? If you never tell am naim be say u are interested. Himself go don dey expect the yawah from your husband. But, if he no hear anything, he will feel like you are in on the game. The next time na force e go force you and as you dey scream no no no no! He go think say, you actually mean yes yes yes! As na so u dey do.

@ Op, you have acted irresponsibly. If I get you what were you doing in your family friend's kitchen?

Do you want to see what your eyes are not supposed to see? Now you have seen it. Well done.

I clap for you for this act and the music.

Nonsense, nonsense......

Momma2:
I have told my husband and he went wtf.
He was and still is so upset that a so called friend would do that. He said he always thought he was a bit weird but never to that extent because the friend makes some sexual comments even in my hubby's presence which we always thought were very inappropriate.
So he has been cut off effective immediately. Won't even let my daughters near him.
Thanks everyone for your insight.

Pls read my comment before you run off thread

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Keneking:
@ Op, you have acted irresponsibly. If I get you what were you doing in your family friend's kitchen?
Do you want to see what your eyes are not supposed to see? Now you have seen it. Well done.
I clap for you for this act and the music.
Nonsense, nonsense......

quote author=Keneking post=31010188]
Pls read my comment before you run off thread[/quote]

What are you on about? Did she go into his bedroom?
I guess you are just seeking attention.

MEN USUALLY DON'T DO THINGS LIKE THAT UNLESS THEY THINK THEY CAN GET AWAY WITH IT. WHAT'S YOUR GENERAL BEHAVIOR AROUND HIM AND YOUR HUBBY'S OTHER MALE FRIENDS. YOU MIGHT BE SENDING CONFUSING SIGNALS, LET'S SAY, UNKNOWINGLY. AS A MARRIED WOMAN, THERE'S A ACCEPTABLE UNIVERSAL BEHAVIORS. YOU'VE ALREADY MADE YOUR POINT WITH THIS MAN BY WALKING AWAY. IF IT HAPPEN AGAIN, MAYBE IT'S TIME TO TELL HIM[HUSBAND] AND I WISH YOU WELL

I remember years back a friends husband tried to make a pass at me. I told him I felt he was joking because if he was serious I would have to tell his wife.
He looked at me wide open and said he was joking. I did not tell my friend because I did not want to hurt her.
Since the friendship was not a close one anyway, I kept my distance from her home.

Telling your husband is your decision entirely, you have to know what kind of man your husband is. You also have to know how to tell him.
Sometimes somethings are best left unsaid.

I really cannot tell you what is the right thing to do.

Something you need to know is that in most cases before a man will lay a hand on a woman he might have felt that he got a signal.
If a man did that to me i would have slapped him there and then, because I would be sure that I never gave him a signal so it would be for me an abuse.

Momma2:
Thanks y'll. What I was wearing is irrelevant(jean and a big top). I just had a baby 3weeks ago.
And I will tell my husband.

Please do and leave it to him to handle
I trust your husband is mature enough to know how to deal with this
My husband has a man he takes as an uncle here and we are close family friends
For years the man would make remarks about how beautiful I was or how much an outfit fit me and do some lovey lovey eyes and when we hug he seemed to hug too tightly and I would pass it off and keep quiet saying it may just be me misinterpreting things
Till one day we met at a function,husband was not there,I hugged him as I hug every man which is sideways( so my boobs don't touch them)
The man deliberately brushed up his chest against my boobs with this smirk on his face and that made me angry.
I then had no choice but tell hubby everything .
We are still friends with the couple but I felt hubby needed to know.

sweetcocoa:
Really? Some people actually advised her to put her hubby's relationship with the guy in consideration before deciding to tell, seriously?

What kind of friend does what he did? I'd rather my husband not be friend's with such person.

Imagine that
I wonder if that's what they would want their wife to do while faced with the same scenario
Even if the man is his employer,does that give him the right to be pushing up against someone's wife in such crude manner

chaircover:
You should have told your husband already . . . what are you scared of?
I would have told my hubby there and there . . I wont even let the guy leave my home
Unless I wasnt sure about his intentions . . .even then I will still tell my hubby so that we can be more careful round this person till he is caught red handed.

What an insult
In my own home for that matter. Is he mad?

@poster you need to wake up
Not everyone round your hubby is supposed to be there
This is not a good friend and should therefore have no biz being round you or your husband
Today its you, next time he could be touching up your daughter or your kid sister living with you . . & they may not have a voice.
Ma gba igbaku gba o!

What does the bolded mean?

Sounds like something I will like to tell anyone that's behaving funny someday.

babyosisi:


Imagine that
I wonder if that's what they would want their wife to do while faced with the same scenario
Even if the man is his employer,does that give him the right to be pushing up against someone's wife in such crude manner

These ones will most likely blame their wives for it.

Momma2:
I have told my husband and he went wtf.
He was and still is so upset that a so called friend would do that. He said he always thought he was a bit weird but never to that extent because the friend makes some sexual comments even in my hubby's presence which we always thought were very inappropriate.
So he has been cut off effective immediately. Won't even let my daughters near him.
Thanks everyone for your insight.

Gbam!
He is no friend

tiredface:
MEN USUALLY DON'T DO THINGS LIKE THAT UNLESS THEY THINK THEY CAN GET AWAY WITH IT. WHAT'S YOUR GENERAL BEHAVIOR AROUND HIM AND YOUR HUBBY'S OTHER MALE FRIENDS. YOU MIGHT BE SENDING CONFUSING SIGNALS, LET'S SAY, UNKNOWINGLY. AS A MARRIED WOMAN, THERE'S A ACCEPTABLE UNIVERSAL BEHAVIORS. YOU'VE ALREADY MADE YOUR POINT WITH THIS MAN BY WALKING AWAY. IF IT HAPPEN AGAIN, MAYBE IT'S TIME TO TELL HIM[HUSBAND] AND I WISH YOU WELL

I don't want to sound rude but I have to tell you, to shut da hell up, thank you.

cococandy:


What does the bolded mean?

Sounds like something I will like to tell anyone that's behaving funny someday.

Dont take any nonsense

sweetcocoa:
I don't want to sound rude but I have to tell you, to shut da hell up, thank you.

These are the same type of people that will capture a small girl selling groundnut and have carnal knowledge of her and blame it on her walking style
Eediots