mutter:
I remember years back a friends husband tried to make a pass at me. I told him I felt he was joking because if he was serious I would have to tell his wife.
He looked at me wide open and said he was joking. I did not tell my friend because I did not want to hurt her.
Since the friendship was not a close one anyway, I kept my distance from her home.

Telling your husband is your decision entirely, you have to know what kind of man your husband is. You also have to know how to tell him.
Sometimes somethings are best left unsaid.

I really cannot tell you what is the right thing to do.

Something you need to know is that in most cases before a man will lay a hand on a woman he might have felt that he got a signal.
If a man did that to me i would have slapped him there and then, because I would be sure that I never gave him a signal so it would be for me an abuse.

babyosisi:


These are the same type of people that will capture a small girl selling groundnut and have carnal knowledge of her and blame it on her walking style
Eediots

babyosisi:


Some men are just dogs and will try their luck to see who is easy
Haven't you had occasions you are talking to a man and his eyes are rested on your chest
One recently was a man of God,we were talking and he was telling me how he started his ministry and almost throughout his eyes were fixated on my chest
If I had on a buttoned shirt I would have thought a button popped open,I still had to take a quick glance to see if I had a stain on my blouse

I have had a supposed family friend give me his cell phone number to call him, then asking me at another function why I didn't call
what sign did I give?

chaircover:


Dont take any nonsense

Momma2:
My hubby and i were visiting a friend of his yesterday.
We are quite friendly with each other so no awkward hugs and all.
However, something strange happened yesterday.
I went into the kitchen to get something to eat, while i was there, he came in and tried to hug me. I didn't think much of it but he continued to put his arm's around me and rub me. I pulled away gently only for me to turn around and see a huge erection.
I acted as though i didn't notice and ran from the kitchen.
He is quite close to my hubby but i feel as though i should tell my husband.
Your candid opinion please.

cococandy:


What does the bolded mean?

Sounds like something I will like to tell anyone that's behaving funny someday.

Bolded:


Mean by what?

Momma2:
Thanks y'll. What I was wearing is irrelevant(jean and a big top). I just had a baby 3weeks ago.
And I will tell my husband.

Momma2:
My hubby and i were visiting a friend of his yesterday.
We are quite friendly with each other so no awkward hugs and all.
However, something strange happened yesterday.
I went into the kitchen to get something to eat, while i was there, he came in and tried to hug me. I didn't think much of it but he continued to put his arm's around me and rub me. I pulled away gently only for me to turn around and see a huge erection.
I acted as though i didn't notice and ran from the kitchen.
He is quite close to my hubby but i feel as though i should tell my husband.
Your candid opinion please.

tpiah99:


aunty/oga, your double entendre is overkill.


why not choose just one offence instead of two, you've made the story less believable by adding two "thingies".

You can get offended at the hug, you dont have to add an attention as "jara" to "nail" the guy.

You were alone in the kitchen, he hugged and rubbed you, if you didnt see an attention, would you not have taken offence?

I'm just giving you some useful feedback here, is all.

menix:
Wonderful!!!!
Is he sex starved to ve had a hard on..
Pls post wat u were puttin on cous am sure u were addressed d way u were dressed.

Y tell ur husband? Its now left to u to avoid him lik plague.
'Tomorrow is pregnant', don't spoil dat relationship btw them cous of somthing u can deal wiv...

yhusiee:
Tell him, den agree wt hm on hw 2 handle d problem. I can gv u a sound reason y u must tell him: he will trust u more knowing fully well dt u tell him tyns he shld knw concerning ur marriage. Remember, it is a marriage, 1 + 1 = 1. So tell him.

Momma2:
My hubby and i were visiting a friend of his yesterday.
We are quite friendly with each other so no awkward hugs and all.
However, something strange happened yesterday.
I went into the kitchen to get something to eat,
while i was there, he came in and tried to hug me.

I didn't think much of it but he continued to put his arm's around me and rub me.
I pulled away gently only for me to turn around and see a huge erection.
I acted as though i didn't notice and ran from the kitchen.

He is quite close to my hubby but i feel as though i should tell my husband.

Your candid opinion please.

Momma2:
Thanks y'll. What I was wearing is irrelevant(jean and a big top). I just had a baby 3weeks ago.
And I will tell my husband.

yhusiee:
Tell him, den agree wt hm on hw 2 handle d problem. I can gv u a sound reason y u must tell him: he will trust u more knowing fully well dt u tell him tyns he shld knw concerning ur marriage. Remember, it is a marriage, 1 + 1 = 1. So tell him.

Momma2:
He is quite close to my hubby but i feel as though i should tell my husband.

Your candid opinion please.

Momma2:
My hubby and i were visiting a friend of his yesterday.
We are quite friendly with each other so no awkward hugs and all.
However, something strange happened yesterday.
I went into the kitchen to get something to eat,
while i was there, he came in and tried to hug me.

I didn't think much of it but he continued to put his arm's around me and rub me.
I pulled away gently only for me to turn around and see a huge erection.
I acted as though i didn't notice and ran from the kitchen.

He is quite close to my hubby but i feel as though i should tell my husband.

Your candid opinion please.