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He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by Nobody: 11:26am On Feb 26, 2015 |
My guy got out of a heartbreaking relationship, she left him for someone else and then he met me. He told me a lot about his ex, how she's the most beautiful girl he's ever known and how difficult it was to get over her. It was 2 years after their breakup he met me so I thought he should be over her. Unfortunately, he is still in love with her. I am a very observant person and I noticed he's always excited when he talks about her or when she's around him. I almost started hating her. I went through his phone one day and saw this heartbreaking msg, he was telling her he still loved her and he felt she loved him too. She replied that she's happy in her r/ship. I got so mad, confronted him and he still gave excuses like I was insecure. Even though I had been introduced to his family and they wanted us to be married, I had to quit because I was scared I'm a second option. His friend said I overreacted and I've missed out on a good man. Pls did I overreact? |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by buygala(m): 11:29am On Feb 26, 2015 |
Ok |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by Dyt(f): 11:30am On Feb 26, 2015 |
Pls pray There's nothing prayer can't do Fast too 1 Like |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by TrishaP(f): 11:35am On Feb 26, 2015 |
Of course you did not overreact. You only did what any normal person would have done in such situation. Your guy still holds a strong part for his ex and that's absurd. How about you give him an ultimatum, it's either you or his ex and hear him out...Watch his reaction and response. It's quite difficult dealing with someone that still keeps up with his ex not just that but still loves her and goes gaga. Babe pls don't suffer in silence it's not worth it. 4 Likes |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by naijaboiy: 11:38am On Feb 26, 2015 |
You did the right thing girl. Let him go and be running around his "ex" everywhere. Look for a man that wants you and only you alone. 8 Likes |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by Nobody: 11:39am On Feb 26, 2015 |
TrishaP: Thank you, the issue is that anytime I came up with this ex issue, he said I was the one who was insecure but he loved me. |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by falconey(m): 11:41am On Feb 26, 2015 |
TrishaP:you touch my heart with your words |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by TrishaP(f): 11:42am On Feb 26, 2015 |
comfydan:"He loved her" or "he still loves her"which one? |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by wiringdpt(m): 11:43am On Feb 26, 2015 |
Please let him go...You're just a second option so let him go running around his ex. YOU DESERVE BETTER 1 Like |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by Nobody: 11:48am On Feb 26, 2015 |
TrishaP: He said he really loved her but he loves me now. But that message killed my trust |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by Tallesty1(m): 11:58am On Feb 26, 2015 |
naijaboiy:Ask Google about that man and they will tell you No Search Result Found or Your Request Did Not Match Any Document. There is no man that will love her and her alone, other sisters need help and we will continue to reach out........... 1 Like |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by TrishaP(f): 12:09pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
falconey:Your welcome |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by alberto2k(m): 12:16pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
Tallesty1: May your ancestors increase your wisdom talley |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by naijaboiy: 12:21pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
Tallesty1:i'm just trying to soothe her feelings bruh! |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by Tallesty1(m): 12:22pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
1 Like |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by Tallesty1(m): 12:26pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by naijaboiy: 12:30pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
Tallesty1:Hehehehehe |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by midasbliss(f): 12:35pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
Chai! Obsession Is All I See. |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by CANTICLES: 12:54pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
@ comfydan .... YOU didnt overreact CAN HE TOLERATE such, if u were the person that always talked about ur own "ex" ? Though he wasnt addressin relationship , Jesus himself mentioned a principle that says [size=22] " NO ONE CAN SLAVE FOR TWO MASTERS" [/size] . Do u remember ? So, its either He stick to you or his ex !! 1 Like |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by Chizzy20(f): 1:17pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
U did d ryt tin, it shws u knw ur worth. Move on, u will soon meet a man dat appreciates ur worth. 1 Like |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by Keketu(m): 1:20pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
Chizzy20:hello |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by linnyx: 1:36pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
He was and still is obsessed with his ex. You did the right thing letting him go. Trust me you'll get someone a thousand times better 2 Likes |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by hopedavid(f): 1:53pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Babe don't be scared, u did the right thing. I've experienced it before, the guy told me bluntly that his ex had to leave d room of his heart b4 I could enter. Why did he now ask me out? I dumped his ass 1 Like |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by Nobody: 2:08pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Dyt: Hmm, op she say make you pray and fast for 7 days. Dry gast oo |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by mentorandfriend(m): 2:16pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
comfydan:For both guys and ladies, dont enter another relationship when you've not healed from the previous hurt/breakup. That vacuum created wants another back to it immediately, but say no. Take your time to heal. As for your guy, confront him. If he denies and you still notice that he still misses his ex, biko allow him to go to that his ex and save yourself headache. You will attract better men. Sure! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by Hope6289(f): 2:35pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
You're in a rebound relationship. |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by Nobody: 2:42pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Hope6289: I wouldn't call it a rebound. He had serious intentions, wanted marriage. He still said he wants me back just that deep down I'm scared of going back. |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by StunnazJay(m): 2:52pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
No you did not over react, you did the right thing by confronting him. But I've got a question: Did you secretly flip through his phone or did he hand it over to you himself? If you actually snooped through his phone, then that tells another story entirely. |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by Hope6289(f): 2:53pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
comfydan:I understand babe, but even if he had serious intentions, it's still a rebound when someone is clearly trying to use u to fill a hole left by another person. If his ex accepts him back, wld he still hv serious intentions for u? Keep to ur decision dear, u made a right one. 1 Like |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by Nobody: 2:58pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
StunnazJay: Yes, I went through his messages but I did it because he had been acting suspicious and distant. I know going through his messages showed lack of trust but at least I found out he was still trying to woo back his ex. |
Re: He's Still Stuck On His Ex! by lanicky(f): 3:21pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
No u didn't. |
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