TrishaP:
Of course you did not overreact. You only did what any normal person would have done in such situation. Your guy still holds a strong part for his ex and that's absurd. How about you give him an ultimatum, it's either you or his ex and hear him out...Watch his reaction and response.
It's quite difficult dealing with someone that still keeps up with his ex not just that but still loves her and goes gaga. Babe pls don't suffer in silence it's not worth it.

TrishaP:
Of course you did not overreact. You only did what any normal person would have done in such situation. Your guy still holds a strong part for his ex and that's absurd. How about you give him an ultimatum, it's either you or his ex and hear him out...Watch his reaction and response.
It's quite difficult dealing with someone that still keeps up with his ex not just that but still loves her and goes gaga. Babe pls don't suffer in silence it's not worth it.

comfydan:


Thank you, the issue is that anytime I came up with this ex issue, he said I was the one who was insecure but he loved her

TrishaP:

"He loved her" or "he still loves her"which one?

naijaboiy:
You did the right thing girl.

Let him go and be running around his "ex" everywhere.

Look for a man that wants you and only you alone.

falconey:
you touch my heart with your words

Tallesty1:


There is no man that will love her and her alone, other sisters need help and we will continue to reach out...........

Tallesty1:
Ask Google about that man and they will tell you No Search Result Found or Your Request Did Not Match Any Document.

There is no man that will love her and her alone, other sisters need help and we will continue to reach out...........

i'm just trying to soothe her feelings bruh!

alberto2k:


May your ancestors increase your wisdom talley

naijaboiy:

i'm just trying to soothe her feelings bruh!

Tallesty1:
I know bro.




I just dey find wahala this noon.

Hehehehehe

Chizzy20:
U did d ryt tin, it shws u knw ur worth. Move on, u will soon meet a man dat appreciates ur worth.

Dyt:
Pls pray
There's nothing prayer can't do
Fast too

comfydan:
My guy got out of a heartbreaking relationship, she left him for someone else and then he met me. He told me a lot about his ex, how she's the most beautiful girl he's ever known and how difficult it was to get over her. It was 2 years after their breakup he met me so I thought he should be over her. Unfortunately, he is still in love with her. I am a very observant person and I noticed he's always excited when he talks about her or when she's around him. I almost started hating her. I went through his phone one day and saw this heartbreaking msg, he was telling her he still loved her and he felt she loved him too. She replied that she's happy in her r/ship. I got so mad, confronted him and he still gave excuses like I was insecure. Even though I had been introduced to his family and they wanted us to be married, I had to quit because I was scared I'm a second option. His friend said I overreacted and I've missed out on a good man. Pls did I overreact?

Hope6289:
You're in a rebound relationship.

comfydan:


I wouldn't call it a rebound. He had serious intentions, wanted marriage. He still said he wants me back just that deep down I'm scared of going back.

StunnazJay:
No you did not over react, you did the right thing by confronting him.

But I've got a question: Did you secretly flip through his phone or did he hand it over to you himself?

If you actually snooped through his phone, then that tells another story entirely.