alberto2k:


Female version of ronald4lif

ronald4lif:


Ahh nah, mizm.ycoli is the boss young lady

MizMyColi:

Logicalmind:

Yeah. I understand--why are some of us living a double life.

The same man that would bash an independent lady will also complain about gold-diggers. ssriously?

ronald4lif:


Lol! Baba I(alberto) dey learn work from you(ronald4lif) na

Logicalmind:
Most men not ALL feel insecured about independent lady. For me, I don't care whether a lady is independent or not because i'll marry her irregardless of her financial status - fùck submissiveness. What I care about is a loving, educated, intelligent and caring wife. With submissiveness, some men still don't respect their wife.

When "Missjenna" posted that about being an independent lady who won't depend on a man, she was bashed all through. I don't care whether she was telling the truth or not because some people were insinuating that she's a pseudo-female moniker, but it seems most guys on this section/forum hate independent ladies but they'd still bash ladies who crave for her husband to provide everything for her. Confusionists

I stumbled upon an old thread this morning and Sinaj made this comment;


She got a reply which i found shocking, disheartening and sexist in a way.

Now, this dude;
1) Felt that unmarried ladies are embittered about their single life but I doubt it - I won't deny the fact that some of them aren't happy.
In my opinion, I feel it's guys that are desperate about marriage with the way they bash single ladies e.g Genevieve Nnaji, Rita Dominic and colleague who hasn't gotten married.
Chimamanda would have been a victim but she's happily married.

2) This dude feel that unmarried ladies are placed with a bad tag - I think NairaLand is only place where sexists flex their power. So I doubt this claim. No one cares about the life of a single lady in the real world.

My fellow men, why are you bashing women?

I've read feminism articles, and it seems feminist/independent women also dislike men that are insecure about them.

Is the feeling mutual?

Logicalmind:
Most men not ALL feel insecured about independent lady. For me, I don't care whether a lady is independent or not because i'll marry her irregardless of her financial status - fùck submissiveness. What I care about is a loving, educated, intelligent and caring wife. With submissiveness, some men still don't respect their wife.

When "Missjenna" posted that about being an independent lady who won't depend on a man, she was bashed all through. I don't care whether she was telling the truth or not because some people were insinuating that she's a pseudo-female moniker, but it seems most guys on this section/forum hate independent ladies but they'd still bash ladies who crave for her husband to provide everything for her. Confusionists

I stumbled upon an old thread this morning and Sinaj made this comment;


She got a reply which i found shocking, disheartening and sexist in a way.

Now, this dude;
1) Felt that unmarried ladies are embittered about their single life but I doubt it - I won't deny the fact that some of them aren't happy.
In my opinion, I feel it's guys that are desperate about marriage with the way they bash single ladies e.g Genevieve Nnaji, Rita Dominic and colleague who hasn't gotten married.
Chimamanda would have been a victim but she's happily married.

2) This dude feel that unmarried ladies are placed with a bad tag - I think NairaLand is only place where sexists flex their power. So I doubt this claim. No one cares about the life of a single lady in the real world.

My fellow men, why are you bashing women?

I've read feminism articles, and it seems feminist/independent women also dislike men that are insecure about them.

Is the feeling mutual?

wristwatch:
I agree with your post OP but having said that, Independence does not mean one day we can't reply on somebody for help not excluding financial assistance.

The truth about men been scared of independent women arise as a result of fear of the unknown.

Women are unpredictable. Either financially buoyant at the moment or not, who knows the monster that will be unleash if their hands get to power/plenty money.

Hitherto, women rule by influence not by power and so as an independent lady who is sub missive, loving and possess the necessary ingredient of a virtuous woman will one day gain the necessary support by her husband and people around.

So my point is men should know the kind of woman they shud date/marry and If u are lucky u get to see an independent woman who is down to earth, don't miss the opportunity because they are rare gem.

Misogynist2014:
Some brainless threads, flying around Nl, it gets more distasteful when you actually see the junk was written by a man, someone you expect to have common sense. If I'm threatened, what's the business of your mother about it?