babyosisi:

O shut the fried fish up!!
So It were better she stayed while you pounded the mother
Stop this sanctimonious bull crap
You are now officially a woman batterer in case you don't know and please blame it on no one else but yourself
Wear that badge with honor and stop talking trying to explain away yourself

And you puccy wear your evil badge of supporting evil with honor asswipe! The woman also wear her evil badge of man abuser and beater.
Some of you FOOLS need to drink soakaway water twice daily to clear your foolish heads.
I lost all respect I thought I had for you with this. Never knew you were this shallow.

babyosisi:


O shut the fried fish up!!
So It were better she stayed while you pounded the mother
Stop this sanctimonious bull crap
You are now officially a woman batterer in case you don't know and please blame it on no one else but yourself
Wear that badge with honor and stop talking trying to explain away yourself

but why is this b\tch pained na loooolz*

babyosisi:


This is why I say the man is full of it
You beat the crap out a woman who has your baby and tell us you regret it but she deserved it?
Those two things don't go together
This man is a volcano that has already erupted
Reading through his whole post no matter how colorful he tried to make it to suit his purposes,any intelligent person can see though that sadist
The woman picked up and left with a baby for that matter
That speaks volumes
She doesn't even believe a word he said and he expects me to

Seconded.

When I was reading the story, I could see the holes all over. Op needs to tell us the truth and nothing but the truth

dinachi:

And you puccy wear your evil badge of supporting evil with honor asswipe! The woman also wear her evil badge of man abuser and beater.
Some of you FOOLS need to drink soakaway water twice daily to clear your foolish heads.
I lost all respect I thought I had for you with this. Never knew you were this shallow.

Gbam* used to respect her until 3minutes ago... Now I know she's a stupid somebody... Or maybe her handle was hacked

Rose2014:

My dear, you were not there hence u cant know exactly what happened.
Let me ask u this, So u think d op sent a text to her friend is all that is to the story?
If u do, you'll believe anything

D funny thing with these kind of story is that if the op is as innocent as he claims, he won't be looking for comforters here

I wasn't looking for comfort, it doesn't add a kobo to me. I am surprised some people are even taking sides and saying she should be blamed, I have the capacity to take blames too and have never dorned a robe of innocence.

For those who don't get it, the ultimate aim of this post was first to make women understand their interest alone shouldn't be the driver of a relationship.

That friends don't necessarily give the best advice neither does discussing your relationship with third parties equate communicating with your partner.

I am not happy I broke my resolve especially after seeing the pain of labour she passed through in giving me such a treasure.

I take blames and I learn. This story could have been told in a more demeaning way but I chose to save the devil in the detail.

mcdokwe:
I read a lot about how men who hit their partners are nothing but beasts, I nearly joined the bandwagon of accusers because I couldn't fathom how uncontrollable one's temper could be as to turn one's partner to a punching bag.

Don't get me wrong, I deeply regret I ever hit her, unfortunately that is one reason that apparently hold water as a reason for leaving even though she never gets to tell the whole story.

She had been a very good girl, and even till date, the only girl I have lost myself in love to. Yes, I have been a broke ass nigga and thankfully she could be a low maintenance lady.

She once told me how some of her stupid friends asked if I have hit her before obviously looking for shortfalls to convince her she shouldn't be dating me and how she proudly told them I hadn't for once.

In fairness to the truth, I learnt a lot from her and having her taught me how to treat my sister who was her age better.
At a point in her life, she had no genuine friend and would always moan to me how bad some friend or the other treated her and how she wasn't interested in their friendship anymore and I had to constantly remind her that people are different and so with their motives, I always encouraged her to try to understand such motives before writing them off.
I literally became her only friend and unfortunately shoved some people who could have been some sort of relief aside so much that we had just each other
Days became weeks and months and she conceived for me and a lot started changing about her. Maybe in her bid to feel acceptable, she got entangled with people she wrote completely off before, this wasn't a so much of a challenge because atleast she could whine less about them to me, her dress sense changed and she turned deaf ears to my appeal for explanation, I had to adapt to some of those challenges but unfortunately those friends became more valuable to her than myself even though we had a child coming and lived together, she shared less of her worries with me but would tell them even the minutest detail of our relationship which were frequently misrepresented maybe in a bid to gain sympathy which she eventually got. They explained my actions and inactions better than I could and she could go for days without talking to me so long as the meal was provides and the babies need met, she opted for a break anytime I told her of her upsetting attitude and the need to work on it, but would never tell me of her own misgivings towards me even when I plead so I could work on myself too, but would rather discuss unthinkable issues with her friends.

Fast forward to that particular day, a lady who I encouraged her to make friends with because of her distress and the feeling we could be of help to sent a text to her sim which happened to be on my phone saying she needs to know when I left the house so she could come over and I was wth! This is some one I brought in, someone whose coming means she is to fend from my toil, and I asked what it could be that I did that should warrant such. I sent her a text telling her never to bother coming anymore as I wasn't leaving the house that day anymore. She called her back and asked her only God knows what and my lady went up in frenzy insulting me not minding that a third party was there.
Minutes later the other girl stopped by to apologise stating that I misunderstood her text but my girlfriend continued the insult asking why she should bother to explain or apologise. After a while every other person left and she became apologetically cosy, well I shrugged her off knowing her being apologetic doesn't stop her from insulting me the next minute if she felt like, and true to my prediction, even while she was still being sorry, her words turned from being apologetic to outright insult, calling me unprintable names and how I am a hopeless orphan (I lost my dad the previous year and my mum is still very much alive and she is so lettered and knows what an orphan means) well I said something too of her family because I was hurt but could never match her with words and I made to leave the house in that fit of anger. But she locked the door and wouldn't let me. She turned apologetic again and then insulting, in that state all I could do was pity her because I couldn't imagine how someone could be so unstable, I was visibly frustrated and made to leave the house which she wouldn't have either and I had to forcefully remove her from the way. She came back hard on my, making for anything. That could be converted into a weapon, thankfully I was stronger and made her efforts futile. I pinned her to the ground with the intention to make her realise I am stronger than our love sessions where I played weak to let her have an upper hand so she could give up already, but the moment I released her a bit, she reached for my phone and smashed it on the floor repeatedly, I regrettably gave her some blows and because I didn't want it to continue, opened the door so a neighbour could come in a stop the fight. I later stormed out with the child and headed for a family who had rendered enough care to us and she later found her way there, I expected her to behave more in their presence but that was to wishful of me and unfortunately the ladies couldn't stop me as I gave her even deadlier blows but mehn, she never really got enough.

She was later forced into one of the rooms in the apartment and locked up with the baby.
After a while I walked to that point seeing how pitiful she looked asked her with tears in my eyes why she was acting the way she does to which she replied with a tone that could melt the devil's heart that she didn't know and was sorry. We packed up and went back home to the astonishment of all who saw us fight. Needless to say we made love that night after which she confessed she never knew I could hit her even after I was with her at the delivery room and declared no woman should be beaten by her man. She also owned up and apologised for pushing me to that point.

She also told me how a particular friend of hers who came in after the fight had told her not to have sex with me that night and all that.

The relationship lasted for a little longer without fights and she left while I was away for reasons still not clear to me, and looking back I regret that I ever let her pushing me to the point of hitting her but I still believe firmly that she deserved it.

Dude you are so a biatcch!!

Man the fuxxx up!!!
Went through some of your thread where you have been on this girl's case like a pooooosssie!!

Man the fuxxx up

When they discover that you can't do without them,then they start to withdraw!
Laws of attraction ishh!!
Be a man,move on.
Ignore her for donkey/camel years!!

Chase God and money!!!!

Let her read about you in the news!!
Let her stooopid friends talk bout how rich and good looking you are!!!

She would come back begging!!
Her types fall under the category of those that don't really know what they want so it is for you to control like a military man
Not some softness chilling level!!!!!!
You got me so fuxxxing annoyed ,making me carry the matter for my head!!!
WTF is wrong with you?

Phucccck her!!
Phuccck Ijeoma!!!
You fuxxxing deserve better!!
Don't text her!
Don't call her!!!!
If your child grows up and ask what happened
Show her your NL post which should explain everything!!!!

Grow some balls
Isn't it pooosie that bleeds?

Or you got sanitary pad on?

Man the fuxxx up please!!!!

Owliver:
haha I be nice guy for sure na... Hmm ok I should leave sharply like someone wey them dey pursue. Kkk point noted... Thanks for the advice... Never hit a woman

I no fit laff o
Yes leave na de crase de pursue u

Rose2014:

I no fit laff o
Yes leave na de crase de pursue u

no problem May God help us.

Rose2014:

Seconded.
When I was reading the story, I could see the holes all over. Op needs to tell us the truth and nothing but the truth

Since you don't believe the OP, why comment at all? I am sure you didn't see where he posted that she had been physical before now.
Look I hate hypocrisy and rubbish in my life. Any woman who wants to be taken serious around me must have a clear sense of fairness.You are not objective at all.
You are here making excuses for a woman who verbally and emotionally and sometimes physically abuses her husband just because one day he couldn't take it anymore and hit back to regain her sanity. PLS BE SMART!

DICKtator:


Dude you are so a biatcch!!

Man the fuxxx up!!!
Went through some of your thread where you have been on this girl's case like a pooooosssie!!

Man the fuxxx up

When they discover that you can't do without them,then they start to withdraw!
Laws of attraction ishh!!
Be a man,move on.
Ignore her for donkey/camel years!!

Chase God and money!!!!

Let her read about you in the news!!
Let her stooopid friends talk bout how rich and good looking you are!!!

She would come back begging!!
Her types fall under the category of those that don't really know what they want so it is for you to control like a military man
Not some softness chilling level!!!!!!
You got me so fuxxxing annoyed ,making me carry the matter for my head!!!
WTF is wrong with you?

Phucccck her!!
Phuccck Ijeoma!!!
You fuxxxing deserve better!!
Don't text her!
Don't call her!!!!
If your child grows up and ask what happened
Show her your NL post which should explain everything!!!!

Grow some balls
Isn't it pooosie that bleeds?

Or you got sanitary pad on?

Man the fuxxx up please!!!!

thank you man. U see this "I can't live without her/him" talk na hin dey put people for trouble. I love her too much" all thos silly talks are just not it... One can live with or without anybody once you decide... He bleeped up for allowing her physically abuse him all the time past. All in the name of tolerance men drag their self in dirt. That's f^cked up indeed.. Nice post

babyosisi:



I pray this story ends well
Whoever this girl is, babyosisi says God bless you for doing the right things by keeping the baby and may all end well for you and the child

and I say amen

mcdokwe:
I wasn't looking for comfort, it doesn't add a kobo to me. I am surprised some people are even taking sides and saying she should be blamed, I have the capacity to take blames too and have never dorned a robe of innocence.

For those who don't get it, the ultimate aim of this post was first to make women understand their interest alone shouldn't be the driver of a relationship.

That friends don't necessarily give the best advice neither does discussing your relationship with third parties equate communicating with your partner.

I am not happy I broke my resolve especially after seeing the pain of labour she passed through in giving me such a treasure.

I take blames and I learn. This story could have been told in a more demeaning way but I chose to save the devil in the detail.

Points taken. My only worry was you said you regret beating her but she deserved it. How can those two words go together.

How would this sound to you 'I regret sleeping with my husband's best friend but my husband deserves it'

Regret n deserve don't flow in this context. U may have said the whole truth in your post but u may have made some wrong choice of words. For me when I was reading it, all I saw was a man who beat his wife n in trying to justify his anger in front of others, he beat her again so they can see he's really mad.
Forgive me if I'm wrong

DICKtator:

Dude you are so a biatcch!!
Man the fuxxx up!!!
Went through some of your thread where you have been on this girl's case like a pooooosssie!!
Man the fuxxx up
When they discover that you can't do without them,then they start to withdraw!
Laws of attraction ishh!!
Be a man,move on.
Ignore her for donkey/camel years!!
Chase God and money!!!!
Let her read about you in the news!!
Let her stooopid friends talk bout how rich and good looking you are!!!
She would come back begging!!
Her types fall under the category of those that don't really know what they want so it is for you to control like a military man
Not some softness chilling level!!!!!!
You got me so fuxxxing annoyed ,making me carry the matter for my head!!!
WTF is wrong with you?
Phucccck her!!
Phuccck Ijeoma!!!
You fuxxxing deserve better!!
Don't text her!
Don't call her!!!!
If your child grows up and ask what happened
Show her your NL post which should explain everything!!!!
Grow some balls
Isn't it pooosie that bleeds?
Or you got sanitary pad on?
Man the fuxxx up please!!!!

I Dinachi endorse this post 100%! @ OP God knows you deserve better. She doesn't deserve a good man like you, period!

Rose2014:

Points taken. My only worry was you said you regret beating her but she deserved it. How can those two words go together.

How would this sound to you 'I regret sleeping with my husband's best friend but my husband deserves it'

Regret n deserve don't flow in this context. U may have said the whole truth in your post but u may have made some wrong choice of words. For me when I was reading it, all I saw was a man who beat his wife n in trying to justify his anger in front of others, he beat her again so they can see he's really mad.
Forgive me if I'm wrong

me and you don settle yet you dey find my trouble. Why would you compare both now? He beat her for many reasons like physical abuse, verbal abuse, smashing of phone, locking of door etc.... Now tell me why you would sleep with ur husband's friend Omg* the way women think is sooooo wonderful. No wonder the devil deceived eve. So gullible

GentleToks:


Lol @ all these useless Bride price you are talking about.
A good woman ll always be a good wife regardless of anything.

If you pay £1 billion today on a wrong lady as her bride price, you ll live to regret it cos she is naturally bad. No amount of incentives ll change a bad lady to a good wife. If you are cohabitating with a well brought up girl who is in love with u, d least thing in her mind would be a bride price.

Haven't you seen people killing themselves after their wedding? Tell me if the bride price wasn't paid; it was paid but relationship is not all about that overeating bride price.

Men deserve good wives.

no one has said men don't deserve good wivies,,,,,,better still you can get a girl that you love so well, and you understood each other so well....she is well brought up and with all the good manners you can think of.......put her in your house ,,,,DON'T PAY HER PRIDE PRICE and let her be producing children for you like fowl......

The end will tell you,wether you are placed on a curse,,or a curse is place on you.

Rose2014:

Points taken. My only worry was you said you regret beating her but she deserved it. How can those two words go together.
How would this sound to you 'I regret sleeping with my husband's best friend but my husband deserves it'
Regret n deserve don't flow in this context. U may have said the whole truth in your post but u may have made some wrong choice of words. For me when I was reading it, all I saw was a man who beat his wife n in trying to justify his anger in front of others, he beat her again so they can see he's really mad.
Forgive me if I'm wrong

What about her verbal, emotional and PHYSICAL abuse? Didn't see you condemn that. She used to BEAT him before! Abi you still never hear that one? Madam this your contributions get K leg I swear!

dinachi:

Since you don't believe the OP, why comment at all? I am sure you didn't see where he posted that she had been physical before now.
Look I hate hypocrisy and rubbish in my life. Any woman who wants to be taken serious around me must have a clear sense of fairness.You are not objective at all.
You are here making excuses for a woman who verbally and emotionally and sometimes physically abuses her husband just because one day he couldn't take it anymore and hit back to regain her sanity. PLS BE SMART!

On the contrary, I commented because I don't believe the op. As a matter of fact, most times I comment when I don't agree with the op so people are not mislead into believing sugar coated stories.

I can't wrap my head around how the op never said or did anything but watch the lady verbally abuse him to warrant beating her twice in one day
Ok let's say she caused the first one, the second time, did she also lock him inside? (infront of people)
Maybe it's because my mind has been programmed never ever ever to conclude on one side of any story.
Believe me, I would've bn the same way if the lady created her own thread first.
U have to admit it takes 2 to tango. And to any story(no matter how sweet) there's a different side

Rose2014:

My dear, you were not there hence u cant know exactly what happened.
Let me ask u this, So u think d op sent a text to her friend is all that is to the story?
If u do, you'll believe anything

D funny thing with these kind of story is that if the op is as innocent as he claims, he won't be looking for comforters here

No I don't believe the text was the only offence, the op admitted he said some bad words to her as well, however that was in respond to hers, moreover the op never raised a finger on her before she began with the insult and even after she has insulted him and kept insulting him but only got physical when His girl decide to get physical and also stopped him from leaving.
now why won't I believe this story when we have most ladies here saying on no account is the op right including you.
OK the op is not right ....agreed
from the "op" what do we call a lady like that?
the truth is this, if ypu don't advocate violence in any case for one gender then don't advocate violence in any case for the other.
next time the woman should be able to control herself , end of discussion.

Owliver:
me and you don settle yet you dey find my trouble. Why would you compare both now? He beat her for many reasons like physical abuse, verbal abuse, smashing of phone, locking of door etc.... Now tell me why you would sleep with ur husband's friend Omg* the way women think is sooooo wonderful. No wonder the devil deceived eve. So gullible

I'm sorry dearie I didn't mean it that way na
I was only trying to bring out the fact that if you're sorry, you should be sorry about what you shouldn't have done no matter what

Rose2014:

On the contrary, I commented because I don't believe the op. As a matter of fact, most times I comment when I don't agree with the op so people are not mislead into believing sugar coated stories.

I can't wrap my head around how the op never said or did anything but watch the lady verbally abuse him to warrant beating her twice in one day
Ok let's say she caused the first one, the second time, did she also lock him inside? (infront of people)
Maybe it's because my mind has been programmed never ever ever to conclude on one side of any story.
Believe me, I would've bn the same way if the lady created her own thread first.
U have to admit it takes 2 to tango. And to any story(no matter how sweet) there's a different side

from the bolded your a bloody Liar... Your first few comments were in defense of the lady that was why I said you either coment base on the OP's story or don't comment.... Am out of this thread before I vex hit someone

I literally became her only friend and unfortunately shoved some people who could have been some sort of relief aside so much that we had just each other

This is one of the cardinal signs of abuse
A girl gets into a relationship and slowly all her friends disappear
For sure you won't say what hand he had in that

Days became weeks and months and she conceived for me and a lot started changing about her.

Interesting
In just months she had conceived,the cart before the horse?
You don't know where they sell condoms?

Maybe in her bid to feel acceptable, she got entangled with people she wrote completely off before, this wasn't a so much of a challenge because atleast she could whine less about them to me, her dress sense changed and she turned deaf ears to my appeal for explanation, I had to adapt to some of those challenges but unfortunately those friends became more valuable to her than myself even though we had a child coming and lived together, she shared less of her worries with me but would tell them even the minutest detail of our relationship which were frequently misrepresented maybe in a bid to gain sympathy which she eventually got. They explained my actions and inactions better than I could and she could go for days without talking to me so long as the meal was provides and the babies need met, she opted for a break anytime I told her of her upsetting attitude and the need to work on it, but would never tell me of her own misgivings towards me even when I plead so I could work on myself too, but would rather discuss unthinkable issues with her friends.

This is the clincher
The most important paragraph in all this tale
The girl probably realized what a fool she had become
Carrying belle without the benefit of marriage and reaches it to her friends for comfort
What girl wants to be the laughing stock of society with the badge of babymama
This man can't handle her boldness and her seeming independence of him as she wriggles under his clutch
She went for days without talking to you and you had done nothing?
I imagine all the nagging and biatching she got because she was " changing and her dress sense changing"
Her friends were eating into your control time and you couldn't handle it
I get that picture well

Fast forward to that particular day, a lady who I encouraged her to make friends with because of her distress and the feeling we could be of help to sent a text to her sim which happened to be on my phone saying she needs to know when I left the house so she could come over

Amebo,you want to be part of every second of her life?
Don't you have better things to do
Maybe you were going to be part of that discussion,she may have reached out to friends about your ugly behavior and you acted true to type
I hold discussions with girlfriends when Oga is away,that is very normal.cOuld also be this other girl wanted to discuss her own tissues without you being there,what is wrong with that?arent you mature enough to understand that people do need privacy.you have a lot to learn.

and I was wth! This is some one I brought in, someone whose coming means she is to fend from my toil, and I asked what it could be that I did that should warrant such. I sent her a text telling her never to bother coming anymore as I wasn't leaving the house that day anymore.

How unmanly!
A girl sends an innocent simple post to her girlfriend and a boyfriend replies?
That right there tells me how controlling you are
This girl obviously suffered in your hands
People should bow before when you render them help
Kabiyesi

She called her back and asked her only God knows what and my lady went up in frenzy insulting me not minding that a third party was there.
Minutes later the other girl stopped by to apologise stating that I misunderstood her text but my girlfriend continued the insult asking why she should bother to explain or apologise. After a while every other person left and she became apologetically cosy, well I shrugged her off knowing her being apologetic doesn't stop her from insulting me the next minute if she felt like, and true to my prediction, even while she was still being sorry, her words turned from being apologetic to outright insult, calling me unprintable names and how I am a hopeless orphan (I lost my dad the previous year and my mum is still very much alive and she is so lettered and knows what an orphan means) well I said something too of her family because I was hurt but could never match her with words and I made to leave the house in that fit of anger.

Obviously you don't even see your blame in starting this whole thing off
You are very immature
Thank God this is not marriage,I wish you didn't bring a baby into this mix too.
That response to that girl was a juvenile move on your part and she spoke out on that behavior,I don't blame her.you embarrassed her greatly and belittled yourself,that is embarrassing and if you were sincere,the verbal assault must have started from you,you were the angry person here by your own actions and must have acted so,I don't see how she would have bad mouthed you unprovoked.

But she locked the door and wouldn't let me. She turned apologetic again and then insulting, in that state all I could do was pity her because I couldn't imagine how someone could be so unstable, I was visibly frustrated and made to leave the house which she wouldn't have either and I had to forcefully remove her from the way. She came back hard on my, making for anythingThat could be converted into a weapon, thankfully I was stronger and made her efforts futile. I pinned her to the ground with the intention to make her realise I am stronger than our love sessions where I played weak to let her have an upper hand so she could give up already, but the moment I released her a bit, she reached for my phone and smashed it on the floor repeatedly, I regrettably gave her some blows and because I didn't want it to continue, opened the door so a neighbour could come in a stop the fight.

Oh puhlease
Nollywood has nothing on this tale
Pinned her to the ground,pushed her,bladdy blah
All because a simple text was sent.
You haven't told us this girl has mental issues
But all through,your possessiveness and control shines through,How dare a girl you are helping financially ask to know when you were out?
Excuse you!
You instigated all this and you should own it it else it will repeat with someone else,thank G of this one got smart

I later stormed out with the child and headed for a family who had rendered enough care to us and she later found her way there, I expected her to behave more in their presence but that was to wishful of me and unfortunately the ladies couldn't stop me as I gave her even deadlier blows but mehn, she never really got enough.

Stormed out indeed and stormed in elsewhere * rolls eyes*
It looks like this important section was lost in your drama plot,I missed it too
You were running and grabbed the baby,end up in a neighbors house,the girl shows up there and you pound her some more and nobody could stop you.
Amadioha punish you!
I wish it were in the USA,your behind will be a jail a loooooooong time
And after bigger men have pounded you from the rear behind the prison walls,you will learn a lesson or two
Eediot

She was later forced into one of the rooms in the apartment and locked up with the baby.
After a while I walked to that point seeing how pitiful she looked asked her with tears in my eyes why she was acting the way she does to which she replied with a tone that could melt the devil's heart that she didn't know and was sorry. We packed up and went back home to the astonishment of all who saw us fight..

Lord have Mercy!!
After this beating of her life,she is held captive in a room crying her eyes out with a baby obviously crying and wailing at this time
Where are the parents of this child?
Her mother probably heartbroken that her little girl is playing mummy without a ring or a drop of wine on her behalf and to add insult to injury,she is also being battered like a snake.

Needless to say we made love that night after which she confessed she never knew I could hit her even after I was with her at the delivery room and declared no woman should be beaten by her man. She also owned up and apologised for pushing me to that point

Regular cycle of abuse,the abuse followed by a honeymoon period.google Stockholm syndrome, doesn't mean she enjoyed the beating.
You already described yourself well,you are not a man,not my words but yours

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This part sweet me no be small
I hope the ladies are reading
This girl may have read my posts on nairaland
When you are with a violent man and you fear for your life,don't let them in on your plans or you may die before you execute it
Lay low,do whatever you can to keep his demons at bay,give him the illusion all is well ,plan your escape cooly and do it at the least expected time and leave them crying on social media about it[/size]

and looking back I regret that I ever let her pushing me to the point of hitting her but I still believe firmly that she deserved it

For a young woman to prefer to be a single mother and live with the ridicule and shame in our society rather than be with you and play marriage speaks volumes.you say she deserved it,thank God she didn't give you a second chance to earn that coveted medal on your bartering ability.
As for that little girl,you won't be seeing her in years if I were her

Dheartless:

No I don't believe the text was the only offence, the op admitted he said some bad words to her as well, however that was in respond to hers, moreover the op never raised a finger on her before she began with the insult and even after she has insulted him and kept insulting him but only got physical when His girl decide to get physical and also stopped him from leaving.
now why won't I believe this story when we have most ladies here saying on no account is the op right including you.
OK the op is not right ....agreed
from the "op" what we call a lady like that?
the truth is this if don't advocate violence in any case for one gender then don't advocate violence in any case for the other.
next time the woman should be able to control herself , end of discussion.

Don't get me wrong o, I've not for once said I support the lady's actions. No not at all
Just that I'm not taking the op at face value maybe cos of his wrong choice of words(blame it on English language )

Anyway sir, your points are well noted.

Owliver:
from the bolded your a bloody Liar... Your first few comments were in defense of the lady that was why I said you either coment base on the OP's story or don't comment.... Am out of this thread before I vex hit someone

I just feel the op has not given us thetrue true picture of what really happened.

Oya sweetheart calm down na
I kneel down beg u o or u want to me to lock the door?

Rose2014:


Sweetheart oya calm down it never reach like that na.
I kneel down beg u o or u want to me to lock the door?

lmao* choi see as you dey press my mumu botton from wherever you are Pls don't lock the door. I forgive you

Owliver:
lmao* choi see as you dey press my mumu botton from wherever you are Pls don't lock the door. I forgive you

Thanks sweetheart
I promise not to support the lady again

#neveragain#

Rose2014:

Thanks sweetheart
I promise not to support the lady again

#neveragain#

loooolz* God no go forgive you oh for making me fall inlove with a married woman byyyeeeeeeee

sweetcocoa:
Ofcourse, I'm a woman and I like to think of myself as a feminist(eventhough most people don't understand feminism and what it's about) I stand for the truth.

Some women are just something else and can push you so much you begin to question all you stand for,and because I don't believe in violence, I think it's better that any man who finds himself with such a woman, let her go, until she decides to act like a mature and reasonable person, by communicating instead of hurling invectives at her man.

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EggovinMma:



You can as well punch your mother.I am sure you will enjoy it.

Whats d similarity between a mother & a wife...that our fathers in the past deal with our mothers does that mean they'll punch dr own mothers?...think b4 u type poo abeg

Rose2014:

Don't get me wrong o, I've not for once said I support the lady's actions. No not at all
Just that I'm not taking the op at face value maybe cos of his wrong choice of words(blame it on English language )

Anyway sir, your points are well noted.

you are not such a violent person after all, maybe I misunderstood your sentiments .
good day ma'am.

Owliver:
loooolz* God no go forgive you oh for making me fall inlove with a married woman byyyeeeeeeee

Sorry na

Bye dearie

babyosisi:

it is fools like you who go about creating problems in other people's relationships after all, you have been to America
Little wonder we get a handful of news about men killing their Nigerian wives. I do not owe you or anybody an explanation, like said earlier I didn't create this thread to paint her as evil but let her and others who might fall under the evil influence of people like you in the form of advice understand that it is not as bad as people make it to be. Those who know the parties involved who are also happily married understand those who advised her were in no mental or moral position to offer a workable advise just like you.

Because I consider her a friend and someone whose best interest I have at heart whether or not we end up together, I won't let you push me to divulge very personal details about our relationship because that would have defeated the essence of this post which obviously is lost on you and pass me off as one who is truly on the look out for sympathy. So swerve and continue fooling yourself in the name of living in America like you are the first

Dheartless:

you are not such a violent person after all, maybe I misunderstood your sentiments .
good day ma'am.

Very right observation at last. Na only small mouth I get sometimes but from a safe distance o that slap cannot reach


Good day sir