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Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by sweetcocoa(f): 6:52pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Rose2014:You are obviously still missing the point. I am not supporting the OP, I just don't think it is fair to blame him for something they are both responsible for. You keep saying he got her pregnant as if he tied her hands and leg, then inserted a baby inside her, they both got pregnant, she gave consent for sanity's sakes. How can I be happy if my daughter is with an abuser? I just won't go about blaming him alone after I have warned her about him, I will do my best to remove her from the situation and if she insists and he kills her, well she's dead and she chose to die, the dude will also face my wrath and that of the law, the point here remains, she chose to stay. Are you saying women should stick to "beasts" because they got pregnant and their families rejected them? If staying with him is the better option, why won't he feel like a god and treat her anyhow? 2 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 6:52pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
cococandy: Exactly Who brought this shait here? I thought they said women are the ones who can't handle it when a relationship goes bad The woman left him I couldn't applaud her enough 2 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by cococandy(f): 6:52pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
kaboninc: You mean do I know that some women are violent too? Yes. |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by urchbarbie(f): 6:52pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
U want her to beg cos of wat ur child wld say? Ure not considering her mortaging her entire life on d altar of abuse, or u seeing reason why u shld go to her parents place with some respectable members of ur family to settle issues. Nna m! U rily need to do some growing up, so ur dota wld be proud of her father when she ever gets to hear abt dis sometime in her adult lifei mcdokwe: |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 6:53pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
MarvellousGod:You saw that abi? Where is that guy I was telling not to carry the matter on his head. I talk am say we no go dey when them go settle now her hubby has said they will settle and laugh at comments here. No be small thing o. |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by kaboninc(m): 6:54pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Rose2014: Maybe you should go read his side of the story. |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by cococandy(f): 6:55pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
sweetcocoa:. Exactly. She did the right thing. We are hearing about this ish because the dude couldn't get over his God complex and accept that she left because he was not treating her right. What he did was to create a thread justifying his beating her as if "how dare she leave when she was the one who made me do it" If she didn't leave, he wouldn't have opened that thread. 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by kaboninc(m): 6:56pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
urchbarbie: Maybe you have a problem of reading or to comprehend simple texts. |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 6:57pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
mcdokwe: Do not bring my zubby zubby into this I nugo Power mike You made your bed,we are only putting pins before you lay on it 4 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by sweetcocoa(f): 6:58pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Rose2014:Lol . Madam you funny o, where is the hypocrisy in my post abeg? I'm still saying the same thing, You choose what to do and whatever the outcome of it, you take responsibility. If you choose to listen to your parents and it works for you, great. If you choose not to listen to them and it doesn't work for you, that's your problem. If you choose to listen to them and it doesn't work for you, that's also your problem. In the end, the choice is all yours and that's where "it is your life" comes in. Where did I term her irresponsible for not listening to her parents? 2 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by akinsadeez(m): 6:58pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
remsonik: so for which offence and under which law will he be jailed when she wasn't a minor. Abi when they were both mutually sexually exploring each other did they call the father or the police. Many peeps r just allowing emotions to cloud their reasoning. 3 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Rose2014: 6:58pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
sweetcocoa:@your last paragraph From your posts, your daughter cannot even come back to someone like you because as far as your posts go, she deserves to be killed for not listening to you Again remember you can't dictate who she falls in love with 2 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by urchbarbie(f): 7:01pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
L0usy fellow et Mr Comprehension. Oya summarise wetin him mean. #supportersclub kaboninc: |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by pickabeau1: 7:01pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
[s] babyosisi:[/s] Ehya....you are the one who entertains us with your stories My pity is for those who believe your horse shït and are listening to you advise them when they may even have better lives than yours' 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by kaboninc(m): 7:02pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
cococandy: Violent with their mouth. You've used it here (with your keyboard or keypad) and in so many other threads. And that act can earn you a SLAP even from the most timid guy in the world! Even your husband and don't try to say 'tufiakwa'! My point is simple. This lady has a foul mouth and YESSSSS, she deserves some of the beatings. Maybe it was to 'correct' her excesses and out of anger. Now you see the hypocrisy people exhibit? Suppose your father SLAPS you for running your mouth, would you say he ABUSED you? |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by kaboninc(m): 7:03pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
pickabeau1: WOW!!!!!! I feel you bro!!!! 4 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by sweetcocoa(f): 7:03pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
cococandy:Yea, I am just more interested in the fact that they are both abusive and shouldn't be together till they can both be responsible people. If he's feeling like "how dare she leave" then he is on a very long thing. |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by urchbarbie(f): 7:03pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
The later part of dat sentence is by d way. He clearly want her to beg shikena kaboninc: |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by kaboninc(m): 7:04pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
urchbarbie: See you? Like Miraijj like You! Go learn how to 'comprehend' |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by sweetcocoa(f): 7:07pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Rose2014:I seriously don't know how you understand what you read from my posts. Did you not see where I wrote that I will try to remove her from the situation? I can understand making an error in judgment, I however will not support continuous stup1dity. Ha! Na wa for you o. 2 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by urchbarbie(f): 7:07pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
I smell jealousy E-miles away. Abeg leave my babyosisi and carve ur own niche biko. Obi ojo adighi nma. pickabeau1: 7 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 7:08pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
pickabeau1: So those threads hurt you this much? Eyaaa! But you follow silently because you can't help yourself FYI,unless you quote me or mention me I wouldn't read a thing you wrote here You are one of the people I skip when I read because I never saw anything sensible from you You are incapable of making sense 8 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by cococandy(f): 7:09pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
The guy has a fouler mouth too. Does he deserve to be beaten up? The fact that you think someone deserves to be beaten for their words makes me not want to engage you anymore. kaboninc: |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by bukatyne(f): 7:09pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
sweetcocoa: The woman is abusive for calling the father of her child bla bla on NL but nothing to the guy who accuses his babymama 's daddy of abandoning her to his face. Interesting. 6 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by kaboninc(m): 7:09pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
urchbarbie: Lol if that's your understanding of this situation! He actually wants a way for them to sit and talk about their issues. The FORGIVE THEMSELVES. The guy wants a GENUINE RECONCILLIATION, for the sake of the daughter! And you can either help by being neutral and careful in your advice or destroy it by making careless statement. Did you see where he talked about the same friends telling her that she'd be better off without him and yet tell him she's loosing so much by being away from him? I trust you're not one of such persons. 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by coogar: 7:09pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
sweetcocoa: unfortunately, that's the way of the world these days. 21st century women - they want rights but they want no responsibility. i am starting to think the dude artificially inseminated her while she was sleeping or she got pregnant immaculately. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by pickabeau1: 7:10pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
urchbarbie: Where is this one coming from Na ur eye go blind from fan girlism 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Rose2014: 7:10pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
akinsadeez:Honey in a western world his ass will be cooling off in prison by now for raising his filthy hands on the lady. There's a reason physical violence is a crime. His verbal abuse may not have earned him a jail term but the physical too? Jeezz Maybe u guys would've bn visiting him with food in prison by now At least he wouldn't have had internet access to be posting his justification here. Nonsense Save the justification for the judge 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 7:11pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
cococandy:Ohhh, he had been locked up before for a similar offence? ? .... More stories are creeping in... Mcdokwe, you need to calm down... Going physical isn't the best way to correct people whether male or female. Don't let your over inflated ego overcome you... what if she died in the process? And to think she was carrying your baby when you beat her.... It's well with both of ya... 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by pickabeau1: 7:12pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
[s] babyosisi:[/s] And you are the sensible one Hohoho... Well at least your e- accolades make your life worthwhile 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 7:12pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Love and the typical Nigerian Mcdokwe, no matter what happens, your daughter needs you. Even if you are called a bad man, or supposedly a bad husband, you shouldn't become a bad father. Please, in the future, try not to raise your hands against a woman ( especially a woman you once professed love for).She will not forget, she will never forgive. No matter what happens, women will always remain at the receiving end of these societal ills. They get pregnant outside wedlock and bear the shame and pains, they run their mouth and get beat up by men and get to bear the shame, pain and bruises. @Op, for the sake of your daughter, make peace with Mcdokwe. Stop telling every Tom, Dick and Harry your family issues. And Marriage is NOT compulsory so you won't end up killing yourselves. Also, learn to accept that you both share faults as it takes two to tangle. I pray that you find peace and love. Take good care of yourself and your daughter. PLEASE stay away from men who show signs of being physically abusive, and learn to put a bridle on your tongue. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by 5minsmadness: 7:13pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Oh finally am at the end! ***collapses from exhaustion**** 2 Likes |
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