MarvellousGod:
Ohhh, he had been locked up before for a similar offence? ? .... More stories are creeping in...


Mcdokwe, you need to calm down... Going physical isn't the best way to correct people whether male or female. Don't let your over inflated ego overcome you... what if she died in the process? And to think she was carrying your baby when you beat her....

It's well with both of ya...

It looks like he spent a night or two in jail after beating her
That was why I said her parents were too kind
6 full months would have taught him a good lesson

pickabeau1:


Where is this one coming from
Na ur eye go blind from fan girlism

Lol

bukatyne:


The woman is abusive for calling the father of her child bla bla on NL but nothing to the guy who accuses his babymama 's daddy of abandoning her to his face.

Interesting.

I think you should read my other posts.

dinachi:

I respect ladies who are fair in their assessments. Thanks for saying it as it is! May God grant you your very heart desires!


Another brilliant observation, may you met a good man you can call your own soon.

Honey dt prayer came 9 yrs too late, i've been happily married for 6yrs nw n counting... so yes, I HAVE a good man.

But thanks anyways...

pickabeau1:



And you are the sensible one

Hohoho...

Well at least your e- accolades make your life worthwhile

The "accolades" are now your source of anger
Is there a popularity contest going on?
Is it that serious?
Kpele

5minsmadness:
Oh finally am at the end! ***collapses from exhaustion****

Lol
Can't stop smiling

cococandy:
The guy has a fouler mouth too.
Does he deserve to be beaten up?

The fact that you think someone deserves to be beaten for their words makes me not want to engage you anymore.

My dear, this is just common sense. They say the Constitution guarantees you freedom of speech. But freedom after speech, it cannot be guaranteed!

If you use your mouth in a foul way, then you deserve to be spanked. Just that it may be through beatings. Do you know some ladies actually become to first to hit?

Like I said, I do not hold brief for the guy but from the post of this lady, in fact, she really contributed to her problems. She fuelled, watered and nurtured it with her mouth.

I can confidently say that the man is more civilised, informed and exposed than her. A wise woman learns from that not compete.

Men make mistakes but a woman should not double it feast on it.

Oh, your friend Bukatyne is around!

Rose2014:
Finally before I step out of the thread

The level of hypocrisy on nairaland is nauseating
People like sweetcocoa are here blaming op why she chose the guy and whether she was taped bla bla bla and bragging about what they would've done if it was their child.
Yet if someone opens a thread asking for advise on whether she should accept someone without her parents approval, u'll start hearing things like 'it's your life', 'your parents cannot dictate for you' etc

use your common sense and don't muddy the waters. accepting someone without parents approval is different altogether from getting pregnant out of wedlock. i don't see anything hypocritical about sweetcocoa's comment - you are the one exhibiting a huge dose of myopia or perhaps dyslexia!

Now this one has gone wrong and she's termed irresponsible girl that should've listen to her parents. Be careful what u say sha
Karma doesn't fail to react

God is watching all of you

she's irresponsible for getting pregnant - not irresponsible for choosing her baby-daddy as her partner. there's a universe of difference between the two.

babyosisi:


The "accolades" are now your source of anger
Is there a popularity contest going on?
Is it that serious?
Kpele

Ehya...classic diversionary tactics



Its not an issue for me nor a source of anger
As I said earlier its the clueless ones who grovel for a piece of 'wisdom' I pity..

Your true bigoted and hateful nature is creeping out gradually so its only a matter of time

urchbarbie:
I smell jealousy E-miles away. Abeg leave my babyosisi and carve ur own niche biko. Obi ojo adighi nma.

That is eh

I always knew my posts get some people very mad
I can understand a woman like the one dancing kokoma on the side quoting people addressing Pickabeau
But I don't understand why a man would be bothered
He is a man isn't he?

sweetcocoa:
wtf are you talking about? If my daughter packs her beg to go live with a man she's not married to, then whatever she gets, is her beeswax.

I will do my part by teaching her to make better judgments, you hear me? I will actually bury my head in shame if this OP is my daughter because as far as I'm concerned, I failed as a parent, I'm in my mid 20's and I've never gotten pregnant and if happen to get pregnant tomorrow, I will take full responsibility so long as I wasn't raped.

Women too were created with common sense, is it a crime to use it? You go out with a guy, get pregnant, decide to have the baby and you turn around to solely blame the guy? What kinda thinking is that one?

Lol @ cutting his JT, why do you all think it is only abuse when someone gets hit?

Did the OP ever blame the guy for getting her pregnant?

Must have missed it.

Let me indulge u by calling u swt@ cos I knw ure lacking love seriously from wat I can deduce. This is a youngman dat came on NL n backlashed/tonguelashed d mother of his child. If he actually wanted to settle tinx, he wld not av wasted energy on dat thread, rather find means to reach his woman n sort tinx. This dude relaxed and came here to make it seem like d lady is entirely to be blamed he lost his temper and hit her, many women av gone from dis singular act. For wateva reasons, thou shall not hit a woman. She is not ur child u shld correct with d rod. She gripped his shirt and he hit her, obviously cos he knws he is stronger. Am always skeptical abt men who reason along dis line, potential wife beaters they are (in disguise tho) if he wants a genuine reconciliation, he knws how best to go abt it. He shld start with d lady's dad. The bible says any man who doesn't pay a womans dowry bfr.........shld be regarded as a thief. He shld start from her family and not just bring her back to continue in her "babymama" position

kaboninc:


Lol if that's your understanding of this situation!

He actually wants a way for them to sit and talk about their issues. The FORGIVE THEMSELVES.

The guy wants a GENUINE RECONCILLIATION, for the sake of the daughter! And you can either help by being neutral and careful in your advice or destroy it by making careless statement.

Did you see where he talked about the same friends telling her that she'd be better off without him and yet tell him she's loosing so much by being away from him? I trust you're not one of such persons.

pickabeau1:


Ehya...classic diversionary tactics



Its not an issue for me nor a source of anger
As I said earlier its the clueless ones who grovel for a piece of 'wisdom' I pity..

Your true bigoted and hateful nature is creeping out gradually so its only a matter of time

Bigoted,hateful
You are now using style to seek your own accolades
Hahahahahahaha

Why did you pick this thread to express your pain?
We have been through this
Don't quote or mention me just keep your pain to yourself
I don't bother bother about you
And if it makes you rejoice that someone is revealing me
Sorry to disappoint you
Dig deeper


Why don't you be a man and express your opinion of my threads where you read them
Do you know how childish what you are doing here looks ?

But you didn't answer my question.

He's very mouthy too. Probably worse than the girl from the way I see him systematically throw his belittling punches at the so called mother of his jewel.

Does he deserve to be beat?

He insulted the girl's father. If he sends boys to come beat him up, would you say he deserved it?


Oh bukatyne
Hello friend

nairaland!

kaboninc:


My dear, this is just common sense. They say the Constitution guarantees you freedom of speech. But freedom after speech, it cannot be guaranteed!

If you use your mouth in a foul way, then you deserve to be spanked. Just that it may be through beatings. Do you know some ladies actually become to first to hit?

Like I said, I do not hold brief for the guy but from the post of this lady, in fact, she really contributed to her problems. She fuelled, watered and nurtured it with her mouth.

I can confidently say that the man is more civilised, informed and exposed than her. A wise woman learns from that not compete.

Men make mistakes but a woman should not double it feast on it.

Oh, your friend Bukatyne is around!

5minsmadness:
Oh finally am at the end! ***collapses from exhaustion****

You came late oh.

That basher's club of girls were just so though on the dude oh.

Herzumpther:
You saw that abi? Where is that guy I was telling not to carry the matter on his head. I talk am say we no go dey when them go settle now her hubby has said they will settle and laugh at comments here. No be small thing o.

Yeahh, we're just passing time here. . ..Tomorrow sef people don forget the story and go about their normal business... But the prob still remains with the two people involved, that's why it's essential they find the best way to resolve issue Irrespective of what's been said here because after everything it still boils down to both of them....

babyosisi:

It looks like he spent a night or two in jail after beating her
That was why I said her parents were too kind
6 full months would have taught him a good lesson

... You dey vex oo

Babyosisi

You still miss the point woman
I have no pain.

You need your online fix from anonymous people to make a meaning of your life

I do not begrudge you that. Keep at it

Its those who set store by you I pity


Comprehende?

coogar:


unfortunately, that's the way of the world these days. 21st century women - they want rights but they want no responsibility. i am starting to think the dude artificially inseminated her while she was sleeping or she got pregnant immaculately.

That is not possible na. You have to take responsibility for the rights you have or want.

I seriously hate that "he got her pregnant" mentality, pisses me the feck up.

Well said!

pickabeau1:



Ehya....you are the one who entertains us with your stories

My pity is for those who believe your horse shït and are listening to you advise them when they may even have better lives than yours'

pickabeau1:
Babyosisi

You still miss the point woman
I have no pain.

Then shut the fried fish Up will ya?

Nne! Just hapu d dude. This whole tin is wrong from d onset. He probably beefs u cos u say d truth and don't mince words. I enjoy ur posts and am sure plenty others. Anyone who isn't shld jump n pass, oge adiro

babyosisi:



That is eh

I always knew my posts get some people very mad
I can understand a woman like the one dancing kokoma on the side quoting people addressing Pickabeau
But I don't understand why a man would be bothered
He is a man isn't he?

bukatyne:


Did the OP ever blame the guy for getting her pregnant?

Must have missed it.

Was that reply to the OP?

Can't stop laughing, this thread has 'entertained' me today

urchbarbie:
Nne! Just hapu d dude. This whole tin is wrong from d onset. He probably beefs u cos u say d truth and don't mince words. I enjoy ur posts and am sure plenty others. Anyone who isn't shld jump n pass, oge adiro

The eediot mentions me from time to time in places and I see them and don't respond
Them out of nowhere mentions me again when I had said nothing to him
I couldn't let it slide this time

babyosisi:



That is eh

I always knew my posts get some people very mad
I can understand a woman like the one dancing kokoma on the side quoting people addressing Pickabeau
But I don't understand why a man would be bothered
He is a man isn't he?

Face your opponent and don't start what you can't finish BEATRICE, are you mad? Dem swear for una?
Your crippled father is the one dancing kokoma on the side to ashes and hell. Unfortunate daughter of a gun.

I'm almost done my paperwork ... Will get back to finish this shortly.

May Amodiah coupled with your Mother in law finish you and strike you dead.

babyosisi:


Then shut the fried fish Up will ya?

So says the epitome of good wifery...

Clown

You r just a much older version of the OP

bukatyne:


The woman is abusive for calling the father of her child bla bla on NL but nothing to the guy who accuses his babymama 's daddy of abandoning her to his face.

Interesting.

If the father truly abandoned her for a year, then the guy is justified in making d statement. If one's daughter gets pregnant, is it the right thing to literally throw her out? The father himself is heartless and he also contributed to this issue. Anybody can make a mistake. You correct her with love and maturity and make her see reasons and not abandon her to her fate.

If the statement is true, then to me, it is not an insult to tell him to his face. Maybe he will also learn a lesson from that.

Ewuro4:




[size=18pt]May Amodiaha coupled with my Mother and father finish me and strike me dead[/size].

CHineke mee
Hahahahahahaha

sweetcocoa:
I think you should read my other posts.

I have read them all.

Jab Aye!!

pickabeau1:



And you are the sensible one

Hohoho...

Well at least your e- accolades make your life worthwhile

sweetcocoa:
If your being verbally abusive puts the abused in fear of their well being or safety then you can be arrested for it.

Do you realize she also hit him? I think first sometimes sef, I'm not saying he is a victim, I'm saying they both are abusive so don't push all the blames to him.

She chose to stick with a man who thinks of her in that manner, that one is entirely her fault.

...but that is not the case. He didn't flee the situation, he is not in danger. The person that felt threatened for his/her safety was the woman, that is why she left.

He never said she hit him first. He was the one that talked about hitting her numerous times and felt that she deserved it. I am not pushing all the blame on him. In fact, I have no opinion about the thread until I saw your comment insinuating that verbal abuse is an excuse for physical abuse.

"She chose to stick with a man who thinks of her in that manner, that one is entirely her fault." You miss the point of my last sentence. Those words are the words of an abusive person. The "no one can love you but me" is a very common statement made by men who abuse their wives both emotionally and physically. Separating her from her friends and family is also a common trait among abusers. To be frank, he has displayed more abusive tendencies than the woman.

Rose2014:

You're calling your father in law to make your so called peace and you said the bolded. Chai u really have no atom of respect. Just be careful is all I can say to you. No one has the monopoly of violence.
If you did this to a violent family, they could silence you walahi

I can see through you very easily
It's so sad you're not only physically abusive but even more verbally abusive than a woman

What a shame!!

Please desist from commenting on this thread.

Your utterances sound like that of a kid and someone lacking logical thinking. Before you judge people, you would do well to imagine what the circumstances behind those actions. THANKS for your cooperation.