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Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 7:13pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
MarvellousGod: It looks like he spent a night or two in jail after beating her That was why I said her parents were too kind 6 full months would have taught him a good lesson 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Ewuro4: 7:14pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Lol |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by sweetcocoa(f): 7:16pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
bukatyne:I think you should read my other posts. 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Mimicole(f): 7:16pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
dinachi:Honey dt prayer came 9 yrs too late, i've been happily married for 6yrs nw n counting... so yes, I HAVE a good man. But thanks anyways... 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 7:16pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
pickabeau1: The "accolades" are now your source of anger Is there a popularity contest going on? Is it that serious? Kpele 4 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Ewuro4: 7:18pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
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Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by kaboninc(m): 7:19pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
cococandy: My dear, this is just common sense. They say the Constitution guarantees you freedom of speech. But freedom after speech, it cannot be guaranteed! If you use your mouth in a foul way, then you deserve to be spanked. Just that it may be through beatings. Do you know some ladies actually become to first to hit? Like I said, I do not hold brief for the guy but from the post of this lady, in fact, she really contributed to her problems. She fuelled, watered and nurtured it with her mouth. I can confidently say that the man is more civilised, informed and exposed than her. A wise woman learns from that not compete. Men make mistakes but a woman should not double it feast on it. Oh, your friend Bukatyne is around! 4 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by coogar: 7:19pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Rose2014: use your common sense and don't muddy the waters. accepting someone without parents approval is different altogether from getting pregnant out of wedlock. i don't see anything hypocritical about sweetcocoa's comment - you are the one exhibiting a huge dose of myopia or perhaps dyslexia!
she's irresponsible for getting pregnant - not irresponsible for choosing her baby-daddy as her partner. there's a universe of difference between the two. 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by pickabeau1: 7:19pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
babyosisi: Ehya...classic diversionary tactics Its not an issue for me nor a source of anger As I said earlier its the clueless ones who grovel for a piece of 'wisdom' I pity.. Your true bigoted and hateful nature is creeping out gradually so its only a matter of time 4 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 7:21pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
urchbarbie: That is eh I always knew my posts get some people very mad I can understand a woman like the one dancing kokoma on the side quoting people addressing Pickabeau But I don't understand why a man would be bothered He is a man isn't he? 6 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by bukatyne(f): 7:23pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
sweetcocoa: Did the OP ever blame the guy for getting her pregnant? Must have missed it. 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by urchbarbie(f): 7:23pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Let me indulge u by calling u swt@ cos I knw ure lacking love seriously from wat I can deduce. This is a youngman dat came on NL n backlashed/tonguelashed d mother of his child. If he actually wanted to settle tinx, he wld not av wasted energy on dat thread, rather find means to reach his woman n sort tinx. This dude relaxed and came here to make it seem like d lady is entirely to be blamed he lost his temper and hit her, many women av gone from dis singular act. For wateva reasons, thou shall not hit a woman. She is not ur child u shld correct with d rod. She gripped his shirt and he hit her, obviously cos he knws he is stronger. Am always skeptical abt men who reason along dis line, potential wife beaters they are (in disguise tho) if he wants a genuine reconciliation, he knws how best to go abt it. He shld start with d lady's dad. The bible says any man who doesn't pay a womans dowry bfr.........shld be regarded as a thief. He shld start from her family and not just bring her back to continue in her "babymama" position kaboninc: |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 7:23pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Bigoted,hateful You are now using style to seek your own accolades Hahahahahahaha Why did you pick this thread to express your pain? We have been through this Don't quote or mention me just keep your pain to yourself I don't bother bother about you And if it makes you rejoice that someone is revealing me Sorry to disappoint you Dig deeper Why don't you be a man and express your opinion of my threads where you read them Do you know how childish what you are doing here looks ? 7 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by cococandy(f): 7:24pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
But you didn't answer my question. He's very mouthy too. Probably worse than the girl from the way I see him systematically throw his belittling punches at the so called mother of his jewel. Does he deserve to be beat? He insulted the girl's father. If he sends boys to come beat him up, would you say he deserved it? Oh bukatyne Hello friend nairaland! kaboninc: |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by kaboninc(m): 7:24pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
5minsmadness: You came late oh. That basher's club of girls were just so though on the dude oh. |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 7:25pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Herzumpther:Yeahh, we're just passing time here. . ..Tomorrow sef people don forget the story and go about their normal business... But the prob still remains with the two people involved, that's why it's essential they find the best way to resolve issue Irrespective of what's been said here because after everything it still boils down to both of them.... babyosisi:... You dey vex oo |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by pickabeau1: 7:26pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Babyosisi You still miss the point woman I have no pain. You need your online fix from anonymous people to make a meaning of your life I do not begrudge you that. Keep at it Its those who set store by you I pity Comprehende? 6 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by sweetcocoa(f): 7:27pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
coogar:That is not possible na. You have to take responsibility for the rights you have or want. I seriously hate that "he got her pregnant" mentality, pisses me the feck up. |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by baye2023(m): 7:27pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Well said! pickabeau1: 2 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 7:28pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Then shut the fried fish Up will ya? 2 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by urchbarbie(f): 7:28pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Nne! Just hapu d dude. This whole tin is wrong from d onset. He probably beefs u cos u say d truth and don't mince words. I enjoy ur posts and am sure plenty others. Anyone who isn't shld jump n pass, oge adiro babyosisi: 2 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by sweetcocoa(f): 7:28pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
bukatyne:Was that reply to the OP? 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 7:28pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Can't stop laughing, this thread has 'entertained' me today |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 7:29pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
urchbarbie: The eediot mentions me from time to time in places and I see them and don't respond Them out of nowhere mentions me again when I had said nothing to him I couldn't let it slide this time 2 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Ewuro4: 7:29pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
babyosisi: Face your opponent and don't start what you can't finish BEATRICE, are you mad? Dem swear for una? Your crippled father is the one dancing kokoma on the side to ashes and hell. Unfortunate daughter of a gun. I'm almost done my paperwork ... Will get back to finish this shortly. May Amodiah coupled with your Mother in law finish you and strike you dead. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by pickabeau1: 7:29pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
babyosisi: So says the epitome of good wifery... Clown You r just a much older version of the OP 4 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by akinsadeez(m): 7:29pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
bukatyne: If the father truly abandoned her for a year, then the guy is justified in making d statement. If one's daughter gets pregnant, is it the right thing to literally throw her out? The father himself is heartless and he also contributed to this issue. Anybody can make a mistake. You correct her with love and maturity and make her see reasons and not abandon her to her fate. If the statement is true, then to me, it is not an insult to tell him to his face. Maybe he will also learn a lesson from that. |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 7:30pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Ewuro4: CHineke mee Hahahahahahaha 2 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by bukatyne(f): 7:32pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
sweetcocoa: I have read them all. |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by baye2023(m): 7:33pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Jab Aye!! pickabeau1: 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 7:33pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
sweetcocoa: ...but that is not the case. He didn't flee the situation, he is not in danger. The person that felt threatened for his/her safety was the woman, that is why she left. He never said she hit him first. He was the one that talked about hitting her numerous times and felt that she deserved it. I am not pushing all the blame on him. In fact, I have no opinion about the thread until I saw your comment insinuating that verbal abuse is an excuse for physical abuse. "She chose to stick with a man who thinks of her in that manner, that one is entirely her fault." You miss the point of my last sentence. Those words are the words of an abusive person. The "no one can love you but me" is a very common statement made by men who abuse their wives both emotionally and physically. Separating her from her friends and family is also a common trait among abusers. To be frank, he has displayed more abusive tendencies than the woman. 2 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 7:33pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Rose2014: Please desist from commenting on this thread. Your utterances sound like that of a kid and someone lacking logical thinking. Before you judge people, you would do well to imagine what the circumstances behind those actions. THANKS for your cooperation. 3 Likes |
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