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Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by naijaboiy: 11:56pm On Apr 01, 2015
Dygeasy:
Yes it is.

Our parents hustled together in their time. Hardly will you see a large percentage of girls nowadays interested in "starting from scratch" and that's where the age factor comes in.

The only sensible one among the girls you interviewed is the one that mentioned (Financial) Security/Stability. That's all there is to it and the end point is marriage. At least for Nigerian girls.
Nicely stated. But when the age gap is too wide I doubt if such will lead to marriage.

Most times these girls hide this sort of relationship from their family cos it may not be accepted.
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by kinglekan: 11:57pm On Apr 01, 2015
marieolae:
Nice thread sha


Well it depends on the stage that you're in.
I agree that an 18 year old lady has no business with a 28 year old man..
That falls back to the stage she's presently in
A 28 year old woman dating a 40 year old man..
I don't see anything wrong with that.
What do you think naijaboiy?

Hmmmm, but

18yr + 10 = 28yrs
28yr + 10 = 38yrs

So I shld tink if u don't see anytn wrong in a 28yr old dating a 40year old then an 18yr old dating a 28yr old isn't such a bad tin den.

#justSaying

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Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by mirexxx(f): 11:57pm On Apr 01, 2015
TheSonOfMark:
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Isn't it ironic that that D!LDO you love so much is a replica of MASCULINE penile appendage? Keep living in the grandeur of self-delusion.
Lol when a human harvested from the ground speaks
its all poo
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by daveP(m): 11:57pm On Apr 01, 2015
mirexxx:
i never said i date boys na
lol i dont like older men! tongue
not older than me with above 5yrscheesy

most of em behave like little boys smiley
5 aint much, still like the commonly found limit about.
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by mirexxx(f): 11:58pm On Apr 01, 2015
kinglekan:


Hmmmm, but

18yr + 10 = 28yrs
28yr + 10 = 38yrs

So I shld tink if u don't see anytn wrong in a 28yr old dating a 40year old then an 18yr old dating a 28yr old isn't such a bad tin den.

#justSaying
ur right bro

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Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by Nobody: 11:59pm On Apr 01, 2015
kinglekan:


Hmmmm, but

18yr + 10 = 28yrs
28yr + 10 = 38yrs

So I shld tink if u don't see anytn wrong in a 28yr old dating a 40year old then an 18yr old dating a 28yr old isn't such a bad tin den.

#justSaying

It's actually the same thing!
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by daveP(m): 11:59pm On Apr 01, 2015
Dygeasy:
And what the _fuck in hell would Gustavo's law of Rag Utility be?
oh, use and dump.
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by Nobody: 12:00am On Apr 02, 2015
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yolo
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by naijaboiy: 12:02am On Apr 02, 2015
NairalandPolice1:
What older men and younger women have in common is they are both suffering from different insecurities. She is looking for someone to make her feel safe, and he is looking for someone who doesn't answer back.. and that's a trophy. cheesy
Hmmm,,i see sense in this. smiley
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by TheSonOfMark(m): 12:02am On Apr 02, 2015
mirexxx:
Lol when a human harvested from the ground speaks
its all poo


From DUST (ground) we came, to dust we shall return.

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Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by Dygeasy(m): 12:02am On Apr 02, 2015
kinglekan:


Hmmmm, but

18yr + 10 = 28yrs
28yr + 10 = 38yrs

So I shld tink if u don't see anytn wrong in a 28yr old dating a 40year old then an 18yr old dating a 28yr old isn't such a bad tin den.

#justSaying
She is actually making a valid point. An 18 year old is probably still in the University or about to enter while a 28 year old lady will most definitely be through with at least her first degree.

Tell me, Who should be more inclined towards marriage more? Given that that's where and why the reasons for dating older guys crux to. Just asking.
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by Dygeasy(m): 12:04am On Apr 02, 2015
naijaboiy:

Nicely stated. But when the age gap is too wide I doubt if such will lead to marriage.

Most times these girls hide this sort of relationship from their family cos it may not be accepted.
You're very correct.

Some families don't mind. No be financial security? Kudi! Ego! Money! Taa! Leave story. My good daughter, go after dem old guys you hear?

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Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by mirexxx(f): 12:04am On Apr 02, 2015
daveP:
5 aint much, still like the commonly found limit about.
to most peepz
to me its 2much o
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by Dygeasy(m): 12:06am On Apr 02, 2015
daveP:
oh, use and dump.
State the law biko grin
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by STARSHYNE(f): 12:06am On Apr 02, 2015
I don't see anything wrong in dating Oldies
They are good lovers wink

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Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by naijaboiy: 12:06am On Apr 02, 2015
marieolae:
Nice thread sha


Well it depends on the stage that you're in.
I agree that an 18 year old lady has no business with a 28 year old man..
That falls back to the stage she's presently in
A 28 year old woman dating a 40 year old man..
I don't see anything wrong with that.
What do you think naijaboiy?
At 28,,the age gap is still wide but she is on a different level this time. She is more matured and definitely would have gone through some processes to make her understand certain things about love.

But that doesn't mean the disadvantages wouldn't count.

She could end up being a young widow. Or suffering some kind of things like the man trying to earn respect from her. You know this is an African setting where age still counts.

To me,,a 28 year old woman should be looking for a man not more than 35 years of age.

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Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by daveP(m): 12:07am On Apr 02, 2015
mirexxx:
to most peepz
to me its 2much o
then 3 may be the ideal age for your kinda man? Jst saying/asking.
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by mirexxx(f): 12:08am On Apr 02, 2015
Dygeasy:
She is actually making a valid point. An 18 year old is probably still in the University or about to enter while a 28 year old lady will most definitely be through with at least her first degree.

Tell me, Who should be more inclined towards marriage more? Given that that's where and why the reasons for dating older guys crux to. Just asking.
is it now about education and finishing school?
In this century, an18 year old is even more inclined to marriage than most women in their 30s Lol
they ain't scared no more!

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Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by daveP(m): 12:09am On Apr 02, 2015
STARSHYNE:
I don't see anything wrong in dating Oldies
They are good lovers wink
you mustu love the Obeys, KSAs then. Diff strokes, but its better it should fall within a specific range, or else.... Hmm
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by mirexxx(f): 12:10am On Apr 02, 2015
daveP:
then 3 may be the ideal age for your kinda man? Jst saying/asking.
yea smiley u?
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by marieolae(f): 12:10am On Apr 02, 2015
It all falls down to the stage you're in.
An 18 year old JAMB candidate, most likely won't be able to handle the emotional stress and so on.
At 28, you're at a different stage in your life, well in most cases. So I think it's more acceptable.
kinglekan:


Hmmmm, but

18yr + 10 = 28yrs
28yr + 10 = 38yrs

So I shld tink if u don't see anytn wrong in a 28yr old dating a 40year old then an 18yr old dating a 28yr old isn't such a bad tin den.

#justSaying

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Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by kinglekan: 12:11am On Apr 02, 2015
Dygeasy:
She is actually making a valid point. An 18 year old is probably still in the University or about to enter while a 28 year old lady will most definitely be through with at least her first degree.

Tell me, Who should be more inclined towards marriage more? Given that that's where and why the reasons for dating older guys crux to. Just asking.

Well I thought the issue was just on dating not necessarily leading to marriage.

Plus really why is the age tingy such a big deal? If the 18yr old lady decides to date a 21yr old guy, it still doesn't mean they would end up getting married and live happily ever after.

Age shouldn't really be an issue in my opinion. And I don't mean some outrageous age gap like a lady dating someone old enough to be her father.

I think the major thing to consider is the reason for going into the relationship in the ist place. Young guys break hearts, Older guys break hearts.

Sex would always be sex, whether its with a younger guy or older guy.
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by naijaboiy: 12:12am On Apr 02, 2015
Dygeasy:
You're very correct.

Some families don't mind. No be financial security? Kudi! Ego! Money! Taa! Leave story. My good daughter, go after dem old guys you hear?
Those ones wey fit make their daughters 48th wife grin
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by daveP(m): 12:13am On Apr 02, 2015
Dygeasy:
State the law biko grin
for every unwanted clothe turned rag, there's a tendency that another fella may consciously indulge in its "beneficial" use, provided the rag is unaware its getting dirtier/ragier.

Gustavo has many laws.
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by STARSHYNE(f): 12:13am On Apr 02, 2015
daveP:
you mustu love the Obeys, KSAs then. Diff strokes, but its better it should fall within a specific range, or else.... Hmm
D age gap shldnt be dat wide
but seriously,oldies takes good care of their properties
They hardly cheat
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by daveP(m): 12:15am On Apr 02, 2015
mirexxx:
yea smiley u?
that very figure- 5 smiley
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by kinglekan: 12:15am On Apr 02, 2015
GhostProtocol:


It's actually the same thing!

Abi oooo, that's what I tot tooo
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by jmoore(m): 12:15am On Apr 02, 2015
Beyonce met Jayz when she was 18 and started a relationship with him when she was 19.

Use google.com to calculate the age gap between them.

Any female who is an adult should be free to date anyone regardless of the age gap. Thats her personal choice.
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by mirexxx(f): 12:15am On Apr 02, 2015
daveP:
that very figure- 5 smiley
cool smiley
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by mirexxx(f): 12:17am On Apr 02, 2015
jmoore:
Beyounce met Jayz when she was 18 and started a relationship with him when she was 19.

Use google.com to calculate the age gap between them.
so we should marry a man who is 20 yrs older because Beyonce married old jayz ?? grin grin
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by kinglekan: 12:18am On Apr 02, 2015
STARSHYNE:
I don't see anything wrong in dating Oldies
They are good lovers wink

How many years older do u prefer them to be?
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by daveP(m): 12:18am On Apr 02, 2015
STARSHYNE:
D age gap shldnt be dat wide
but seriously,oldies takes good care of their properties
They hardly cheat
care! Thats a key word here if i can emphasize. But we've seen cases where she had alot o' care and he still still went out. Some dont even know why they go out. Some say they've given all she'l need, and that's exactly where the idea of taking 4-5 others comes in

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