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Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by JoeCutie(m): 9:38am On Apr 11, 2015
Juliesexy:
This boy! This bad boy!!! Werey! tongue What is harder? And that comes when you're about to do what? Looool. cheesy

Well, if I have sex with someone, I don't see it as doing a favour for him; I see it as being satisfied by him, knowing fully well that I've also satisfied him. That's equal 'favour' after all. But then, why would someone see sex as favour? As a means of payment? Paying someone back for what they did for you? To me, that's madness and it's degrading. undecided If I want to have sex with you, I'd have sex with you; not just for you but for myself; or rather, for us. smiley

And Joe... I thought you said you're a V?! tongue cheesy
When a real lady - a boss lady - talks, you'd know. No be for mouth! You're a boss lady, Julie. Thanks for being real.

And Juliet... I'm a V, yes; but "V" doesn't necessarily mean 'Virgin'. tongue cheesy

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Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by empress4u: 9:39am On Apr 11, 2015
Skillfullulu:
Its because we guys get full and need to cum, we do d digging and we request for it more than em do.

you've said it all. If you don't cum, na wahala for you o. so, it's a favour.
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 9:50am On Apr 11, 2015
kambili999:
hehehe... boys be like I do the work n she enjoys.


Na true na... tongue
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by JoeCutie(m): 9:51am On Apr 11, 2015
PhweshyJ:
Lmao! You're a very good bad boy, Joe. What are you stroking? Stroker! cheesy
You wan know? grin
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Ethereal0110(f): 9:52am On Apr 11, 2015
To the OP and all that comment; all of you were once a child and now that you came together here you have become children, YOU DON'T HAVE SOMETHING MATURE TO TALK ABOUT, ITS LIKE YOU JUST ENTERED THE WORLD OF SEX 2 MONTHS AGO.. 4CKAHOLICS with limited understandings*
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by kambili999(f): 10:00am On Apr 11, 2015
emusmith:


Na true na... tongue
Mtchewww. if I hear.
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by ghetto101(m): 10:11am On Apr 11, 2015
that's a good question, but after one they will be the one to begg for more






okusebi:
why would ladies have the impression that if they hava sex with a guy they are doing the guy a favour..... its somehow after making sure they are satisfied..... all they will think is that they have given u a huge favour
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by 989900: 10:15am On Apr 11, 2015
richard870:

Its b'cuz of the sexual moans that comes from ladies grin

#ringtonethings cheesy cheesy
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Skillfullulu(m): 10:16am On Apr 11, 2015
empress4u:


you've said it all. If you don't cum, na wahala for you o. so, it's a favour.
ok
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 10:17am On Apr 11, 2015
kambili999:
Mtchewww. if I hear.


So, where you stand na?
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Lumeday(m): 10:39am On Apr 11, 2015
Thank God I'm a virgin.
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Aitee1: 10:42am On Apr 11, 2015
ALISMILE:
hahahahahhaahahaha!I knw u er being sarcastic here!tnx anyway!

Nope, meant it! But it actually your birthday and I'm sure I was probably the first to wish you wink
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 10:47am On Apr 11, 2015
Many of those girls full this thread o.

But they cannot show themselves to avoid missiles.
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by prettyJoy22(f): 10:52am On Apr 11, 2015
darnley16:
exactly, its all about the way Nigerian girls were brought up (esp Yoruba) even ghanians don't see nudity as anything,same with South African , europeans etc, But Nigerian Girls, they go do as if say been Naked na d biggest sin a woman can commit,
since when did being fully clothed become a sin
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by donzie(m): 10:53am On Apr 11, 2015
queebeediva:
Because 99.9 percent of guy can not do without sex and women being what they are, sees it as an opportunity to say a lot to guys. But have you seen a guy struggling for sex o boi the action film is so intrigueing .
..99.9% you mean?!____I can tell you just 60% of guy love sex...am a very good example of those who don't like sex..so far am in my early 20s and am still a V
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by ALISMILE(m): 10:57am On Apr 11, 2015
Aitee1:


Nope, meant it! But it actually your birthday and I'm sure I was probably the first to wish you wink
U r actually d 1st! Really appr it! Wen is urs?
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Jennifer89(f): 10:57am On Apr 11, 2015
donzie:
..99.9% you mean?!____I can tell you just 60% of guy love sex...am a very good example of those who don't like sex..so far am in my early 20s and am still a V



How do you know you don't like sex if you haven't done it
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by donzie(m): 11:00am On Apr 11, 2015
Jennifer89:




How do you know you don't like sex if you haven't done it
honesty I have ignored four different girls who had asked for sex...so that tell yo.
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Jennifer89(f): 11:06am On Apr 11, 2015
donzie:
honesty I have ignored four different girls who had asked for sex...so that tell yo.



That's good but don't say you don't like sex when you haven't done it; coz your opinion may change the day you do it. Just say you are abstaining from sex.
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Aitee1: 11:09am On Apr 11, 2015
ALISMILE:
U r actually d 1st! Really appr it! Wen is urs?

In a couple of months to come smiley
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by dasparrow: 11:11am On Apr 11, 2015
Mistermamus:
very very boring. If u comot Naija go east africa or SA dere fine fine gals sabi interact, very sociable n open minded. if u go out on a date sef dey won't allow u to pay 4 d bills instead insist d moni shuld be splited. abeg our gals no try at all. Its a pity

Your Nigerian girls are what you Nigerian men made out of them. The average Nigerian-bred man is very judgmental and has a low self esteem. If Nigerian ladies were to act like south African or East African ladies, you Nigerian-bred men will be the first to call them ashawo. If a Nigerian lady pays for her own drinks and food when out on a date with a Nigerian man, una no dey like am. The average Nigerian man wants to pay for the food and drinks when out on a date because he believes the woman will respect him more. The truth is, Nigerian men don't know what they want. If a woman is sexually adventurous, una go call am ashawo. If she is reserved, you will accuse her of being boring. What is it you want? Make up your mind. When Nigerian women find love in the arms of non-Nigerian men, Nigerian men will get upset as well. So please, give your women a break okay?

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Why won't the women feel that they are doing you a favor with sex? Many Nigerian men behave like they cannot exist without sex. And yes, the women are doing you a favour. After all, you are the ones whose sper8m-filled scrotum needs emptying. If it does not get emptied, you develop an infection. So, yes, the women are doing you a favour. How many of you Nigerian men can stay celibate? How many of you can date a lady without asking her for sex over a long period of time? Very few if any. The truth is, sex is not too important for many women but I cannot say the same for men. That is why many of you are paedophiles and rapists. You even rape 2 years old baby girls without any guilt.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by leofab(f): 11:11am On Apr 11, 2015
Juliesexy:
This boy! This bad boy!!! Werey! tongue What is harder? And that comes when you're about to do what? Looool. cheesy

Well, if I have sex with someone, I don't see it as doing a favour for him; I see it as being satisfied by him, knowing fully well that I've also satisfied him. That's equal 'favour' after all. But then, why would someone see sex as favour? As a means of payment? Paying someone back for what they did for you? To me, that's madness and it's degrading. undecided If I want to have sex with you, I'd have sex with you; not just for you but for myself; or rather, for us. smiley

And Joe... I thought you said you're a V?! tongue cheesy
so does that mean you don't expect appreciation either verbal or financial after having sex with him? Make Ashawo's dem nor hear am from you. Funny things is that guy will still want to satisfy ashawo's too after paying #10k or more for just a night. Life shaaaa

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Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by dasparrow: 11:13am On Apr 11, 2015
Jennifer89:




How do you know you don't like sex if you haven't done it

Not everyone likes the idea of exchanging smelly body fluids with another human being. That in itself is enough reason not to like sex.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by richard870(m): 11:15am On Apr 11, 2015
989900:


#ringtonethings cheesy cheesy
You got it bruh wink
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by donzie(m): 11:18am On Apr 11, 2015
Jennifer89:




That's good but don't say you don't like sex when you haven't done it; coz your opinion may change the day you do it. Just say you are abstaining from sex.
well you might be right...
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by ALISMILE(m): 11:23am On Apr 11, 2015
Aitee1:


In a couple of months to come smiley
Ok! Cud make it worth ur while if u let me knw!
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by lexib(m): 11:23am On Apr 11, 2015
sinaj:


evn u too embarassed

Had to check ur profile... I hv no doubt ur legendary b.j mouth isn't overhyped... nice one! I wud also kill to hv it around my... lol
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 11:24am On Apr 11, 2015
Emmahunk:



Let's stop deceiving ourselves with this 'women don't easily get in the mood' excuse because they do.
If you ask me, women should actually be paying men for sex! Why? Simple!!!

When you scratch your ear with cotton bud, who enjoys it more?
The ear? Or the cotton bud?
Ohooo, you get my point now!
guy u were so on point.. dat ur point should inspire a lot of hommies, including d ladies to understand that this hommies are really doing dem a favour, wen they dig it right (even though they gbadu d punny)....imagine how it feels wen u dey on the digging, slowly and halfway, wen (d ladies) their fire dey burn, their body dey catch, their nerves don stand to 100,almost close to their first cum, u comot ur dick, waka comot.... grin grin grin..haa..some of dem fit bite u self....escpecially wen she don high....one chick wey i handle last time nearly bite me.. i tell am say na water i wan go drink oo..she said, ' is it now i got thirsty?..that am goin nowhere oo.. shocked shocked shocked..na there u go know say fck no hungry u reach woman....na jst pointless formings and mega brain twisting societal adumbrations coupled with self dilemma dey worry most of our nigerian girls and also the dumb behaviour of some naija dudes who do like say, wen they see woman, they put their brain 4 pocket.. its good to treat a woman ryt and make her feel like a queen..but they should also breach their thinking that givin a guy "sex' is like doin him a favour, especially wen they have a reason to..in some parts of the world its a normal thing..and some gurls dnt attach so much big deal to it..rather they have so much more to offer in a relationship or posses as a woman..so they ride and push' up..bringing on the next fin on the menu. cool

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Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by sinaj(f): 11:29am On Apr 11, 2015
lexib:


Had to check ur profile... I hv no doubt ur legendary b.j mouth isn't overhyped... nice one! I wud also kill to hv it around my... lol
i cnt blow a bleached dick evn if i wnt to...
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by donzie(m): 11:36am On Apr 11, 2015
sinaj:

i cnt blow a bleached dick evn if i wnt to...
BLEACHED DICK?!..never heard of that
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Firstlady240(f): 11:38am On Apr 11, 2015
okusebi:
why would ladies have the impression that if they hava sex with a guy they are doing the guy a favour..... its somehow after making sure they are satisfied..... all they will think is that they have given u a huge favour
..because its a favour..shikenah !!
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Firstlady240(f): 11:39am On Apr 11, 2015
2dice:
We Guys caused it..
Imagine some guy can go on their kneels swearing to Amadioha just to hit the kongo
cnt stop laffin..ds z funny

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