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Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Nobody: 8:37pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
mitchyy: Wait till he sees me with a can of Pedigree or K-9 and we'll see if you will still say those same words. He's cute |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by blakky97(m): 8:37pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
mitchyy:nice write up. infact the best article ive read today apart from machiavelli's discourses in the first decade of livy. number 5 and 7 appear most interesting and real. and even peculiar. im scared of marriage for reasons I dont even know. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by SDIEGO(m): 8:41pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Nice article. Bt I do wonder atimes why some people just comment out of context. Honestly, if you don't get the message, you don't have to talk. |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by simdam500(m): 8:49pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
mitchyy: Thanks for explaining to the olodo how it works |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by simdam500(m): 8:53pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
I was here |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Nobody: 9:02pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
mitchyy: You see as you dey think? So na unserious people no won marry abi? So in order word, na serious people dey marry. And na thesame serious people dey unmarried by. Like serious. Change your mindset 1 Like |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by mitchyy(f): 9:05pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Viciyus:Like seriously, you need to practice the art of reading before thinking. I specified that "unserious ones refuse to marry BECAUSE (in other words, with the excuse that) they don't have money to raise a child. Whatever happened to marrying and saving towards having a child? |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by mitchyy(f): 9:12pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
prince3009:He'll munch it, lick his mouth, wipe his nose and come back to me. #Win |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Nobody: 9:20pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
mitchyy:Exactly but it's okay. One thing i know for sure is you're single. So lots of guys are here to get your attention especially the critics So, expect more of that but don't take it too deep into your heart. |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by mitchyy(f): 9:28pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
DeeTus:Lol. Do you need a copy of my wedding IV? |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Nobody: 9:28pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
mitchyy: There are many reasons most guys refuse to marry. But that doesn't make them unserious. Were are the decent women to marry? For nigeria, most women na second hand products Mind you, marriage is not all about having children as you made emphasis of. You rely have wrong view about marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Nobody: 9:32pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
mitchyy:Sure, you're a stunner! Lol. |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by AriDsexy(f): 9:37pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
michaeltotti: Yes...d fact that I'm given a piece of suya to thirst does not stop me from buying it Besides,there was somewhere in d post where it was said dt married men,look fresher,wealthier,enjoy more s.ex and live longer...I'm sure u'll want of all of ds too. |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by mitchyy(f): 9:39pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Viciyus: Its sad to see that we are saying the same thing but you obviously don't see it. Marriage is not all about having children that is why I said men who use "I don't have money to raise a child" as an excuse not to marry are UNSERIOUS. Marriage is not solely for the purpose of having kids and I agree with that 100 percent |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by AriDsexy(f): 9:42pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
ziqqz: Actually,it should be a source of information also to d male specie or as u put it a "goldmine" to both parties. Don't mind me,I'm not related to d Op...just saying. |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Nobody: 9:44pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
AriDsexy:Does it really matter if you're related to her? |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Nobody: 9:47pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
mitchyy: I rest my case. |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by AriDsexy(f): 9:54pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
DeeTus: Mr sabinus,dt's me trying to joke |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Jetjacky(m): 9:57pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
mitchyy:like ya Dog! which breed is she, she right? |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Nobody: 9:58pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
AriDsexy: On the contrary! I'm tempted to believe you abd OP are actually roommates. Howdy? |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Nobody: 9:58pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
AriDsexy: On the contrary! I'm tempted to believe you and OP are actually roommates. Howdy? |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Nobody: 9:59pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Rubbish rubb Sh rubbish...come and see hw many men re married and 199.999% irresponsible. 1 Like |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Nobody: 10:00pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
AriDsexy:Hahahaha it's okay. No problem. |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by mitchyy(f): 10:04pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Jetjacky:He. He's a mix of Lhasa and Samoyed and his name is Elmo |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by dearestsewa(f): 10:04pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
BabaAlabi: Lol @lean on me, no be press me die |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by cevek11: 10:20pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
" what measure of blessings are poured down on the man who chooses to take the bull by the horn " Clarification please... Is it that you must marry for the blessings to come? what blessings are these? 1 Like |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Nobody: 10:48pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
PLEASE, since MARRIAGE is now EMPLOYMENT... ..MEN should always ensure that LADIES present a COMPLETE ORIGINAL COPY of their CVs.. 2nd class upper and above are ELIGIBLE.. Although, I still THINK marriage is not for EVERY LADY |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Curvinus(m): 11:37pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
1. Some young men are bread winners of their family and are contributing to educate their sibbling/looking after their parents. Getting married could disrupt this natural process. 2. Some men also are accomodating members of their immediate and extended family and can't just ask them to leave so he can married especially if the apartment isn't large enough. 3. Most ladies seem desperate to get married when its obvious they don't have a decent means of livelihood and this puts a guy off. 4. Marriage saddles a man with too many burdens and in some instances have been said to be archaic and oppressive. 5. Women may not understand this but men want great companionship with secure and confident women. Sadly, the decent looking ones come with a default mindset that they are entitled to every good thing while the rotters act way too insecure and clingy which could quench the flame. 6. As a result of bad parenting, most girls nowadays are just spoilt brats who think they are doing you a favour by agreeing to hang out with you. So they keep hopping from man to man hoping to make a good catch. 7. The metropolitan nature of certain cities make the cost of settling down and raising a family highly prohibitive. 8. No jobs. After all is said and done, love won't buy pampers and baby's milk. 9. Poverty is the second worst disease and this affects both man and woman. 10. Health challenges and genetic makeups could limit a man/woman's options when it comes to getting married. 1 Like |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by blakky97(m): 11:38pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
mitchyy:money is agreeably a big factor. but if you can view life from where we stand: you will realise that money is a not the most important harbinger to the idea of getting married. there is so much about it that cannot be explained away in one solid article. women I must tell you: are very difficult to please. and any man who determines to please them should at least fear the prospects of getting hen-pecked and emasculated. our fathers didnt experience the kind of women we have today. These ones are so artificial, unrealistic, rude, ungrateful, materialistic, (that is when they are under you economically) or arrogant, competitive, distrustful, nagging, unbending, unsubmissive and many other characteristics that will foever put the man in a position to 'bear patience' in order to hold the family together. today's woman is not the ideal choice of an average peace loving easy going friendly man who likes a simple and uncomplicated life, void of malice and cold war. my colleagues in the diaspora have confirmed my worries about african women and their dirty pride and nagging. put in a world where the choice abounds, then white women may even make better partners than women from my own clime just as id pick a yoruba woman anyday above a woman from my state; edo. staying outside marriage in the overall view is a lot easier for an african man under 35 years of age. I know its not the best. if all these my assertion about women are false; then been single after 25 years for a man would be very bad. but because of the realities of this world(in the sense that an average 25 year old man may not yet have started 'living' and experienced enough as it is that experience furnishes maturity) and the fact that only few women are not bad as described above; then it takes prudence to stay where you feel firm and happy untill you can see and think clearly enough for the next move. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Naruto87(m): 12:17am On Apr 16, 2015 |
nice...its sooo true. |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Nobody: 3:05am On Apr 16, 2015 |
#6 is a significant problem i must confess. |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Nobody: 4:22am On Apr 16, 2015 |
folabayo1:Make we dey watch ourselves naw and see who go cry last |
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