mmb:
Hello,

There is a girl whom I want to take as a second wife. One day my wife saw my conversation with the girl on whatsapp when I went out and left the phone in the living room unlocked.

Mehn! My wife just called the lady and blasted her even threatining her, with things like: she will realise her mistake, she will never see person who will marry her in life and lots more.

My fiancee called me and narrated it to me telling me that she can no longer tolerate this that it is better to call off the relationship. I calmed her that she shouldnt be bothered if she really loves me. she should stand by my side and realise our dream of getting married.

Please your matured candid advice is needed on how to handle this because two head is better than one.

Bhuahahahahaha, dis man which planet are you from? This is just a tip of the iceberg. Just be ready to give your peace for it.

In this net age and times you are still going for a second wife like it was done in the stone age? Well, but when the full war begins dont come here and disturb Nairalanders catching their fun on this forum to start offering solutions to your insatiable want for ssex. U better look b4 you leap.

uzolexis:
Mtchewww...just here 2 read d comments 4rm the top on my coconut tree

Me too im here to read comments .

Buygala you nailed it.

Mmb? I hope its not MuhaMadu Buhari? Now that your are presido elect are you thinking of marrying another wife? Aisha will show her pepper o!

Coldfeet:
Me too im here to read comments .

Buygala you nailed it.

Mmb? I hope its not MuhaMadu Buhari? Now that your are presido elect are you thinking of marrying another wife? Aisha will show her pepper o!

Falls from coconut tree....chisos

mmb:
so many reasons.

so many reasons is not a reason. And most often than not when ppl say so many reasons it usually turns out that they themselves are the major reason or maybe the reasons adduced isn't entirely irredeemable. So let's know some or even just one of these so many reasons .

corektchic:


can u give like 3 out of the many, so we understand better. We need dat info if one is to give u any meaningful advice. Besidez most religions like islam says u shd get d consent of ur first wife b4 getting a second. So dnt start now to look for problems

Where did you get ds from

Thinkr:
true he didn't mention being a muslim so its not alright to jump into conclusion but its normal for one to guess him being a muslim to being a christian.

You can't just guess and ur statement didn't depict being a guess. U talked as if it's the fact.

THAT FIRST COMMENT GOT ME MEHN

ollah1:



Where did he say he is a Muslim? Don't be a bigoted dude. Where is it written that only certain people(tribe or religion) can marry more than one wife?

Oga....abeg leave the nagging n Read the Op's profile.......... That'll answer your 1st question

This is the same dude who kept posting several topics about divorcing and remarrying another wife because his mother hates his first wife.
I remember you clearly poster
First you started a thread saying you wanted to marry but your mother did not like your choice and the lady your mother preferred is whom you eventually married. Then she had 2 kids and your mother decided she doesnt like your wife again and asked you to drive the woman away which you did. You then settled your differences and your mother decided to cut off all ties with you because she said you are not respecting her as your mother according to islamic ties.
You came here again to seek advise and we all told you to "Man Up" and stop been controlled by your mum.
E con be like say your idea of man up to go marry 2 wives put for house?
Kai una too dey forget for nairaland

This guy has had mummy / wife issues for ages, he is always here and in the Islam section asking for advice on the same issue.

1. Mummy married the wife for him
2. Mummy fell out with wife because she said wife was respecting her own mother more
3. Mummy orders he divorced his wife and he did
4. Uncles came and begged he wanted to get his wife back mummy said over her dead body because her " enemies " namely his wife and her mother will laugh at her
5. Guy gets wife back mummy disowns him

The one I pity in all this is the wife and kids caught in the middle of the drama, indecision and tantrums
I expect him to drive wife away again soon and come back and ask for more advice.
Your wife is right in telling your concubine (cos thats what she is) that she would regret marrying you cos i can only imagine how less of a man/husband you have been during your marriage, forever tied to your mother's apron and probably now doing your mother's bidding by marrying a 2nd wife to spite your 1st wife. You are using your hands to pull down and destroy your life sha

https://www.nairaland.com/1999551/forced-divorce-islam
https://www.nairaland.com/2074827/mum-angry-disowns-me
https://www.nairaland.com/2283118/islamic-view-keeping-wives-same

mulattoclaro:
Bro marry a new wife. There's no place in the bible that forbids polygamy. Afterall, Bros you're an African and entitled to marry as much wives as you want as long as you can take care of them. Believe me when you marry her your first wife will calm down because she will be fighting to gain your attention. Anytime any of them misbehaves again marry another wife.

can u marry a 2nd wife nd hurt ur sweetie at home _cos she aint gonna b happy about it.wotever rocks his boat

Basildvalour:
Oga, stop polygamy

Its unhealthy

Well said!

This is the dumbest post post I have seen in Nairaland in recent times. Can't understand believe someone can still be living in the 15th century when the world has moved on... SINCE YOU ARE SIGNING A DEATH WARRANT I WISH YOU SUCCESS.

ollah1:


You can't just guess and ur statement didn't depict being a guess. U talked as if it's the fact.

2him it myt not but 2me
It's a fact
.........cos Muslims marry More than 1....n it's very common

people pointing fingers at the north and muslims, are claiming xtians dont practice polygamy? or is it not better than marrying one wife and keeping many concubines outside. even fela said so pls haters dont coment for only the sake of talking. contribute meaningfully or sharap

ivyT:


can u marry a 2nd wife nd hurt ur sweetie at home _cos she aint gonna b happy about it.wotever rocks his boat

I won't cos I'm married to a Brazilian woman who knows the true meaning of love, marriage and relationships. If I was married to a Nigeria I would have married a second wife and even a third wife cos you guys have nothing to offer.

pneumaticos:



How many toto fit do you.....

1

2

24

Tell us


You neva fxuck one finish

You dey look for extra sheet

Leave am he go soon train another man pikin becos all his wives go dey bleep outside wella.

I wonder what would happen when you find one of your numerous wives with such chats on their phone.

ollah1:


You can't just guess and ur statement didn't depict being a guess. U talked as if it's the fact.

2him it myt not but 2me It's a fact
cos Muslims marry More than 1....n it's very common

mulattoclaro:
If I was married to a Nigeria I would have married a second wife and even a third wife cos you guys have nothing to offer.

Taaah shurrup dia osiso ..... Isigi ndi mala isi Ewu'hausa

Chibuhealth:
aboki

southerner

some fellows just wake up one day and decide to try the patience of others by posting things like this and expecting matured response, if you like marry 50 wives, a blind man does not see but surely knows wen it is raining.

yimikaa:
southerner

lols

dude is a muslim.

they are permitted tom marry as many as possible provided they are all well catered for.

for your wife to say what she said to your intended bride means a lot.

look inwards.

Naughtysite:
This old man definitely does not know what delivering democracy dividends entails..

He is still coming with the old military mentality of wicthhunting the preceding government.

Nigerians can't expect any development under this man. My exceptions..

U miss road abi?

U no need two heads to think this one.
Use your one head abeg.
Don't start what you can't end.

Na so civil war dey take start o.

ChynoBEATS:


Taaah shurrup dia osiso ..... Isigi ndi mala isi Ewu'hausa

I knew it. I know people from that tribe of thieves, drug traffickers, prostitutes, rapists, ritual killers, cannibals, kidnappers, armed and highway robbers are usually the first to comment on my mentions. Useless yeebos. I noticed some people walked into my mentions and when they realized there was nothing to steal they left. They must have been igbos. Quote me again and what will befall you would be more than what befell you and your fellow yeebos in the civil war. By the way what are you doing here quoting me? Shouldn't you be out there stealing or something? Isn't that what you yeebos are known for? Go and drown in the lagoon.

OP is a joker. The thread is just for amusement

OP tell your wife you as an african man is entitle to marry more than one wife.

Tell you second wife to be to be patient with you, life is struggle and war she should bear the embarrassment for the love she has for you. Also tell her there would be similar occurrence ahead in your relationship with her.

ollah1:


You can't just guess and ur statement didn't depict being a guess. U talked as if it's the fact.

am not the one who made the statement na check well I only quoted you. I have also asked the OP but yet to get an annswer

buygala:
KILL YOUR WIFE AND MARRY YOUR 'FIANCEE'

When you are tired of the new wife, kill her too and marry a new one .......Continue that way until the wife is wise enough to kill you and marry another husband



Anyway...

Your religion, your polygamy, your business


But the graphic pishures I will see when your wife murders you or you murder her is definitely my Business

You must be a foól
What's wrong with marrying two wifes?
Solomon did, Abraham did.
You are being silly and judgmental.

mmb:
Hello,

There is a girl whom I want to take as a second wife. One day my wife saw my conversation with the girl on whatsapp when I went out and left the phone in the living room unlocked.

Mehn! My wife just called the lady and blasted her even threatining her, with things like: she will realise her mistake, she will never see person who will marry her in life and lots more.

My fiancee called me and narrated it to me telling me that she can no longer tolerate this that it is better to call off the relationship. I calmed her that she shouldnt be bothered if she really loves me. she should stand by my side and realise our dream of getting married.

Please your matured candid advice is needed on how to handle this because two head is better than one.

#saynotopolygamy.... Cos even wit our religion , we cant treat evry one equal. Not even our children.

Teespice:
dude is a muslim.

they are permitted tom marry as many as possible provided they are all well catered for.

for your wife to say what she said to your intended bride means a lot.

look inwards.

don't conclude yet. Ask. Besides, its ok to know if the wife and fiancee are also muslims if he tuens out to be one then no case here.