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Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by Ologunjude(m): 8:23am On May 03, 2015 |
classicB: How do you know they have slept with countless women? Rumor! rumor!! rumor!!! 7 Likes |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by jmoore(m): 8:26am On May 03, 2015 |
ifyalways:My stance is in agreement with the bible. Fornication is fornication, no matter the location. If you don't agree with my stance then you don't agree with the bible too. The girl sees her nothing wrong with fornicating with her bf, she is concerned about church workers who fornicate. God gave her 'exclusive right' to fornicate abi? 4 Likes |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by hemmaoshos(m): 8:29am On May 03, 2015 |
I tell you, church of nowadays where you find choir as the best BLOW-JOBBERS...from experience... 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by Equado(m): 8:32am On May 03, 2015 |
demmy0325:and you my friend was right!!! |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by MrOlai: 8:37am On May 03, 2015 |
jmoore:1000000000000000000000 likes! 4 Likes |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by frebor(m): 8:37am On May 03, 2015 |
We hear tales of how Chapel prefect and officials, from way back in secondary school boarding house, had carnal knowledge of themselves. You see those rooms and offices in the basement is where the evil takes place. Same applies to offices and the likes. We live in a world where moral values have depreciated and sex is being thrown at you even on the street. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by fennels007(m): 8:40am On May 03, 2015 |
[b][/b] I told my boyfriend about it and. . . . And u are complaining, kettle calling pot black 3 Likes |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by Gorimakpa1: 8:45am On May 03, 2015 |
you came here to ask for our approval and blessings. what are you waiting for? oya allow the toasters and wooers to start taking their turns at you collect their share of the national cake abi honeycomb abi is that not what you always wanted in ya dreams and fantasies? this is ya chance to actualize ya WILD SEXUAL FANTASIES when you are done you can as well come back here to NARRATE to us ya experience and the different positions/styles that were experimented on you including the novel ones during your expedition and how you ripped ya boyfriend heart in two....TAWATISH HYPOCRITE! dont quote me |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by PStacks(m): 8:47am On May 03, 2015 |
classicB: A typical christain would tell you we live under a dispensation of "Grace" Even the Bible says.. "Shall we continue in sin that grace may abound" My gross with Churches these days is that they've lost their way to the cross. Moral and social values are eroded, christ-like virtues are far from the church, the church of today is just a dignified "Social Gathering".. A relaxation center. A jamboree.. Everything and anything is ok in the church of christ, But Judgement would start right from the church of christ. Let him who thinks he stands, stands firm lest he falls. |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by MrOlai: 8:50am On May 03, 2015 |
frebor: Were you there? |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by puzzler: 8:57am On May 03, 2015 |
Enoquin:Ironically, she (ur cousins boyfriend's neighbor) doesn't need to follow him to d church, since God is everywhere... Dis ar one of d ways dis selfish MOG's play mind games and distort even d bible to suit their lusts... its no longer news how some MOG's would quote scriptures and confuse a lady into pulling her pants..some go say na GRACE ... |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by bankai2015(f): 9:05am On May 03, 2015 |
otipoju: But after church service, you go dey chase those bread seller Or dey even sleep with your girlfriend. No be the same thing. Nigeria is so full of hypocrite 1 Like |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by free2ryhme: 9:06am On May 03, 2015 |
classicB: Why do u have to wait till Sunday to push thus post to frontage? Or r u of the idea that church related matters must be only on Sunday just as people do eat only rice and meat on Sunday |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by Nobody: 9:06am On May 03, 2015 |
Roflmao! Welcome to the real world! Just one word of advise to you: Never allow what people do to determine who you become or discourage you. I've been in same situation, but I simply ignored all the atrocities and focused on dedicating my life to God and pleasing Him only. There are thousands out there who pretend a lot. They say something and do otherwise, their lifestyle is a direct contradiction to what they claim to be. Some are even Pastors. So, brace up for more of such disappointment. Only you can choose how you want to live. Do you want to run with the pack, or choose to live a lonely, dedicated and committed life to God. The choice is yours! 1 Like |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by bankai2015(f): 9:07am On May 03, 2015 |
classicB: You won tell me say you never sleep with your boyfriend for once? And you dey complain about church sex. HYPOCRITE OF THE HIGHEST ORDER |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by Kulas: 9:14am On May 03, 2015 |
Op,pls are u having sex with ur bf.Note if u are,hmmm,remember sin is sin.Weda u r a worker in d church and still committing it with ur bf,u r just deceiving urself.Can a child of God commit fornication?.On d church members issue,I dnt know what has penetrated d church.A house of God.many do no longer preach against sin.They no longer preach some words that can make you when u hear it,u will go back house and vow never to commit sin again because of d kind "bullet"they hit to u using word of God as against sin.May God have mercy on us.I will like my fellow Nlders to pick a copy of this "preaching tape" by Rev. Chidi Okoroafor.1. "So you later came here" 2."Injury time part 1 and 2".Pls look for it and take time and listen to the message.May God help us in Jesus name- Amen! |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by Beface(m): 9:14am On May 03, 2015 |
classicB:If you are not bold enough to tell a man No it means you are not good enough to be a house wife! Their keep disturbing you because you tolerate them. There are Judas everywhere so keep the church out of it. The problem is not the Choir,the problem is your inability to tell them No. Abeg i they go church jor! 4 Likes |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by Maser: 9:17am On May 03, 2015 |
Na wa for you OP! So you that is calling others hipocrite even have a boyfriend yourself. You just exposed yourself and have no reason to disdain the people you sought so hard to condemn. You're all the same cos I'm certain your boyfriend isn't there just to celebrate holy communion with you each time you meet. First remove the beam in your eyes before trying to remove the speck in others'. Not in any way condoning immorality in Church but you're in no position to condemn anyone since you too are neck-deep in the business. Besides, since none of those brothers attempting to draw close to you has verbally and specifically made sexual advances to you, there's no evidence that sex is what they have in mind. They may just sincerely want to get close to study you before proposing marriage. It often happens like that and meanwhile you're childishly reading a different meaning solely on the premise of what your sisters told you. Sure, shit happens in church but you haven't proven its the case here. You're merely suspecting people who may not have what you have in mind in theirs. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by Nobody: 9:17am On May 03, 2015 |
classicB: I personally have gotten you wrong because what your boyfriend does with you is also what your co church workers are looking for. So your church doesn't preach against fornication ? What sort of church worker even told her boyfriend ? That's how some of you with disjointed minds will see a sincere Church brother's marriage proposal and you will reject and tell him you are engaged while in essence you are just committing fornication without marriage in view.. 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by Fourwinds: 9:17am On May 03, 2015 |
masterchi:look at dis one. Elders and some pastors wey even dey bleep for church. Except if she is lucky to report to a good one 1 Like |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by Enoquin(f): 9:20am On May 03, 2015 |
puzzler: Another interesting view 1 Like |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by john650(m): 9:22am On May 03, 2015 |
major466:There really isn't anything wrong with dating someone in the church except of course you don't want to be known as the church LovePeddler. The church is a microcosm of the larger society. If you as a woman have experience with men who only want to sleep with you and nothing else, you are very likely to meet the same men in church. With that said, I would say exercise the same caution you do with men you meet inside the church as you do outside the church. As much as the church is supposed to be a place you come to connect with God, it also serves as a social setting where people meet and form friendships, relationships and sometimes marriages. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by stonecoldcafe: 9:22am On May 03, 2015 |
@ClassicB, it could mean they want to date you and it could possibly lead to marriage. At least na from boyfriend e dey enter marriage. Well seeing you already have a boyfriend, kindly tell him/them off. Be firm and act it. Not the one you'd say no and still be shining teeth with them, accepting gifts, strolling with them, flirting with them and generally giving mixed signals. Now if you have done all these i.e rebuffing him/them and it continues, report to your leader - I mean the head of that unit. If nothing happens or your unit head is covering for them or even part of their gang then report to a senior leader like a pastor! Oh yes, I nor cover mouth talk so. A good leader who cares for his flocks will take decisive action. Now if nothing happens, then its time to leave that COZA inspired place you call a church! Rubbish! 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by Fourwinds: 9:24am On May 03, 2015 |
Beface:my body, dat is it. Simply say No No No No No No No ......... OP wen ur NO full dictionary, all d brodas go run 1 Like |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by jemype(m): 9:27am On May 03, 2015 |
how? where guys toasting u? major466: |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by Ndkings1(m): 9:35am On May 03, 2015 |
Before i comment, i do like to know the name of ur church. The name of churches this days is the yardstick or benchmark of measurement of the Godliness of its members. |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by Ezebu(m): 9:36am On May 03, 2015 |
Integrity has lost its place in the service of God!have you ever pondered why our society is the way it is?Even so called men of God have derailed. |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by herald9: 9:39am On May 03, 2015 |
mtcheeeew...so OP have you forgotten that the church is a society of humans not of heavenly beings? If you think the church people are different from the normal everyday people around you then you're on a long thing... 1 Like |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by SweetSoup(m): 9:40am On May 03, 2015 |
classicB:As a Christian, are you suppose to have sex or indulge in sexual activities with your boyfriend or anyone else before marriage? 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by Nobody: 9:43am On May 03, 2015 |
U already have a bf. So such things about church should not be strange to u 1 Like |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by Nobody: 9:46am On May 03, 2015 |
@OP, this one na normal thing inside choir n workers na. I wonder wat u'd be saying if it was a hot,sexy,cute,single pastor dat visited u at home(where u live alone),coming 2 preach daily 2 save ur soul(4rm hell), n he's giving u brotherly hug, so tight ur boobs r flat on his big chest, with brotherly kisses 4rm ur cheeks to ur fore-head to ur shoulders n ur neck. Hahahahahahaha... True story! I had 2 run. because I actually just wanted 2 Bleep d christianity outta dat pastor. I didn't because I had a bf n didn't wanna cheat. But if I were single, I would've shut my door n u know wat *wink* What happens inside churches ain't different 4rm wat happens outside. If u wanna continue ur christianity, u shouldn't be complaining, ignore wat u see inside ur church NB: I'm Non-Religious 1 Like |
Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by Strongbest(m): 9:47am On May 03, 2015 |
1dafullymade: O ma'am, I wish I could like your post one thousand and one times and even more. I'm very glad we still have your type here. You have said it all, let the Op read your post and be ministered to. May we not be an instrument in the hand of the devil to rubbish the body of Christ. Stay blessed sis. 2 Likes |
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