Make I send u message to d guy,help me tell am say him dhe mad.







I sense dis mite be a story, how co,e he kept a sex video, since school days till now. And u said he has two kids, him no change fone?
#thinking

lemme see d video first ... And i go advice .. ;Dlemme see d video first ... And i go advice ..

godoluwa:
or a virgin. honestly, its a must 4 me to marry only a virgin gal. i dnt care if shes 4rm d village. TO HELL WITH ALL UNMARRIED LADIES THAT AV LOST THEIR VIRGINITY WILLINGLY!!!

remind me again how it is of anyone's freaking business?

Are you even a virgin yourself?

Ode!

What opinion does her husband - to be have about sex videos?
He also has his own past, this is part of her past!!! Tell him to avoid future issues.

benebaby77:
She should tell her fiance jare....

I bet you the fiance would like to know his fancee's ring tone; how the fiancee who claimed that she no sabi give Bee-Jee(Bolaji) dey succk and romance her then boyfrend's joystick.

Abeg tell that your frend to post the link on sexuality section.... Nairalanders go like to watch it(or them)

lol.
Reminds me of that Nigerian yoruba actress that had her sex tape leaked days to her wedding.
She got deservedly dumped by the smart fiance.

You don't call the bluff of a man that is high on testosterone.

You know this guy very well, find a way and hit him where it'll hurt.


Oh and u should probably tell your fiance about the tape.

Well, this is not a good thing to say the least, but why would an ex, who is settled and married be willing to blackmail your friend?

There is more to this than meets the eye. Someone in the United States with a family won't do this, your girl is not telling you the truth. I don't like blackmailers, but this lady may have done something terrible to this man.

I somehow don't believe the ransome story, its all a cover up. My question for girl is how did she break up with this Americana?

Was the guy supporting her all thru school, and now she wants to marry another after getting her degree? I am sorry but I like seeing things from a different perspective. That may be why she is so scared.

Ladies, stop using guys for financial and sexual satisfaction and at the end, you want to settle with someone you think is more successful...


Go beg him, sleep with him, cry for him and pray about it, God will touch his heart, but doing otherwise may not end well as he may actually post it on the web or send it to those he feels knows you.


BUT if its really about money, then he ia a pure criminal and he must be punished. But, ask your girl to be plain with you!

If he has nothing to lose let him post it now.

Insidous:

remind me again how it is of anyone's freaking business?
ode!

do u av any brain to reason at all?

godoluwa:
ori re ti daru. a ni ki a pa owo po ki a ba ole wi, iwo ni ibi olohun fi nkan re si ko dara. are you crazzy or u lack comprehension? btw, I knw ur handle & am very sure dat u r one of those animal. eranko igbo oponu akafunwedi omo ni e

So?

Ode!

You don't wanna start with me tonight. I have got all the time in the world to deal with you

Self-Righteous Fool!

Insidous:



Don't you think it is high time you started moving with reasonable, responsible and successful human beings.

If it is fine to have pre-marital sex, then cohabitation is not a big deal!

moving with reasonable, responsible and successfull human beings like you abi


did you think all guys like Pre-marital sex
I have never done such a thing why will I marry someone who have done it to the extreme?

First and foremost, calm her nerves down. Tell her nothing new under the sun. So, yes, it's still no biggie.

Secondly, I don't think it's fair on the husband to be. If she didn't inform him before, then she knows it's going to cost a lot, so in my opinion, I think she should forget about informing him, cos, even if the guy forgives, he can never forget, and in the future, in his time of anger, it'll create a hole that cannot be fixed.

Finally, to the giringori, his case is a very small case. Prioritise 5 things that'll hit him so bad hin go think say na hurricane catrina, sit down and write it..

At this junction, Jungle justice is acceptable.

Legal way. Budget: 50-100k
A. Consult with a lawyer and have a signed NDA, stating confidentiality. Explain situation to him or her, and ask him to look for the biggest loophole that'll land the guy in kirikiri at least: 5years.

Strategise based on that loophole, acquire the evidence, pay the police, get him to court(even if he's begging, no gree, get him to court). Only then, can you now demand from him to pay restitution of at least 1M, before he can go, else, tell him he's playing with kirikiri.

All of this will take a few days.

Jungle Justice.

If you are not in for the above. Hit him hard from his family (he might be a bastard who doens't care about family), Some suggestions already made on this thread, hit him hard from street boys, it'll cost you money, and make it clear to him that, if at any chance he blackmails you again, or the video surfaces, that you'll accept your fate, but he should know, that your life goal is to destroy him and those he cares about. ( but you don't want to waste time on a time waster)


I prefer 1, because it is simple, and laughable, and effective to execute. The lawyers, police, will be involved, and not even homeboy will be aware.

Do not give in to the guy, else, he's a bigger spy camera waiting to capture your yansh this time around when you have fun.

This is my 2 cent. And I wish you success. I should make a sex tape too jo

godoluwa:
do u av any brain to reason at all?

Ode! Are you a virgin?

Virgins deserve themselves and non-virgins should stick to one another.

Well, this is not a good thing to say the least, but why would an ex, who is settled and married be willing to blackmail your friend?

There is more to this than meets the eye. Someone in the United States with a family won't do this, your girl is not telling you the truth. I don't like blackmailers, but this lady may have done something terrible to this man.

I somehow don't believe the ransome story, its all a cover up. My question for girl is how did she break up with this Americana?

Was the guy supporting her all thru school, and now she wants to marry another after getting her degree? I am sorry but I like seeing things from a different perspective. That may be why she is so scared.

Ladies, stop using guys for financial and sexual satisfaction and at the end, you want to settle with someone you think is more successful...


Go beg him, sleep with him, cry for him and pray about it, God will touch his heart, but doing otherwise may not end well as he may actually post it on the web or send it to those he feels knows you.


BUT if its really about money, then he ia a pure criminal and he must be punished. But, ask your girl to be plain with you! She is not telling you the whole truth.

sonofananimal:


moving with reasonable, responsible and successfull human beings like you abi


did you think all guys like Pre-marital sex
I have never done such a thing why will I marry someone who have done it to the extreme?

Of course, none of my friends would so that to have the series of dumb monikers you have chosen for yourself

godoluwa:
U see? 4rm dis moment, I don make up my mind sey na virgin I go marry. coz i cant spend d rest of my life with a fvcking bitcch

AND IF YOU SEE THE WAY THOSE WOMEN DEY COME MY SIDE HEH. I JUST DEY PRAY MAKE GOD LEAD ME OH.

CAUSE WETI I DON SEE, HEAR, EVEN READ DON DESTROY MY MIND FOR NIGERIA WOMEN

oh my God,some people are so pathetic,immature and desperate.. So all because he wants sex with her,he uses this so called sex tape as a blackmail tool and leverage of some sort let me tell you this,i know it is difficult to tell someone you intend to get married to about your sex tape,but honestly if he really loves her then this sex tape shouldn't end their marriage plans.

The best thing to do is to come clean to her would be husband and free herself of torment and guilt once and for all,it is better to tell him herself than for him to find out himself. After all it happened a long time ago so a reasonable and civilized man would understand the situation other than allow it cause unnecessary row and breakup.

All she needs to do is to have the courage and tell her man about it. All will be well i hope....

Insidous:


So?

Ode!

You don't wanna start with me tonight. I have got all the time in the world to deal with you

Self-Righteous Fool!

I know u r jobless. mind u, I used my brain 4 positive thing & nt to be arguing wit a nincompoo like. nise lo kan tenumo oro kan soso bii igba ti akuko(impotence) tenumo obo. shame on u da fooolish foool

Insidous:


Ode! Are you a virgin?

Virgins deserve themselves and non-virgins should stick to one another.

if u care to know, I am. next?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0uL3K4k_wRU

That Nigga doesn't have any video.

He just misses the wetness of her ... You know na

Wtf

My advise is for the girl to first go to police station and report then accept to that boy who wants to bleep, then plan with the police to come to the place where the uni guy wants to bleep. But don't let the guy be aware of the police arrangement. I will suggest you go to a hotel with him, immediately you enter the hotel room, text the police guys to come in, they will then arrest the goat, by the time police deal with him, he will produce the videos.

Tell her to talk to her blackmailer about it by phone but to record the conversation. If he post anything then she can go to the police. Blackmail is a crime - even in Naija! The guy will not post anything if he knows he will lost his own family and go to jail.

sonofananimal:


AND IF YOU SEE THE WAY THOSE WOMEN DEY COME MY SIDE HEH. I JUST DEY PRAY MAKE GOD LEAD ME OH.

CAUSE WETI I DON SEE, HEAR, EVEN READ DON DESTROY MY MIND FOR NIGERIA WOMEN

bro, just examine them & choose wisely. thank God, Nigeria population of women to men is now 3:1, not just assumption but fact

Insidous:


Of course, none of my friends would so that to have the series of dumb monikers you have chosen for yourself

I SWEAR YOU NO BE HUMAN BEING,

GO CHECK YOUR MONIKA FOR DICTIONARY SEE WHO DUMB PASS.


BY THE WAY, WHY DRIFTING OFF THE TOPIC?


GUILTY DEY CATCH YOU. IF YOU NO BE ONE OF THOSE PEOPLE WHO ENGAGE IN THIS ART

ogbonti:
Well, this is not a good thing to say the least, but why would an ex, who is settled and married be willing to blackmail your friend?

There is more to this than meets the eye. Someone in the United States with a family won't do this, your girl is not telling you the truth. I don't like blackmailers, but this lady may have done something terrible to this man.

I somehow don't believe the ransome story, its all a cover up. My question for girl is how did she break up with this Americana?

Was the guy supporting her all thru school, and now she wants to marry another after getting her degree? I am sorry but I like seeing things from a different perspective. That may be why she is so scared.

Ladies, stop using guys for financial and sexual satisfaction and at the end, you want to settle with someone you think is more successful...


Go beg him, sleep with him, cry for him and pray about it, God will touch his heart, but doing otherwise may not end well as he may actually post it on the web or send it to those he feels knows you.


BUT if its really about money, then he ia a pure criminal and he must be punished. But, ask your girl to be plain with you! She is not telling you the whole truth.

I am sorry to disappoint you. I know of at least three married men who would do worse . You maybe right however there are far other ways to get back at a terrible ex than releasing a sex video. That should tell you that this man must think so high of himself because no responsible married man would even suggest such a thing.

But really what is the point of sex videos?
. . .especialy with someone you are not married to
Are you porn stars?
Really what is the point?
To what advantage?
I only wish people think beyond today and tomorrow

Let us watch the video first ,then we comment.SIMPLE
Will it be on You Tube or Facebook?

Simple tin na,just contact me we cud set d idiot up and den delete him frm around u Lolz

sonofananimal:



I SWEAR YOU NO BE HUMAN BEING,

GO CHECK YOUR MONIKA FOR DICTIONARY SEE WHO DUMB PASS.


BY THE WAY, WHY DRIFTING OFF THE TOPIC?


GUILTY DEY CATCH YOU. IF YOU NO BE ONE OF THOSE PEOPLE WHO ENGAGE IN THIS ART

Ode! what is he saying?