Please don't take that video as a joke he might be having them stored in a flash drive, he might have even forgotten it only to re discover it on a routine process check on old items.

All you should do is to seek the face of God first and after that you tell your to be husband everything.

Am sure if you are repented God will speak to your man.

I believe he might have had the video on an old laptop. Please kindly report this to probably an NGO and they can legally stop him from uploading or posting it online. Lets all try and be careful with the way we get carried away when we love.

he won't do it

I,don't think its so difficult anymore. She should open up to her fiancee. Together they can lure out the guy and with the help of the police ensure he signs an undertaking not to blackmail her. Blackmailing is a serious offence. If truly he is all what she has described, he'll have a reputation to protect too. It's about playing him at his game.

MuhdG:
Alhamdulillah I am A muslim.
The only intercourse permited is with your husband/wife.



So we don't have to worry about this kind of situations.

As for the girl.......serves her right! I pray her husband to be finds out and dumps her!!

may Allah reward u
Alhamdulillah for Islam
wallahi if u follow Islam u are safe from worldly tinz of no benefit of nw n hereafter
one reason Islam asks us to cover our body

Why would a woman invite her ex to her wedding?! This has never made sense to me, it's disrespectful to her husband to be

Some girls are too careless and stupid, what are you doing getting familiar with an ex when you are set to be married.I doubt if she informed her fiance about that ex before things degenerated to the rubbish talk of wanting to get intimate with her by her ex.

MAYBE SHE NEEDS TO CONTACT A LEGAL ADVISER ASAP!

Show us some screenshots first.

jayfolarin:

The heartbreaking part here is where the guy has now threatened to post a sex video they made together back in school on the Internet coz my homegirl said NO. The attempt at the cheap blackmail just to getdown with her disgusts me to the bone but i'm still at a crossroad on what to do to this guy.

The question now is she thinks the guy is serious, she acknowledged that they recorded intimate sessions on more than 2 occasions back in the uni, she loves her husband-to-be and could get suicidal if he leaves her (her words), SHOULD SHE TELL HIM ABOUT THE VIDEOS??

Bone this long tori..........fear not....... If i where her....


I'll agree to the X request...............we'll meet up @a place.....




unknowingly to him I'd be there with my goons .....
N we'll beat him half dead for being risible .....
And authentically idiotic

This is a case of the skipper of ENDTIME FC wanting to Expose a retired striker of OLOSHO FC

people don advise u finish but come,na only ur face show for the sextape ? If the guy face show,u shouldn't panic.....Just tell ur Oga to be to watchout for the release of ur fowl-yansh wey go soon open to the world courtesy of skipper of ENDTIME FC

If she has a banging body do a Kim kardashian on the fucker tell him u have been dying to see how weak [i][/i][b][/b]he was in bed back then.

No.

tell her to wait... if i was her fiance and she tells me, i would break up woth her immediately. so just tell her to wait and see if he is bluffing.

Well first am sorry for the young lady... We all have had crazy moment in life .... I think the man Is a fool .... Big fool to say such


The guy will have to tell her dude about the past though it depends on the kinda dude he is because my like ... If I love her for real ... I will go to the extreme to kill the lead of the video and the source.... But the my woman will owe me for life .....


But her dude is not this understanding type... He should knock over it and go ahead with her wedding .. The guy is just making an empty threat.... It's often impossible to keep a 5 yrs to 6 yrs video...


Finally if the fiance happens to know about it later .... In as much as he was not the one that deflowered her then he has no fucking right to judge her .....

LESSON: don't make sex video with someone who is not your wife or hubby.... Don't even make it when you think that both of you don't have similar ideology cos when divorce come knowing one with low self esteem will go public with video....

i see no reason why ladys should invite there x for there future wedding, they are so senseless in everything that comes there way, they can run there mouth like water tap, my addvice to her is that the idiot guy that claim he's maried will not try such if he does that's mean the wokers of iniquity wife we definatly find out too, he will be also on fire.

Cutehector:
hey, pls quit the blame game.. They were young and silly then.. Buh d good tin is it aLl happend way way before she met her present fiance.. So if he is understanding, he'l put it aside

being young and silly isn't an excuse not to have sense

dis one no be wetin u go kill urself. Just tell ur new man wetin dey happen and give the phone to ur man to speak to him welda him go come the wedding. Tell the yeye man say if him ever post the porn movie online say u go report am to U.S Embassy for black mailing and possible ur lawyer go come collect royalty for the profit way him don dey make for the movie.If u collect the royalty remember ur bros oooo.

You love your present man,yet you want to keep old fire wood as a friends,hum trouble trouble makes monkey eat pepper

jayfolarin:
Hi nairalanders. I have been around for a while but this should be my first topic/post in the romance section. This incidence is a long epistle but i'll try and summarise.... I need urgent and reasonable advice here pls..

Just about an hour ago, a girlfriend of mine (a buddy that is a girl) came to me with tears and lamented with the hope that I can offer a 'do not worry yourself, it's a small thing' advice like I usually do.

It was about a boy she dated in d university who bumped into her again about 2weeks ago. As they didn't end things on a sour note back then, she was glad to have met him again and could not even wait to announce to him that she was now engaged with wedding plans underway.

According to her, the boy acted all good and even offered to pay for d stuffs she got at domino's. They exchanged numbers again with d promises of keeping in touch and expectation that d boy will be attending her wedding later in September.

To her utmost surprise and dismay though, the boy has been calling since last week and telling her all sort of things like he has been out of naija since after nysc, has a wife and 2 kids in d US, he still likes her, wants them to get intimate again while he's still in the country, bla bla bla...she wasn't interested in anything more than being friends, she said.

The heartbreaking part here is where the guy has now threatened to post a sex video they made together back in school on the Internet coz my homegirl said NO. The attempt at the cheap blackmail just to getdown with her disgusts me to the bone but i'm still at a crossroad on what to do to this guy.

The question now is she thinks the guy is serious, she acknowledged that they recorded intimate sessions on more than 2 occasions back in the uni, she loves her husband-to-be and could get suicidal if he leaves her (her words), SHOULD SHE TELL HIM ABOUT THE VIDEOS??

Icekyng:

may Allah reward u
Alhamdulillah for Islam
wallahi if u follow Islam u are safe from worldly tinz of no benefit of nw n hereafter
one reason Islam asks us to cover our body

Ameen and you too.

TrishaP:
All that is a bluff. Why would he be saving the video till present?!.. Or was he still hoping to date her again!? That blackmail is a cheap one and she shouldn't fall for it. The best she can do is to tell her fiance that they both once dated, that'll be enough info for now.

according to probability, the chances of being real cannot be totally ignored.

Shagati:
He has a wife and kids in the US? Very good.

-Source out his family via the internet; Facebook. Twitter. Instagram (get pictures)
-Get as much details as you can about him. Home Address, office, church, favourite bar, strip joint etc.
-Save all the chats between yourselves. (Screenshots)
-Show him all the evidence you have of his cosy little life and tell him if he as much as sends you a message again you will make his life a living hell and destroy any fvcking Utopia he thinks he has.

I can provide the above service free of charge to you


#DamnIhateblackmailers!!!

Word!...she should never say a word to her husband...two can play...in fact..she should give him 14 days to have all copies of the sextapes be delivered to her by Express Mail....and if at anytime... anybody ever post or circulate the video or snapshots...it would be hell in his Garden of Eden.

She should make a new sex video with her fiancée now!

Thank me later.

So he traveled to the U.S. With the videos?

Anyway only a low life loser can do such a thing.


She can tell him if she wants to but she should just know that he's got nothing on her. Anyone that even hears the story will be like "what a spineless numbskull"

Call his bluff. Never encourage such people. If he goes ahead and posts it, you too shame him by exposing who he is and how weak he is truly. Send the video to his wife and all threatening texts for sex. Post that information online with his real name. Destroy him wella. We will see who will lose. If he is abroad and can't find a job to support his family, then he will understand that he played himself. Your fiancé will stay if he loves you. We have all done stupid things.

Let the guy go to hell. Let the girl tell her fiance the truth, what happened and the guy's plan to blackmail her.

However, to play smart she can buy time with the guy while she wins her fiance support to deal with the guy.

If they guy really likes her, he won't want to blackmail her.

Best Regards

This is even funny that a man will risk his life, future job prospects and future for sex. In this Information Age, if you set him up by posting his blackmail online he is finished for life. Post his father and mother's names, where he went to school, his family pictures. In fact you go post his life and attach to google. At least we women marry and take our husband's name. So anybody wey wan post go post tire. But a man that is established with two kids already has established his name to a point. He is the biggest loser. After finishing his future, get him arrested and pay premium to make sure they break his balls with kick. He has shown that he is not worthy of being called a man, so he won't miss those balls. When next he smells just your perfume he will run like a mad man. In fact after you are done with him, he will never recover. He has more to lose than you

Hehehe

baby124:
This is even funny that a man will risk his life, future job prospects and future for sex. In this Information Age, if you set him up by posting his blackmail online he is finished for life. Post his father and mother's names, where he went to school, his family pictures. In fact you go post his life and attach to google. At least we women marry and take out husband's name. So anybody wey wan post go post tire. But a man that is established with two kids already has established his name to a point. He is the biggest loser. After finishing his future, get him arrested and pay premium to make sure they break his balls with kick. He has shown that he is not worthy of being called a man, so he won't miss those balls. When next he smells just your perfume he will run like a mad man. In fact after you are done with him, he will never recover. He has more to lose than you

cococandy:
Hehehe

None of my ex's have that kind of mind. Because when you mess with the love of my life and you want to destroy my family, I can go to any length and they know. So they cannot even call me to start such conversations. It's the way you present yourself to people that they will treat you. Where we want to sit down and have such conversation sef. Na yansh and breast wey yapa people Neva see before? But what I will do in return will be everlasting. I kuku never hid my true colors to any ex, so they know. In a moment of stupidity and childishness we have all done things we are not proud of. Even the hubs. Plenty virgins sef don send nude pics. It takes a certain level of trust and love to go this far with someone. Anyone that uses this for blackmail does not deserve any pity. You f*#k him up complete

Exactly

baby124:


None of my ex's have that kind of mind. Because when you mess with the love of my life and you want to destroy my family, I can go to any length and they know. So they cannot even call me to start such conversations. It's the way you present yourself to people that they will treat you. Where we want to sit down and have such conversation sef. Na yansh and breast wey yapa people Neva see before? But what I will do in return will be everlasting. I kuku never hid my true colors to any ex, so they know. In a moment of stupidity and childishness we have all done things we are not proud of. Even the hubs

TrishaP:
All that is a bluff. Why would he be saving the video till present?!.. Or was he still hoping to date her again!? That blackmail is a cheap one and she shouldn't fall for it. The best she can do is to tell her fiance that they both once dated, that'll be enough info for now.

I dont care how deep the love is but if a lady im to get married to tells me she made a sex recording with an ex boyfriend i will simplu advice her to go into the porn industry.

It is manageable to immagine ten exes who have slept with you than to face the stark reality that my wife to be nudity is with another man and worst still might have been viewed by many.

Even K west with all the love he claims to have for kim k,he will always be haunted by that sex clip of his wife and her ex.

lets face it.its a very fooolish,myopic and totally dumb for a lady to allow herself being recorded in the act not even by her hubby howbeit a boyfriend.

sluttiness of the highest level.

TrishaP:
All that is a bluff. Why would he be saving the video till present?!.. Or was he still hoping to date her again!? That blackmail is a cheap one and she shouldn't fall for it. The best she can do is to tell her fiance that they both once dated, that'll be enough info for now.

I dont care how deep the love is but if a lady im to get married to tells me she made a sex recording with an ex boyfriend i will simplu advice her to go into the porn industry.

It is manageable to immagine ten exes who have slept with you than to face the stark reality that my wife to be nudity is with another man and worst still might have been viewed by many.

Even K west with all the love he claims to have for kim k,he will always be haunted by that sex clip of his wife and her ex.

lets face it.its a very fooolish,myopic and totally dumb for a lady to allow herself being recorded in the act not even by her hubby howbeit a boyfriend.

sluttiness of the highest level.