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Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by Nobody: 9:20am On Jul 03, 2015
Officialcart3rG:
Must sex be included in a relationship before it works, i don't just get it ?!!
A girl had told me that sex was not equal to love but when I dates another girl who gives me sex she tagged me a player.Why is she angry with me for f.ckin other girl when she and i are just platonic?

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Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by Acidosis(m): 9:21am On Jul 03, 2015
Atlantian:
Everyone seem to professional in advising about sex and relationship these days. Dont we have inventive and manufacturing ideas for products and services in this country ? Why is sex such a talked about issue ? Na wa o

Nice piece!
Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by Mcowubaba: 9:23am On Jul 03, 2015
fatdon2:
[b]Obtaining the hard-to-get girl is a romantic concept used time and again in movies and novels all around the world. Believe it or not, it is possible to get a date with a girl who's hard-to-get. Men just have to be aware of how the female mind works and be respectful when approaching women. By using a few key strategies to your advantage, you will increase your chances of getting to know her.

STEP 1
Use her curiosity. Let her know you're interested but invoke a sense of mystery. Smile at her from across the room without approaching her. She will expect a man to talk to her all night if she knows he’s interested. Approach her once, offer a polite greeting, then walk away. This act will establish your existence in a way that makes her slightly curious about you. Curiosity sparks interest, which leads to other feelings.

STEP 2
Avoid physical contact. Don‘t touch her too frequently. A girl who is playing hard-to-get needs her space. Too much contact will turn her off. Instead of trying to touch her, get to know her. Use this opportunity to understand her and get to know who she is. Find out her interests and her hobbies. Talking about her will end up being more endearing than trying to play a direct and obvious flirting game.

STEP 3
Play hard-to-get. If you followed the steps correctly, she will be interested. Your main priority should be acting independent but still maintaining your attraction to her. Don’t completely dismiss her. You want to let her know that you're still into her, but that you're not letting the desire for attachment get the best of you.

STEP 4
Be honest. Opting for bravado may change her from hard-to-get to never-had-a-chance. Being your authentic self means that she gets to engage with the true you, not the you who's trying to go on a date with her. She's going to respect you more when you're being real with her, increasing your chances of going out with her.[/b]
WHICH TIME do I have to do all this things I no go go do better thing with my life lipsrsealed.....

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Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by Nobody: 9:30am On Jul 03, 2015
Atlantian:
Everyone seem to professional in advising about sex and relationship these days. Dont we have inventive and manufacturing ideas for products and services in this country ? Why is sex such a talked about issue ? Na wa o
Do you have an invention to share with us?Feel free to share.

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Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by lampardizik(m): 9:31am On Jul 03, 2015
kingk:


Guy don't be decieved, observe that pics, she isn't natural its the help of makeup and bleaching.....look at those fingers........I only adore the natural ones from hair to toe.


Clearly,you didn't see what I saw...
Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by Nobody: 9:33am On Jul 03, 2015
T3Amo:
Thank you. It's so annoying the amount of stupid topics I see everyday. This site is really not the same as what it used to be. I miss those days
But I don't see your contributions in several educational topics that are posted here.
Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by lampardizik(m): 9:37am On Jul 03, 2015
popweezy:
I haven't seen the person u're talking about ho


Her handle is "korazon"
Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by beyoncausme: 9:42am On Jul 03, 2015
always keep cool.....
Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by Mekzmoney(m): 9:44am On Jul 03, 2015
D word "hard-to-get" is 4 students or 4 a poor man.
A lady will always play hard-to-get if ur broke.
Surprise her wit expensive gift, flash her wit ur lil cash or park ur expensive car (like G-wagon) and see if she's still gonna play hard-to-get.

Rubbish.
Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by Nobody: 9:45am On Jul 03, 2015
NOWADAYS NAIJA WOMEN STILL DEY PLAY HARD TO GET grin
THOSE GROUP OF FEMALE ANIMALS DEY VERY VERY I REPEAT VERY VERY EASY TO GET,

NA THE UGLY ONES DEY PLAY HARD TO GET COS THEM HAVE NOTHING TO LOSS
Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by Mekzmoney(m): 9:45am On Jul 03, 2015
D words "hard-to-get" is 4 students or 4 a poor man.
A lady will always play hard-to-get if ur broke.
Surprise her wit expensive gift, flash her wit ur lil cash or park ur expensive car (like G-wagon) and see if she's still gonna play hard-to-get.

Rubbish.
Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by U2ice(m): 9:46am On Jul 03, 2015
remember007:
If u access your guy and feel he's worth it then what's the waiting?... just my opinion though


I de believe uniben girls..grin
Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by free37: 9:49am On Jul 03, 2015
fatdon2:
[b]Obtaining the hard-to-get girl is a
romantic concept used time and
again in movies and novels all
around the world. Believe it or not,
it is possible to get a date with a
girl who's hard-to-get. Men just have to be aware of how the
female mind works and be
respectful when approaching
women. By using a few key
strategies to your advantage, you
will increase your chances of getting to know her.


STEP 1

Use her curiosity. Let her know
you're interested but invoke a
sense of mystery. Smile at her from
across the room without
approaching her. She will expect a
man to talk to her all night if she knows he’s interested. Approach
her once, offer a polite greeting,
then walk away. This act will
establish your existence in a way
that makes her slightly curious
about you. Curiosity sparks interest, which leads to other
feelings.


STEP 2

Avoid physical contact. Don‘t
touch her too frequently. A girl
who is playing hard-to-get needs
her space. Too much contact will
turn her off. Instead of trying to
touch her, get to know her. Use this opportunity to understand
her and get to know who she is.
Find out her interests and her
hobbies. Talking about her will end
up being more endearing than
trying to play a direct and obvious flirting game.


STEP 3

Play hard-to-get. If you followed
the steps correctly, she will be
interested. Your main priority
should be acting independent but
still maintaining your attraction
to her. Don’t completely dismiss her. You want to let her know that
you're still into her, but that you're
not letting the desire for
attachment get the best of you.


STEP 4

Be honest. Opting for bravado may
change her from hard-to-get to
never-had-a-chance. Being your
authentic self means that she gets
to engage with the true you, not
the you who's trying to go on a date with her. She's going to
respect you more when you're
being real with her, increasing
your chances of going out with
her.[/b]

Hmm ....
Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by redcliff: 9:52am On Jul 03, 2015
Atlantian:
Everyone seem to professional in advising about sex and relationship these days. Dont we have inventive and manufacturing ideas for products and services in this country ? Why is sex such a talked about issue ? Na wa o

Lmao!!! This is the best comment i have read so far this year!!! I concur with you 100 prozent!
Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by proxillin(m): 9:53am On Jul 03, 2015
T3Amo:
Thank you. It's so annoying the amount of stupid topics I see everyday. This site is really not the same as what it used to be. I miss those days


[size=15pt]I thought its in romance section!

People and self-righteousness.

This is a public forum

Be civil for once [/size]
Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by Revolva(m): 9:54am On Jul 03, 2015
grin grin well i still buy the op opinion......sha...after all its all about the possay i just need from an attractive woman
Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by Nobody: 10:00am On Jul 03, 2015
Krisgift:
I believe a man who respects a woman and has genuine love for her will wait until the woman is ready(through with her hard to play game)

Come to think of it, if a guy has genuine intentions for the lady, I don't see a reason why they should rush into sex.

My thoughts though.

BULLSHITE angry

GO ASK YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER WEATHER THE TWO OF THEM PLAY HARD TO GET BEFORE THEM MARRY undecided

AND YOU ALWAYS TALK MAN MUST RESPECT A LADY, ARE THE LADIES RESPECTING ANY MAN NOWADAYS?

NONSENSE



CHILDREN OF THIS GENERATION ALWAYS WANT THERE CAKE AND STILL HAVE IT SERVE TO THEM
Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by Physika(f): 10:04am On Jul 03, 2015
IamLEGEND1:
"MEN HAVE FRAGILE EGOS"?


PLsssssssssss.
speak for urself.


#GetYourFactsRight

Hehe cheesy
Let him keep readin d prints

While we lead d life grin
U rock cool
Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by abbey621(m): 10:07am On Jul 03, 2015
Are there really any hard to get women? I'm not talking about teenagers or premature university kids. Mature minded people don't play games, life is too short for all that! My personal system has worked for me since the days back at the university. I follow the same steps regardless of how beautiful the girl may be, I always allow the girl dictate how she wants to be treated. If she's stiff and not really the open type, I'll instantly put her in the friendship zone as she's clearly not ready for a relationship but if she's the jovial type and very expressive, I'll be able to relate with her by sharing present and future goals even without sex for the first month, by the second month she would be the one begging not because she's desperate but because she feels secured, she feels ensured and not pressured! A real man plays no games because for he himself is the game wink wink

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Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by Ryabcool(m): 10:08am On Jul 03, 2015
Krisgift:
I believe a man who respects a woman and has genuine love for her will wait until the woman is ready(through with her hard to play game)

Come to think of it, if a guy has genuine intentions for the lady, I don't see a reason why they should rush into sex.

My thoughts though.
it's this kind of mentality that gets girls played. In today's world, only players have time to hunt a girl till she gives in. And then they move on. I honestly don't have time to wait for any girl playing hard to get. There are too many single girls out there looking for a guy for me to be wasting my time with a girl who isn't serious. No time.
Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by realitytopline: 10:09am On Jul 03, 2015
In a relationship? totally abstain from sex.
Man, woman don't be a victim of pre-marital sexual issues.....
Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by IamLEGEND1: 10:14am On Jul 03, 2015
Physika:

Hehe cheesy Let him keep readin d prints
While we lead d life grin U rock cool
#TrueTalk.
Stay awesome bro.

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Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by tsdarkside(m): 10:15am On Jul 03, 2015
Atlantian:
Everyone seem to professional in advising about sex and relationship these days. Dont we have inventive and manufacturing ideas for products and services in this country ? Why is sex such a talked about issue ? Na wa o

its like the only thing,we can think about...sex,sex,sex...no job,no good roads,no power,no security...but,hey,we can solve sex-issues,,,yippie....rejoys,rejoys,,,nigerians have solved sex!!!!! mtchwwwwwwwwwwwwww....... angry angry
Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by mikolo80: 10:15am On Jul 03, 2015
T3Amo:
Thank you. It's so annoying the amount of stupid topics I see everyday. This site is really not the same as what it used to be. I miss those days
you wey you get intelligent topic why you no go form your own site na?mumu,wetin you find come here
Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by mikolo80: 10:16am On Jul 03, 2015
yomi007k:

I jus taya for ds ppl o.

Only sex nothing more.
wetin you find come this section na abi you de retarded or you no sabi read
Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by saasala(m): 10:17am On Jul 03, 2015
Peaceisgold:
Fellow nairalanders pls join me apologise to my sweetheart whom i forgot to wish a hpy bday on June 30. Am truly sori

You dont love him. Period.
Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by Krisgift(f): 10:24am On Jul 03, 2015
sonofananimal:


BULLSHITE angry

GO ASK YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER WEATHER THE TWO OF THEM PLAY HARD TO GET BEFORE THEM MARRY undecided

AND YOU ALWAYS TALK MAN MUST RESPECT A LADY, ARE THE LADIES RESPECTING ANY MAN NOWADAYS?

NONSENSE



CHILDREN OF THIS GENERATION ALWAYS WANT THERE CAKE AND STILL HAVE IT SERVE TO THEM


How dare you bring my parents into this?

Don't ever try that again with me. If you don't like my comment you can read and move on and don't quote me to type trash.
Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by David4best(m): 10:24am On Jul 03, 2015
If you have the money to spend, couple with confidence to excuse & approach any good-looking girl you like that come your way at least one girl per day or 3 girls per week, you will always have enough girls around you to choose from. It is not all girls that play hard to get. NOTE: 98% of Nigerian girls do not love naturally, they choose you according to the class or status you belong to in the society(finance/money, car owner, beauty/handsome, height, behaviour, Education & religion). Why should you disturb yourself over any girl who play hard to get when there are many beautiful girls in the society? Playing hard to get by any girl should not be more than one or two months if the girl is really into you. No matter the beauty of any girl, a girl that does not love you is nothing to you but something to the guy she loves. The equation is not balanced if you are the only one that love the girl. Keep on searching until you have a mutually balanced love equation.

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Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by Krisgift(f): 10:26am On Jul 03, 2015
Ryabcool:
it's this kind of mentality that gets girls played. In today's world, only players have time to hunt a girl till she gives in. And then they move on. I honestly don't have time to wait for any girl playing hard to get. There are too many single girls out there looking for a guy for me to be wasting my time with a girl who isn't serious. No time.



I just gave my opinion. You don't have to agree with me.

Bye
Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by Nobody: 10:29am On Jul 03, 2015
U2ice:


I de believe uniben girls..grin
thumbs up!!
Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by Nobody: 10:30am On Jul 03, 2015
The bottom line is, sex is not okay until marriage is consummated. Any sex before or outside marriage means the woman is cheap. Basic.
Re: When Playing "Hard-To-Get" Goes Too Far?! by babiskinado(m): 10:30am On Jul 03, 2015
Its better to save yourself for that one person. It has health, spiritual and emotional advantages.

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