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Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by phayvoursky(m): 6:02pm On Jul 15, 2015
START PRAYING WITH RED AND BLACK CANDLES







THE GUY NO GO THINK TWICE

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Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by carzola(m): 6:02pm On Jul 15, 2015
i think you should pack out and leave the house for him since your a nice guy, and you dont mind having all the bad luck in the world just to be a nice guy.... grin grin grin







Thank me later!!!!!

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Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by pBuhari(f): 6:03pm On Jul 15, 2015
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Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by vicchi12(f): 6:03pm On Jul 15, 2015
What makes you think he isn't here on nairaland?

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Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by free2ryhme: 6:03pm On Jul 15, 2015
The apartment your own

You pay the rent and own everything inside

And u come to nairaland to ask people to give u advice on what to do with someone's living in your house that you are uncomfortable with.

When you already know what to do as a man

I only have one sentence for you: emmyrichie u dey craze

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Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by suwalee(f): 6:03pm On Jul 15, 2015
Plead wt any of ur female frnds to com stay wt u nd tell d dude ur gf Wana stay wt u for awhile simple
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by DworldsGM: 6:04pm On Jul 15, 2015
find another place to live nd vacate
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by scribble: 6:04pm On Jul 15, 2015
emmyrichie:
SUMMARY

I did not know him before... We became buddies when I moved into one of the apartments in the same block as his' and his sister.

How he started staying with me: He was initially staying with his sister until he fell out with her over some trivial issue.
He immediately moved into my apartment owing to the fact that I stay alone.
That night he slept in place and in slow succession it became a tradition and step by step he started staying together with me.

But since he moved in, I've had countless dreams in which somebody will always come to warn me that I should ask the guy to leave my apartment cos he is laced with ill luck and that he isn't ordinary which will start affecting me especially in the aspect of my job.

I wouldn't have mind him staying with me until my financee comes except for these incessant nightmares filled with warnings about him.

Now my quest on this thread is sourcing for ideas on how to go about asking him to leave?

Nlanders I need clues and hints.

Cc: RoyalRoy and lalasticlala


Maybe have fiancee come over and stay for a long while before you marry her. Abeg marry her o

That will make the lil buggers leave everytime

Just tell him you need your privacy with madam in a Bro code he will understand

That way you can stylishly evict his leeching arse

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Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by damiloladuke: 6:05pm On Jul 15, 2015
lol




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Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Mufasa1805(m): 6:07pm On Jul 15, 2015
emmyrichie:
SUMMARY

I did not know him before... We became buddies when I moved into one of the apartments in the same block as his' and his sister.

How he started staying with me: He was initially staying with his sister until he fell out with her over some trivial issue.
He immediately moved into my apartment owing to the fact that I stay alone.
That night he slept in place and in slow succession it became a tradition and step by step he started staying together with me.

But since he moved in, I've had countless dreams in which somebody will always come to warn me that I should ask the guy to leave my apartment cos he is laced with ill luck and that he isn't ordinary which will start affecting me especially in the aspect of my job.

I wouldn't have mind him staying with me until my financee comes except for these incessant nightmares filled with warnings about him.

Now my quest on this thread is sourcing for ideas on how to go about asking him to leave?

Nlanders I need clues and hints.

Cc: RoyalRoy and lalasticlala

Bros the only clue wey go work b say make you tell the guy make he comot cause people like him no dey comot easily oo!! I warn you oo!!

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Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Egwuda33: 6:07pm On Jul 15, 2015
emmyrichie:


What will be my excuse?
excuse or no excuse, it's your house... abi he dey contribute for the rent? tell the Nigga to leave that you are non longer comfortable with his presence. I personally believe those dreams are a warning to you. do the needful before someone uses you for Money rituals.
A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE.

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Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by LEXYCOM: 6:07pm On Jul 15, 2015
It the easiest thing to do.......just tell him to get the hell out of ur life.....if u can't do it, tell me to do it for u

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Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Nobody: 6:08pm On Jul 15, 2015
emmyrichie:


What will be my excuse?
Your fiance, sister and mother should come and stay with you for a long period of time grin



I know your type of guy, you please people and displease yourself.

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Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by sohans(m): 6:08pm On Jul 15, 2015
my man bring His name 2 d spiritual world of prayer nd fasting,He wl leave begging u.
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Glamglam(f): 6:08pm On Jul 15, 2015
emmyrichie:


What will be my excuse?

You don't need an excuse. It is your house. Just tell him in a kind and firm manner that he can not stay with you anymore and then change your locks. Shikena! End of.

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Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by missKiffy(f): 6:09pm On Jul 15, 2015
emmyrichie:
SUMMARY

I did not know him before... We became buddies when I moved into one of the apartments in the same block as his' and his sister.

How he started staying with me: He was initially staying with his sister until he fell out with her over some trivial issue.
He immediately moved into my apartment owing to the fact that I stay alone.
That night he slept in place and in slow succession it became a tradition and step by step he started staying together with me.

But since he moved in, I've had countless dreams in which somebody will always come to warn me that I should ask the guy to leave my apartment cos he is laced with ill luck and that he isn't ordinary which will start affecting me especially in the aspect of my job.

I wouldn't have mind him staying with me until my financee comes except for these incessant nightmares filled with warnings about him.

Now my quest on this thread is sourcing for ideas on how to go about asking him to leave?

Nlanders I need clues and hints.

Cc: RoyalRoy and lalasticlala
Tell him your mum or a particular family member is coming to stay with you and you don't want him or her to meet him there, give him a time frame, like the person is coming in a week or so. It might work. It worked for me once.
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Mufasa1805(m): 6:10pm On Jul 15, 2015
DworldsGM:
find another place to live nd vacate

Shoro niyen!

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Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Nobody: 6:10pm On Jul 15, 2015
Hmmm na wa

Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by INDESTRUCTABLEX(m): 6:10pm On Jul 15, 2015
Smh @op. How to get him out.
Day 1 - Fake a scream at night that will wake him from sleep. When he asks, tell him nothing.
Day 2 - Fake another scream. This time sleep talk and say "yes, we will bring him".
Day 3 - Allow him fall asleep before you. Sit like a mallam, talk gibberish, until he falls asleep.

Day 4 - Nobody go tell am to pack comot.

If him no agree.
Day 4 - Start running round the house at night.

Any time he asks, tell him you are cleansing the house. Lol

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Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Dbboy(m): 6:11pm On Jul 15, 2015
dude man up and tell him to move out one peace of advice avoid the unhappy and unlucky they are infectious.
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by themejiwalker(m): 6:12pm On Jul 15, 2015
wellmax:
Tell him you have ebola

Na wah o.
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Nobody: 6:14pm On Jul 15, 2015
raumdeuter:
Go and get a live in girlfriend who loves to walk around nude





Lol, I can do this perfectly
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Nobody: 6:14pm On Jul 15, 2015
i have been in your shoes before, just tell him straight away that you want him to leave because you like staying alone. If you give excuses, he would find a way to twart your excuse... just tell him to go.

emmyrichie:
SUMMARY

I did not know him before... We became buddies when I moved into one of the apartments in the same block as his' and his sister.

How he started staying with me: He was initially staying with his sister until he fell out with her over some trivial issue.
He immediately moved into my apartment owing to the fact that I stay alone.
That night he slept in place and in slow succession it became a tradition and step by step he started staying together with me.

But since he moved in, I've had countless dreams in which somebody will always come to warn me that I should ask the guy to leave my apartment cos he is laced with ill luck and that he isn't ordinary which will start affecting me especially in the aspect of my job.

I wouldn't have mind him staying with me until my financee comes except for these incessant nightmares filled with warnings about him.

Now my quest on this thread is sourcing for ideas on how to go about asking him to leave?

Nlanders I need clues and hints.

Cc: RoyalRoy and lalasticlala

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Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by laivwire(m): 6:15pm On Jul 15, 2015
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Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by mannyiyke: 6:16pm On Jul 15, 2015
MrLouisVanGaal:
Pray to God to take away your dreams. God doesn't allow people suffer for being good. That guy could be the next president of this country and devil could be very interested in seeing you two sever your friendship ties.

But bros do you watch Nigerian films alot?


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Bro, i must commend u for this advice. One problem with some human beings is dat we fail to listen to God's commandment which exhorts us to always do good to people unconditionally. This is 'cos some have entertained angels unawares. U're a gd fellow.

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Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Gboliwe: 6:18pm On Jul 15, 2015
shalomm:
op, someone has a misunderstanding with his sister, and you took him in.

It's very possible. I harboured a woman who lived with her boyfriend for the night after they had a fight and the man threw her stuff out of the house. I opened my door to her. The next morning she went to the man's house and parked her stuff into my house. Like play like play, she spent Friday night, Saturday night, sunday night, by monday when I was to go to work, she was forming sleep, I quickly woke her up and told her I have to lock my house up and as such, she should get ready to go. That was how she went away, if not, she don relocate be that.

Some humans don't even consider others in their actions

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Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by adonisgold: 6:20pm On Jul 15, 2015
Lots of sensible suggestions here, so pick one. Guy, I sent my best friend packing from my house when he became a thorn in my flesh. I didnt feel bad becos i was sure i was doing the right thing.

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Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Surejobsng(m): 6:22pm On Jul 15, 2015
Report him to Nigerian Police grin
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Nobody: 6:23pm On Jul 15, 2015
Ishilove:
cheesy

No dey look face. Tell him your mother is moving in. angry

Or girlfriend (if you no get go hire one). grin grin


On a more serious note, things like this is why we always preach to people that they should attend regular deliverance sessions so that any evil stranger lurking in their lives will clear away. He has a bad spirit following him up and down and that is how this demon will cause him to be rejected anywhere he goes. His helpers, like the op, will keep running from him because he is demonically possessed. You are being warned because whatever is troubling him wants to punish him and if you keep harbouring him, you will be oppressed until you are forced to eject him. It is already happening since you are contemplating ejecting him. He needs deliverance.

O ma se o.

OP, for your own good please eject him any how yagayaga before he uses his own reggae to funk up your blues.
Hope say you dey go church,cos e b like say u wan reinvent wickedness...@op,I 1ce squatted with a dude,who harboured me for at least 7 months cos of job ish and relocation p,d guy be misbehave like you dey miss behave so(like locking my outside sometime, saying trash sometime,but I let am know say life na turn by turn,cos at d end of it all,I still gat mad love for )...I surety d guy for bank when him take loan to start 1 biz like that.

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Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by shalomm: 6:24pm On Jul 15, 2015
Gboliwe:


It's very possible. I harboured a woman who lived with her boyfriend for the night after they had a fight and the man threw her stuff out of the house. I opened my door to her. The next morning she went to the man's house and parked her stuff into my house. Like play like play, she spent Friday night, Saturday night, sunday night, by monday when I was to go to work, she was forming sleep, I quickly woke her up and told her I have to lock my house up and as such, she should get ready to go. That was how she went away, if not, she don relocate be that.

Some humans don't even consider others in their actions

the op did not state that the guy was threw out..... read the post again.
Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Nobody: 6:25pm On Jul 15, 2015
Gabrielwilliams:
Interesting.... I used to have a dude like dat. Funny tin is dat I ended up moving into another house. I left him in the house. (Rent expired a week later)
hmmmm.......hw u com carry ur funiture and he no no..........hmmmmmm

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Re: How Do I Go About Asking Him To Leave Without Sounding Bad? by Spidermon: 6:26pm On Jul 15, 2015
Buy a carton of vaseline and place it where he will see it. When he asks why you bought so much, tell him you are now gay and he should henceforth tidy his anus well before coming to bed.
Trust me. The guy go lost.

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