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Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 6:09pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
For every woman there is a kind of man For every bey a jayz For every toke a maje So keppy don't mind the old school mamis If you want to work to get money so you can outsource the cooking..good for you Be patient and don't feet while you wait It shall surely come In short why stop at cooking? You can hire a surrogate to have your kids so you don't spoil your figure You can hire a porn star to give ur hubby sex so your punny is not affected Carry goooooo 1 Like |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by edwife(f): 6:12pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
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Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 6:25pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
pickabeau1: nasty you!! @ keppy , you have to learn how to balance these two worlds, the same set of rules don't apply. The office environment is very different from the home environment. One is very competitive while the other is so complementary You are encouraged to outsource and delegate as much as possible in one but there is so much you can delegate in the other, not that you shouldnt delegate/outsource at all o It might help to get a real life mentor who is managing both worlds successfully Personally, that helped me a lot All the best! 1 Like |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 6:53pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
tearoses: Partial veggy..... Edwife, thank you for your words.... Pickabeau1, do you have a problem with money Your Sarcasm does not bite... 1 Like |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 7:02pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Kimoni: Thank you so much... I love good food and obviously I'm not the best cook in the world and I don't believe I'll ever be...what I'm saying is if I can afford a 3star chef to prepare my meals, why won't I?? Why don't we say it's a crime to get a blender, a washer, a cleaner, a nanny, a driver etc... I see nothing with surrogates anyway... Njokusboy made mention of emotions and all that, I totally get him...I totally understand... |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 7:06pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Kimoni Edwife Abeg make una preach on top another thread The girl wants a marriage of outsourcing Make una free am You are both old school |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by edwife(f): 7:12pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
keppyy: Sweetheart i wasn't the best cook while growing up,but i love good food and i told myself,why not learn? Logical innit? Won't you be satisfy to see the smile on his face after feeding boo?nodding his head and rushing home to your meals everyday.... My dad doesn't eat out,very rarely....I now know why. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by edwife(f): 7:13pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Lol picka,she needs guidance that's all. I think she understood...well i hope so. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 7:16pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
keppyy: Change the "my" to "our" and "I" to "We" Once you have both willingly" agreed, by all means go ahead. Just that it's rare to find men like that but not like they don't exist at all. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 7:23pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
edwife: Guidance fire Even the rich southern women in the US cook for their kids and husbands These are people who are high net worth individuals I wonder why it is so easy to strip nûde and have sex rather than cook for a man you claim to love... Bobo juice |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 7:24pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Kimoni: Lols...thank you so much... You're sooOoo right... If "WE" agree... I'm still learning...*hugs* 1 Like |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 7:26pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
edwife: I understand...*hugs* |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 7:46pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
keppyy: you will get there... |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by bellong: 10:33pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
keppyy: Now I know why you need a chef. The pasta is a good evidence of your poor culinary skill... Shows you added too much water. I can offer you free lessons on basic cooking skills. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 10:38pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
bellong: Lols... I know how to make pasta perfectly... Pasta is meant to be creamy and not dry or oily... |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by bellong: 10:39pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
keppyy: Creamy is different from soggy.... Look your pasta closely, you will see that it is a world apart from creamy.. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 10:41pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
bellong: *yawns* Okay, it's soggy... I can't cook, I need a chef. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by bellong: 10:46pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
keppyy: Don't let flies enter your yawning mouth... I will pay for your chef. Can you pound yam? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 10:48pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
bellong: Lolssss.. I can't pound yam but I can pound onuunuu. Have you eaten onuunuu and fresh atablaa pepper-soup? #ProudlyKalabari |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 11:34pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
keppyy: I get if you can't cook, the problem Is dat you are more focused on hiring a chef than learning, you should be more focused on the latter... the truth is dat there is no difference between hiring a chef and eating out... you might just as well buy from the best eatery in town... Like I said earlier, when everything in the house is done by someone else for you rather than you for yourselves, then the aim of getting married is already defeated... 2 Likes |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by bellong: 11:45pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
keppyy: Is onuunuu same as FUFU? Fufu is made from cassava, can be pounded like yam or stirred on fire like amala. When will you invite me to eat this food you described? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 6:47am On Jul 27, 2015 |
bellong: I know what fufu is, lolz... I'm not an ajeebbbooorrr oOoo... Onunu is pounded yam with black plantain...it's soOoo nicceee Atabllaaa fish is tilapia fishhh... Very Nice... Goodmorning to youuu |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by bellong: 9:58am On Jul 27, 2015 |
keppyy: Good morning to you too. When are you inviting me to a table for the onuunuu? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 10:04am On Jul 27, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Another side of Pickabeau |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by 5minsmadness: 11:40am On Jul 27, 2015 |
pickabeau1: And you started out so innocently too |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 11:42am On Jul 27, 2015 |
i am only trying to help her use money to spice her marriage kimoni 5minsmadness |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 1:20pm On Jul 27, 2015 |
To be honest, I think it also depends on the man. A few wont mind eating anything from anywhere but most will prefer the intimacy that comes with their wives exclusively cooking for them. She may find a man that doesnt mind, but if she marrys a man like my dad . . . then Ghen Ghen I remember back in the day, we never had food coolers in the house. My dad used to eat his food piping hot straight from the kitchen He also rarely ate rice. Mum would hear the gates opening and put omi amala kana No phone to even warn mum that he is 10 minutes away so she could start. One soup per day. Fresh okro, efo or ewedu I wish I had the same strength my mum had/has Before you could say Jack robinson she has carried her pepper outside and used olo to grind it while us kids were still messing about looking for slippers to wear to the grindng woman down the road. The good old days |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 3:02pm On Jul 27, 2015 |
bellong: Christmas time... |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by bellong: 3:24pm On Jul 27, 2015 |
keppyy: Too far now... |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by TV01(m): 3:53pm On Jul 27, 2015 |
Go young, young man, go young. I often talk about marrying a woman significantly younger in a light hearted manner. And whilst I advise this in an ATBE/generic manner, believe me, there is sound reasoning behind this. We have spoken at length about female hypergamy, so no need to revisit this. Needless to say, women typically seek higher status in their partners (marital or otherwise), and this should enable you gain a “head-start” in terms of being mature and establishing yourself. This will help greatly in your relationship as she will be more likely to “look up to you”, as opposed to try and compete/outmanoeuvre you at every turn – in itself a passion killer. Older women – as an inevitability of time – tend to not be as shapely or nubile as younger women. They are also likely to have had more partners - unpicking why this is a bad thing requires separate treatment. They also tend to have more baggage, and are probably more set in their ways. Not to mention more likely to try and game/pressure you into marriage due to their age. But one of the big reasons, is sex. The conversational flow around here would make one believe that women are every bit as libidinous as men. This is simply not true. As a general – if not universal - rule, men are much more libidinous than women. This disparity becomes more pronounced the older men/women – the couple - get. One huge myth is how womens sexuality heightens and peaks around 39/40 – please, please, please, don’t fall for that one. It makes no sense in terms of the biological imperative for childbirth and the onset of menopause. Indeed, if one looked at things historically, perhaps people would be more considered before throwing around senseless tropes like “all men are dogs”, “culture calls men studs and women sluts” etc., would not be thrown around so casually. Across cultures and through time, men and women, husbands and wives have accommodated this differential by the introduction of 2nd wives, or winking at the presence of mistresses. Sex for men is mostly physical, so unlike women the impulse cannot be readily transferred to children or other forms of social interaction. It often happens, that as women have given birth, are becoming pre-occupied with domestic issues, are becoming pre-occupied more with “social events”, and becoming further removed from their youthful “hotness”, that men are at the peak of the careers, have as much status as they are likely to attain, are still in reasonably good shape, and receiving more attention from women. Now culturally, monogamy is the norm. All the more reason to avail yourself of a wife you will be in physical consonance with. You are likely to be more indulgent and patient with a younger wife, as well as mature enough to support her through rough patches. Lastly, please don’t be fooled by pre-marital sex, or even honeymoon romps. Women will work tactically to seal the deal and then revise strategically as things change – in all likelihood, your desire for sex won’t Presumes; 1. You are a mature and responsible man – set on creating a family legacy 2. You are a man in good shape, or who is set on being so - and maintaining it. 3. Mongamy is your model 4. I said ATBE, if you meet an outlier in any sense, factor accordingly Disclaimer 1. I did this and it works TV ...please cease and desist with the weave talk ! 2 Likes |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by edwife(f): 8:26pm On Jul 27, 2015 |
I have to say this too:As y'all on the look out for younger and "fresher" women,i think it will also be good to understand this. Gone are the days when innocence and reservation were the norm.Young women these days "do not look up to you" without your pocket being the prime commender in chief in the relationship. -They are likely to sleep with twice the number of men the older women have slept with.Sex is no longer a taboo nowadays,a 23 years old today can count up to 10 guys she had sex with.From the first guy who dis-virgin her at 14/15 to the lecturer who did not want to let her pass,the boyfriend at school who was ever willing to help with assignments,the neighbours,the sugar daddy to the 3 suitors who are asking for her hand in marriage.(including you ) -Younger women have as much baggages as older women if not more.Long are the days older women were too sedentary and set in their ways,but be aware that most of 20-somethings are more than capable of being pretty damn lazy and stubborn too.These girls are learning ,they are thirsty,they want to achieve and gain as much as the men. -Not many girls today want to depend solely on men,they want to take and still make their own.They also have their own rules and are more likely to change or take any advice given outside as long as it goes with what they believe in.Many are naive and easy to convince. -Older women might not necessarily have been out there,many were so drown in their career or education that they had little or no time for men and when many of you men were running away from them,they concentrated on building their carrier and pleasuring themselves with Love Machine.Whenever they find a man,they hold to that man-all they need at this point in their life is to have kids and a family. -The mistake many of you men make is that you refuse to believe that women are very smart and manipulative.They will make you believe what they want you to believe.These younger women are not after your willy or sexual prowess but the financial security.There is no more patience. Just a few posts i took from one of my favourite site,they keep it real over there. I came from a very poor background but I am intelligent. I got admission into UNILAG and I suffer nor be small. At the end of 100 level, I got into it. I am not proud of myself but today I look at myself and I am very grateful to God. Men, men, men what did I not see? I saw it all. I’ve done things. I’ve enjoyed and wept. I think I wept more but all my needs were met. I managed to graduate with a 2:1. I got a good job after meeting up with some old men friends who gave me their card. With my experience as a young lady, I don't judge people that do runz, cuz I have find myself in a situation whereby I just had to sleep with men to survive while I was in Uni, yea I did it and I am not proud of it, but I thank God I am living a better life. The greedy ones are the most annoying ones, imagine a girl that her parent can afford to sponsor her schooling in Bowen, Maddona, Covenant, Babcock, Igbinedion go into runz it's annoying. Especially Bowen and leadcity girls, Choi they suck d**k like food. This is my story... There were a day we were in the village for christmas,my SIL asked her friend:Did you noticed something?most of the man in the village were lonely and almost abandoned by their kids and wives. Yes in ibo land most men tend to marry young,they have a fulfil time when the women are kept at home taking care of their kids and needs but as time goes on,the kids leave and the women live again.Some pursue their dreams while some leave to live with their kids.I know many who live in Owerri teaching,doing business while their husbands retire quietly in the village.I am talking about 10/15 years gap. -Just to give you a glimpse of what goes on,how many tales of marital complains we have here on NL everyday with a younger wives. -Sex sex sex what can i say?Unless you are a woman-you wouldn't really know,would you? I picked this from the net and was a good enough explanation for me and as a woman i know what this means.
-Women being second wives has nothing to do with sex,sex is the last thing on their minds-financial security is. -Have you wonder why we have so many tales of women sleeping with their drivers,husband lawyers and younger boys? Nothing beats compatibility. 6 Likes 1 Share |
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