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Re: Desperate For A Husband. by greenhope(m): 11:13pm On Jul 30, 2015
Don't ever give in to Marriage pressure. In Marriage this world is too long.

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Re: Desperate For A Husband. by kennyman2000(m): 11:14pm On Jul 30, 2015
Hmm
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by june7project: 11:14pm On Jul 30, 2015
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Re: Desperate For A Husband. by sigiyaya(m): 11:14pm On Jul 30, 2015
These was why i never dated a fellow corper while i was serving grin grin grin

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Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Bonapart(m): 11:15pm On Jul 30, 2015
Op you don't know a thing
You only talk carnally

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Re: Desperate For A Husband. by MsBliss(f): 11:15pm On Jul 30, 2015
woe
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by zicoraads: 11:16pm On Jul 30, 2015
Am a potential husband grin

Interested and serious ladies should start applying. And no bride price is too big, even if you are from Owerri, as long as you will be the one to give me the money to go and pay tongue undecided

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Re: Desperate For A Husband. by uduokirika1(m): 11:18pm On Jul 30, 2015
And u. Believed d counsellor. Because he was on TV grin grin grin grin
wrongnumber:


I was watching a talk show on tvc this morning and a marriage councilor talked about an igbo lady that cried to him saying her dad wants a millon naira for her bride price.

She further said her dad should even give her free to the guy because she has aborted 3 times gor the guy and she will be the one to lose should the guy leaves.

I pity igbo ladies.I honestly do.
Btw u and igbo ladies I don't know who to pity grin grin grin grin

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Re: Desperate For A Husband. by harry509: 11:21pm On Jul 30, 2015
Toks2008:
Desperate for a husband


For many years i never knew how ladies in their very late 20s,early 30s and late 30s feel when it comes to the issue of settling down with a man until recently when i had the cause to really get close to many of them.

Yes many of them will always insist that marriage is the least of their worries but deep inside,most of them are hoping desperately to have a man to settle down with and my acquaintanceship with some of them made me decide to write this short piece hoping that when they see and read it,they will come to understand that their desperation is self inflicted and until they learn to put themselves at a vantage point,they will only hope and wish for a long time that a man comes their way.

I have witnessed many deliverance session for ladies all in the name of looking for a husband but after a close look i come to realize that they are their own problems and this is as a result of the society that have brainwashed them and rather than dealing with the problems,they end up running from from one prophet to another and from one deliverance service to another and some have become a shadow of themselves as they turn to emergency sister dressing like masquerades,going without earrings,make up and even on low cut all in the name of looking for a man.

Please when next you see such ladies,help me inform them that deliverance won't solve their problems and even when we know that there are spiritual hindrance to getting a spouse,most times what we need is a re orientation of our minds,ways of life and culture.

1.Many ladies will not say yes to a man if you are not ready to do traditional wedding,legal wedding,white wedding,blue wedding... Please tell me how easy you expect to find a man in this harsh economy.

2.As an Igbo lady,you are naturally at risk unless you drive it into your man's ear that in your own family they don't ask a man for crazy bride price otherwise you will only see men come into your life without discussing marriage and you will think its a curse from the village but its only as a result of the funny belief that Igbo ladies are expensive to marry.

3.How many ladies can start a life with a struggling man? I guess part of the prayer point during deliverance is that GOD should bring a ready made man to propose to you.Mumu

4.Funny doctrinal belief is another hindrance and many ladies who run to conservative churches in the bid to have a man end up in more bondage.I had a lady friend in her 30s who i admire so much but she goes to one of this conservative churches and there was a time i was so sick and i was expecting her to visit but she never did and when i told her i was angry,she was so quick to say she can not visit me at home and i was like FOR REAL? Even a sick guy? i even told her that she would have at least come in company of a friend and i lost interest in the friendship instantly and i wonder how she will get a good man with that mindset.

5.Rough past is another hindrance and many ladies just believe that if a man loves them the past does not matter.

6.Lack of wife qualities is another issue and i wonder how a lady who does not have the required quality to be a mrs to a man will be desperate fore a man because even if any man comes,he will eventually leave you until you work on yourself.

The bottom line is that many ladies we see in churches today who tend to be looking for a husband are their own problems. So stop been desperate and work on your mindset and you will be surprised that in no time,a good man will walk into your life and marry you.
2 cut my story shot. Most nigerai ladies has fish brain. They jst av dis mindset let already made guy cum my way *empty brain pity 4 dem* and they Rr so lazy dats y.

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Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Anamachi3(m): 11:22pm On Jul 30, 2015
Dis is serious ooo. But d rate of unmarried ladies becoz of these reasons is alarmin
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Jorussia(m): 11:22pm On Jul 30, 2015
.Op you are not altogether correct. My family attend a conservative Church, my immediate elder sister who attends and follows the doctrine of the church strictly, got married at age 26.Don't bring deliverance sections as the reason many ladies are not yet married cos that's not true.
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Nobody: 11:23pm On Jul 30, 2015
I am so speechless. In fact, I am tall of words.



Pierocash:
blame d yolubas and Southwest for wasting their daughters so cheaply.I luv their girls cos they are nt expensive, they are cheap like chips.
dude, I know you're an _idiot. We all know, so, we understand this action of yours. However, there is always room fro improvement. Right?
You can start by stopping your tribalism and improving your spelling. I do believe it is "Yoruba" and "south west."
wink

Nice pseudonym, by the way. Unique. cool

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Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Nobody: 11:24pm On Jul 30, 2015
angry AT 18-24YRS THERE ARE BUSY JUMPING FROM ONE DlCk TO ANOTHER LIKE TRAMPOLINE



AT 25-30yrs THAT'S WHEN THERE ARE HARD CORE BORN AGAIN, NOT KNOWING THAT THERE WILL PAY FOR THEIR PAST LIFE.



YOU NAIJA WOMEN ARE THE COST TO YOUR PROBLEM. angry

YOU ALWAYS THINK MATERIALISTIC, NOT KNOWING THAT LIFE IS IN CONSTANT MOTION.

NAIJA WOMEN ARE WORST THAN ANIMALS


I HAVE ALREADY MAKEUP MY MIND NEVER TO STEP LOW TO A NAIJA WOMEN, THERE ARE ONLY GOOD FOR BANGING AND THAT'S ALL

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Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Nobody: 11:26pm On Jul 30, 2015
Why lie? He never mentioned Igbo girl. He said, a girl. And the topic is not related to the above- Live-in lover, what about it?
wrongnumber:


I was watching a talk show on tvc this morning and a marriage councilor talked about an igbo lady that cried to him saying her dad wants a millon naira for her bride price.

She further said her dad should even give her free to the guy because she has aborted 3 times gor the guy and she will be the one to lose should the guy leaves.

I pity igbo ladies.I honestly do.

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Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Nobody: 11:26pm On Jul 30, 2015
Nawa oo, I be old member here oo, I checked my profile, since 2007 I dey show my royalty to this forum

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Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Nobody: 11:26pm On Jul 30, 2015
sonofananimal1:
angry AT 18-24YRS THERE ARE BUSY JUMPING FROM ONE DlCk TO ANOTHER LIKE TRAMPOLINE



AT 25-30yrs THAT'S WHEN THERE ARE HARD CORE BORN AGAIN, NOT KNOWING THAT THERE WILL PAY FOR THEIR PAST LIFE.



YOU NAIJA WOMEN ARE THE COST TO YOUR PROBLEM. angry

YOU ALWAYS THINK MATERIALISTIC, NOT KNOW THAT LIFE IS IN CONSTANT MOTION.

NAIJA WOMEN ARE WORST THAN ANIMALS





lmao!!
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Nobody: 11:28pm On Jul 30, 2015
Gurgle:


Your picture is beautiful
Does it mean she is ugly
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by guntranno(f): 11:28pm On Jul 30, 2015
Hmmm

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Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Gurgle(f): 11:30pm On Jul 30, 2015
tunnamania11:

Does it mean she is ugly

Oh yeah, wait let me correct it
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Mcowubaba: 11:31pm On Jul 30, 2015
Shaadey:
hmmmm.....am short of wOrds
Better be tall of words oo....
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Toks2008(m): 11:31pm On Jul 30, 2015
Lol just realized my thread made front page for the first time since i registered in 2008 and should be my 89th thread.

Ok i try.Thanks mod.

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Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Gurgle(f): 11:33pm On Jul 30, 2015
amosade30:
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I'm really glad I didn't reply your PM kiss

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Re: Desperate For A Husband. by aristosoft(m): 11:34pm On Jul 30, 2015
Now, I know another reason why Nigeria is so backwards, people who are supposed to think about a solution are only busy dealing with ladies who turned them down because they ain't buoyant enough.

People should get a life first. Enough of this marriage talk at FP. Please!

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Re: Desperate For A Husband. by debasco1(m): 11:34pm On Jul 30, 2015
Not only Desperate but over desperate. God should save us from all these women looking for red maid guys.
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Toks2008(m): 11:36pm On Jul 30, 2015
sonofananimal1:
angry AT 18-24YRS THERE ARE BUSY JUMPING FROM ONE DlCk TO ANOTHER LIKE TRAMPOLINE



AT 25-30yrs THAT'S WHEN THERE ARE HARD CORE BORN AGAIN, NOT KNOWING THAT THERE WILL PAY FOR THEIR PAST LIFE.



YOU NAIJA WOMEN ARE THE COST TO YOUR PROBLEM. angry

YOU ALWAYS THINK MATERIALISTIC, NOT KNOWING THAT LIFE IS IN CONSTANT MOTION.

NAIJA WOMEN ARE WORST THAN ANIMALS


I HAVE ALREADY MAKEUP MY MIND NEVER TO STEP LOW TO A NAIJA WOMEN, THERE ARE ONLY GOOD FOR BANGING AND THAT'S ALL






Thats too harsh habba. awe still have good ones at least one out of 1000

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Re: Desperate For A Husband. by oyebode95(m): 11:36pm On Jul 30, 2015
Y in haste? God's time us da best!
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by PastorAji(m): 11:36pm On Jul 30, 2015
sinaj:
thread not for me wink



treks to Phone forum tongue
whia my Vaseline deygrin
Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Nobody: 11:37pm On Jul 30, 2015
Gurgle:

Corrected* You look beautiful in your profile picture
cc: tunnamania11
angry AND THIS IS ANOTHER PROBLEM WITH THEM.
FORMING LESBIAN,

WHY CANT YOU TELL A GUY HE LOOK BEAUTIFUL IN HIS DP undecided
I AM SURE YOU ARE A MAN

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Re: Desperate For A Husband. by tuzle(m): 11:37pm On Jul 30, 2015
I agree with some of ur point. But in my a view if a lady kind find a husband to marry it is either
1 she is very ugly
2 she is not ready to marry
3 she is possessed (in nigeria term they are following are from village)
4 she has a very very very bad behaviour.
5. She is a lesbian
This are the reasons i can think of

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Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Toks2008(m): 11:39pm On Jul 30, 2015
aristosoft:
Now, I know another reason why Nigeria is so backwards, people who are supposed to think about a solution are only busy dealing with ladies who turned them down because they ain't buoyant enough.

People should get a life first. Enough of this marriage talk at FP. Please!

You have no idea bro. This is not about any lady turning down any dude but a fact.

What if you get that life then you get a lady and you get so broke then what happens?

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Re: Desperate For A Husband. by Mavor: 11:39pm On Jul 30, 2015
sinaj:


thak you kiss
You call that beautiful? You need to be exposed more. tongue

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