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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Nobody: 8:55am On Aug 24, 2015
StephanieEzeh:
Is that how ur English teacher taught u to spell "cockroach"? grin


YOU REALLY LACK SENSE!

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by kings11ng(m): 9:04am On Aug 24, 2015
StephanieEzeh:
Except you are not mature emotionally as a lady or you are just too incapable of stepping up your game, the following characters should be a total turn-off for any right thinking lady with class!

1. "Mature" guys that sag: You can see the mature in quotation marks because I doubt if they are really mature! Some guys who are above 30 still sag their trousers! Don't you look at yourself in the mirror and see how you look like a condemned prisoner on Death Row to be hanged? Dress decently guys and stop all these silly attributes of a naïve teen that you are always trying to put up! That's irresponsibility to the core!!! No responsible woman will date you abegcheesy

2. Calling a girl countless times: Its time to behave yourselves guys. When you call a girl up to 3 times and she's not picking, chill and see if she calls you back. If she doesn't, it means she isn't into you at all. If she calls back, fine. You should know this by now; calling her all the way when she's not picking exposes you as a desperate love-starved guy that can used and dumped! Personally, this turns me off.

3. Wanting to have sex immediately you meet a girl: Except she is a woman of easy virtue, demanding for sex or trying to entice her to sleep with you would definitely turn a right-thinking woman off immediately! What if she's your sister? Would you want another guy to get down with her just like that? It is the unusual, abnormal and unnecessary thirst for sex that makes many guys to act like programmed machineswink when you see a woman, you begin to analyze her female anatomy with your ravened eyes like hungry lions because small shawarma and probably, 2 bottles of SNAP that you bought.

4. Begging a girl to love you: Any guy that begs me to love him has already been seen as an incurable mugu by me. It is a huge turn-off!!! Whether you do it through phone call, sms or face to face, its still the same thing. Do you know how you appear when you do this? Like a dumb ass! Yea, a dumb blokegrin Some would even go as far as kneeling down for you.

5. Bad English: When some guys open their mouths to speak, you would be surprised! They can't even differentiate past tense from present tense or past-participle from past tense! A guy once met me at a mall and asked: "Did you attend Uniport? Your face looks similar" cheesy. I held myself back from bursting out laughing!!! Instantly, right there, standing with him, I was turned off and I left him staring into the air like an abandoned child.

6. Begging a girl for cash and other goodies:

Whenever guys rant about digging in girls, I just laugh. I have experienced it several times and first-hand, where guys beg as if there's no tomorrow for stuffs like cash, recharge cards, etc. This is shameful. Its disgraceful angry If I want to get a present for a guy or give him cash, which is not advisable if he's not a worthy person, I'll do that from my heart but not you scheming and begging. Why don't you get up your lazy butt and look for something useful to do with your life? You think Nigerian ladies are like those white women you scam daily? We are far wiser...but some ladies still fall for such romantic scam all in the name of love from Mr Smooth-talker!

7. Irresponsible life-style: Some guys don't even consider their age. They still feel they are 10 years old. They do nothing other than smoking skunk, weed, cigarette, popping Tramadol and all silly types of drugs you can ever imagine. That's a huge turn-off if you don't know. Only the awful smell that emanate from your body after smoking and excessive drinking can even make a woman leave you immediately!
this is the reason why most girls of marriageable age are @ home.. keep having a fixed mentality how ur kinda should be oh
Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by lord19(m): 9:04am On Aug 24, 2015
My ideal "responsible"woman is one dat shares my views on all fronts and understands me at all times(likes ad dislikes)...our own charly boy might not be "responsible" to you but he is to his wife judging by how long his marriage has lasted compared to our "responsible" celebs.
Plus barring religion in our society,it boils down to morality and dat in itself is subjective.....so swthrt inasmuch as I concur with ur list I feel dis list is abt Stephanie's criteria for being responsible nt d general conception of it.. cool
Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Nobody: 9:11am On Aug 24, 2015
sonofananimal:
IT ONLY ATTRACT A RUNS GIRL, BASED ON MY EXPERIENCE.
I don't think so.
Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Truckpusher(m): 9:18am On Aug 24, 2015
EggovinMma:


Oga, why you dey vexX? grin
Hehe......Me sef come taya for myself. grin

I just para for the chick like say she dey owe me. cheesy

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by barcaboi(m): 9:22am On Aug 24, 2015
StephanieEzeh:
ok. I surely know ur type cheesy
I've always hated that word....
Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by barcaboi(m): 9:25am On Aug 24, 2015
francizy:


Even tho I hate doing most of the things you listed if not all, I'd advice any reasonable guy not to stop doing whatever he does just because you girls wish so. Do you know how many things girls do that pisses guys off? But in many cases, the guy just bears it. But on the other hand, you girls expect a guy to be perfect just because of you.

I've learnt in life that whenever I meet a woman who nags over little things, best thing's to run else, the relationship won't last.

By the way, I don't think you should add bad grammar up there because not everyone was afforded the opportunity to attend good schools or even attend any. I see it as discrimination.

Ronald4lif, a million likes..
respect. ..be ursef that's the word....Don't form what u re not..if na sag u sabi sag; do am....if na poli u sabi blaze (which I don't support), blaze away but do things u love doing not because of a babe who u might later lose....What happens then

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by hensben(m): 9:27am On Aug 24, 2015
Velocitron:
Now they'll be complaining but if it was "7 Characters Ladies Exhibit That Turn Guys Off", you'll be saying "tell them", "they won't listen until they're single at 45" etc.

You better listen and change now o cheesy
you're still not getting it, guys characters are irrelevant to ladies as far a the guy is loaded with cash. In other words, we don't really need character to turn ladies on but money so all what op wrote are irrelevant and rubbish. I'm not surprise though, she is still 23 by the time she clock 28,30 she will know what's up.
Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by barcaboi(m): 9:28am On Aug 24, 2015
StephanieEzeh:
Here, it is very simple. Don't seek for responsible women when you u are not!angry
I tnk this is a personal to u.....Explain why most 'Bad guys' end up with nice and good babes.....Yahoo boys have good housewife materials and these so claled babes will never give a 'good boy' the chance
Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by barcaboi(m): 9:28am On Aug 24, 2015
StephanieEzeh:
Here, it is very simple. Don't seek for responsible women when you u are not!angry
I tnk this is a personal to u.....Explain why most 'Bad guys' end up with nice and good babes.....Yahoo boys have good house materials and these so claled babes will never give a 'good boy' the chance
Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Nobody: 9:36am On Aug 24, 2015
StephanieEzeh:
Except you are not mature emotionally as a lady or you are just too incapable of stepping up your game, the following characters should be a total turn-off for any right thinking lady with class!

1. "Mature" guys that sag: You can see the mature in quotation marks because I doubt if they are really mature! Some guys who are above 30 still sag their trousers! Don't you look at yourself in the mirror and see how you look like a condemned prisoner on Death Row to be hanged? Dress decently guys and stop all these silly attributes of a naïve teen that you are always trying to put up! That's irresponsibility to the core!!! No responsible woman will date you abegcheesy

2. Calling a girl countless times: Its time to behave yourselves guys. When you call a girl up to 3 times and she's not picking, chill and see if she calls you back. If she doesn't, it means she isn't into you at all. If she calls back, fine. You should know this by now; calling her all the way when she's not picking exposes you as a desperate love-starved guy that can used and dumped! Personally, this turns me off.

3. Wanting to have sex immediately you meet a girl: Except she is a woman of easy virtue, demanding for sex or trying to entice her to sleep with you would definitely turn a right-thinking woman off immediately! What if she's your sister? Would you want another guy to get down with her just like that? It is the unusual, abnormal and unnecessary thirst for sex that makes many guys to act like programmed machineswink when you see a woman, you begin to analyze her female anatomy with your ravened eyes like hungry lions because small shawarma and probably, 2 bottles of SNAP that you bought.

4. Begging a girl to love you: Any guy that begs me to love him has already been seen as an incurable mugu by me. It is a huge turn-off!!! Whether you do it through phone call, sms or face to face, its still the same thing. Do you know how you appear when you do this? Like a dumb ass! Yea, a dumb blokegrin Some would even go as far as kneeling down for you.

5. Bad English: When some guys open their mouths to speak, you would be surprised! They can't even differentiate past tense from present tense or past-participle from past tense! A guy once met me at a mall and asked: "Did you attend Uniport? Your face looks similar" cheesy. I held myself back from bursting out laughing!!! Instantly, right there, standing with him, I was turned off and I left him staring into the air like an abandoned child.

6. Begging a girl for cash and other goodies:

Whenever guys rant about digging in girls, I just laugh. I have experienced it several times and first-hand, where guys beg as if there's no tomorrow for stuffs like cash, recharge cards, etc. This is shameful. Its disgraceful angry If I want to get a present for a guy or give him cash, which is not advisable if he's not a worthy person, I'll do that from my heart but not you scheming and begging. Why don't you get up your lazy butt and look for something useful to do with your life? You think Nigerian ladies are like those white women you scam daily? We are far wiser...but some ladies still fall for such romantic scam all in the name of love from Mr Smooth-talker!

7. Irresponsible life-style: Some guys don't even consider their age. They still feel they are 10 years old. They do nothing other than smoking skunk, weed, cigarette, popping Tramadol and all silly types of drugs you can ever imagine. That's a huge turn-off if you don't know. Only the awful smell that emanate from your body after smoking and excessive drinking can even make a woman leave you immediately!
Re u married? If no, den pls adjust coz U wud never know who wud do it right in d end. Tankio
Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by francizy(m): 9:38am On Aug 24, 2015
barcaboi:
respect. ..be ursef that's the word....Don't form what u re not..if na sag u sabi sag; do am....if na poli u sabi blaze (which I don't support), blaze away but do things u love doing not because of a babe who u might later lose....What happens then

God bless you skata!!!

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Mrshroud: 10:01am On Aug 24, 2015
ronald4lif:


Nna negwanu nsogbu o. Didn't remember telling I roll with irresponsible girls. On the contrary irresponsible girls don't cross my part. My mode of dressing has never affected the calibre of people I get attracted to or associate with.

Maybe it hasn't occur to you that irresponsibility is subjective so be reminded that what you consider to be irresponsible might not be so for some.
exactly!
Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by OkeOladimeji: 10:01am On Aug 24, 2015
I think your list makes a lot sense or senses. but reading your number 6 leaves me with the impression that you are looking for a Mr Perfect, someone who is 100%. I have one advice.... Never marry anyone you cannot have any input in his life... he may end up seeing you as a liability... Thanks for the other lists..... Take care
Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by ronald4lif(m): 10:08am On Aug 24, 2015
joseph1832:
I sag also. And you know I'm not in SS2 ;P Its high time you guys see sagging as a thing of choice. Its just like me complaining about girls who expose their cleavage and say its a major turn off when its not, in fact I absolutely love it. gringringrin

I sag also, funny thing is when I even approach the so called girls who say sagging turn them off, the even forget I sag.

No mind Kachisbarbie and all those ladies who always classify guys who sag as immature and irresponsible. That's baloney. Sagging doesn't have anything to do with one's sense of responsibility provided is done moderately. They only claim to detest it online and don't usually know when they tend to get attracted to someone who might be sagging.

If I'm heading to a club, or a party I do sag my trousers and it gives me some extra confidence to dance and rock some booty. If I'm in an extreme happy mood and I want to head out I sag I tune the car music to loud and feel myself. Don't fxcking care what anyone think. Maturity ko. Who e help
Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by donJ2(m): 10:11am On Aug 24, 2015
anigold:



bros cant you give without canal reward... grin grin

Bros eeh, I dy giv ooo, buh if I wrote a check of 150k to support her accommodation, and I no still get canal reward....

Wont you call m 'Maga General'....even if u dont, she will take m for one..so sometimes d reward expected is to prove am not a maga....especially wn u spend hundreds of thousands.
Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by DocAdray(f): 10:16am On Aug 24, 2015
flokii:


E dey ur body... by d tym you turn 45 and still single we'll see who will resent who..



Back to sender!!!
Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Nobody: 10:18am On Aug 24, 2015
StephanieEzeh,you sound like someone i know. #kal.
Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Nobody: 10:25am On Aug 24, 2015
ronald4lif:


No mind Kachisbarbie and all those ladies who always classify guys who sag as immature and irresponsible. That's baloney. Sagging doesn't have anything to do with one's sense of responsibility provided is done moderately. They only claim to detest it online and don't usually know when they tend to get attracted to someone who might be sagging.

If I'm heading to a club, or a party I do sag my trousers and it gives me some extra confidence to dance and rock some booty. If I'm in an extreme happy mood and I want to head out I sag I tune the car music to loud and feel myself. Don't fxcking care what anyone think. Maturity ko. Who e help

I wonder how you would put me in the same subset with 'all those ladies'. I said, I love moderate sagging_ I even taught my man to put his trouser a bit low. grin

My best male friend smokes, even if you grind charcoal and give him, he would smoke it. I used to help him bring out rizla from the pack way back. He would take me to parties then and give me sisha...that cigarette isn't good for me. With all his little-little bad habits, he remains my best friend. I love him for life.
So, I know better than writing people off due to some habits. I just like everything in moderation.
Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by donJ2(m): 10:26am On Aug 24, 2015
IzonOwei:
but abeg no sag go work or office oo... wink

Bros I know a hospital's HOD in his 50's dat sag *in corporate outfit* d man is rich...see bebs trollin all over him lik bees over honey

Another dude in fmc owerri in his late 30's still sags to office...if yuh see hw sharp interns dy troll, u go believe...

Saggin get levels abeg, people notice that u sag wn u no get level
Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Nobody: 10:31am On Aug 24, 2015
donJ2:


Bros I know a hospital's HOD in his 50's dat sag *in corporate outfit* d man is rich...see bebs trollin all over him lik bees over honey

Another dude in fmc owerri in his late 30's still sags to office...if yuh see hw sharp interns dy troll, u go believe...

Saggin get levels abeg, people notice that u sag wn u no get level
grin grin grin
Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by ronald4lif(m): 10:34am On Aug 24, 2015
Kachisbarbie:


I wonder how you would put me in the same subset with 'all those ladies'. I said, I love moderate sagging_ I even taught my man to put his trouser a bit low. grin

My best male friend smokes, even if you grind charcoal and give him, he would smoke it. I used to help him bring out rizla from the pack way back. He would take me to parties then and give me sisha...that cigarette isn't good for me. With all his little-little bad habits, he remains my best friend. I love him for life.
So, I know better than writing people off due to some habits. I just like everything in moderation.

Hehe! So you tried shisha before. Stopped or still indulge sometimes? cheesy
Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Nobody: 10:37am On Aug 24, 2015
barcaboi:

I tnk this is a personal to u.....Explain why most 'Bad guys' end up with nice and good babes.....Yahoo boys have good housewife materials and these so claled babes will never give a 'good boy' the chance
Absolutely. I could recall when I went to a cybercafe to print out something and this babe was staring and crushing on me. She asked me what I do for a living. I looked at her but didn't respond. The next thing she said was, aren't you a yahoo man? She later wrote her number in a piece of paper and handed it to me. I often laugh when i remember this.

Bad guys always win and women find them interesting.

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Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Nobody: 10:42am On Aug 24, 2015
ronald4lif:


Hehe! So you tried shisha before. Stopped or still indulge sometimes? cheesy

I've stopped joor. Person done dey old abeg... cheesy
Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by ronald4lif(m): 10:44am On Aug 24, 2015
IzonOwei:
but ronald would you make this same statement when you get married...would your happiness come first before your wife or that of your kids...na still this same self centered attitude dey crash marriages and families like the recent indonesian flight...

You should strike a balance..think of other peoples happiness at some point before yours...

Well, when I get to that bridge I might tend to think differently. Now that I'm riding solo and not answerable to any one my guy my happiness comes first o. I don't really care much about all these social stigmas. The thing is due to my upbringing I don't smoke or an alcoholic but if I were I would care less about what the society thinks. grin

When it comes to marriage I'm aware there are a lot of compromise to undertake just to please the partner. These compromises is what I find scary in the marital union and which leaves me skeptical about everything that comes with that alliance. Anything that will make me bend my rules to appease someone frightens me.
Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by ronald4lif(m): 10:48am On Aug 24, 2015
Kachisbarbie:


I've stopped joor. Person done dey old abeg... cheesy

Yimu. If them call people wey don dey old so you go come out. You were lucky you didn't become addicted, addictions no know age o.
Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Acekidc4(m): 10:54am On Aug 24, 2015
ronald4lif:
Depending on my mode and the event I'm attending, I do sag. Who cares if it turns anyone off

Confirm Joor!!Your Head dey derecheesy
Who Cares??
Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Nobody: 10:54am On Aug 24, 2015
ronald4lif:


Hehe! So you tried shisha before. Stopped or still indulge sometimes? cheesy
What is shisha?
Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by streetzdreamz(m): 10:57am On Aug 24, 2015
StephanieEzeh:
Here, it is very simple. Don't seek for responsible women when you u are not!angry
responsible women you say,like its an abundant commodity this days,you lots need to stop clamouring for the dignity you've lost via this lists or wishes and wants before you can meet up some self acclaimed standard,a tiny fragment of your kind has that trait of responsibility and dignity,the larger percentage are like walking deads,well some guys might find ur post helpful,though to some extent you are right as regards moral vices,smoking,dress mode and the likes,yea a foolish guy will always beg a lady for love or sex,in plain english no sane man will ever go tru the trouble of any form of changes cuz of a lady,hell no!!y'al aint worth poo.
Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by Acekidc4(m): 10:57am On Aug 24, 2015
StephanieEzeh:
And u will still be the first one to complain about girls. You dress irresponsibly. That's why you can't meet the responsible ones.

That's Nonsense Talk coming from you shebi you know that??

You ladies are the Ones who doesn't Dress Responsible at all!!Quote me if I'm Wrong!!
Re: 7 Silly Characters In Guys That Can Turn A Lady Off by luuvee(m): 10:58am On Aug 24, 2015
Nice I agrreee witth u to an extent. Bu speak for ur self coz not every woman likes things d way you do

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