MrsChima:


Just because you disagree with her statement doesn'tmean I do.

You are entitled to your opinion and so does she. I will be whatever you wanting me to be as long as it helps you feel better.

MrsChima:


I get your gist however chatters needs to stop throwing around the word feminist especially if the person has not expressed themselves to be a feminist.

We often times throw an adjective on a chatter if they fits the mold or definition of that adjective. However, a woman choosing not to dish or complaining that her husband wants her to dish food HAS nothing to do with feminism.

It will soon become a mantra that a woman who doesn't kiss ass and say no is automatically a feminist.

Bullsh1t.

TV01:

You are still here prating .

I command absolutely . When a man presents properly and enunciates his wishes clearly, he doesn't have to command repeatedly. Authority doesn't always have to be on show, leadership is in some regards about empowering.

A truly submissive wife does not have to be bossed, but you wouldn't know this as there are no leaders, no commanders and no authority is wielded in your "equalist" household .

Christian wives know how they do - feminists don't be pained

Ephesians 5:22 - Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord.
Ephesians 5:24 - Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything.
Colossians 3:18 - Wives, submit to your own husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.
1 Peter 3:1 - Wives, likewise, be submissive to your own husbands,
1 Peter 3:6 - as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, whose daughters you are if you do good


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SonOfEl:


battle of the sexes. I also knew all along this is what its about, not sincere marriage matters....

good luck to your marriage.

you know what? fight him, bad mouth him, in short, DIVORCE HIM....so you can have your peace.

yimu.

MrsChima:
I see you looking Mr. Royalroy. . I am behaving.

TV01:

You are still here prating .

I command absolutely . When a man presents properly and enunciates his wishes clearly, he doesn't have to command repeatedly. Authority doesn't always have to be on show, leadership is in some regards about empowering.

A truly submissive wife does not have to be bossed, but you wouldn't know this as there are no leaders, no commanders and no authority is wielded in your "equalist" household .

Christian wives know how they do - feminists don't be pained

Ephesians 5:22 - Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord.
Ephesians 5:24 - Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything.
Colossians 3:18 - Wives, submit to your own husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.
1 Peter 3:1 - Wives, likewise, be submissive to your own husbands,
1 Peter 3:6 - as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, whose daughters you are if you do good


"Lord Commander" TV

MrsChima:


Don't quote scriptures that benefits you but also quote scriptures that counteracts as well.

Read the verses after the wives submit to your husband verse. The chapter also focuses on CHRISTIAN families and those who are believers.

It does not apply to non-Christians, non-believers, unmarried couples, and husbands who do not honor Christ and give his life for the church.

deep huh?

SonOfEl:


I hope you feel better? pls tell your friend to challenge her husband, bad mouth him, snub him, or even divorce him.

you called yourself a wife and you are spewing this. shame on you. IF YOU READ MY POST BEFORE COMMENTING ON HER SELF-DEFENSIVE REPLY, then congratulations to your shame.

SonOfEl:


oh so you are not a Christian? you should have said so since....ehen! now I can understand why all this is dragging too far......my apologies ma.

Joy1706:

Wow *claps* Bible scholar. Please help me out with the scripture that enjoins Husbands to LOVE their wives.

And that scripture that tells Husbands and Wives to submit themselves to EACH OTHER.

MrsChima:


Oh we are playing the assumption game? I like!

You are not a true man of God or otherwise you would have presented a better retort and sense.

Joy1706:

This is no battle of the sexes. This is about love, care, understanding in marriage. Ya'll have turned it into 'I am the man' argument and what not.
I am genuinely concerned about what you men have turned marriage into. Hence, the need to address it

MrsChima:


Please tell me with evidence what I have spewed? Did you read any of my comments?

Yes, I am a wife and STILL HAPPILY married to the same man with multiple children going on almost a decade!

My husband and I do not argue and fight over dumb sh1t like serving and dishing food. We will not allow petty sh1t to disturb the peace in our home but then again my husband and I wasn't children when we gotten married.

No offensee!

SonOfEl:


madam stick to the point and stop dodging the issue. so it is Christians only that should follow those moral instructions?

I don't need your approval to be a servant of God at any capacity. just take correction.

MrsChima:

Be easy on him sis!

SonOfEl:



but you both argue over other 'unofficial' things right?

and you said you have been married for a decade and your inconsistency over this issue shows the type of person you really are. I doubt your marriage, what I doubt is your sincerity.

op should not have brought this issue up for people to assess her marriage affairs with an intent of villainizing her husband. its immature.

TV01:

You are still here prating .

I command absolutely . When a man presents properly and enunciates his wishes clearly, he doesn't have to command repeatedly. Authority doesn't always have to be on show, leadership is in some regards about empowering.

A truly submissive wife does not have to be bossed, but you wouldn't know this as there are no leaders, no commanders and no authority is wielded in your "equalist" household .

Christian wives know how they do - feminists don't be pained

Ephesians 5:22 - Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord.
Ephesians 5:24 - Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything.
Colossians 3:18 - Wives, submit to your own husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.
1 Peter 3:1 - Wives, likewise, be submissive to your own husbands,
1 Peter 3:6 - as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, whose daughters you are if you do good


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TV01:

Nobody has said there is anything wrong in the man dishing out his own food...neither is there anything wrong in the wife dishing out her husbands food.


TV

MrsChima:


You do not need my approval, correct. Who has given you the authority on what is moral and just? Are you Jesus?

I find it interesting how religious folks love throwing quotes that benefits them but when the other parts contradicts their argument, they begin to deflect and create a smoke screen!

You can't ask Christian wives to submit to their husbands if the husbands aren't submitting to Christ!! It is in your bible boo boo!

SonOfEl:


who ever advocated that husbands should not submit to Christ? me? you are funny really.

every servant of God at any capacity has the moral authority to correct people with scripture. we are instructed, teach, reprove, correct, exhort..... with it. maybe you should dust your good book and starting studying...

kaeforum:


Whats the big deal eh? you dished the food from the pot to the plate na.
Is it better than having a 13yrs old house help feeding him by hand .
Women of nowadays hmmm.

RoyalRoy:





Lollz....


Been a really long while. How are you and Mr Chima?

Opynion:






someone is being misled here. OP you should be happy that you have such a romantic husband. how many men will have time for the dinning table (if not to eat beside his laptop in his room with his attention on one half unclad lad chating him up om fb). abeg feed your man with kiss and enjoy your marriage jor.
|Wish you happy married life

MrsChima:


Damn...this nigga lives in our house! Unofficial things?

Are you married? Don't lie.

MrsChima:


I need to brush up on "studying" when I stumped you with the very book you quoted from?

Hit harder...you hit like a girl.

SonOfEl:


no, you respond like an unmarried person.....I know you are hurt, because you know I know it hit you hard where you least expect.

you are now the man right?

raayah:


This is not the question. The question is that OP was busy when her husband was about to eat and he turned the food. She might normally serve him naked, we dont know. We only know what happened that day.

She served her husband, got busy and was unable to serve. Is it not ok for the husband to understand and plate his food? He didnt ask to come eat, he didnt ask for company. He was for food to a plated. Im sorry if i dont see the sense in this. He was arrogant and immature

lionphil:



If this will be an issue in Ur marriage, will u prefer a divorce to dishing out the food?

bukatyne:


And who said there is something wrong with her dishing the food?

This morning he almost left for work without taking breakfast and when i asked why he was leaving, he said the service was not complete. So I had to leave what I was doing to dish food for him.

This was directly from the OP

Please let us not project our biases on a simple issue.